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 Romance › Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by GraceBestowed(f): 7:25am On May 14, 2013 |
[color=#CD3700] The girl wants advice, instead what people do is downplay her question and throw insults whilst at it! I tire oh! It is not uncommon for someone who's married to suggest using a condom whilst being intimate. It tells that she believes he's been unfaithful, and unless he proves otherwise (by taking tests) she cannot trust him with her life. I have seen a woman who was infected with HIV, by her 'loving' husband. All you judges, please what would you say to that woman?? [/color] 4 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Guys Would You Marry A Jobless Girl Aka Liability ? by GraceBestowed(f): 7:16am On May 14, 2013 |
[color=#CD3700] I think people equate certain situations to negative things unfairly. If someone is overweight, it's because they eat too much; if someone is not working, then they're a liability and/or lazy. I went through a time when I physically couldn't work, because I was ill. People automatically attributed it to laziness and would make snide comments. I believe in everyone doing something with their hands so as not to be labelled a liability. There are some women who may not be working when you meet them, but will be able to manage with you and organise things in your household. It is only a bad woman that will use her hand, or character, to destroy her home. [/color] 2 Likes |
| Celebrities › Re: Bootylicious Nollywood Actress Daniella Lashes Out At Her Haters by GraceBestowed(f): 6:53am On May 14, 2013 |
[color=#CD3700] To digress: would you believe it if I told you that this woman prays?? LoooL, this is so unreal! Nevertheless, it is futile responding to people that hate on you, they will always be there. Just let your upliftment do the talking! [/color] 1 Like |
| Crime › Re: Woman Missing Since 2003 Found In Son’s Cupboard by GraceBestowed(f): 6:45am On May 14, 2013 |
[color=#CD3700] This is beyond sad! With the way I LOVE my mother, I cannot imagine someone bringing harm her way, talk more of I causing her harm! So callous and undignified. No one deserves to die, and be 'kept', like a chicken! All for what? Money, respect, or power?? All that seems 'right' will only lead to shame, and destruction! [/color] 4 Likes |
| European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Roberto Mancini Sacked By Manchester City by GraceBestowed(f): 10:58pm On May 13, 2013 |
[color=#CD3700] See the trouble Wigan Athletic has caused! [/color] 4 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland June 2013 Contest - NOMINATIONS & VERIFICATIONS. by GraceBestowed(f): 3:22pm On May 13, 2013 |
2legit2qwt: I nominate gracebestowed as well, I can see the grace in you[color=#CD3700] Oh wow! Thanks, I appreciate it. :-)[/color] |
| Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland June 2013 Contest - NOMINATIONS & VERIFICATIONS. by GraceBestowed(f): 3:20pm On May 13, 2013 |
ItsModella: you're welcome dear[color=#CD3700] Omo, business is booming, God is good! :-D Thank you, that's a very sweet thing to say (re: my profile picture), I'll do my best oh. [/color] 2 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland June 2013 Contest - NOMINATIONS & VERIFICATIONS. by GraceBestowed(f): 2:58pm On May 13, 2013 |
[color=#CD3700] Ohhh, my two lovelies, CFCFan (still preparing for mrs CFCFan) & ItsModella. Thanks, sweets! [/color] 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland June 2013 Contest - NOMINATIONS & VERIFICATIONS. by GraceBestowed(f): 2:54pm On May 13, 2013 |
[color=#CD3700] Thanks for the nomination, Idowuogbo, much appreciated!! :-) xx [/color] 3 Likes |
| Romance › Re: It's GOOD To Be A Married Man by GraceBestowed(f): 8:13am On May 12, 2013 |
[color=#CD3700] It's a nice change to see a man be an advocate for marriage. I agree that it takes being married to a good person to have peace of mind, because that person will always bring out the good in you. [/color] 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Is This What Is Called Marriage? by GraceBestowed(f): 9:47pm On May 11, 2013 |
[color=#CD3700] I can only sympathise with you. There's nothing worse than getting married to someone who will take away your peace. Sitting her down to talk didn't solve anything in the past, what will that do now? A good woman would never have put her husband in the line of fire for anyone, not even her family! [/color] 3 Likes |
| Romance › Re: How To Know If Your Partner Is Obsessed With You by GraceBestowed(f): 9:28pm On May 11, 2013 |
NaijaDoWell: You sound intelligent. In summary, that girl should be dumped? What guarantee is it to get the one who wil not cheat esp wen dis one is a 'wife material'[color=#CD3700] Thank you. Only Jesus can guarantee anything in this life. Find a woman that, truly, fears God and you've found a woman that will honour the commitment marriages are based on. I tell everyone: don't be in a rush to get married and don't get married out of obligation. [/color] |
| Romance › Re: How To Know If Your Partner Is Obsessed With You by GraceBestowed(f): 9:14pm On May 11, 2013*. Modified: 9:54pm On May 11, 2013 |
[color=#CD3700] ^^ looool ^^ Some people hide crazy very well and clothe being mental in a costume of sanity! [/color] 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: How To Know If Your Partner Is Obsessed With You by GraceBestowed(f): 9:06pm On May 11, 2013*. Modified: 9:53pm On May 11, 2013 |
dannyokec: True talk bro. Hate cheats like hell[color=#CD3700] Dude, if you're going to quote me, please don't edit my original text!! It's VERY irritating, and juvenile. If you don't want your post to be hidden, change it!! Thanks. [/color] |
| Romance › Re: How To Know If Your Partner Is Obsessed With You by GraceBestowed(f): 9:03pm On May 11, 2013 |
