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Business › Re: I Collected A Customer's Phone Because He Couldn't Pay, Now I'm Bothered by gregyboy(m): 11:53am On Sep 06, 2025 |
Tharmon: I work as a sales boy in a shop were curtain accessories are sold and in this line of business some customers tend to owe not because they don't have but because they don't want to.
So there is this man that I know and he owes other people too, he should be in his forties and I'm 21, so he bought goods from my shop today worth #60k and told me he will pay me once he gets back from were he wants to use the items he bought so he decided to drop his phone because I didn't allow him to carry my goods without paying. so this evening when he arrived he was sweating and complaining that the customer has not paid blah blah blah..as usual of them
He couldn't even pay up the person that went to work with him complete. He tried explaining to me sweating and all that that what is left in his account is #35k which he paid to me but I didn't allow him to go with his phone, I turned deaf ears to his ranting and assured him he is not leaving there with his phone without paying the remaining balance of #25k. He had no other choice than to leave without his phone and now am worried if I have done something wrong .
Was I wrong to keep his phone? What would have been the right action I would have taken because I'm feeling very bad now like what will he tell his wife about his phone. Next time don't just give the goods instead on credit |
Family › Re: My Grandma In 1971 Vs Me In 2025 by gregyboy(m): 9:01pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
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Culture › Re: Edo Origin Of The Word Egusi And Its Deep Root To Her Culture by gregyboy(op): 1:16pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
AreaFada2: Tribalists will never accept this journal article. They will call it a hoax.
Populationist goons will ask what is the population of Benin to have named melon oigisi/egusi?  Luckily they didn't debate it Funny enough we for saw the future of the oyi rivalry with the rest yorubas which is playing iut now |
Education › Re: Hi, I Just Got An Admission Into Russian University ,but I Was Ask To Pay FMS? by gregyboy(m): 8:10am On Aug 30, 2025 |
HeyMeNot: War sef naa education now  I dey tell you as e land Russia dem go give aka47 as biro |
Christianity Etc › Re: We're Not Your Wives, Stop Using Us As Bedmates– Rev'd Sister Tells Priests by gregyboy(m): 8:17am On Aug 26, 2025 |
Kobicove: Sometimes when a person gets repeatedly violated it gets to a point when he/she just damns the consequences and fights back! Violated what your meaning of violation, i see no violation in the post |
Phones › Re: Countries That Have Blocked Or Restricted Whatsapp: Full List And Reasons by gregyboy(m): 10:32pm On Aug 14, 2025*. Modified: 3:30pm On Aug 17, 2025 |
Rexymania: Ban it in Nigeria too and allow us grow our own app Nooe, so this corrupt government will finsh us kpatakpata with apc modified news |
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Politics › Re: Nigerian Civil War Picture Of Nigerian Soldier Captured By Biafrans And Spared.. by gregyboy(m): 1:13pm On Aug 11, 2025 |
phantomxx: 😂 😂.....
....Anyway, the greatest mistake Ojukwu made was asking a Yoruba man- Victor Banjo to lead the west ward advance of Biafran troops.
That mistake was the single most significant factor that ended up changing the trajectory of that war.
It also lends credence to the fact that the events that led to that war were more ideological than tribal...
How else would you explain a Yoruba man being asked to lead an offensive on his region? It was the right thing |
Politics › Re: Tribes The British Respected During Colonial Rule in Africa by gregyboy(m): 6:22pm On Aug 10, 2025*. Modified: 9:45am On Aug 11, 2025 |
okpouman: point of correction ,am not igbo,neither Yoruba nor Benin,but from kogi. Britain did not attack African kingdoms indiscriminately,even though people think that way.
They always signed treaties and expected the kingdom to comply with the treaty,if the kingdom did not comply,they'll move in and attack,benin refused to comply with the british after they signed a treaty,The philip consul wanted to intimate the oba of the need to comply,but they were ambushed and killed.Therefore the british decided to move in and punish the oba and benin.
The reasons britain moved against ashanti and south africa earlier is that the ashanti were fund of raiding and attacking the british establishments and british subjects -the fante,the same reason they moved against the zulus because the zulus always raided and attacked British possessions.Thats why Britain attacked them earlier than benin and most nigerian kingdoms,because they enjoyed favourable trade along the nigerian coast,when trade became unfavourable they attacked,eg the case of the ijebu,nana of itserikiri and the nembe of ijaw before benin.
