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A Church member invited the masses to his mother's burial ceremony last week Sunday, today when I got there I had to look for his own canopy..to my surprise they were just few persons sitting on his canopy with lots of chairs vacant.

and I came late o, we talking about after 2.48pm

His siblings canopies were filled to the brim, even his uncle's canopies were filled up that they were even coming to collect chairs from his own canopies to theirs for their respective guest. (this guy is the second to senior) I could see the embarrassment on this man face... he was just quiet and moody.

Food he cooked was surplus, nobody to give after sharing for we the church members that came..he had to even give us extra takeaway home because we didn't pass 10...still they are still enough leftovers.

While I was coming home one of the member from the church a very good friend of mine gave me a lift, then he told me Alex...you see why you need to dey mingle with people all around so that when you want to do things people will come.

You can't just put your full mind for people in church or family members...they disappoint you.

As you go people own, na so people go like come your own.

it really touched me, because I might even be worst than this guy, I hardly go out in the day....I don't have friends.. nobody to invite me to party... people in my street don't even know my name..This is really bad I need to change.

So introverts how do you handle stuffs when it comes to parties like this that you can't bypass? With all eyes watching...

hsshiubv jkvdyjljgi jfddul ndsgmo ncde bsseupgff

mkfthjfbhutb hhgfrs aaerd bcdgki mlkut mmgf mbgg

ggyojc nnligon nnklg lluyo mklitr jkoof njgxjpiwwc njbkog hdsyiblloi boockkjo do am like that.

KiNg0G:
Even a deaf and dumb will see fireboy ft edsheran is more better.
But whose getting all the nominations ?
It's high time we stop looking passed glories and focus on good songs coming from this latest generation of our musicians. Because no doubt they are trying, but I think they are not getting the accolades and recognitions they deserved.

ed sheeran literally begged fireboy for peru remix, and nobody talked about it. when he jumped on it, it was so perfect. Till peruvians started claiming the song was about their country..

Compare that with Justin Bieber on wizkid essence, it was Just a normal vibe jb came with though it was good, ( which I still insist if it was post malone or swa lee wizkid featured they would have done more better, coming in With their different high pitch emotional vibe... But as usual bigwiz went for the big name.


This post here is not condemning anybody's song but just a simple comparison of the two known collaborations of our 9ja music stars with international acts this year 2021.


I just wished we fans, show promoters and award organisers can look beyond passed glories and focus on true contents on artist either they been mainstream or not.






Ps: I know peru remix was dropped few days ago, but check within your conscience if the original one fireboy sang himself don't deserve awards.

am speaking for all known upcoming acts who are really trying, but getting lesser attentions due to we dwelling on passed fame and glories on artist who are above their prime, because they are big stars.




just an opinion, from a lover of good music.

Cc
Lalasticlala
Seun
Mynd44
Justwise
Dominique

Nice observations bros, I ALWAYS say if young stars were giving just as much accolades wizkid was given in 2010, me eazi for still dey feed us with banku music till now.


Pray this don't get to fp, you ready for the bash?

Magnoliaa:
Mtcheeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. Audacity dey sha. Kaiiii.

Slut-shamer and troll sef dey form #SayNoToBullying. Is it hydrochloric ment abi caustic madness?? Ko ye mi. Cloutinus.
*Spits to the highest heaven*

kingoG is a well known pillar of the redpill community, not surprised when I see likes of iyaebe and you so upset.
madam cool down!.
no more urgent 2k
We are the ones spitting on your smelling middle, not him.

KiNg0G:
Dear Mr bully, hope you are happy now?
you took my life with your gory hands
I can't sleep, I can't eat even when am in class
every morning, I wondered, if am getting slapped.
or in the evening when I go to the dining hall will I be getting laughed!
Am scared whenever you look at me.
frightening, wishing am home with my sis
Dear Mr bully, why do you hate me so much!!
am crying please don't hit me, am just a little boy.
yesterday was my birthday, I turned 12!
my parents made me Cake, then God said to me.
syvester smile up, your living your dreams (pilot)
yes daddy don't cry, am flying in heaven with my beautiful wings.

I miss you so much Dad
my life was cut short by Mr bullies hand.
I tried talking, but you didn't understand
please forgive me for been weak, I would have stand and fight. buh I really can't.




WRITTEN by King0g
may his soul rest in the bossom of the lord.


lalasticlala
seun

oh God

KiNg0G:
Who forgot the zamani prince, who brought different styles and fashion into the nigeria music entertainment industry.

but dude killed his career with his own hands, HE literally made nigerias love Rap music after the era of Dagrin, mi... ice prince was one of pioneer of new school rap music hiphop but because of greed and money moves he DIVERTED INTO DOING party jams, singing when hes supposed to be rapping! Because like most artist he thought nigeria wants gbedu music


Take a look at nasty c today
Take a look at sarkodie
Take a look at casper nyovest
They are still topping music charts.

