Stillwhites: If this is coming from a woman like my wife, then I know my next step. Thank you ma'am.
AND WHAT MAKES YOU THINK THAT A WOMAN WROTE THIS? DO YOU KNOW IF IT WAS A GIRL/LADY WHO HAS NEVER BEEN MARRI3D? JUMPING INTO CONCLUSIONS WITHOUT PROPER PERUSAL ON SOCIAL MEDIA ADVICES/COMMENTS CAN COST YOU MORE THAN YOU BARGAIN FOR OGA.
DaInferno: I'm no pastor...but things like this sha. Its a nice gesture, very good and commendable.
But people just think they are wise- wiser than God even. Baba say bring 1/10 to my household and keep 9 and do whatever you please with it.
Not building houses with His 10%
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People quoting bible for me and/or asking me where what I said is in the Bible don't even pay tithe or help the needy .
I'm not dragging anything with anybody. That one no consign me. I no get strength for epistles . Yall just like quoting the verses that best suit you.
Get this, whether you build 100 houses for people without paying your tithe, God is still gonna question you. He's ways are not ours.
As far as I'm concerned, that "kind" lady ate her 90% and used God's 10% to build house for some body.
You can do whatever you want with 90% such as giving, building etc. ... But 10 is for God. Even if most "men of God" mismanage this funds, that's between them and Him.
Festus30: did you say just 21k? I've done lots of things for that girl. 21k is nothing compared to the things I've been doing for her since we started dating.
I dont know the kind of orientation you have while growing up but the nos 1 mistake a man can make in life is sacrificing a lot for a lady that is neither your mother, sister (or wife). Even the wife aspect is debatable.
Sacrificing for your girlfriend (who hasnt any bond with you) is one of the greatest mistakes ever.
Thank God for your life though. If you had done anything regrettable, the ripple effect would have been more than you envisioned.
Darren95: I had femur fracture on my left leg and it’s been difficult to move around the house and get things done because I can’t put weight on the operated leg until the fracture heals.
There is this lady friend I knew last year. Back then I tried persuading this lady friend to let me have a shot from her honey pot but she refused. Honestly back then I was only interested in her honey pot nothing more because I’m not ready for a committed relationship at this stage of my life.
Nearly 2 months after I had the surgery, i called this lady friend (we have not been talking for close to a year) and told her I had accident. She immediately book a car and came to my house to see me. I was surprised and appreciated her quick response. I told her how it happened and that my two friends (guys) have been the ones helping. I told her I would be glad if she comes around to care for me while I heal as I can’t get food from the kitchen myself because I can’t step on my both legs due to the surgery. I live alone in my two bedroom apartment.
Omo starting from that day she started caring and didn’t leave until 5 days later. She said she was going to her home town and she needed to see her 2yrs old daughter (she got pregnant while in a relationship with her ex).
The issue on ground now is that, ever since she returned she has not gone to her own house where she rented. She has been in my house doing virtually everything and my both friends have left (they are business men). I was tempted to approach her for sex and she gave me smoothly without complain unlike before. I was like, look at you when I was healthy you didn’t let me have your honey pot, but now you gave it to me without stress! Hmmm we laughed over it.
But the rate at which this lady friend is taking care of me is scaring, she does everything to the point that I can’t remember the last time I opened a bottle water myself. She does it for me, the only thing I do is bath myself! Few days ago my guy who was with me came with his female friend to pay me a visit and omo this my lady friend was looking at this girl with all force and frown on her face. I mean the looking was like; ‘’who is this girl, does she have parol with me’’ you know that kind of look.
It pissed me off and since then I have been feeling irritated. I mean we are not dating, has she taken this too far inside her heart!
I’m thinking of moving her out but I don’t have a perfect option In getting someone I can trust like her to take care of me especially because I’ve not started walking. Will this turn out to be a problem tomorrow? I only had sex with her ones and refuse to ever do it again because of this. I always tell her I will appreciate you with something very nice when I heal completely, that I appreciate her support and that if she has anything to do, she can go and do it and come back but NO she never left my house and i asked myself what was she doing before I called her??!! To even ask her say Watin you Dey before I call you, tire me because e go look like say I dey tell her to go!!!
Be careful about hurting dat lady oh.. If u try anything funny with her emotions, just no say u nor fit run go anywhere (literally)..
ahnie: Kids they say can be naughty at times,but in this case,I refused to CAP.
This morning my kids(daughter) really got on my last remaining isoko nerves,and I was furious spitting missiles and RPG.
Out of anger,I had to get them food each in their coolers and I sent my son who spent time there playing, forgetting he has to go to school.I deliberately refused getting them snacks just to punish them.
They returned back from school,my son,my son requested for roasted plantain,and beans and Ugba as lunch.
Whilst my daughter requested for noodles and fried egg.i even went extra miles of adding 3 meats to my boys order and completely forgot to include *Ugba**
Like play,like play my boy refused to eat the food because I forgot to add *ugba* Just to appease him I even added fanta cola to bribe him,he still insisted**Mummy m not going to eat.
Omo,no time,I gave my daughter her own and devour his meal....make he go sip garri flakes I don't have time for rubbish.
He said...m not a good mother
I want to know if m a bad mother,by helping him to eat his food?
First pics....the food that caused the lacuna. 2nd pic....The bribe fanta cola 3rd pics...me helping him to chow the cornerstone meal he aptly rejected
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I know you trying to get some likes and comments and possbly get some people to laff over what you boy did and how you handled it but u shld try to educate your child to ALWAYS APPRECIATE what you are able to get him. Make him understand that you and his dad did not get the food for free.
He doesnt have to understand what the country is going through at this moment of his life so as not to limit/curtail his bubbling spirit because dis country can die someone's spirit tru tru... But with time, he will learn. dem nor dey tell person. some things are taught..some are better when learnt.
