₦airaland Forum

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Kobojunkie:
Why does he need to offload the consequences of what is his lack of self-discipline on his wife abeg?

Must her world stop rotating on its axis because this man failed to learn self-discipline when his mates were?

how will you feel if your husband brings his friend as a driver to live with you and you start developing feelings for him and he refuses to heed your warning to ask his friend to leave. This man is obviously uncomfortable around this girl and he knows he needs help and that's why he's on Nairaland to get advice.
NOBODY chooses who they develop feelings for. However, when the love becomes a taboo, you flee from it. We've all had to flee from similar situations before, even as teenagers. It's not new to anyone. He and his wife are playing with fire.

Johnsown1:
I suggest that you tell you wife your weakness and fears also tell her that if anything happens to the marriage tomorrow; then its her fault.
Which you can send the girl to school in other to help or you send her out with a good compensation. For Gods and humanity seek

Which marriage are you even talking about? By the time all these upcoming bloggers carry him matter for head, he go fit remember marriage?
Which kind of wife is not sensitive to her husband's body language? Which kind of wife will invite a nubile teenager into her home after opposition by her husband? Which kind wife be that? wife that does not know her husband's strength and weakness, is that one a sensible wife?

Nedangel:
It's hard to see any house help, as it took a long time to see this one. And my wife was always in tears, pains and nagging since she was always doing all d chores..

House help full everywhere oga. Many women in their 60's are looking for where to help for a small stipend. They are everywhere. They'll do chores just for a meal.
Even graduates are looking for house maid jobs.
Using an underage girl for chores is already being frowned at and if sexual abuse joins in, I hope your wife can handle the disgrace. Bloggers are in every corner looking for who to ruin.

Dickson178:
If she agreed with you .. Bros go ahead and do it! Life is sure, so ginger your self and have your happiness

With what is happening on social media, do you still advice him to do such. The 30 secs orgasm is not worth the ruined reputation, shame and reproach. The 15 year old will end up confessing to her family and his own might be the next one that will enter social media.
Too risky abeg

Nedangel:
Ok, thanks for d advise

Social media and the likes of Bar Harrison Gwamnishu will gladly ruin your life by destroying your family reputation and putting you in jail.
Two minutes of sex in not worth all that trouble.
That lady is set as a bait from hell to ruin your life.
Put her in the next available bus back to the village.
As for your wife, sorry to say this but I think she's stupid. Get a professional maid of 50 and above and pay her salary. She's looking for cheap and free maids by using an underage girl. if she can't get a proper maid or daycare, tell her to rather leave the house dirty
Dirty house nor dey kill person .
Remember, righteousness exalts a nation but sin brings reproach. Open your eyes and send that girl out today. If your wife insists on keeping her, then, pack your bag and move out of the house. Separation and Divorce nor dey kill person.

Olubukki:
. You people are just shallow minded. One way traffic. See the gibberish you type. Tueh. .. una level of reasons. Just dey amaze me Reason well biko. Stop thinking like a ....�

I have seen someone give a beggar N50,000 here in Abuja. It's nothing to alot of people. Many wealthy people with terminal illnesses have been given instructions by their prophets and imams to give huge sums to beggars and they do it in faith that they'll get a miracle of healing or whatever other miracle they desire. Forget o. Things dey happen. These beggars cash out BIG time especially in Abuja

Olubukki:
. Abeg reason like human being. She wetin you type. Make sense to you at all �. Make una wake up from una slumber. We are so lag behind...... Dey reason Wella ..... .5million with a common begger is ten much. Her way no pure at all �. She must answer where the money come from ole barawo bamsa shegi

They said N500,000 not 5 million o

I've not seen any family member that will tell me to leave my husband for your own selfish reasons and I won't cut you off for life

I doubt this. I've seen my dad's pictures of the 70s and he had this cool afro and funnel like trousers. His female colleagues were wearing afro as well. They were skimpy mehn, especially the guys. My dad wore fitted top with half his chest exposed and even wore a big wedge shoe. The dressing was baaaaaad
There's no way on earth that's a nightclub gathering. They probably rented the club as a wedding reception or some other formal gathering.

affable4:
Make money, eat good food/fruits and have enough rest. Your skin must glow.

