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ronald4lif:
Hey Chioma, biko tell your parents I'll be coming with my people to see them in 2weeks to ask for your hand in marriage and formalise our relationship. Case closed. Ende.

If that one no do her na she sabi, wetin concine me?

Who get time for all those attention-seeking, society ostentatiousness and crowd-pleasing proposal stunt.

When you are ready, you wont remember this post. Lol hahaha that's how they'll be forming. When the time comes see them on one knee with a car lol

Speak for yourself.

1. A car:- I have one. I don't need his

2. Money: Yup I have. I don't need his

3. Apartment:- Yes we won't live under d bridge would we?

4. Good job:- Yes he shouldn't be a liability now should he?

5. Strong Dick:- No. It makes me laugh too much so I don't like it. And it gives me bad dreams. Last time I dreamt I was in a wedding and all the guest had dick heads. So no no no

So lady speak for thyself. Not everyone is like thee

BoiledHead:
Gold digging hoe.

For real? You want to start with me tonight? Are you high or something?

Get lost. I wont give you that attention you crave

It's a good thing.

At least the business he set up is still there. Or would he take it away? That's another thing.

He can always go to hell as long as he doesn't take away all that he gave

bolaji3071:
Red fool... Idiot

Cc Mynd44 lalasticlala Rocktation

Rule 2 violation

firstking01:
i hope you ve truely repented from....
TheTeamKeepCalmAndDateForeignGirls

Not really. I am only stressing my opinions and it's people who take it personal.

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Women cheat for a lot of reasons and I would begin from the least to the top

8.) Lack of attention:- How long can you go without receiving love and attention before you look somewhere else? Some can go for only days or weeks, and others can go for years. However, in general, women need and desire intimacy, physical touch, mental and emotional attention. A woman who is not receiving this tends to look elsewhere within a matter of time. Especially one who doesn't have kids.

7.) Revenge:- My friend once told me she cheated on her husband in their living room just to have her revenge.

Being cheated on is a very difficult act to forgive. For those of you who have been cheated on, you know how awful it feels. You feel deceived, hurt, angry, sad, numb and even violated. It also affects your self-esteem. At the moment, you find out your man cheated, your whole body begins to shake, you begin to sweat, your stomach drops, and you feel nauseated.

As a result, many women cheat and make it known so their partner could feel and understand how they felt too when he cheated. However, cheating doesn't solve the problems of a relationship

6.) Financial Independence:- When a woman is financially dominated by her partner, she tends to have no say in anything. No matter how she feels about it. It's also more difficult to leave the relationship because she would wonder where she would go.

However, women are making their own money today as we see lots of women on Forbes and many more stock indexes of how rich they are. So such women may not really give a damn about their partner as the ego to do whatever it is they wish takes over them which may lead them to cheat on their partner with that hot guy they met at the gym the other day and the partner can't do anything about it at most leave the relationship which they obviously don't care about.

5.) No appreciation:- According to some studies, 67% of scholars say that women value relationships more than men in most cases. So when a woman does everything to make her partner sleep with a smile on his face every day and doesn't get a "thank you" or "please" or "I love you", it hurts. Women have a threshold to which they can withstand such and once it's reached they would get the "I love you" from someone else

I remember a lady who cheated with her driver because her husband doesn't say thanks for anything she does. Like it's he's right. She divorced the husband and married the driver and now they have kids. Guess the driver says thanks.

4.) Bad Sex:- Women need to feel desired and experience REAL orgasms during sex. If women are getting bad sex, not enough sex, non-emotional sex, or "wham-bam-thank-you-mam" sex, you may eventually lose interest in the relationship and look elsewhere for GOOD sex! This creates a temptation to seek sexual or emotional satisfaction elsewhere. In my opinion, it's best to communicate your needs to your man with the hopes that he will step it up a notch. You can do this on your own or with the help of a sex therapist.

3.) High Libido:- When I was still a kid my father told me that any girl who likes sex is a prostitute. But growing up I realize that isn't the case. Lots of women have a high sexual urge even more than men but it's easy to hide and "package" unlike men who can't.