Teach him to be thankful to the giver of life who made it possible for his parents to be able to provide food for him to eat.
LalastiklaIa: I will tell you a story my General overseer told the youths sometime ago.
There was a professor in the university who had a very intelligent and beautiful daughter. And there was an unserious boy in her class let us call him Alaba. One way or the other Alaba manoeuvres his way into sleeping with and impregnating this professor's precious daughter.
When it was time to deliver the baby. The professor took his daughter to the hospital and waited eagerly for her to give birth. All the while he was waiting he was just pacing to and fro in the hospital and then the news finally came that his daughter has been delivered of a baby girl. He took the baby dressed it and put it in a comfortable basket drove to Alaba's house knocked his door and dropped his baby for him when he came out and zoomed off. He had already prepared Visa for his daughter and the next day he flew her abroad to continue her education.
So I support you taking your daughter and giving her care. Let those people take care of their own daughter. Don't let anyone guilt trip you sir
I am not sure if your GO supports that action or he was just trying to point out a fact for you guys... but if your GO supports what the professor did, i am sorry to say but both of them a freaking mad..
Survivor2020: My 17 years old brought shame to me last year she got pregnant, I have disowned her and sent her packing. She is staying with her boyfriend in his family home.
She gave birth 5 months ago she has been sick ever since she had the baby and the boyfriend doesn't have any money to take care of her. Plus the living condition is not suitable for her in her condition.
I have forgiven her and I want to take her back home so I can take her to the hospital for treatment but I don't want her to come with her baby. Please note there is only me and my 7 years old son at home. I work and my son goes to school till 5pm.
I don't have time to babysit the baby. I want the father to take care of his child while I take care of mine. I hope my decision is not bad?
A lot of factors could accumulate to result in what happened to you, your girl and your home...
1... its obvious that there is no woman in your home else, no sane woman would let go of her child to the wolves even if she has done wrong.
2.., How do you think your daughter would feel if you take her back and not her baby? do u think she will ever get well even if she gets all the treatment at the hospital?
3... I won't be surprised if the said boyfriend is an adult in the neighbourhood who exploited the innocence of your girl while you were busy working away from home. At least, you have to feed your family nah? abi?
4. I am sure your girl has learnt her lesson one way or the other. You just have to live with the reality of what is on ground.
if you have the means, find a way to employ a woman who can help to take care of your daughter and her baby during the day and go back to her place in the evenings. Your girl is too young to be a mother. I dont know where her mother is but she needs an older woman in her life right now to put her thru what it takes to be a woman and especially a MOTHER,
Over a period of time, your girl too would learn how to handle the baby even when the woman is not around. person wey fit open legs gats learn how to be responsible for the consequences of her actions.
I dont know the kind of boy or guy the boyfriend is but what he and ur girl had decided to abort the baby and it resulted into something else? How would you have felt if you had lost her should she try to abort the baby? abi u think d boy go get money to employ the service of a verified doctor to perform the d&c? at least , u av to give them credit for not making that decision.
let go of your bitterness and self regret or your stand that you must make sure the boy also learns his lesson by taking care of his child. Face your daughter and take care of your GRAND CHiLD. A baby in a home is a thing of joy.
A time will surely come, when you will look back and thank your stars for letting your grand child stay under your roof.
Dont forget to note that your 7 year old son is also a record holder as one of the youngest uncles in the world.. Great things are already happening....
mariahAngel: To be honest, your brother's wife disrespected her husband by sending him on such an errand in your presence. She belittled her own husband. Couples should learn to treat each other with respect, especially in front of others. Show others how to respect your spouse.
Op, as much as it hurt you to see that, try to stay out of it. It is their business. Also, that should not stop you from respecting your elder brother.
Romanoff: Stay out of their business. If your brother ever complains to you that his wife treats him badly and he's not happy, then you can give him advice.
If not, stay out of married people's business.
As long as she's not disrespectful to the man, stay out of their business. Them go soon settle their issue turn am for your head.
I KNEW IT WAS A FEMALE THAT WOULD SAY THIS...EVEN WITHOUT CHECKING THE GENDER OF THE WRITER..
Is telling a man to go and check if someone that sells provision is back not an insult? Once might be an incident, two a coincidence. What would you term "this is not the first time?"
If it was the man telling the woman to go and cook for him in the middle of d night, won't it be termed cruelty? Respect shld be mutual...not one sided.
Somethings are unusual.. the elder brother has lost it..
Vahat: We got married two years ago. My challenge is that my partner has a higher sexual drive and love sex so much.
Ever since we do make love,she has never for once be the one to say she is satisfied and that I should stop despite that most time it takes me between 10 to 25 minutes atimes to cum. The highest I can recall that i stayed long was 32minutes before I cum, yet in all these it looks to her as if I have not started the work and she feel disappointed anytime I cum because from her body language;she demands more and can withstand even up to one and half hours to 2hours before she can be satisfied and I can't go such.
I tried all I can but honestly I don't feel like a man for not even for once tell me or appreciate me on bed by telling me 'thank you, please cum na, your have stayed long,I am satisfied etc but will always rather willing to consume more and more despite that she needs sex most time and I responds to her demand. Even when I am tired and sweating profusely I keep on just to please her and I am getting fed up over this. I have never taken sex enhancement drug and will never take such.
I don't want to complain to her about. her insatiable sexual drive and how stressful it is riding on me to avoid her hiding her sexual feelings to me or taken it as insult or hurt her feelings and at the same time the fear of her looking for satisfaction from elsewhere. Please advise on how to handle this challenge.
Let her ride you. You will be surprised most of these ladies only love being on d receiving end. Let her be the one to do the riding and you will see how quickly tiree she would be..