I have noticed that almost all ur news update concerns Enugu state, and they are always about commending the state government.

I am wondering, is Enugu state and its government an Utopia or are u so "full-glassed" that u only see the good deeds or perhaps u are among the government.

Blainz:



She comes from a very rich home.

I don't know when coming from a very rich home automatically means that she too is rich.

Openbusiness:

Lola was from a wealthy home, so stop typing rubbish. Do you know his wife more than Peter that is appreciating his wife for helping him succeed? Mtchwwww

"Lola was from a wealthy home."
Does this means she is wealthy?

oluwatosink:

Everybody is going to sm by God according to
their work and doings in earth. Christian and Muslim worship one God but in different versions. Traditional worshippers worship semi god

Nope.......there is no one God.

Christians would be judged by their God.

Muslims, by their own God.

Likewise, Judaists, Hinduist, Buddhist, Taoist, Satanists, Scientologist, Heathens etc and of course if they believe in their own versions of Heaven.

Atheists' souls, since they were their own Gods while alive, would die with their bodies, so there would be nothing to judge. No God would even ve the right to judge them. If they are powerful enough they would make their own heaven over there.

Those who were confused while alive would be stranded, because no God would have the singular right to their souls, therefore they would come back to earth, roaming about, looking for a body to possess.

U remember how they say some people sold their souls to the Devil, a God in his own right, that is how we sell our souls to other Gods through worshipping them..... When we die those souls go to them(they don buy am with all those blessings they dey give us) and become slaves to them........The more souls a God has the more powerful He/She becomes.

People have hyped sex so much that they consider sexual infidelity as the only form of marital cheating.

If your spouse, instead of spending time with you, spends all his/her time outside with friends, u re being cheated emotionally.

If your spouse gives out family money to an outsider without a joint consent, u re being cheated financially

If one is in charge of the kitchen, and he/she refuses to make or give u food, u re being cheated health wise.

If one is in charge of the family wealth, and he/she refuses to release money for ur needs, u re being cheated economically.

If ur spouse withholds sex, whether or not he/she is having it outside is immaterial, u re being cheated sexually. ETC

Treat sexual infidelity how u would treat other forms of marital cheat.

Enduring heart to the woman.

As I always try to learn from happenings from other people life, I ve this feeling that, may be, if they were fitter, especially the son, they may just ve survived it. But, what do I know?

Nope......... Heaven is a Christian belief. It's only for Christians. Muslims have their own version of Heaven etc. It's like saying many non- students will graduate.

I still dey wait when Nollywood would be bold enough to go topless and nude in their mainstream movies.

You ve sex on the bed, in a blanket, with the girls' top on and the guys on boxers, as if somebody is watching you. It should be make-believe. It should be close to real life scenario.

Immediately after sex and they are about to talk, the girls having to sit up, would be dragging the blanket as if to prevent the guy from seeing her boobs. Somebody u re supposed to ve had sex with few moments ago.

U re in your room alone after taking bath, about to wear clothes and u are being extreme careful not to expose ur body, wearing ur clothes through under the towel. Who does that in real life? It is not our reality.

If u want to promote morality, skip those scenes. Not these medicore hogwash.

In moral conscious Bollywood, they skip those scenes.

In moral unconscious Hollywood, it is close to real life scenarios.

These people should man up. Even ghollywood does better than this.

Good for her. She would emerge from this lockdown healthier and prettier.

Ahmed0336:

She had more than him when they met and she also assisted in ways she can to help them grow.

It takes a real man to admit certain things that may make him look or appear weak..

Many men had more than their women when they met. I don't see those women coming out to say, "my husband met me when I had nothing." Unless u believe a woman isn't supposed to have something.

I don't consider a man having nothing as weak, let alone a man in his early twenties, as he should be when they met.

And when you met her, did she have anything?

U talk as if u had been "privileged" to have been accepted by her when u had nothing; when she too had nothing.

Men and their mentality of "unworthiness" when they meet a beautiful woman.

