mainman7:
Nice one. Yorubas setting the pace for other Africans since 6500BC. Some senseless chest-beating flat-heads Nyamiri dunces who deceitfully claim to be the wisest and most enterprising yet can't boast of Great industrialists and Mega-Billionaires like Femi Otedola, Mike Adenuga, Mrs Alakija (The current richest Black Woman in the world) and many more Yorubas. Even the North has the likes of Dangote etc... Next time you senseless nyamiri mofos see a Yoruba, duff your hats and bow! Else... u know where u will end up!

I still see no reason why you're crying. Igbos saw it, some congratulated her others felt she wasnt worth their time but you arent even big on congratulating her, just using her as a platform to exhibit tribalism in the highest order. I taya o

foxxynik:

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Ample times, I've begged even when am not at fault...it's just being a gentleman! Sometimes I jovially beg and tease her and we move on!
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thats good enough.

foxxynik:


You can't say, that's the "END OF ANYTHING GOOD IN THEM"... Men always uncover good things from a woman!
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A lady has lived with me before,
she cleans perfectly well, when she cleans anything be it babies, toilets, dishes, the yard,etc, my mind is at rest, I dont need to inspect it cus I know it is clean. She even taught me a method of cleaning the rug with dettol, airfreshener and little detergent in such a way that the rug doesn't get wet, its as dry as yesterday 2 mins after its scrubbed, it gives off a pleasant fragrance, its clean for babies who love to crawl and the next minute put that hand in their mouth. so yes, she's neat.

She's married now and her sister in-law praised me 4 being able to live with her and wished her dead so that her brother can go and marry another human being even if that one will not be as neat as she is.
why?
she naggs, she cheats, she is not industrious, she is domineering, she doesnt respect his family, gets jealous easily, monitors her husband 24/7, doesnt cook well, she's a graduate but cant even speak good english.
But initially, she spoilt his sister and mother with gifts, now she tells anybody that visits them how she spent 2500 buying pant 4 his sister.

foxxynik:

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Lol.... Tell you what! It'd take a real woman kind woman to beg a man even when she's not at fault!... It's not to raise the man's ego... But a sign of submissiveness being a peace lover or a mumu!
Many men adore this set of women slaves !...

No offense intended at my post honestly, but many times, guys want too much.
Please please put yourself in her shoes, can you beg your wife when she's wrong? U make ur wife loose her self respect just to prove she is submissive.

Please it doesn't have to get to this point because not all women can do this even if they are 100% submissive.

foxxynik:

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If you can do this to a guy u're not dating.... I believe you can do more to the guy that wants to go into a serious relationship with you... Like cleaning up a kitchen that u'll be cooking whence visiting!..
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That is service to a human in danger. I will not clean a kitchen dirty for weeks in the name of prospective marriage. Even if he says it plainly, clean up this kitchen and I will marry you I still won't.

4 the other part of your post, it never happened.

ogtavia:



If I wanted to test you as a man,I won't test you with my dirty kitchen,...are you kidding me,honestly..our african roots has really brewn some wrong ideas in us..as a man,I will never test any woman with a kitchen dt dirty,a kitchen where I cook what I eat,I will never do that,what will be d purpose of the test,to find out if you can clean or tidy up a kitchen or if you are hardworking or that sort of shit,If I wanted to know that,all I need to do is give you maybe come on an impromptu visit to ur house...look at it conversely...I go to a ladies and see a dirty kitchen,or dirty laundries,a dirty toilet or maybe a dirty house...I won't c it as a test...look,girl,as a lady,you must have integrity,you must have self respect,yes,you must respect yourself...any man who uses a dirty kitchen to test you,sees you as,maybe,a housegirl or someone who does all d whole work,I av four sisters,one is married,I won't be happy if any man treats them dt way,so,I also won't treat or test any lady dt way...there are so many ways to test a woman..dt dirty kitchen test is d cheapest of them..okay,you clean d kitchen for him and its all sparkling and you think thru dt singular act,he develops an undying love for you and whenever he is tempted to cheat on you,he remembers...ohh,I can't do this,she cleaned my dirty kitchen...look,I am nt saying what you said is wrong,atimes,it so happens that one gets so busy,dt his kitchen might be left unttended to,(maybe not dt dirty though)in dt case,if you clean it for me,I will be happy,but it won't be becos you passed any test,I had a cousin who had a girlfriend at a time who loved him to bits...he literally lived like a pig,his kitchen was so dirty that the only time he washed was when all his plates nd pots were used up and dt would be when he cudnt get to eat out,he hardly washed his clothes,cleaned his house,he was a fine dude,but you won't know he lives like a dirty pig in his house,dis lady cleaned him up and to us,we saw the lady as a wife material,but you know,dis didn't stop my cousin from beating her up at d slightest provocation,he hardly forgave her wrongs.....its good if you think dt way,yet agin..atimes,ladies must take a stand...I am a man,but not your everyday kind of man,if I love a woman,I won't test her dt way....

