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OrlandoOwoh:
You're contradicting yourself. Whether traditional or church, the issuance of certificate is what makes it legal. I know of people who sit in their living room and join their children. If there is a case of devorce, then you will know that it is important to have certificate. You think you can just impregnate a girl, give her family the bride price and think the law recognizes you as a couple?

But, Bros... That's not what you said before. You said white wedding gives marriage legal backings...how so..!?

In the system of government policy in Nigeria. Traditional marriage and court registration of marriage is all one needs... But of course, colonial madness of marriage raises its ugly head..

MadCow1:
The issue of African marriage (customary marriage) vs White weddings is not about complex but legality and absolute recognition and irrefutable proof under the law..


Your post shows you have lost the plot of this thread..

Don't abuse me please, cos I am Mad Cow.

Guy abeg try read before you reply person post..

OrlandoOwoh:
Could you explain further?

You said traditional marriage does not constitute as absolute marriage, you relegate it to cohabitating. but your opulence for white wedding gives it legal backing....

In your world African traditional marriage is not up to oyinbo traditional marriage... That equals to inferiority complex...

OrlandoOwoh:
Church or court wedding is not all about spending money, like the would want us to believe. Yes, you spend money, but the main reason some people do it, including myself, is to give it a legal backing. The certificate you're issued at the registry or court has legal backing. For those that did just traditional marriage or paid only the bride price, before the law you're not a couple, but just cohabitating.

Inferiority complex at its peak... Tufiakwa..!

Sweetlemon:
I guess you are female.

Take my advise and get an official document. Thank me later.

Official court documents... I agree.. How white wedding or being a christian take make sense inside the matter..!!?

plaetton:


I don't know who is going to preach to them that selfless service and self-service are not the same .

As typical Darwinian creatures, they have chosen the path of least resistance and least responsibility, in this case , self-service .

They just might rebuke the devil, the day they get to the petrol station and a sign reads "self service, pay before you pump"...

plaetton:
Yeah. Afterall, Jesus said it: If your right hand causes you to sin, CUT it off.
Therefore, if your w.an.ker causes you to sin, you are obliged by scripture to CUt It Off.

Their faith no reach that level. They would rather ask for forgiveness...

The rate at which this topic is rampant of NL... One would think choking the chicken is a new phenomenon

This is what happens when you embrace abstracts and neglect your senses...

Tomorrow if caught, the same pastor will ask for forgiveness and says he is just a man... But today, he is an annioted man of God...

If the pastor like make him take the sis, doggie, froggie, biblical, snakey and what not... Na you fall mugu..

Sometimes I wonder..... Even the diabolical missionaries did not sell Nigerians such demented version of their religion.

No thanks to military mis- rule, uncertainties, poverty, laziness and greed... Nigeria christians and muslims now embrace darkness and call it light.. Tufiakwa

If you look at the big picture. These religious zealots are just lazy. Instead of challenging the status quo, they try to wish it away through prayers and fasting.

How can you reason with an African/Nigerian that believes he/she is a bonified gentile and the so called creator of the universe has a chosen people that happens to live in a different country and looks nothing like them... Smh

I'm not worried about the white man's greed . I'm super worried of an African that prays for Israel, or sees mecca as a holy land. By doing this they've made themselves easy pickings.. Kolomentanlity of a demented African..

Trailblazer1: I have a question for you.

What do you stand to lose if you believe in GOD?

Bros, come oh...why are you posting information about foreigners on an African forum .? These guys made a personal decision to believe in a particular deity, why should that concern anyone..?

You not only worship a caucasia's god, you now want Africans to follow the footsteps of other foreigners that chose to worship that same diety... Smh..

Your mind is mentally enslaved... Your own don finish..

wirinet: Let me deflate some egos;
71% of the earth's surface is water while the entire land mass is only 29%. Of that 29% humans occupy less than 1% of that area. Of the remaining 28% about 40% is pure wilderness. 14% is true desert and 15% has desert like characteristics. 9% is Antarctica. Most of the remaining 22% are agricultural areas. There may be other areas with a human footprint of some kind. So there is little we can do on the less than 1% that can have permanent damage on the remaining 99% of the earth's surface

Gbam..!!!

That's the main reason why this media frenzy on global warming or boiling falls by the way side...

Out of 29% humans only occupy less than 1% ...we should be worried about our immediate environment that we occupy and where we get our resources that sustains our existence.. Than worry about a whole planet that can consume itself with no questions asked.


When there is droughts people normally migrate, but in general they migrate to another place where people already call home and then put strain on their own limited resources... If push comes to shove, I will rather seek access to that 40% wilderness than adapt to chaos and hunger...

It's funny we cannot stop reoccurring natural disasters, but we're supposed to have wet dreams on global climate cooling..