If a woman isn't getting enough rounds of sex as she pleases she tends to look elsewhere. The sex may be good but if the number of times is not enough she might just migrate.

My friend once told me his girlfriend resulted in to paying him so he can lay with her 4 times a day, everyday. He refused, she dumped him.

2.) Boredom:- This I cannot explain because when a woman is bored, lots of things tend to happen. Lots of therapists have confirmed that 30% breakup or divorce cases due to cheating has been as a result of boredom. Even I don't understand. Let's leave that


1.) What do you think is number 1 reason?

Lalasticlala share your thoughts.

Fake! Video or recording voice of her saying it otherwise this is bullshit.

Some guy just pulled this stunt with his fellow guy. Useless bloggers

Useless post...

1. You did not post the full thing looking for cheap traffic. Trash

2. SO she should not change appearance again because she has a boyfriend abi? I don't know why these days people post trash

3. Ok she must be hanging out all the time abi? When she doesn't she is cheating ba? Abeg next thread

aoyih:
This indeed is the diary of a pained lady...she's writing in frustration and bitterness...I feel ur angst.

You want to deny all that is stated there?

Perverts

frenchwine:
Bia greene66 , is it by force to roll with a naija guy? Why all this wailing like we the 5% citizens?
I don't know in which corner of earth you live and got ur fact buh what we observe is that naija men are more preferrable to other races, get a grip of your emotions and seek out the nearest Kenyan man.

To other races? Example?

I was walking the street and something just came upon me. The fact that Nigerian men are not lovable. Infact, nigerian men are like 3 year old Japanese boys.

1. They are perverted:- All a nigerian man want from you is sex. Infact they marry for s3X that's why they cheat on their fat wives at home with sexy slim uni students. They can't get enough of that young puss.y

2. They are unromantic:- A nigerian man would rather fvck you on a weekend than take you shopping. Watch them call me a gold digger now. That's their favorite phrase "gold digger" because they are broke niggas. They don't know how to mAke a woman happy. All they know is to buy you something worth N1500 and expect some love in return like they did something big.

3. They don't satisfy women in bed:- They only care about themselves. Some of them would last only 2 mins some 3 mins some even 1 fvcking minute. And just get up and leave forgetting the woman that was below them . Nigerian men are very mean when fvcking. They only care about their satisfaction. It's only a Nigerian man that will tell you "Screaming means you like it" for real? It turns them on when you scream and cry.. who does that? all they care about is that their d!ck nothing else. They molest your breasts and other important areas without even considering if you are enjoying it or not.

4. Nigerian men are broke:- Yesss.. how much is their salary? In this present economy how many of them even have jobs? You see them on the street looking for the lady to fvck because they are jobless and as a result they are broke. Any lady who cannot keep up with their "brokeness" is a gold digger. I hear. But when they are rich they won't talk gold digger. Hypocrites.

5. They are hypocrites:- They complain and call any lady who express her feelings for them a wh0re and a cheap Slut but at the same time, they would still take advantage of that same lady. They would woo you and still go tell their friends how much of a Slut you are when you lay with them.

6. They are cheats:- Nigerian men cheat on their wives more.

7. They are misogynists:- It's only a Nigerian man that would tell his fvcking wife to resign from her place of work simply because they are married. Only a nigerian man would complain that his wife keeps late but nobody complain when he comes back 2am. It's only a nigerian man that would tell you fvcking your gf or wife by force is not rape.

So keep calm and love foreign men!

Disclaimer:- This is not my opinion, its a fvcking FACT! And im not responsible for this post. Yeah go fvck yourself.

dracosith:
that's not true. U might have add a rough experience yet it aint right to generalize.

All Nigerian men are the same. And I've not had any experience

Nigeria men are the worst.

This whole post is invalid

Broke ass nigga

foolinlove:
The title of the thread is WHERE black is not beautiful.

Study conducted in South Africa. Which has a history of apartheid and monstrous racism.