She does not love you. She only sees u as a money-making machine. Am pretty sure in that 2.5 million she has, the money u ve been giving her plenty wella for there. She is saving ur money for her future use. Once she feels u cannot give more, she go dump ur ass and look for another guy and the sequence continues until she meets a man she loves and they will enyoy the money she has been accumulating.

Many ladies who sleep with their boyfriends and tax them always feel their boyfriends are not physically worthy of their pussies. So, he has to pay to balance the equation.

A lady who finds u attractive and is falling in love with u, finds it dismisive when u give her money to go after being with u.

Another name for surname is family name. How can u be a family and answering different family names.

You can do many things but u should only do one thing.

People call names to things they do not and cannot understand.

They do not understand how one can be so fair in sun ravaged Africa.

kelvinrhs:


Iffahear

Women enjoy it more

Women just have more self control

There are some corners in the vag1na that if a D1ck touch, the woman will speak in other tongues

But a situation where the guy does not know how to thrust to her satisfaction (plus them 32 seconds men) then we can conclude that the men enjoy it more

Women don't have more self control than men.

They only have less sex drive.

Facets of life where men and women are similar in their drive, men tend to have more self control.

Women cry more.
Women laugh more.
Women spend more.
Women talk more.
Women argue more etc.

frozen70:


I don't want to agree with your statement

No woman has low self esteem

Every woman wants to be more beautiful than what nature made her

Going for surgery is as a result of getting more if what she wants so that she will look more prettier

Tacha is aware of her body odour so she goes about with her body spray, she is not ashame of it

Have you ever wondered why men go for penis enlargement, it's not because they can't urinate it's because they want it bigger for more sexual satisfaction, so will you say such men ha e low self esteem ❓

Some classes of men go to gym to get six packs, no that they don't like the appearance of their chest, but they want to be more sexier knowing that putting on boxers alone and a bare chest, makes him look hot, will you say he has low seft esteem

Even the most beautiful girl does everything to look stunning like the most macho man

So to me, it's a thing of choice not minding they are all expensive procedure

You are very right.

People tend to think that enhancing someone's body means you hate your body. Rather it means that u want more out of u physically.

Funny, people won't ascribe the same to improving your body through exercise or improving your mind through reading or improving ur soul through meditation.

People share their stories when they improve their mind and get a degree. Then, it won't be self esteem issues.

People share their stories when they improve their soul and get recognized in their spiritual institutions. Then, it won't be self esteem issues.

People share their stories when they improve their body and become more beautiful. It becomes self esteem issues.

Men and women enjoy sex almost equally, but their enjoyments differ. Besides blowjobs, men experience the enjoyments of givers, of explorers, of conquerors; Women, the enjoyments of receivers.

But the more you give, the more you receive.

Givers never lack.

And God loves a cheerful giver.

These laws of life is why, despite men giving, they always have the feeling and the satisfaction of conquerors. Women, not so much.

onegig:


This is very naive and ignorant.


You are comparing building structures that are a necessity and modifying your body because of mere personal thoughts? What if those thoughts change in the nearest future? You would go add more booties or boobs?

By the way what if you have big eyeballs? Long neck? Short neck? Too tall? Long hands? Short arms? Big head? Big toes? I hope there are procedures for such also? Why are such people not applying the same thought processes to these? Aren't such things worthy of "upgrade" also?

At what point do you call a spade, a spade and agree this isn't about enhancing your body or health but more about needless selfishness and self esteem issues.


If you have a deformity or painful body part then do well to go for a CORRECTIVE surgery but going for cosmetic or face lifting surgery is nothing but your selfish personal business. The main grouse is do not come out seeking help and public support after a cosmetic surgery goes wrong. If you are stupid enough to risk your life for ephemeral things then you should be stupid enough to own the gifts it bears.

Nope, it is very shrewd and knowledgeable.

If structures are only of necessity no one would be decorating them. Structures are also mere someone's personal thought. Thoughts are meant to change in the nearest future. Structures are modified as time goes by. Body can be done likewise.

That's why I said if u can modify and can afford to modify, why not.