It will surely be well with you, God will bless you with a virtuous wife cus its obvious you will treat her well. You will have a marriage that will make people jealous. Pls tell my pretty sisters, maybe they will hear now that its coming from a guy.

Equalizer:

Yea but some will still see what you just did as an act of slavery since you guys are not married yet.. Do you know that some girls won't even do what you just narrated cos that sight of the vomit might be irritating them.. Its all about choices my dear m..Where I work explains this kitchen a bit cos one might have planned to do laundry or some dishes by the weekend and on getting to work you will be asked to get onboard the vessel and that travel might extend to weeks or even months.. So let's not be too fast in concluding that the guy is the dirty type until we hear his story first..

These are 2 different scenarios.
the first instance is just a foolish exhibition of dirtiness and insensitivity and doesnt deserve sympathy or consideration.
The second is a move to save human life regardless of how poor or dirty he is, even if it were to be the guy with the dirty kitchen that vomited, I'll still do what I said and I still will not clean that kitchen, I'll rather go out and buy him something to eat.

foxxynik:

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Lol.... On her first day?... Even when she doesn't know if am testing her or not?...
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Sluts only come for intimacy and will not even bother about ur kitchen!... And if she can't cook... Going to catering school isn't a bad idea.... Sturborness can be tamed!....
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When a man succeed in making a girl to love him from her heart...there are a lot of things she'll forego...!
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All you need is to do what you know is right!... This things add value to ur womanhood and give rise to ur dignity!
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Please, always do what is necessary when u meet with your man... Coz u dnt knw what is always running thro his mind...

U havent seen anything. I have.....
some ladies just have natural passion for cleaning and thats the end of anything good in them.
I'm married and many guys do ask them to help test their wife to be or ask me to recommend so u can say Im not a novice in these matters

foxxynik:

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Lol... Ofcoz we have guys that are dirty and those ones that are very dirty... But what's ur responsibility in a man's life? Jst to s'e'x him all day long?... No sweet!
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Women have the power to change any man they love to their Prince-Charming!
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It's a pity that women don't take little time to study their men or their relationship. They only get to know when he's cheating, when he's remorsefully refuse attending to her needs on bed.. They will sight a man and know if he's a wife beater, he's a lecher, he's stingy...
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But they refused to dig deep to study their relationships plan their relationship and perhaps build it alongside with the man!
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If ur man is a dirty one... You have the power to make him a very clean man! You have the power to make ur man listen to you! Women have the power to make a man feel important amongst his friends!
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A friend of mine... His girl really bring this guy out from his lack of dressing sense to a fashion king!... He's now very good with the colours combination... what to wear in the morning and what he'll wear in the evening and so on...
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A lot of women who knows what they're capable of...who knows the woman-power vested upon them...uses their powers to p.i.m.p their men!
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You can change a man from wearing one boxer for weeks to wearing three boxers a day! All u need is ur chemistry!

foxxynik:

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Here's what am talking about!
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Exactly what I need in a woman!...
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Most girls don't even know what testing a woman means!... Becoz the kitchen is effing dirty...doesn't mean...You'd be turn off!
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If I go to a friend's place and see a girl enter his house and see this kindaf kitchen and then clean It up...trust me....I'll snatch her a way from my friend and I'll do that with no conscience! Becoz they are rare species to come by!

