₦airaland Forum

omojesu202:
It is no news that most marriages are collapsing.
Mine is just two years but I also see signs of collapse.

What's happening in my brothers marriage is painful to me because I know the financial investment and sacrifices he puts into it. I don't know what he did to his wife but she has turned his children against him.

Imagine that you cannot tell your 20 years old first son to wash your car like 7am, the mother will tell you that you should allow him to enjoy his sleep. Not once, not twice and not thrice.
This is the children you'll go hungry and borrow money to pay high school fees to make sure they go to good schools.

It is painful to me because I knew when he was paying 200k per term each on three kids while his basic was just 300k.

Now the firstborn and secondborn will disobey him on ordinary washing of car just because he can no longer meet up.

Please how would you handle such issues?
You might just hear that a man killed his wife and three children in the news. That would not be our portion.

From outside, she has been a good woman but she didn't blend the children to their father. The nature of his job takes him on transfer always and not stationed with his family but regular monthly visit is always there.

omojesu202:
don't worry about me.
One of the main reason why I even marry is because I want to have a child that would be there for me at old age. That is why my brother's case makes me sad. I just need opinions on that, not that if it collapse it would be end of the world.

Nnekaojeah:
I'm very sure you're one of the nurses that works with him... NURSE ELIZA. WICKED SET OF HUMANS. AWON OLE JATI JATI

Charitosbo:
My name is Dr. Benprosper ONOJA, MBBS, FWACS, FMCOG, FICS,
Consultant Obstetrician & Gynecologist and fertility subspecialist. I am the Chief Medical Director and the Lead, fertility team of Charitos BO Hospital. I have 15 years experience as a medical doctor and I have worked as a fertility expert in different Hospitals around the world. The babies born through IVF treatment procedures that I have done through the grace of God is over 4,000 and still counting. In Nigeria, I have worked as a fertility expert in The Bridge Clinic, Grabbo fertility Clinic and Charitos BO Hospital. The records are there for anyone to find out my successes in the aforementioned.
The practice of medicine as a doctor is to help others. We are aware that some people who are envious/Jealous of the success story in Charitos BO Hospital are out there writing all sorts of negative statements about us; some are even paid agents whose aim is to help pull down since they see us as competitors. No man can fight God! All these kind of people, we hand over to God Almighty to fight our battle. To all our patients/clients whom God has used us to bless, we thank God for the privileged. To all our would be clients/ patients, do have faith that the same God who used us to bless others with children would do same for you. Remain blessed

DrFunmisticGlow:
that doesn't make it a miracle, just probability.

ednut1:
Ivf should take the glory

KenModi:
And they would go give ‘testimonies’ in church without also telling how they went through several procedures at the hospital to have the child(ren). We Africans keep deceiving and telling lies to ourselves under the guise of religion.

DrFunmisticGlow:
i rejoice and congratulate them, but we all know that they did IVF. Nothing miraculous about it.

MummyIMadeIt:
Too bad for the love of many has waxed cold..

One lady, robbed, raped and killed by three young men who ought to have sometn tangible doing...

The after effects of the soceital and home pressure

daewoorazer:
Shut the gutter u call mouth...what do you know about relationship, civilized phool

daewoorazer:
You’re still a hoe with a hole.. who cares if you’ve had penetrative sex or not...if I realize u keep a battalion of Dildos in your closet, na to flog ur bumbum

mulerogold:
where is criminal face?

thesicilian:
For some women, yes.
One doesn't need any special credentials to be able to marry or have children. The true achievement comes from being able to raise up godly children

sylve11:
I don't want to sound tribalistic because, i am not one, but it will never do you any good to leave your child to any Igbo family to take care of, except death. They are worse when it comes to taking care of another man's child. In general, the Igbo people are not bad, but do not do what i said above, no matter the situation.

Please, do not quote me to insult me. I am talking from experience and i owe you no further explanation.

TheRealProphet:
she is doing her best in respect to helping our family. I might try vasectomy.

freethinker01:
Ayam not understanding oo, how come her mother is 56 and she's 43? Does that mean she gave birth to her at the age of 13?

Vision4God:


People cannot go 2 farm, farmers are being killed. famine in Nigeria will not be good. Already there's shortage of food and now worsening it by killing farmers and/or telling farmers to pay ransom b4 they harvest.

Lord show us mercy.

longetivity:
we should be Law abiding to avoid this kind of pain,feel sorry for them

Soarr:
O GA o
We live in the age of snap first, save later.
Take video to trend first before ascertaining what is really going on..

But why will a pastor agree to buy undies for a lady?
No matter the circumstances, you are only allowed to buy undies for your wife not someone you wish to win her heart..
Na so Jonah take enter inside fish Belle, disobedience..
How then will you preach abstinence for your members when you the pastor is an undies buyer when you are not married yet?
. The case get as he be jaree..
I no wan judge am say maybe na God punish am cos what he did was wrong but who am I to judge?

Na so for my ss3, I buy pant for assumpta, I craze untop that girl matter hennnnn. As I dey deliver the pant and pongila, na so her mother appear from nowhere and she be like assumpta bia, so you don dey collect pant and bra at your age? Oya come make I check if you still be virgin!!! na so road take block for that ends o...

Golan007:
If he didnt exhume any body nor vandalize any property, the best you can hold him for is trespass.

Beating him is actually quite barbaric.

mansakhalifa:
Even if he is free to worship "whatever he wants to worship", a cemetery is scarcely the right place for such nonsense.

Last time I checked, cemeteries are not classified as places of worship. It is that simple.

They were wrong in thumping him up though. I will still give you that. Nigerians are becoming far too brutal these days.

But at the end of the day, the guy was at the wrong place.

mansakhalifa:
For all those saying that the man has a right to "freedom of worship/religion" or whatever, I have a question for you all:

When did a cemetery become a place of worship(e.g. church, mosque, shrine)?

You nairaland activists sound so dumb half the time.

I don't know about the beating but the lunatic was in the wrong place at the wrong time. It is that simple.