The Benin never raided or attacked British possessions eg their trade factories along the coast,that's why Britain let them be,not because they were afraid of Benin like you claim. But the britsh made the moves that insulted the anshanti, britsh establishing a protectorate in the gold coast was an indirect way to say no one could match us, so they did what they liked Britsh made peace in the Niger coast because they were big boys in the coast compared to the gold coast and Zulu coast, but they couldn't hide their ambition for long and attacked lagos, when lagos was attacked and taken over by the britsh they still allowed the benin get their commission from lagos terms of trade and customary activities, not to anger benin... Benin was a big treat to them complains from Neigbouring tribe like itsekiri, ijaw ibos across about benin blockade, go and check... The britsh didn't do anything but rather adjusted... To what they can cope with... Going to war with then benins was possible without mention gun... But it would be too expensive and they would have suffered a lost not until the advent of machine gun gave them that advantage that made them attack, the petition of Africa began with the advent of the invention of the machine gun... That's is when they started distributing treaties like flies to Niger coast |
Politics › Re: Tribes The British Respected During Colonial Rule in Africa by gregyboy(m): 11:28am On Aug 10, 2025 |
okpouman: Very untrue,Britain did not attack Benin because they were enjoying factorable trade with Benin not because they were scared to attack,they didn't enjoy such favourable trade in Ghana or SouthAfrica.
Southern Nigeria was booming in palm oil TRADE Haha, favorable trade... Ha you haven't even done your research but yet you sound confidence benin is my tribe so you will relax when i tell you about it.... Britsh never enjoyed favorable trade with benin or any local African tribe... Even if they did man greed is insatiable, the Portuguese stop trading with benin after 200yrs of trade because benin trade with them wasn't favorable if that could be done to Portuguese of all people then who were the britsh.... Benin controlled all coast European ship were stationed in the Niger coast so meaning benin controlled all price in their favour and several complain from other ethnic group were constantly coming and was ignored by European because they didn't want a fight not until the invention of the machine gun of 1884, the European had the advantage over Africa they went for the Berlin conference that year and petition for Africa to be scrumbled...already they had attacked other kingdoms like Ashanti and Zulu for selfish reasons to control their territory and trade earlier, ask yourself even when benin controlled all their trade why didn't there attack benin empire earlier.... Because benin was an empire and the Zulu and Ashanti were kingdoms that grew from slave trade, even when we attack the overzealous Philip and his crew men at the borders, they didn't retaliate instantly they had to wait for their arrival of their powerful weapon, benin trade never favoured European or the other tribe.... But they couldn't do anything.... I know you're igbo and you're a bit learned but tribalism is taking toll on you....
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Politics › Re: Tribes The British Respected During Colonial Rule in Africa by gregyboy(m): 7:51pm On Aug 09, 2025 |
motymop: Stop saying what you don't know.
Equal violence is only what is respected and feared.
The British only respected only those tribes that show equal violence.
It is the same way, the military respect bokoharam and isil and also the American government respect Taliban.
Respect and admiration is only given to those who bring violence to the front.
Those who don't fight, are easily taken advantage of and look down on. Lol... Funny... The so called people you assumed they respected from my knowledge were attacked by the britsh because they believed the people were too easy to take on with their little weapon they had on them they didn't try with bigger empires they knew they couldn't, just like the benin empire they had to wait until the invention of machines guns even when benin attacked them in 1897 they didn't retaliate until they got the weapons from uk to defend themselves, that's respect benin was fallen under months, but of the advantage of the machine gun.... That they brought into battle, the weapons they ordered from uk for the benins after bringing down benin was taken to Ghana and South Africa to end the long war they had with them there, |
Politics › Re: Tribes The British Respected During Colonial Rule in Africa by gregyboy(m): 11:12am On Aug 08, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: Tribes The British Respected During Colonial Rule in Africa by gregyboy(m): 9:48pm On Aug 07, 2025 |
adekunle0000: The Yorubas were predominantly engaged in a civil war with themselves. This was what the British took advantage of. Remember the Dosumu problem and the bombardment of Lagos. Do you know the history behind the name "Agidingbi" in Ikeja Lagos? Try and read your own history.
Yes the Oyo empire once had a wide influence and reach but it was on a steady decline at about the time the colonialist came. It was the collapsing influence of the central Oyo empire that led to the internal revolt among the annexed autonomous chiefdoms. Infact the coming of the whiteman prevented or discouraged the overrunning of Yorubaland by the Agojes "the female warriors from Dahomey". Remember Dahomey had already liberated itself from Oyo and was on the raise in might and bounds. It's eyes was set on Oyo, their former Overlords but then, the colonialists came.