I really pity u, no I dont pity you. So just because she cleaned the kitchen, u will marry her? what if she's a slut? cant cook? stubborn? or is just pretending? you'll come here and tell us how ur perfect precious wife has changed since u married her.

Equalizer:

Life is all about choices and decisions... we all are entitle to our personal choices and decisions and whatever the outcome becomes, am sure its still within our jurisdictions to take full responsibility of it.. What I meant by litmus test is that the case might be different depending on the individual involved.. You might just be stepping in and all of a sudden he starts throwing up to the extend that the whole house becomes a mess... Will you leave him in that condition and walk without cleaning up the house?

now, that is a totally different case, even if I am not dating him or we just had a quarrel, I'll try to stop the vomiting, clean up the mess, fix him something to eat so he doesnt get dehydrated, get him some medication and tuck him in bed if I can lift him/ tuck him on the floor.

Equalizer:

Am sure that kitchen doesn't belong to a guy but the question here is more like a litmus test for ladies.. Some girls knows how to boil only water and can not even be able to cook indomie.. Your comment got my attention cos you sounded differently unlike an average NL girl that will deny ever doing such..

if thats his test, then we aren't meant for each other cus I am destined to fail it. For crying out loud, those dishes havent been washed for weeks. My house has never been this dirty, I dont do well with dirty men........
Popping in unexpectedly at my house is a far better "test" and as some smart ladies pointed out, he doesnt respect u 4 him to bring u to his house to see that.
4 those saying they will clean it up, na here I go dey when you'll say my husband treats me like a slave et other stories that won't touch my heart

Maxjony2000:
Just a quick one here:
Most girls who use wrapper to tie little babies at their backs always can never escape breast sagging.
I notice this with my wife's younger sister who stayed with us when raising kids.
I just have to find a way to talk to my wife about it and she did but very late though!

Exactly what I was about to say, using the wrapper to carry babies is like a catalyst to the sagging process but just tying the wrapper across the chest every idle day too counts

REALCHANGE20151:
[size=16pt]Please what do you call people who come from Republic of Niger[/size] ?

NIGERIENS

You're still a boy. You'll understand as time goes by

Huge/Masculine, emotional, firm, not ugly, must be earning something, love God and me, respect my family

He was holding a matchet so what?

Some women sha, If you no get the strength to resist, you go get the brain. Na struggle for survival.

Can a sane human actually take a job as an executioner without gong nuts within a few hours?

Glowstone:
how did she break the internet,.





No be okrika shoe dey dier so ¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬

You no try, see where your eyes went to

Good day to you VO, Just wanted to know if it is compulsory to bring originals of supporting documents especially the statement of accounts to the interview. Thanks

despeakableme:


Really, Thanks a lot.

You are welcome dear

You and ur neighbours should come together and go meet the church leaders and explain politely and suggest that they move away their speakers from facing your building if they don't, visit them again and remind them that they haven't worked on what you discussed, if they still dont, contribute money and buy your own bigger speaker and face it there then whenever they start their service start ur own muisic and play all the shoki and alhaji tracks u have.

MayflowerB:

Dats not wat I meant. Lets be honest to ourselves.....biblically those stuffs u mentioned above are sins.
As true Christians we re suppose to desist from such acts......she has chosen to be a true Christian.....so pls let her be or get ready to be in a hand-shaking relationship

I so agree with this opinion. However, first be sincere with urself and dont let ur love g her lead u to illusions. ARE U SURE SHE LOVES U? If yes, can u live for a few years without sex and romance? If ur answer to these questions is yes, pls go ahead and get her back. If no to any one of them, please walk away.

Jeunesse anti aging. No one wants to age. Find out how u can make money by helping people look younger than their age.

I'm embarking on the biggest project of my life and I seek partners, I am racing for membership in the African founders club of Jeunesse where I get to earn at least $$$$$ every 3 months for the rest of my life if I can become a pearl member by this month end. We can do this together.
A few years ago Mark Zuckerberg invited few of his friend to take a look at an opportunity only 3 of them said yes and today they are billionaires..........that opportunity was Facebook.
Today am inviting you to view an opportunity this opportunity is called jeunesse who will say yes?

