₦airaland Forum

Desola where have you being to?
Welcome back sha!
Pls be regular.

Yes Jogego, afterall the bible which we believe and on which our marriage is based does not give room for unbelief and suspicion.

My dear people of Nairaland, let us get to this topic proper.
Are we talking of couples working in the organization? Tayotina mentioned that, while Eniolatj said same profession.

For couples working with same organization I will not subscribe to that.
But may I tell you there is absolutely nothing wrong with couples being in the same profession for God's sake.
Let's get this clear, the reasons given above depends solely on the the profession they are.
Like someone said that if the two are to be accountant they might not have time for their children which will definitely have some effects on them - agreed.

But that doesn't out people from other profession to marry each other.
I've seen people who are in the same profession and are couples.
My former boss who worked with few years ago is medical doctor - gynecologist while his wife is medical doctor too - paediatrician. They are happily married, doing great.

Femi Falana an arduous lawyer, an activist married a lawyer. His wife was his counsel during Oputa panel. They are doing great. The money which suppose to go another man's pocket for defense was saved.

My father, a renowned educationist married a teacher which really helped us(we the children)and we are doing well education wise and finaciall things are much more better now. I can beat my chest for them they are great.

If I see anyone from my profession and if she's OK for why not?
That means I will run my Clinic with ease.

Profession is should not be a barrier to marriage.

Dablessed thank you for consoling us.
We've put this at our back and now ready to move on.
Every disappointment is a blessing in disguise so they said.

Thanks for being there always to support in kind.

Ha a! Are you nursing the ambition? What else will I do bless the union and enjoy Nairaland party.

What will you do if Seun turns you down?

Mamba, Oh I pray you never have one. It's so painful especially when both of you were in good terms but got knocked out by an uncontrollable circumstance.

But I believe the wound will heal soon when I hook up a big fish. On the march again.

Haba Kazey, It will never happen, it does it should a night mare I will simply go back to sleep to reawake again.

What will you do you're the owner and manager of Nairaland?

I will just send you hypnotics from here so that you have a deep sleep

What will you do if Nigeria becomes a full Islamic nation like Iraq,Saudi Arabia?

Ra:
The head of the relationship......; whoever the caps fits...... man/woman

Can a woman be the leader/breadwinner of the family?
I think man is and woman should support.
Ra, what do you think?

Pinky, you just want to an open wound.
I've shared part of it.

i was into a relationship back when I was in school, the lady I loved so mush. I will never speak bad of her. She has everything you can think of a woman. She's from a well to do family though but she doesn't brag about it despite the fact that I came from parents who are teachers he was respecting me i mean respect.

Anytime her brother sends her money from abroad she would let me know and give me 2/3 of the total money sent and upon that she buys my wears, buys food for me and at times, not always, cooks for me, telling to concentrate on my studies. Infact she treats me like a real husband. We had the vision and we were working towards that.
To cut things short, her parents wants her to travel abroad after her education here in Nigeria.

She told her dad she will want to introduce her would be hus, this scared me when he told me.
She wanted to marry after her graduation before embarking on any journey according to her if at all she will go. she was not intoxicated to travel and never excited her.

I called her and told her about my background, that my parents will want me to look for job first and help them train my younger ones so marriage was not going to be visible.

She was shedding tears and I was even more emotional even now.
When she discovered that I was not bending, she was not coming to me as usual. I told her friends and my friends talked to her she said she had a target for herself and not ready to play games with her future.

I summoned courage to travel to the village in order to get my parents informed, when I got home it was my mother first, she did help us to perfect our strategy before our dad.
After telling her she told me my father's aim was far different. she told she was helpless to help sell this idea to my dad.
I then gave up and went to to appeal to exercise a little patience at least to let me get job first.
All pleas hit the rock.
So she left, she only visited me when my friend told her I was sick. She came with provisions, cards and all the likes.
I still pleaded on my sick bed, and told there was nothing serious, she said I was the one holding the relationship.
After some months she surfaced asking me whether i was ready and I still mentained No!
Her parents were ready to finance this wedding but what of after wedding? Who will be feeding the family?