Abeg try dey read history, e get why? People wey commot am for curriculum get agenda and from the look of things, it seems they have succeed with you. The oyo was not an empire but a kingdom |
Education › Re: Meet 72-year-old Dr Usman Hadi Who Invented Water Stove “no Kerosene, No Gas” by gregyboy(m): 7:26pm On Aug 07, 2025 |
meobizy: 1. How did he think them up without formal education?
2. Oyibos have already done those and refined them. There is nothing new under the sun. What do you mean? |
Politics › Re: Tribes The British Respected During Colonial Rule in Africa by gregyboy(m): 7:24pm On Aug 07, 2025 |
okpouman: Not true,Benin influence wasn't felt in the Ibibio ,efiks areas,and inland Western yorubaland,it was also minimal in the central and northern igboland,Benin influence was mostly around the coast but not up to efik coast and Dahomey ( in later years) I doubt that |
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Politics › Re: Tribes The British Respected During Colonial Rule in Africa by gregyboy(m): 6:07pm On Aug 07, 2025 |
okpouman: They didn't invade any Nigerian state,except the very coastal states like LAGOS before the invention of maxim guns not only BENIN Because of the fear of the benin empire even when lagos was invaded lagos continued her activities with the benins, like they were not in the britsh control, not until benin was brought down that lagos came fully under their control and they stopped lagos from paying homage to benin.... The Niger coast was one of the most densely populated African areas in the past, so daring to attack it was failure coupled with the fact that was an empire that could crush them, they only tried Invading areas that they knew could easily be won |
Politics › Re: Tribes The British Respected During Colonial Rule in Africa by gregyboy(m): 6:00pm On Aug 07, 2025 |
okpouman: Partially true but the Benin were not in control of all Nigeria ,they were not even in control of Edo state as it is today,you people forget that the Nupe under Fulani leadership invaded up to esan land,is it the British whom the Nupe feared that would now be afraid of BENIN? Benin controlled the full southern Nigeria talking of the east, west and south... Tho sre influence are minimum in some areas but empire influence stretch to this area, that's why the European or the britsh didn't go all out invading different coastal community until they were sure they had the weapon that would bring them that advantage |
Politics › Re: Tribes The British Respected During Colonial Rule in Africa by gregyboy(m): 5:49pm On Aug 07, 2025 |
okpouman: The anioma are not mainstream Igbo there are Edo and igala elements even Yoruba element within their ranks Let's not forget they were under the benin empire |
Politics › Re: Tribes The British Respected During Colonial Rule in Africa by gregyboy(m): 5:45pm On Aug 07, 2025 |
okpouman: 42 years, hahaha please read history of the Yorubas by Samuel Johnson. Everything is there. Nnm |
Politics › Re: Tribes The British Respected During Colonial Rule in Africa by gregyboy(m): 5:45pm On Aug 07, 2025 |
okpouman: According to esan historians ,a lot of their communities were destroyed, a lot of their people killed,captured and sold to SLAVERY, that's what I mean by dealt True because it was an invasion, a surprised attack, caught people unaware in their farms, esan are small community not even as big as edo north in today map and they could wade them off, shows the Nupe were not so mighty that benin would have even crippled them back to their hometown and sold all of them as slaves if they were not so occupied, the edo north who lost to them probably were the ones who may have invited them bcus their neighbors overthere are Muslims too, meaning the Nupe succeeded in South West North Central and lost to the edos, the edos were a mighty force no one in Nigeria would have dared |
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Politics › Re: Tribes The British Respected During Colonial Rule in Africa by gregyboy(m): 2:43pm On Aug 07, 2025 |
okpouman: The Nupe dealt severely with the esan though,we can't tell what would have happened if they got to Benin cos they never did.so it remains in the realm of speculation They dealt with Esan and yet they couldn't keep it or capture it what do you then me by the word dealt, invasion is free capturing is the goal |
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Politics › Re: Tribes The British Respected During Colonial Rule in Africa by gregyboy(m): 1:11pm On Aug 07, 2025 |