RikoduoSennin:


So you are saying that When Jesus called the Isrealite Children of Devil he means a Parable (figurative) While when John called Cain the seed of devil it means another thing (literal meaning)?

You are not Honest at all!

I argued this far with you because I believe it will profit a seed of God somewhere somehow not really for your own benefit. Please believe what you may.

RikoduoSennin:


Jesus said at John 8:44, "You are of your Father the devil and your will is to do your father's desires. He was a murderer in the beginning and has nothing to do with the truth....."
Are the Children of Isreal the Seeds of Satan the Devil LITERALLY just like you claim cain to be? John 8:33.

Are you a christian? You should know that the bible sometimes speaks in parables
Mark 4 vs 12: they may indeed see but not perceive, and may indeed hear but not understand

RikoduoSennin:


Twins were did you get that from?

Genesis 4:1 "Now Adam knew his wife and she conceived and bore CAIN...."

Genesis 4:2 " And AGAIN, she bore ABEL......"

Two different times, two babes conceived on different days.

Seriously??
so she gave birth to the children one day or one month apart? Have you ever seen a picture of cain and abel with Cain looking bigger than Abel?
Again, Mark 4 vs 12: they may indeed see but not perceive, and may indeed hear but not understand comes to mind

RikoduoSennin:

Enmity between : Woman and Serpent
Enmity between: The Woman's seed and The Serpents Seed.

If Eve bore both Cain and Abel are they not both her seeds? The Scriptures did not say Enmity between Adam and Satan's seed did it? Or are you insinuating that by yourself?

Note: That verse is a prophecy, if Cain is the seed of Satan and Abel is the seed of the Woman- then Abel should have killed Cain (bruise the head) and Cain bite Abels heels or Is GOD a LIAR?

Even though Eve gave birth to Cain, he isn't her seed the same way the bible said in Gen 21 vs 12 For in Isaac shall thy seed be called, and so the Israelites say, the God of Abranham, Isaac and Jacob (no Ishmael)

Jesus was the promised seed of Adam who bruised the head of the serpent on the cross thats why he was referred to as the 2ND ADAM in 1Chorinthians 15 vs 21 - 25 and vs 45 verse 25 specifically says till all enemies are brought under his feet (this is bruising of the serpents head)

RikoduoSennin:

Revelation 12:9 " And the great dragon was cast out THAT OLD SERPENT called the devil and Satan...."

How do puppets talk? How do cartoons talk? Satan spoke through the Serpent just like a skilled ventriloquist. The serpent was not like a man with hands and legs? If it were, it would not have been alone- meaning others like it would have existed (its own kind). All existing serpent look alike generally yet only one kind was present when Eve was deceived (Did God punish others for a crime they did not commit). Do you think God passed judgment on that innocent serpent or was he referring to the real culprit Satan the Devil?

Gen 3vs 1 The serpent was more subtil than any beast of the field which the lord has made
The Bible says the serpent was the most “subtil” of all the beasts. He was so like a human, that he could walk, talk, and even have an intelligent conversation. After he beguiled Adam’s wife, God cursed him to be a snake, but not before the damage was done and the seed was planted.

The Bible says in Genesis 3:15 that the serpent had a seed, and God put enmity between the two seeds. Obviously, the serpent’s seed mingled with Eve’s natural seed before the separation. How could all that be a result of eating an apple? Then, a few verses later, “Adam called his wife’s name; Eve because she was the mother of all living.” Note that it does not say Adam was the father of all living.

There are different “fruits” in the Bible. Of course, there is the literal fruit, like an apple, that grows and is consumed for food. There is also the fruit that refers to our works, whether it is natural works such as farming and business, or spiritual works such as performing miracles and preaching the Gospel. Then, there is the fruit of the womb, which refers to conception and childbirth.

Would eating a literal fruit give Adam and Eve the understanding that they were naked? Or, would it take a physical relationship between a man and a woman for them to understand why they should cover certain parts of their bodies?