Shikena. And drink enough water

Someone did this to us 2 weeks ago

Your own is even good. We sent products to someone last week Wednesday, he went to the park, collected the items and blocked all of us including the driver and the store keepers. Very wicked soul. After threatening him, he sent only N35,400 instead of N38,400 as agreed. When we asked about the balance, this guy claimed that what he sent is 38 not 35. So, I now have 'number blindness' abi?.

dawnomike:
In all these, I still wonder why saying "My wife, I am sorry" is so much of a problem to you...
How to say sorry to wife is by first killing that your ego sir. #Peace

.Na him character be that na .
God just gave him the perfect wife for him.
No matter how much of an asshole you are, there's the right someone for you. While being stupid, just always remember to pray

Many of these ajebutter that don't know their left from their right. Some cannot even cross road or go on errands. Driver will take them to school and bring them back.
No matter how rich you are, let your children explore on their own sometimes. Let them walk to school, go on errands for your company etc etc
Read 'Rich dad, Poor dad'. You'll understand my point. We are beginning to pamper our kids to stupor and it's very unhealthy for their future and that of society.

vincentjk:
Lol just had a flashback to when my dad was still alive, he taught me how to drive when I was still in secondary school and I would deliver heavy goods to people using his jalopy pick up

Many people warned him thinking one day I go crash but God dissapoint them all

That's the way it should be. Parents of those days did well in their method of training children. Many children these days will grow up to be irresponsible and even abandon their parents in old age. It's really sad what's happening to the new generation

LikeAking:
This pikin go go far in life

Exactly

Skyfornia:
whadafucccck!!!! The parents or guardians of the boy should be arrested asap. What of level of negligence and carelessness is this biko!?

Village children are a different breed. They have the mind of a 30 year old ajebutter. They'll grow up to be strong and responsible adults. They're build strong both psychologically and physically

IgweBUIKE1:
Where is his dl... The owner of the bike should be arrested, but still on still I admire the boys zeal and will

lols. Abeg leave village children alone. Na God dey protect them. They are immune to alot of things that ajebutter children and even adults can't handle. They are built differently.

Why will you even accept a ride from a stranger in the first place?

osuofia2:

Most Nigerians are too emotional . They replace fact with their emotions. Just pray make your matter no wrongly enter social media.
Courts uses evidence to judge case and not emotion.
Using emotion will send many innocent people to jail

Exactly.

Social media outcry must not always equals a guilty verdict. Otherwise, the social media will invariably become a tool for jungle justice. The police have done their jobs and those involved have been found to be innocent.
The justice system doesn't deal or conclude based on sentiments and emotions, they deal on facts and evidence.
RIP Sylvester. May God console the bereaved family

How do you know it was poison and it was her friends who did? Bloggers

omoadeleye:
All these stvpid debtors now growing wings ern.. you borrowed money and you are failing to pay, how will you feel if you are the one that borrow someone money? You already know that embarrassment awaits you so why borrowing Again?

I just taya. Borrow and pay back is problem for some people

When you borrow, please pay back. If you can't pay back, then stay away

Akinsete19:
Lol
Hope the land will be returned to the rightful owners or at least they will get compensated.

Very beautiful houses worth millions have been built already on the said land. Innocent people have put in their hard earned money.
I fear some of these Estate developers o. You need to shine your eyes very well before they sell people plot give you.
The rightful owners will need to be given a new and possibly better land

Absolutely nothing. I drive to the park or shopping mall when I feel bored. Working from home and being self employed is the coolest thing ever

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
All these gender with stories

Always coming up with stories to make the world believe niggarrrrs are bad


You will be shocked to hear the true story that both this girl and the niggarrrr agreed to spend only the night together after agreeing to some specific amount

I wonder who sleeps with a man or woman on the first time meeting. That's the height of irresponsibility. Expect she's a prostitute and got paid.
Otherwise, she and the man are really possessed to have done such

HornyTave:
All these cooked up stories is becoming stale.

This isn't even news. Happens all the time, all over the world. Similar things have happened to my family, friends and hostel mates back in the university. My uncle once left his wife to go and have a secret wedding.
My hostel mate in university left her boyfriend on campus on Thursday(even had sex) and got married to another man on Saturday at her parents.
It happens

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Congratulations

18 years is one hell of a damnnn long time

But she should stop praising God....we all are aware of what happened

Science generates solutions for everyday life not some imaginary being up there in the sky

80% of IVF cycles fail. She must have done multiple cycles over the eighteen years. Some do up to 20 ivf cycles and end up childless. Please let her thank God. Who no go, no know.

Timoleon:
No where in the write up does it say the woman paid for the roof. If she did, she’s entitled to it but I’m not convinced she did as there’s no information to support that.

Even if she built the whole house, she should have waited for tempers to calm down and also wait for the court order on sharing of properties. She didn't act wisely at all