GateKeeper247:
a brother must have sold out, I have dated 2 akata women both smart and career women but phew...So much negative vibes the nagging, complaint was too much

I believe you. I’ve ended or avoided friendships with some because I couldn’t deal with it-and I’m a woman! I’m sure you’ve seen “Leaving behind negative people/dropping negative friends” memes. Ever noticed 99% of the time they’re posted by akata women!!! We get sick of that mess with each other! God help anyone who can live and sleep with that mess!

But a very large number of us are really chill and laidback. Perhaps you cared about the education and career so much you didn’t pay attention to the personality.

Education doesn’t = kind or easy to get along with. Neither does money.

Choose wisely my friend.

SmellingAnus:
I need to try one akata babe before I am fully convinced about what you are saying

Pay attention to her personality and character before taking the leap. You can’t just grab the first akata you see and wonder why things aren’t working.

The good news is that the MAJORITY of us ARE loving, caring, kind, protective of and love taking care of our men.

Onijagidijagan:

How your cousins now have their green cards ? I will have a relationship with Africans, Latinas, Asians whites or Irish or Indians before an Akata.
Without green card I can date an AKATA cause I have no choice.

The other ethnicities you listed (white, Asian etc) can get you a green card as well. You don’t have to bother with akatas at all if you don’t want to.

PORNeliusHUBson:
fall for this shít at ur own peril. This is another male looking for cheap attention. They are getting many each day. .


Op picture of urself or adonbilivit.

Couldn’t I just post a fake pic of a female to keep the game going?

Post YOUR pic.

AkataWoman:


Pay attention to her personality and character before taking the leap. You can’t just grab the first akata you see and wonder why things aren’t working.

The good news is that the MAJORITY of us ARE loving, caring, kind, protective of and love taking care of our men.

Heaven knows I must try them ... Who knows I may end up saying I do with the first one I try...

AkataWoman:
Couldn’t I just post a fake pic of a female to keep the game going?
Post YOUR pic.

post a fake pic, i'll knw..

You're new here I assume, you better make this your first and last contribution on this forum and log out as fast as possible.

Here you'll hear and see all sorts here and as a result you gonna hate us like never before.

My personal observation on your person based on your open mind and sincerity tell me you aren't immune for such a pollution as nairaland.

My humble opinion though!

AkataWoman:
Couldn’t I just post a fake pic of a female to keep the game going?
Post YOUR pic.

post a fake pic, i'll knw..

JjBankys:
i don't know why, but I think you're a fraud

she's a fraud, no two ways about it,first of all black Americans don't call themselves akatas.

but here she is calling herself Akata.
am I lying AkataWoman.
.

FortuneDeGreat:
You're new here I assume, you better make this your first and last contribution on this forum and log out as fast as possible.

Here you'll hear and see all sorts here and as a result you gonna hate us like never before.

My personal observation on your person based on your open mind and sincerity tell me you aren't immune for such a pollution as nairaland.

My humble opinion though!

Lol! I’m a big girl with thick skin. I read some of the things on this site before joining.

Dickhead02:
she's a fraud, no two ways about it,first of all black Americans don't call themselves akatas.

but here she is calling herself Akata.
am I lying AkataWoman.
.

You’re right! BAs do not call ourselves akata. Most have never heard the word and many of us have very little or no contact with Africans.

But I’m not talking to my average BA in real life. I’m on a Nigerian site and I happen to know some (just a lil’ bit) of the lingo and culture.

But why would I troll as an akata woman of all things? Why not troll as a white woman and come here to insult Africans instead

SmellingAnus:
Heaven knows I must try them ... Who knows I may end up saying I do with the first one I try...

I know of two Nigerians who did just that. But they were young virgins who married right out of college and their akata wives were the same. All from devoutly Christian backgrounds.

What’s up with your name though??

AkataWoman:




Lol! I’m a big girl with thick skin. I read some of the things on this site before joining.

I'm just a kind of concerned, since you've boldly assured me that you can cope with all our craps here. Why not, good luck and welcome.

AkataWoman:
I’ve seen and heard several things from Nigerian men about akatas. It’s usually that we’re good for sex only or if they’re in a relationship it comes down to them not having their stuff together enough to date Nigerian women. I was shown a video where several married to/dating said they were surprised at how attentive and loving we are to our mates. They believe it’s because so many of us grow up without fathers that we love having a man in our lives.