Before Adam ever had carnal knowledge of Eve, the serpent had that knowledge ahead of him. And that one born of it was Cain. Cain was of (born of, begotten of) that “Wicked One,” I John 3:12

Consider also:
And I will put enmity between thee and the woman , and between thy seed and her seed ; it shall bruise thy head, and thou shalt bruise his heel. [The serpent had a seed. Obviously, this is not referring to a snake.]

Luke 3:38 Which was the son of Enos, which was the son of Seth, which was the son of Adam, which was the son of God.
[Where is the first-born Cain in the lineage of Adam?]

Look at 1John 3: 12: Cain was of the evil one (the son of the evil one) and slew his own brother
Ezekiel 28: 13 Thou (the devil) hast been in Eden the garden of God

This proves that Cain was not the son of Adam but of someone else.
This thread below proves that twins can be fathered by different men
https://www.nairaland.com/2178353/mind-blowing-facts-never-knew-twins

Also bear in mind that the serpent wasn't always like that, he was an upright animal but God cursed him and changed his entire body structure so it can't repeat what it did.
Proof: The serpent could talk to the woman then but it cannot do that again, if you think it couldn't talk, how then did it deceive the woman? just by staring?
Look at Gen 3:14 And the woman said, the serpent did beguile me and I did eat.

More points: that the woman actually carried 2 seeds,
Gen 3: 15 And I will put enmity between thee and the woman and between THY SEED AND HER SEED

Eve bore twin boys but here is what she said after giving birth:
Gen 4vs 1: I have gotten A MAN from the Lord
please note she said A MAN not men but she bore 2 men so where did the other man come from?

Futhermore; Gen ch 4 vs 25: And Adam knew his wife again and she bare a son and called his name Seth For God said she hath appointed me another seed instead of Abel whom Cain slew.
If Abel was her seed and Cain slew him, whose seed was Cain and why was Cain the first murderer? How did he even know that a human being could be killed?
Look through Cain's lineage, there was another murderer there: LAMECH but none in the lineage of Adam, is this a co-incidence?
John 10 vs 10 The theif cometh not but to steal, TO KILL and to DESTROY and thats what the son did.

Lastly, look at the genealogy of Adam in the book of Gen ch 5 vs 3
And Adam lived an hundred and thirty yrs and begat a son in his own likeness after his image and called his name Seth
Abel was not in the genealogy because he was dead, but Cain was alive but wasn't included because he wasn't a son of Adam

@op, not every independent lady is arrogant.

I am so much of an independence freak that I refused to even work for anyone except my dad, I can't depend on any boss to determine my earnings. I have done all sorts of jobs, street marketing, office marketing and many funny jobs just to build experience I believe I am a born entrepreneur, I dont depend on my maid to make sure my kids are fine or that my house looks sane and that's my nature. I didn't make myself. Right from being a teenager, I never asked for pocket money from my parents, I taught my mates to raise cash. Today I am a proud owner of a fabulous company and earning far more than my husband. I am not the type to refer to him as "my lord" or "sir" or all those silly things older women do, but in all the years of my marriage, my husband can never say I was rude to him, we argue yes, we have misunderstandings yes but my parents have never come to settle a fight, he even chooses my friends and the kind of clothes I wear! BUT I'M STILL INDEPENDENT!!!! People outside especially guys tell me alot I pity your husband and are surprised when I tell them I am married already.

As a business owner, you must be wicked, make hard decisions and think without human sympathy and emotions. I have employed men far older than me and believe me when I say, I don't spare them. Majority of African men have this very strong ego and even bring it to their office.

My hubby's roles are his roles and most of the time I help out gladly but he never asks me for my salary (like some friends have suggested to him), he never tries to boss me around, he never asks me funny questions or try to monitor me like a satellite. He doesn't even have my passwords on social media.

So IMO, all this rant about arrogant wives and bossy women boils down to how you respect yourself and how you treat her. If my husband didn't earn the respect I give him, he CAN'T boss me around cus hmmmmm, let me stop here.