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Its heard to see older women looking for young guys to help arrange financially. Such happens in the western world and not in Africa where mentality of our women is as hard as an erected d1ck.


I habr tried the path of rich older lady in Nigeria and it never worked cuz they would want you to spend even the little you are managing

ubunja:
Preparing to post "The Pussy Cartel" and another one about Intuition

All must be online by lunch.

Awesome.. Can't wait to devour the piece

IkpuMmadu:
When I came to the knowledge of this truth way back in the secondary school, I made up my mind to marry before the age of 30 against all odds. https://etimes.com.ng/the-consequences-of-late-marriage-and-the-very-reasons-why-you-should-marry-early-if-you-can

My had dad died at a retirement age of 64 when I was 7 and my younger brother was 4. The dead man left no plans or economic arrangements to train both the younger and far older children in school or in trade.

This mistake is being repeated today by even far more educated and exposed people. We do this and claim a non-existent covenant with God when we should have applied the common sense God gave us.

Don't say you didn't read this wise counsel from here. It is a knowledge so obvious but easily ignored to one's private regret.

I decided that I would not repeat the same mistake my father made hence my determination to marry at 30 which I later realized was even too late.

HARD FACTS FOR GUYS

Assuming you get married at 30 and your wife conceives and delivers your first child when you are 31, the following would likely play out:

Because the average age of graduation in the Nigerian universities these days is 26 then, you shall be 57 at the graduation ceremony of your first child.

Also assume that you have 3 kids with an average spacing age of 2 years then your last child would be 5 years younger than the first. Therefore, you shall be over 63 at the graduation ceremony of your last child.

ISSUES: Look around you and you shall notice the increasing rate of delayed conception and child mortality which is 1/400 (i.e one new born baby out of 400 to Nigerian parents dies in the hospitals) and if you factor in the possibility that there might be delays in conception and assign a number of years to this possibility say for instance, add 4years to that, then a man may be 67 years at the graduation of the last of his three children.

INFORMATION TO CONSIDER
1. All civil servants must retire at 60 while professors and judges retire at 70.

2. Average life expectancy in Nigeria is now 47 years for men and 48 for women meaning that most Nigerian men die before the age of 48.

The above implies that you would be retired and may not be able to earn enough money to pay the school fees of your last child starting from his/her third year in the university.

It's worse for bankers because the Central Bank of Nigeria has capped the age of retirement of bankers at 60. Ninety percent of them are sacked before the age of 50.

Most banks now find reasons to retrench their staff once they clock 55.

HARD FACTS FOR LADIES

Hardships in the extended families and need to work to augment income, the pursuits of careers, feminism, long stay in school, sheer greed, materialism, choosiness and other factors have singularily or combined to make women delay in committing to marriage much earlier.

INFORMATION TO CONSIDER :

1. Science says that the best age for a woman to have less complications during child birth is between 18 and 25 all things being equal.

2. Most professional ladies now marry at over 30 years of age and have difficulties either in conception or post delivery complications. This has posed great gynecological challenges for non-circumspective couples. They spend so much to get pregnant and sometimes the women die in so doing.

3. In most cases, fibroids occur when the womb lays fallow for so long a time without conception. This is not the only cause of fibrous growth.

ISSUES: Imagine both parents being retired and cannot provide for their undergraduate children.

The inability of well meaning children to cater for the financial needs of their intelligent children has fuelled student prostitution in civil service states of Enugu, Owerri, Abeokuta, Akure, and around university campuses.

AGE LONG ADVICE TO AN ONLY SON

If you are an only son or if your desire in marriage is to beget children, ensure that you marry a lady in her early twenties and never beyond 26 so that even if you have fertility challenges and it takes up to 10 years to be resolved, you still have a fertile wife. https://etimes.com.ng/the-consequences-of-late-marriage-and-the-very-reasons-why-you-should-marry-early-if-you-can/

Since the birth of Isaac and John de Baptist, no very old woman has ever given birth through natural means to a natural child.

Please note that IVF, Artificial Insemination and Surrogacy techniques are expensive with no assurance of success after huge expenditure.

GENERAL ADVICE

If you intend to have children in marriage, please marry early enough to avoid birth complications. You need to do so when you are capable of shouldering your responsibility before you port to the netherworld .

You can still achieve all you want with careful planning. Many women who married early have made it to the highest levels of their professions. Some are managing directors of big corporations and are doing well.

I know that some readers would start pointing at Abraham and Sarah, Hannah, the mother of Samuel and other isolated cases. The can continue.

However, a visit to fertility clinics and gynecological section of a teaching hospital shall speak common sense to a young girl and boy. A younger woman with fertility issues stand better chance of conception than a lady in her late 30s or 40s.

If you have problems with the facts I adduced, please consult a medical personnel for clarifications.

SCARY TRUTH

1. There is a disturbing likelihood that a child conceived at a later age would be born with Down Syndrome or Mongolia Disease. These children look alike irrespective of races.

2. Some women now approach menopause as early as 35. Why opt for treatment when it could be avoided?

3. Men's sexual libido reduces with age. A man is at his best when he is below 40. There is an extent Viagra and other performance-enhancing drugs can go. They may also make a man see his creator much earlier.