Anything "global" economic or climate Africans have to be wary, we're like sitting ducks..

diksucker: ONE gud tin i like so much abt early marriage is that u get to birth ur kids so early. and u grow wit ur kids. and enjoy life. some omotolas mates are stil waiting 4 d right man to mary whereas she wil soon b a grand mum in few years to cum. am 32, wish i am already married and hav like 2 or 3 kids

Aunty mi...fear no catch you... You carry that kind moniker dey Waka NL and you still get liver to tell us your age... I hail you..!!!

sciyhf: Jesus is sitted on his throne at the right hand of God.. Besides, have u heard that God is the God of the living and not dead. Christ said this to
Illustrate that even Abraham, Isaac, Jacob , Moses etc are still alive with God and dats why he is called the God of Abraham etc. I guess ur mohammad is dead that his name isn't included since u were taught of no life after daeth.

In any case, Christ rose from the death, I ascended into heavn. Proof: enoch and Elijah did too. They never died. Though Christ is a spirit, I am a HUGE WITNESS that he is alive. I ave seen him, experienced him and even felt him. So just accept the truth and don't argue what u don't know. Jesus loves u Mr goose.

Accept what dirty truth.... Simple question...

When last did you physical see a man who died 2000yrs ago...? You claim he is a spirit, then you claim you have seen him.. beginning of craze...

Your great great grandmother loves you, she feels for you because you are already running mad...





P's: Jesus is a dead homosextual and mohammad was a rapist... Death to Islam and Christianity in Nigeria... Amun..!!!!

If you have had bad sex before. The thought of not sampling your life partner before signing a marriage contract is 1k foolish and N5 wise...

Have you had sex with someone that you actually regret wasting your time... But they loved it... multiply this feelings by (stuck in a marriage) Tufiakwa.!

Or after signing the dotted line. You realize your partner likes it rough or they like it really really soft... I remember one correct babe, articulated babe, charming, front and back no get part 2.... The type of babe you will see and think of marriage.... But when it got to bedmatic equations, her rules dey make prick fall asleep with annoyance..

You can't kiss me too hard... Ok
Caress my my n.ipple with your tongue...ok
Errm but don't suvk it....ok
Don't go too deep...ok
But I want to feel you inside of me..ok
You're too close... Ok
You can't lift my legs that high.. Ok
No doggie it's degrading... Ok
Finger my azz, but don't play with my clit.. Huh..

LOOK HERE WOMAN.!!!!! See what you have done.. My prick don sleep finish. . ...Any vaseline, soap, hair lotion... Anything... My palm can do the job..

No God deserve worship.... Because it's man's desire to know God...

But your friend must acknowledge his heritage/lineage..without that the baby might as well be a science project ..

sciyhf: U must really be a goose... How dare u open ur filthy mouth and proclaim that Jesus is dead. Are u an anti Christ? Tell me to know where and when ur deliverance will start. Whether u believe it or not, Jesus is alive and the only salvation to ur soul. The earlier u know, the better. Drop ur number for more teachings .. SMB (shaking my beard, highly disappointed)

Who be this demented Ebola patient with Internet connection.. whether you believe it or not Mohamed (pbuh) is the true prophet and Allah is YOUR creator.. Hell awaits you for seeking salvation from a corpse..

If your Jesus is not dead and rotten.. When was the last time you physical saw him, what was he wearing and which language did he speak..?

Goose the great baba has spoken...

Joshthefirst: From time immemorial, men have been lost.

Men can only achieve peaceful survival when they come to terms with good and evil, with right and wrong. Imbalance in the notion of these basic objective things is what brings chaos to societies today. Is what twists a man, is what creates psychopaths who condone psycopatic killing as far as it satisfies selfish dominant interest. That in its intrinsic nature is wrong. Perverted. Communities rise and fall, but we can only stand strong among ourselves and to God when we come to terms with this.

Isis might stand to win that war, but there will be some who will refuse to stand with Isis in those regions, inspite of empty survival interests, they will stand for good.

Gbam..!!!!!

The god whom you proclaim to be the correct god was forced on others in Nigeria by the colonialist /missionaries. The traditionalist continues to refuse them in spite of empty survival interest, till this day the Nigerian/African traditionalist still stand for good...

You speak as if there is any practical thing called "perfect union".. Change is inevitable, the dynamic of Nigeria cultural norms changed with the infusion of foreign deities...

Bros, do you live in a different planet..? Where ever you are right now posting on this thread is it not peaceful..right now somewhere in Liberia where Ebola is running rampant someone is getting good head, abeg come down to planet reality..

When you speak of good and evil, right or wrong. Would you agree with me that believing in a dead man for salvation is evil..?

Joshthefirst: so human's determine what's right or wrong to you?

What about God?
Do you think he has a say?