Of course it is a selfish issue but I wouldn't go as far as to call it self esteem issues. It is about exploring, to conquer ur body. The same thought people have, while instead of giving out their excess money in charity, they travel around the world, touring, vacationing and experiencing new environments, atmosphere and culture, same as cosmetic surgery. To experience new body, with its antecedent sensations, glamour, advantages and, of course, disadvantages.

People have always been classified into two: Those who take risks and those who do not take risks. Those who take risks live to explore, experience, enhance and even radically alter their lives(transgender, for example), of course being mindful of the after effects. Those who do not take risks would rather remain in their exciting or mundane existence than venturing out of their small world. To each his own cross.

This, if caused by bleaching, is one of the demerits. There are also many merits.

Of course it is always possession. If u truly love somebody and always want to see the loved one happy; when the loved one sees somebody he/she feels he/she would be happy if they had sex with the person, u should encourage and assist in his or her quest. Anything otherwise is not love but possession.

People should not detest cosmetic surgery. If u have been with a flat or a big bum bum all your life and u want to experience what having a big or a flat bum bum feels like and u can afford it why not. Do it. U have dark or fair skin and you re curious to experience the other, or it doesn't feel good to you anymore. If you can modify it and you can afford to modify it, don't let anyone discourage u. Go ahead and modify. Life is too short. Explore. If u can renovate your house you can also renovate your body. That your body is the temple of God is the more reason u should if u could always beautify, renovate and upgrade your body. Your should not leave God's temple in your care to rust and decay away.It should always be refurbished with the latests in town. That God created you perfectly should not be an excuse. He also created the universe perfectly and we have been modifying it, redecorating it, upgrading it, building new structures and eliminating unneeded ones since time immemorial. Men have refused to beautify their body that is why they had, have and will still pay a premium to be with women who have constantly upgraded their god-given body. Jesus said to Martha; why are you stressing urself over many things, why only few things are important."

This above is the difference between men and women. Men can view women as they view fruits; to be plucked and eaten but women cannot view men the same. This is it. Inferiority and superiority root from the object. The subject is merely an extension.

Okay

People should not detest cosmetic surgery. If u have been with a flat or a big bum bum all your life and u want to experience what having a big or a flat bum bum feels like and u can afford it why not. Do it. U have dark or fair skin and you re curious to experience the other, or it doesn't feel good to you anymore. If you can modify it and you can afford to modify it, don't let anyone discourage u. Go ahead and modify. Life is too short. Explore. If u can renovate your house you can also renovate your body. That your body is the temple of God is the more reason u should if u could always beautify, renovate and upgrade your body. Your should not leave God's temple in your care to rust and decay away.It should always be refurbished with the latests in town. That God created you perfectly should not be an excuse. He also created the universe perfectly and we have been modifying it, redecorating it, upgrading it, building new structures and eliminating unneeded ones since time immemorial. Men have refused to beautify their body that is why they had, have and will still pay a premium to be with women who have constantly upgraded their god-given body. Jesus said to Martha; why are you stressing urself over many things, why only few things are important."

MRosario:
What kind of men are we breeding in this country, are you that undesirable that women expect to be paid for visiting you!!
Look at them up there justifying the behaviour, with pride in their comments.
If we judge all Nigerian men by the comments on this thread, then no wonder 80% of women are fighting for 20% of men. The other 80% of men don't have any idea about how normal male to female interactions are supposed to be, gosh!

This is the state of the average Nigerian man's mentality. He sees himself so sexually undesirable that he believes he is being done a world of good when a girl hugs him. He believes the same when a girl kisses him. More so when a girl visits and omg when a girl agrees to have sex with him that he is willing to pay a fortune for it. Reversely so for a Nigerian girl, that she believes she is so desirable and men so undesirable that she believes she must be paid to be with a man to make it a fair trade. Boys believe sex is what they do to girls and girls believe sex is what is being done to them by boys. That is why a girl a could lay on a bed like a bed sheet, allow the boy to plough as hard as he could and when he is done, fiam that is it, sex has happened and she would collect her fare and leave.

Why are they packed outside. Won't they be infecting themselves there.