Why can’t you just admit your stereotypes about black American women was just WRONG! I believe it comes from growing up in a backward culture that believes because we aren’t circumcised or have virginity checks done on us we must be promiscuous.

Ok. So you’re being told this while growing up in Africa. I get it. (The funny thing is that at the same time in America black American women are viewed as the least promiscuous). But once you’re here and see how hardworking and loyal (often to men who don’t deserve it) we are, why continue to try to stereotype us even as you date us? I think some of it is the Nigerian stubborn pride. You MUST be culturally superior to akatas.

At what point will you find it okay to say: We had them all wrong?

I disagree with the portion highlighted. How did you come to this conclusion? Educate me.

AkataWoman:

You’re right! BAs do not call ourselves akata. Most have never heard the word and many of us have very little or no contact with Africans.

But I’m not talking to my average BA in real life. I’m on a Nigerian site and I happen to know some (just a lil’ bit) of the lingo and culture.

But why would I troll as an akata woman of all things? Why not troll as a white woman and come here to insult Africans instead

i don't give a shlt about African i only care about Nigeria and Nigerians. so go head and insult all Africans I don't care. but btw are you khiaa?

AkataWoman:


I know of two Nigerians who did just that. But they were young virgins who married right out of college and their akata wives were the same. All from devoutly Christian backgrounds.

What’s up with your name though??

it's just for hilarious purpose... By the way don't focus on the container instead focus on the content... you can go through my previous comments or threads to give you an insight about me...

iammo:

The reason I twisted it to American women enjoying Nigerian men, is just the good ole Nigerian man" Supersized Ego" Nigerian man would never truly express how lucky he is to have a hardworking and caring woman, because we reserve abit of truth just not to make a lady feel we are too love struck and starts acting up, this is why a Nigerian man can never split the bills on a date with his woman no matter how broke, it's all Ego.

Then the "loose" woman thingy is just part of cultural shock, American women are confident and sometimes sexually expressive, most Nigerian women never demand for sex even if they are dying inside for it,. Some ain't flexible, just the plain missionary kind of Style, and when a Nigerian man gets to meet someone as confident about such subject as him then he gets funny ideas in his mind..

Akatawoman, hook me up with a nice lady over there. I would like to experience how dating a foreigner would feel

i actually love black American women (akatas) my thing is don't just behave like an hood rat.

renewa29:

I disagree with the portion highlighted. How did you come to this conclusion? Educate me.

I come to this conclusion by being born and raised in the US as the descendant of slaves who’ve been on US soil for centuries.

BA women have at no point in history had the ‘slutty, promiscuous’ stereotype in this country. Ever. We’ve had other stereotypes but not that one.

Twizzy30:
i actually love black American women (akatas) my thing is don't just behave like an hood rat.

Hood rats are a contained subculture that most BAs refuse to go near, live around or deal with. I’m not even talking about them in this thread. They are a different breed. Only equally hood guys deal with them.

Goddys:

Akatawoman, hook me up with a nice lady over there. I would like to experience how dating a foreigner would feel

No can do. It makes no sense to hook someone up with a person on a completely different continent. That’s no hookup. You guys can’t date. Dealing with a man in a different US city is hard enough. Someone across the world? Forget it.

Ur advice is needed pls I met my girlfriend via social platform & we both in long distance relationship.

The problem is her phone got faulty which within me she's awaiting I provide her with another. Financially, I didn't hv the capacity currently and in some couple of days we'll meet physically.

Do I need to present her a gift or rather extend her with an amount to repair her phone ? Which is best or if there is any other idea

I'll be awaiting ur response

AkataWoman:


Hood rats are a contained subculture that most BAs refuse to go near, live around or deal with. I’m not even talking about them in this thread. They are a different breed. Only equally hood guys deal with them.

lol okay. we have peeps like that too down. lazy around doing drugs and committing crimes.

btw where are you from in USA?

Twizzy30:
lol okay. we have peeps like that too down. lazy around doing drugs and committing crimes.

btw where are you from in USA?

I live in the DMV (DC/Maryland/Virginia) area.