Even though apartheid is over, many link white skin with success, due to the lasting bad attitudes toward black ppl - meaning white ppl still enjoy many privileges over black ppl.

Maybe this is less to do with beauty (which is in the eye of the beholder) and has more to do with racism. Black ppl feel they can't be successful in that particular country without having light skin, so they bleach in a desperate attempt to enjoy success via privilege.

It's sad. Black ppl are gorgeous the way they are. Everyone is gorgeous the way they were born, in the way God made them.

Lol

TheBestChamp:
He's afraid the mom might brainwash d daughter against him

So because of his fear the child should not be with her mother? That is selfish

opeaceo:
Black is beautiful because he thinks so, do you have any problem with that?

Honestly, Se_un needs to start charging people for threads created, maybe, just maybe the number of senseless_ thread would reduce.

1. Because he thinks so doesn't make black beautiful. He should bring facts. I gathered facts around from reliable sources to produce my article he can do the same. That's a debate. You don't say you think so. Chai

2. Even if Seun charge to create thread I would still create thread. I'm a member of some forte forums whereby you pay weekly to be a member so it's no big deal

Lol

A child is entitled to her mother. Why deny her that?

ForeverYoung197:
Oh OK. So what's with these white ladies you really like about OP?

Didn't you learn debate in school? Did I mention anywhere in this article that I like white ladies?

OK is all you have to say to the article then ask me what I like about white ladies. Smh for you. It's only no bra and no pant day you know. Simple intellectual debate you cannot pull off

Nazaretha:
Ah ah! I forgot Seun is courting your elder sister, Mr White. Ban ko, banner ni.

Meanwhile, black is beautiful. If your mum was black, you'd understand.

1. I have no sister.

2. Can you tell me what makes black beautiful? No wonder many of you are still in 200level at 24.

fkpboss:
There are two phones : Samsung S7 and iPhone 6, because I prefer Samsung S7 to the iPhone doesn't mean that iPhone is not beautiful

Sir, I'm sure you didn't read the thread. No part of the article mentioned 'I don't like black' or 'I prefer white'

Nigerians.. smh

South Africa is marketed to the world as Mandela's rainbow nation, where everyone is proud of their race and heritage. But for some black South Africans there is such a thing as being too black.

A recent study by the University of Cape Town suggests that one woman in three in South Africa bleaches her skin. The reasons for this are as varied as the cultures in this country but most people say they use skin-lighteners because they want "white skin".

Local musician Nomasonto "Mshoza" Mnisi, now several shades lighter, says her new skin makes her feel more beautiful and confident.

She has been widely criticised in the local media and social networking sites for her appearance but the 30-year-old says skin-bleaching is a personal choice, no different from breast implants or a having nose job.

In many parts of Africa and Asia, lighter-skinned woman are considered more beautiful, are believed to be more successful and more likely to find marriage.

The origin of this belief in Africa is not clear, but researchers have linked it to Africa's colonial history where white skin was the epitome of beauty.

Some have also suggested that people from "brown nations" around the world tended to look down upon dark-skinned people.

The World Health Organization has reported that Nigerians are the highest users of bleaching products: 77% of Nigerian women use the products on a regular basis. They are followed by Togo with 59%; South Africa with 35%; and Mali at 25%.

This, however, has installed the idea that black isn't beautiful.

If you like, result to insults and name calling instead of intellectual debate, you would be banned.

MilesLamar:
I can't remember saying we ain't frnds Mr Green66.. so dha fück you saying bro?

1. I am not Mr.

2. I never mentioned that you said you ain't friends did I?

3. So wtf are you now saying?

Grow up kid

Just like the person above mentioned, every female has right to reject you irrespective of how great or nice you were to her. She owes you nothing.

There is no such thing as friendzone. Man up and move on. Besides you are still friends.

Your disclaimer alone makes your story fake. If truly you need advise I don't think you would be bothered about who believes it or not. You would only be interested in the reasonable comments. So trying so hard to prove you are legit makes it fake to me.