4. There is every likelihood that if you marry late to a sexually active woman and fail to satisfy her that you may lose her to intimacy gadgets or gigolos. Some of this type end up in a divorce.

5. Reminiscence of old couple of their early life great sex is sometimes enough for them to reach orgasm. You have great sex when your engines are new or fairly new.

NB
Medicine records that females' sexual libido increases with age while the males' reduces with age. But age does not affect a man's ability to impregnate a woman but the act would be a mere inoculation for old men.

My first Degree is in medicine related course, so I know what I am saying. I also now that miracles occur but not for everyone or at our own choosing.

Please marry early if you can.

https://etimes.com.ng/the-consequences-of-late-marriage-and-the-very-reasons-why-you-should-marry-early-if-you-can/

By Anayo M. Nwosu

You think your post is wise but you are ignorant if you think all there is to life is to have and train children.

The rate women cheat these days is alarming. Two married women i used to have platonic relationships ave asked me to bed them but I subtly declined. Single girls are free ticket and I frequently turn them down cuz my thing doesn't play anyhow as I can't share my energy anyhow. Sex is no more reverted. The one I hate most is when any girl ask for a suck in the pit of bacteria.

Male Instruments isn't same as women's. Wise guys doesn't give head

alaricsaltzman:
Wow wow wow! Speechless... Why so bitter?

The guy is a psycho. Don't take him serious. He seek cheap attention like a kid. Nobody has his time here

Why are the moderators here so quick to post info on frontage without confirming its authenticity. Why tarnish the reputation of unilag. I am a proudly alumni of unilag and I can beat my chest unilag management will never award honorary doctorate degree to person like E-money whose source of wealth is questionable.

I advise this topic be removed asap.



Lalastica

No be since I fvcked a girl with beads and chains on waist and leg that I can't account for my progress. Even as I was on doggy mode looking at the beads and touching it, I was ready for a threesum if a mermaid shud manifest from it.






Abstinence is best

UyaiIncomparabl:
So you opened a thread for this?

So so petty! What's the comparison here now?
Have you found an atheist wife yet?

Babe but you re pretty.

iammo:
The reason I twisted it to American women enjoying Nigerian men, is just the good ole Nigerian man" Supersized Ego" Nigerian man would never truly express how lucky he is to have a hardworking and caring woman, because we reserve abit of truth just not to make a lady feel we are too love struck and starts acting up, this is why a Nigerian man can never split the bills on a date with his woman no matter how broke, it's all Ego.

Then the "loose" woman thingy is just part of cultural shock, American women are confident and sometimes sexually expressive, most Nigerian women never demand for sex even if they are dying inside for it,. Some ain't flexible, just the plain missionary kind of Style, and when a Nigerian man gets to meet someone as confident about such subject as him then he gets funny ideas in his mind..

Akatawoman, hook me up with a nice lady over there. I would like to experience how dating a foreigner would feel

Jolenejole:
Sometimes I wonder why we Nigerians believe so much in charms. We always want to cut corners and have manna falling on our laps, PURE GREED!!!

Little wonder we get scammed daily by our beloved pastors and native doctors. Upon all the prayers for Nigeria, we are still heading backwards.

Y'all better wake up and face reality. Stop depending on miracles, hard work and good strategy works!

This is a wakeup call.

Babe calm down. What do you know about deep things of life? You think our world is just material? Wake up. I can tell you a simple spell to change your worldview

Money laundery avenues for politicians and top civil servants. If you know, you know.

Any day a girl proposes to me marks the end of the relationship. Women are subtle. Let me stop here. The SA man is a weakling. He has entered a trap of feminist

Why can't a whole government communicate effectively to clear ambiguity which they have created.

To my understanding, the law allows bikes with a minimum of 200cc engine to operate on Lagos high ways.

That implies any bike with such requirement is permitted. Why are they restricting the provision of the law to only delivery bikes that have 200cc engines when the law permits any bike that has such engine.

I am very sure all gokada bikes meet the above requirement of 200cc engine. Why seize it then?

This is why every organisation needs a sound lawyer as an in-house for sound legal advice.

Nairaland has turned to a place of mockery where foolish post makes front page.

Please I'm a guy and my butt has taken shape like that of a woman, how do I deflate it cuz I wouldn't want to end up stabbing any homosexual that will stop me any day.




What distastes me is what some women are dying over to get

seuncyrus:
gyt.io is available

What is gyt

Lawyer seeking cheap attention to advertise himself. Among all the oppressions the poor and less privilege are facing on daily basis including those behind bars for years who have never been arraigned in the court, it is NNPC recruitment criteria that attracts his fancy.


Some nairalanders are dummy for praising mediocrity. I am a lawyer and I know these type of men. They have only their interest at heart.

Besides, it is prerogative of NNPC HR to invite whoever they want for interview. They may even choose to discard applications of all 1st class applicants and invite 2nd class lower. So what's the purpose of dragging a recruiter to court when he or she could still discard all applicants above the age they require.