Onijagidijagan:

How your cousins now have their green cards ? I will have a relationship with Africans, Latinas, Asians whites or Irish or Indians before an Akata.
Without green card I can date an AKATA cause I have no choice.

They were born in America and brought back home when they were 7 & 9 and they went to school here, university and all before they went back so there's no reason to think its about green card or so. Bro I used to think most BA ladies are crazy, loud mouths, trash talking bitches just like the internet and most TV shows make them out to be. There are calm ones, especially the one our uncle married around 1978, she has been awesome and cool up to this date. She's "cooler" than my uncle so should I say that three of them are lucky? yes there are some ratchet BA B but not all.

yetunsbay:
Ur advice is needed pls I met my girlfriend via social platform & we both in long distance relationship.

The problem is her phone got faulty which within me she's awaiting I provide her with another. Financially, I didn't hv the capacity currently and in some couple of days we'll meet physically.

Do I need to present her a gift or rather extend her with an amount to repair her phone ? Which is best or if there is any other idea

I'll be awaiting ur response

Where do you two live? Is one in Africa/the other in America?

What type of relationship is this? Online only and you’re meeting for the first time?

Why is she expecting you to replace her phone and you’ve never met or established a real relationship Have you professed love for one another and she has these expectations of you as her man? Does she know you can’t afford it? So many questions!

I really don’t know what to tell you. This is a different dating generation. We weren’t doing the social media/cell phone dating thing in my 20’s.

But I do think a gift will be nice the first time you meet her. Have the cash/new phone on hand just in case all goes well with the meeting and you think she’s the one. Then surprise her with it at the end of the date

I'm an American and I know you over selling out. BA don't have the best views. Loud, obnoxious among other things. You know damn well you're seen as the easiest group of women, besides white girls. You guys are extremely combative to the point black men would rather deal with the backlash of interracial dating (lynchings and all) than deal with BW. If the black race disappearals, it'll be thru the men. As a Pan-african, I don't condone it but I understand it. That said, the BC is in shambles, which is a shame. As far as I'm concerned, it's over. There's no universal law that states things HAVE to get better.

AkataWoman:

I come to this conclusion by being born and raised in the US as the descendant of slaves who’ve been on US soil for centuries.

BA women have at no point in history had the ‘slutty, promiscuous’ stereotype in this country. Ever. We’ve had other stereotypes but not that one.

Lies. Doesn't matter how educated they are, there's always that possibility of a goon running thru them. You from the DMV, don't get me started on the HBCUs and the debauchery that happens there. From AKAs to the other Greeks, we all know what the lick read. If it the thugs, it's the white boys. They know they don't have to do any work before BW giving it up. Esp. in corporate America. Stop flexing.

AkataWoman:


Hood rats are a contained subculture that most BAs refuse to go near, live around or deal with. I’m not even talking about them in this thread. They are a different breed. Only equally hood guys deal with them.

� They all got a little ratchet in them.�

AkataWoman:


Where do you two live? Is one in Africa/the other in America?

What type of relationship is this? Online only and you’re meeting for the first time?

Why is she expecting you to replace her phone and you’ve never met or established a real relationship Have you professed love for one another and she has these expectations of you as her man? Does she know you can’t afford it? So many questions!

I really don’t know what to tell you. This is a different dating generation. We weren’t doing the social media/cell phone dating thing in my 20’s.

But I do think a gift will be nice the first time you meet her. Have the cash/new phone on hand just in case all goes well with the meeting and you think she’s the one. Then surprise her with it at the end of the date

Thanks bro gonna work with ur advice

'Akata'

Never heard of it before

Anyways

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AkataWoman:

I come to this conclusion by being born and raised in the US as the descendant of slaves who’ve been on US soil for centuries.

BA women have at no point in history had the ‘slutty, promiscuous’ stereotype in this country. Ever. We’ve had other stereotypes but not that one.

you're right but that was in the past. After y'all excepted feminism, the same white women fleeced BM (who were the true intended recipients of AffAct), they went behind you can took your men.

https://www.cdc.gov/std/stats16/minorities.htm

Blacks are disproportionately affected by STIs. Both sexes in nearly all categories. This didn't occur in a vacuum. Everyone knows (or thinks)BP are sexually aggressive and hypersexualized. Stop being intellectually dishonest.