NaijaDoWell: That sounds interesting. What if the girl talks like this, but when she got engaged with this guy she contacted an old friend and requested for sex before she gets married. Her old friend was quite surprised because she had neva spoken like that before, infact she was the typical 'good girl'.[color=#CD3700] Then this girl must have developed cold feet and thought that having a fling would alleviate her worry. What she did was wrong on every level and excuses should neither be made, nor tolerated. What if she feels insecure in your marriage and the only way she can feel better is to commit adultery with someone else; or maybe you travel a lot, working hard, and she feels lonely? I guess the majority of people believe that everyone cheats so they settle for partners that constantly step out. [/color] 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: How To Know If Your Partner Is Obsessed With You by GraceBestowed(f): 8:56pm On May 11, 2013 |
2legit2qwt: Where do they live? Gotta visit there, surely not in Nigeria or even on earth right?[color=#CD3700] It's bordering on haunting that people believe in the falsities of every person being a cheat. There are good women, and men, out there, just pray that you're blessed to find one. [/color] 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: How To Know If Your Partner Is Obsessed With You by GraceBestowed(f): 8:50pm On May 11, 2013 |
NaijaDoWell: I never knew men could be obsessed too. But I have a question......[color=#CD3700] Sweetie, if someone has cheated on you, there is no reason to still be with that person. Guys, please understand that there are decent women out there that will never step out on their men. [/color] |
| Romance › Re: How To Know If Your Partner Is Obsessed With You by GraceBestowed(f): 8:48pm On May 11, 2013 |
[color=#CD3700] LoooooL!! Listen, there are some sweet little things that people do to express their love, the 'weirdness' comes when these 'little' things become huge! For example: staring at someone you love, whilst they sleep, is kinda sweet but leaving your house to go and watch your love sleeping (in their own house) is weird ... ... having said that, there are some things that are complete no nos like: being overtly jealous, being over possessive, being insultive etc The bottom line is this: if you're not happy in any relationship or situation, unhitch your wagon from that engine. [/color] 2 Likes |
| Celebrities › Re: Mercy Johnson - Exclusive Interview by GraceBestowed(f): 7:40pm On May 11, 2013 |
[color=#CD3700] Say what you will about Mercy Johnson, she still comes off as a good, fulfilled, mother and wife. Live and let live! [/color] 3 Likes |
| European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester City Vs Wigan : FA Cup (0 - 1) On 11th May 2013 by GraceBestowed(f): 7:09pm On May 11, 2013 |
[color=#CD3700] And the underdogs have taken it!!!!! [/color] |
| European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester City Vs Wigan : FA Cup (0 - 1) On 11th May 2013 by GraceBestowed(f): 7:05pm On May 11, 2013 |
[color=#CD3700] GOOAALLLLLLLLLL!!!! Whhhhoooooooo Hoooooooooooo[/color] |
| Crime › Re: Five Killed In Masquerade Fight In Imo State by GraceBestowed(f): 7:03pm On May 07, 2013*. Modified: 7:03am On May 08, 2013 |
yuzedo: How the fuckkkkk did a "spirit" die AGAIN?!?!?!? Am i missing something?? Please there's no case here, Mmanwu bu Mmanwu![color=#CD3700] Yes, I'm from Imo State, no I'm not from Akatta ... look at how God is working in my life! #ImoGirlsBeKillingIt (-_-) LooL, uncle, abeg, free me!!! [/color] |
| Romance › Re: Things Married People Wont Tell You About Marriage by GraceBestowed(f): 4:28pm On May 06, 2013 |
[color=#CD3700] This has a lot of truths in it, especially the part that says you can never know someone properly until you're married - über true!! [/color] |
| Romance › Re: Describe The Person You Would Never Date by GraceBestowed(f): 4:25pm On May 06, 2013 |
[color=#CD3700] Being as I am God-fearing, I will not pay attention to a man who does not have the fear of God in them; I, particularly, will not appreciate the company of anyone who belittles, looks down on others, or treats them with disdain. [/color] |
| Romance › Re: Sexually Harassed As A Child & Scared Of Sex by GraceBestowed(f): 1:27pm On May 06, 2013 |
alpha conde: But I hv been told by someone that she has become addicted to sex cus of this same experience. Can someone separate the difference or substantiate any?[color=#CD3700] It depends on the person, and how they deal with traumatic situations. Some people are resilient, some are retiring, and others overcompensate; either way, if these feelings are not properly addressed, the outcome could be detrimental. The OP is obviously scarred, and has become retiring, whilst your friend is overcompensating - both psychological consequences of the trauma they went through. [/color] 4 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Sexually Harassed As A Child & Scared Of Sex by GraceBestowed(f): 1:22pm On May 06, 2013 |
[color=#CD3700] ^^^ LoooooL ^^^ [/color] |
| Celebrities › Re: Ini Edo- Before & After Makeup Pictures by GraceBestowed(f): 1:14pm On May 06, 2013 |
[color=#CD3700] Umm, yeaahh! We are all beautiful in God's sight! [/color] 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Sexually Harassed As A Child & Scared Of Sex by GraceBestowed(f): 1:10pm On May 06, 2013 |
[color=#CD3700] I'm sorry that you're going through what you're going through. What you need is patience, personally, and from whoever it is that is directly affected. Don't expect to snap out of it, trust your instincts, and take it one step at a time (in trying to let go of the past). As for those people who abused you, their reward is coming! Please don't listen to anyone that tries to downplay your situation! [/color] 3 Likes |