I believe God determines what's right or wrong, irrespective of what we or our tribes or religions think.

I also believe God gives us a conscience that is in coalition with his law. Inscribed in the minds of humanity.

This is the aspect of gra gra....

Check it...from time memorial man has made rules, lived by them and died by them... What ever is inscribed in the minds of humanity is survival. An infant knows when he/she cries it brings warmth and food...

Before the advent of your god in Nigeria. Africans already know of God/gods... Societal norms were created along man made rules and that of God for the sole survival of themselves which equates to humanity.

Your gra gra is part of mankind is in the hands of man.. The missionaries succeeded in Nigeria that's why we have the likes of you.. If ISIS succeeds in their gra gra the dynamic in that region will change and people will conform for survival reasons...

Joshthefirst: So things like lying and stealing and rape aren't wrong?

In some cultures, circumstances and religious beliefs these acts are not wrong..

I know a diplomat from Ethiopia who said from his tribe/clan telling lies is part of their cultural norms..

When it comes to stealing ask Wallstreet....

When it comes to raape ask those in the middle east that raape women because they dishonored their families...

Honor killings.... Etc.. At the end of the day the destiny of mankind is in the hands of man...no gra gra inside.

padeolu: you mean the 1-2degC/century rise in air temperature? We will adapt. Species that can't adapt and/cope with the increase will go extent && some other species will evolve.

Bros, adapt how..? Grow furs or thicker skin... I like Practical solutions, solutions that can be measured. You see how africans die of common farmine, we constantly fail to plan for the future ... All our data on climate change comes from external research or reports.

At the end of the day, we start looking for help from US or China.. With the earth's population growing rapidly. I think if we as Africans fail to put measures in place, we will involuntarily become the factors that allows others to adapt...

And some foolish Nigerian will still open a so called sacred book and defend this criminal...

Did the 115 people that died asked to be martyrs.. I thought someone already died so others can make heaven... What exactly are they martyrs for.!!?

This guy should be in kirikiri awaiting trial..

One thing I understand is the simple fact that climate is always changing. My bargaining chip in this matter is how can one manage the negative impact when it finally comes knocking.

I for one do not buy into this media frenzy of global warming, global tearing or global smooching.. My concern is how can we as Nigerian manage or sustain ourselves if we are adversely affected by climate change.

Food shortage,drinkable water, flooding, diseases, housing, viable land etc.. Nature will do what nature does, humans will migrate, there will be chaos. We should be looking for ways to manage this inevitable change.

Water..! they say might be the cause for world war 3... Na them say...them say...i just repeat wetin them say..

coolviv: And every other person making derogatory comments, as long as two facts are at least true: [b]God Himself chose Mary [/b]and She carried Jesus for nine months and gave birth to Him the way your mothers gave birth to you, then all I can say is imagine God and Jesus seeing your comments.

Can a person claim to love you and hate your mother? Not quite likely.

Correction: bible god himself spiritually fuvk mary... stop sugar coating..

Arcsniper: When will she start dancing

......I hear say she sabi holy skelewu....

Just picture it....dis~virgin mary dey dance azonto..

Hail mary mother of bible god pray/cry for us and other bullshiit amen..

doubleDx: What do you mean @ bold? LOL

Nice write up minus your Yahweh and Allah obsession Religion is NOT our problem in Nigeria....Corruption is! Faith doesn't make one a dummy Chief!

What do you have to say about TB Joshua's defenders..?

hopelink1: op,usa india and other countries who believe in live inside mars but do not believe in rapture are FOOLS

This is what happens when fools talk.... Smh

You think say to land anything on Mars is all about reading a book, getting on your knees and believing.?

We're talking about fact based information you're talking about believe... If we were all zombies there will be no Internet..

It's indeed sad and worrisome.. African are now the kings of abstract absolutes...

There are Africans that believe in chosen and none chosen people. therefore, people that accomplish greatness are favored.

I'm glad India is stepping up, this might be a reality check for some foolish Nigerian that there is nothing as chosen people. The afterlife will surely come, for now let's make sense of this life....

Not to mention, from an academic perspective, You see glorified technicians calling themselves engineers.

amakufrancis: If i click am make my y*sh no cut my shiit again.......

Guy you think far oooo.. ..I just think am myself..

@ Spiritual Pros and cons of self service...... ;Djesu gba mi oooo..

These sexually frustrated bible tumphers, if they finally get to heaven. I'm sure they will raape yahweh..

Bidam: I am not in your thoughts. It will be ok for you to name them for us, let's see.
Wrong. It becomes a reality when you ACT it out.

You brought up intimate fantasies and you asked that I give you examples... Craze dey worry you.?

Guy put down that bible and grab a dictionary...

Indulging in intimate fantasies is that not and act...

Lustful thoughts is not the same as indulging.. Get your mind right..