A year later she found another person who was so lucky to take her to an alter.
With agony of mind i was in this wedding, it surprised you?
I loved her. But I was not able to stay longer than necessary, I could not withstand them exchanging rings and cutting cakes. I left earlier in the church service. I dropped my gifts to a friend to help me present it to her.

To cut it short, we met few years ago at Convention ground in Lagos so amazing with her beautiful kids, a boy and a girl. They are pretty childen. thank God I had money on me i gave the kids some money and she said "Hun the money I was afraid of is what I am now spending for another man's kids instead of mine" It touched me i left the place than expected. though we exchange phone number and e mail adds. She's currently in US with her husband. she still calls and I do too. the family paid me a visit before they travelled. But i do not know whether she actuall told her husband about me. The hus knows me as a friend. they are born again and the family is great,doing well.
But I wish to say hi to them when next i travel.
Till today it's not being thesame.
So guys hold your baby tight because what you do not value another man is ready to die for her.

How i wish.......................................well i'm catching one soonest. I'm just believing God.........................................

This is amazing.
Ones failure is another man's success.

calabarman, I don't think women attach much importance about male child, rather it is the we men that do that. Women attach importance on female rather than male child.

Don't lie about your age because a certain won't accept you for who and what you are. If she goes wait for your God's given lady. may be she's not meant for you.

I think I start to regret the glo I doled out.
I might be tempted to buy another glo line soon than expected.
having dual line is fine but I don't fancy carrying two handsets at a time.
Neither do I like dual line in one set, it's cracy to me. because each time
want to switch over to other line they cut certain amount in your credit.

Kudos to Glo and congrats to the beneficiaries. MTN wake up!!!!Now!!!!!

It's biting me.

Sade this is in depth but if one does not know all these before it will be hard to read and practice. So it better this teaching goes with demonstration or practical. But no demonstration room in this house.

Oh! I wish I were in school once again. We've got our demonstration room and dummy and........

You remind me some things, I will share them here someday.

It will work but I think you will need to adjust the voltage.
We use high voltage here and theirs are low.

Ha! things are really happening. Honestly I'm hearing this kind of treat for the very first time. Where was I when all these were happening?

I hate injustice, I would have fought for the victims, not minding if the person can crush me.

Girl sha! when they suppose to fall for one dying for them iro ni they will either fall for money.
No be money that your friend dey look for. E don see the guy with may be mece oloye

Somebody is dying for them pursuing them on the net and phone yet they won't consider him until bobo olowo discard them.

What a pity? Who get head no get cap. who get cap no get head. Aye yi o d'ogba. Fingers are not equal.

Ha HND Holder! any way I agree with you there are fake pastors but there are truthful ones too.
Tithes is to further the work of God here on earth, for the widows, widowers, motherless, orphans e.t.c
And it's God's command. So mine is to pay and is left for the pastor his ministers to use it judiciously.

So this guy is still much alive? It's good for him.
But send down the rain made him.

@Ra you mean you fall in love with somebody and it eventually work? How did you people pursue it to a logical conclusion?

How far is the distance? Within thesame country?

I have more if you answer these.

Life goes on. I have many home and away.


What will you do if you suddenly come intact with trillions of pounds on your fam land?

Ok can someone divulge to us the conditions under which we were forgiven or pardoned of this dept?

mohammad Buhari said it might be one of the conditions that will not favour the common men such as devaluation of our currencies.

But Baba said the pardon did not come on a platter of gold. He said some names of our highly placed people have been given to him by Paris club, these people are the ones still misbehaving, engaging in Money laundry and siphoning public funds.

He said they will soon face EFCC.

I suggest one of the conditions is to fight corruption to the bearest minimum. Which is good for the country.

But the issue of devaluation of our currency I do not know and Baba did not say anything like that.

It will never happen I tell you and if it does it's for all of us so hiding place.

What will you do if you have a Nairaland lover?

Makgod did not follow history, the enmity of US with Iraq is a long ago.
Not 9/11, not terrorism as speculated.
Na oil Us follow go Iraq.

Someone to give us ABC of kissing.

Techniques and methods.
Types and kinds.

Experts of kissing are here.

I thought........I.............

May be she believed everything was okay by faith.

You the Bible says if you in Christ you become a new creature old things are past awat behold all things are beacome new.
She might believe she has new live and new womb.
Don't you think so.?