If I could get a befitting graduate job that involves only night shift,I will be the happiest person in Lagos.
My most active moment is between 11pm to 4am.



I think I will just relocate. I can't cope with day job in Lagos

Kingbones:
Same here bro..


And I thought I was the only one like this..
It's almost been a month since I replied any chats on WhatsApp ...I just view status and then I whiz out like a mad dog...


Maybe we all need therapy

Guy na only you need therapy. Even if there is a therapy to make me stop this awesome character of mine, I'd never go for it even if given 200k.

Do you know the level of peace of mind I enjoy daily? FCK whatever society wants you to believe is normal.

Embracing solitude is the new normal. Internet is my best friend and lover

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I rather watch porn and masturbate than defile myself with different girls with different demons in them. People don't know what transpire in the spirit realm during sex. It's better I remain with my own demon than share others' demons with them.

The only way I will ever stop masturbation is marriage

lifegal:
Biko help your sister ohhh, netsol new and working link

Please 10000kisses

We don't do kisses

alawi5k:
Have spent #7350 on 20 names since October 2018. Patiently waiting for my first sale. Netsol still the best if you're yet to make first sale or a newbie like me. I'm still learning and buying at the same time. #368 per name won't kill me .

Which bank ATM card are u using

Promxy94:
Who's netsol is working here


There are some domains you just can't risk buying with big money.....

Please I need one registration for a name if your netsol is working...

After going through namepros reported sales, what I deduced was that one cannot tell how fast a name will sell even when the name is amazingly good except you wanna sell it cheaply.

After registering 8 names with Namesilo at a total cost of 20400 at different times with thought that one must sell within 3 weeks, I realized I would have got it cheaper if I had registered at netsol promo rate and waited.

It's better with netsol as you stand to lose nothing but gain much if it sells.

There are peeps still buying from netsol, find out how they do it.

Domaining requires patience. It's not even advisable to rely solely on it as you may not make a sale in 4 months depending on how good the name is and luck

jose718:
I wish I can but it's really long

Many people have done that including me, except you want to come to my house for a one on one training. That is if you are a she

ChristianNorth:
Wole and Ikpeazu don't usually get involve in Tribunal matter.

APC rushed and picked Wole and Olujimi 2 badass when PDP was trashing them at the Tribunal and smart PDP drafted Ikpeazu SAN immediately.

He trashed them both as usual. Is Olujimi that couldn't regularize his case when he met Wole-Ikpeazu at the Supreme Court during Ikpeazu vs Otti for Abia State Governorship will face Ikpeazu at the Supreme court or Wole that trashed at the Supreme Court when he led PDP-INEC joint team during Udom vs Umana during Akwa Ibom governorship petition at the Supreme Court.

Please construct your sentences like someone who is learned. We are no more in primary school

I am scared whenever I remember that my sibling in mid thirty is sickler. Sometimes I wish I could share the pains.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Why should I focus my search on physical attributes which of course are transient and just by walking down the road, I get to see another better definition of what I think is perfect. Just don't be ugly, and be tall. Dark skin preferably.

Lasting attributes will attract and keep me. Thus;
1. Extremely caring. I love a man who adores me.
2. Should be confident. Not opinionated. I'm opinionated and can't bear to have a house of arguments and fights.
3. Should be a listener (An attentive one).
4. Domesticated. Don't just sit there and be forming macho around the house.
5. Hard working, have a great sense of purpose, not docile, understands sarcasm, be willing to accept constructive criticisms, and corrections. Should be willing to sacrifice for oneself and another. Be supportive. I love team work.
6. I detest forgetful men. Should be Honest, truthful and upright in all his deeds even if it means hurting me with the truth. I detest cheats. Loyalty is key.
7. Should be a leader and not bossy. They're two different things.
8. Must be Eloquent (no bleeped up accents), and highly intelligent than me. Being street smart is a PLUS.
9. Shouldn't be religious. Just be upright.
10. Have a life.
11. Don't be CHOLERIC please, I hate them.
12. Be mysterious, like me.
13. I don't want a traditional man.
14. Should be financially stable, not necessarily wealthy. If he's wealthy, fine then.
15. Tolerant. Tolerant. Tolerant. Be calm and collected, I'm very stubborn.
16. Neatness is key. I'm a neat freak and can't bear to have you ruin my sanity.
17. Should be good in bed.

I can go on and on, but these are fair and not demanding, and in return, I'll give you the world.

I have all these qualities. Let's get married but we will start with no 17 on your list first

kenralph:
Exactly my thought boss haykay. Every post on the namepros thread you mentioned has full details of the sale.

Anyway, 9ja things will always be different so it's not surprising. Meanwhile the guy said he'll reveal more when he gets his bar.

That notwithstanding, it's good to see you here again my Oga.

Not everybody that claims to make sales really make any sale. We have underaged kids here

lasthero:
1. By referrer. If you have a Yankee based friend or family, they can help you with link ups.

2. By dating sites. You can check dating platforms.

3. By luck.


But trust me, stick with your 9ja babe if she is good. You never can tell what God has In stock for both of you

Please is the daring site hookup still working?


Naija babes? What God has in store? I'd rather take my chances in US if I could