The least majority of us heard from him, is 2017 featured by major lazer particula

We thought he was obviously making a successful comebacks, but like some artist it's just too late when they follow the wrong paths.
Nigerias don't like rap, nigeria wants to dance that's one of the lies misleading our young artist of today.



I just hoped this get to ice prince one way or the other...


Seun
Lalasticlala
Mynd44

What i know his, he do regrets it, changing his music to please the crowds.

Truvelisback:
Don't let her family members make u feel inferior or worthless. Infact, don't go to their house again.

She's been trying to reverts her words, trying to change the whole narratives.

I told her blantly, it can't work.

Thanks for nairaland, the comments here was really helpful, both the good and bad.

Smile

Truvelisback:
Bro, save urself 4rm all these headache, Leave her alone. Get another girl. There are so many beautiful girls out there.

yes, anyone can be replaced.

bukatyne:
Hmmmmmm.

The relationship is not worth a lot to you either.

Look for someone who doesn't mind an SSCE holder.

who told you am looking?
since yesterday she's threatening to commit suicide, when I told her we should move on, because am no longer interested in it.

she told me she has spoken with her uncle to talk with her parents, I told her blantly am no longer interested.since she has a master degree let her go get someone of same educational background. that's what her parents want.

Spherical77:
Beautiful
Then let him go look for his level. A school cert holder or even less whose family would accept him and he will start fathering kids as you said

Very simple

foolish boy why are you spamming this thread?
one can see how old you are from all your post.

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juman:
Only few families would allow their graduate girl marry ssce holder except he is very rich.
There are uncountable number of other ladies that are the same level like you.

thanks, this helped.

paulolee:
na just 11 secs of sextape de cause all this buz or the tape reach 1hour n na me never see the full video?
the thing don happen n its best we stop talking about it boz its getting boring already..
she use am chase clout or not, its not our business....abeg i no wan see any other celebs using this sextape to gain relevance..
make the matter rest n lets free her....
I no even any fuse about the low budget sextape wey dm noise about, even dt babcok tape did better..

link to the tape?

mariahAngel:
Did you give her a valid reason(s) for "knocking it off" or you just "knocked it off" because she suggested it?

it wasn't a serious discussion, just many of our random chats, that was 2years ago.
maybe she saw it coming but didn't say in a way I Will understand then. (like her parents won't agree and all)

Lostchild:
GraciousGod190

I also blame you because at 36 you are supposes to use common sense to know that your girlfriend and his families are using your education as their proxy over their hidden agenda.

There are many factors they are not telling you.

1. You may be from a different tribe

2. You do not have enough finance to their expectation. They wanted someone with a more better career than you.

3. She is listening to her family to make choices for her over her future.

4. You should use your head. Marriage has nothing to do with education. It is left for you to move on and be pround of yourself. Don't beg them, show self worth and your girlfriend will see your worth.

5. If your girl can't stand for you, she is not worthy to be your wife.

Nigeria women, nigeria families with their gold digger mindset, they want to eat cook food without cooking the food.

i suspected as much, she once told me to further though but I knocked it off.
it never occurred to me it would matter.

Spherical77:
You have 2 options here 1. Go and upgrade yourself 2. Move on

i chosed the latter, as soon as I heard it. thanks

Matheusmartin:
...
Don't always tell people to accept you for who you are..
If you feel you can't upgrade, go for a fellow Ssce or the one whose family wouldnt have problem with you

why would I go for Ssce or bsc ?
i go for love, the reason I wanted to marry her is because I love her for who she is, not because of her certificates whatsoever.
we are perfectly fitted since our 4years of dating.

kingphilip:
Them no suppose use the educational background judge you sha.

But if you want to upgrade your educational qualifications, do so for what you stand to gain and not because you are being forced to.

I'll advise you upgrade though because anybody who have the knowledge added with business mindset tends to go really farther than those without knowledge and have just the business mindset going for them.

With knowledge, you make better informed decisions taking in better perimeters than when knowledge is not inclusive

thanks for this, I appreciate.

Samcent:
Upgrading his educational level is good, but he should not upgrade just because he wants to please the in-laws to be.
What if after upgrading, they come up with other criteria; maybe he must be a car and a house owner.

The girl's parents are more concerned with their ego than the happiness of their daughter.

Op, if you so love your babe you can make that sacrifice for her. However, just pray that this will be the last of demands from her parents even after the wedding.

i understand you sir, when I heard it yesterday I was hurt deep down. I felt low, felt intimidated.
i do love my girlfriend, but how can a 36 year old man goes back to school because he wants to get married to a girl?.

i can make other meaningful sacrifices, but definitely not This.
thanks.

DaddyRochie1642:
Your English and your writing is good for an Ssce holder.

thanks very much, I appreciate.

dahmie2013:
My brother, seeking knowledge has nothing to do with age. This attitude is not the best. I still advise you go to school and upgrade yourself.

upgrade myself?
so to you am not upgraded enough? because am an Ssce holder.
please bro this discriminations needs to stop.