okpouman: Yes No kingdom dead or alive could invade benin in the Niger coast do not be sentimental,.. They invaded in the late 1800 when benin wss occupied with their own civil war and punitive wars with other vassal state, benin-akure happend around this time, probably the esan reported to benin they gsve them the little assistance they could give them because benins were occupied in the 1800, the nupe didn't succeed to penetrate esan, that is to tell you how the benin empire was so strong, i don't know why the edo north failed to drive them, as kingdoms drove far way from the benins they become weaker, the benin britsh war happened in the 1897 same year the esan-nupe war, if the benins had defeated the britsh the Nupe invasion of edo north would have been reversed quickly, the entire north would not dare invade benin, benin was at war in many places at thesame time even when the britsh invasion happened benin was at war in akure, and in agbor and other places
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Politics › Re: Tribes The British Respected During Colonial Rule in Africa by gregyboy(m): 12:15pm On Aug 07, 2025 |
okpouman: Partially true but the Benin were not in control of all Nigeria ,they were not even in control of Edo state as it is today,you people forget that the Nupe under Fulani leadership invaded up to esan land,is it the British whom the Nupe feared that would now be afraid of BENIN? Nupe invasion of esan.... |
Politics › Re: Tribes The British Respected During Colonial Rule in Africa by gregyboy(m): 12:01pm On Aug 07, 2025*. Modified: 6:01pm On Aug 07, 2025 |
okpouman: It took nine days for the British to capture and burn down Benin, that is easy defeat 9days were did you read that from.... From igbo ukwu dictionary, the question you should be asking is that why didn't the britsh dare invade benin before the invention of maxim weapons |
Politics › Re: Tribes The British Respected During Colonial Rule in Africa by gregyboy(m): 11:59am On Aug 07, 2025 |
adekunle0000: What about the over 32 years Ekumeku resistance of the Igbo People of eastern Nigeria? There were also active resistance in Northern Nigeria, however shortlived it was. I think the only place there is no record of any skemishes against the colonialist is Yoruba land. The Benin kingdom under Oba Overamie actively fought the whiteman. Jaja of Opobo (an igboman from present day Abia State) put up a stubborn resistance.
Abeg make una dey try read history without sentiment. Truth be told the britsh attacked weaker nationalities and weaker tribes, Ghanaian and South Africans were seen as weaker compared to the benins thats why they attempted to invade them with common weapons in thier disposal they only dare to bring down benin when they invented the maxim weapons that was to their advantage and they never dared to strike until the weapons was brought to shores of the Niger coast, the maxim weapon was invented in 1884 and benin invasion was 1897, they had to write letters to get acess to the machine guns before thry could dare invade benin, and the weapons they got from yhe letters sealed the whole of west african fate because after benin had fallen guess who fell next south Africa and Ghanaian |
Politics › Re: Tribes The British Respected During Colonial Rule in Africa by gregyboy(m): 11:34am On Aug 07, 2025*. Modified: 5:55pm On Aug 07, 2025 |
Baronthecelebri: The reason they defeated Nigeria easily is because of greed, and they were no love among the tribe. Nope because they feared the Benins, the benins controlled the full Nigeria at that time, they knew benin had weapons that could match their weapons and the cost of war with the Niger coast would have been too expensive to risk if they were to risk it, when they finally invaded benin to bring down Nigeria, they already invented the maxim machine gun of 1884 few years later in 1897 the struck benin and the weapon they use in striking benin was what they use in bring down the full Nigeria and taken to Ghana and South Africa they had been fighting for years with crude weapons, that they wouldn't have dare to try to use tbose crude weapons the benins that's why they waited long and patiently sort approval for its arrival |
Politics › Re: Tribes The British Respected During Colonial Rule in Africa by gregyboy(m): 11:10am On Aug 07, 2025 |
Reflect7: Are you aware the Ashanti resisted and fought the British for nearly a century?
They would be extremely proud of their resilience and bravery, and so would you if you actually had something in your skull. What year did Ashanti fall to the britsh and when did the resistance start i want to know |
Politics › Re: Tribes The British Respected During Colonial Rule in Africa by gregyboy(m): 10:15am On Aug 07, 2025 |
motymop: When the British came to Africa, they encountered several tribes that resisted colonization with intense brutality. Interestingly, the British often developed a certain level of admiration or respect for groups that put up a fierce fight even if those tribes were eventually defeated.
Take the Zulus, for example. They went all out against the British, engaging in multiple battles that made Shaka Zulu a legendary warrior-king. His fearless leadership earned the respect of both his people and his enemies. Even today in South Africa, the Zulu monarchy remains one of the most respected traditional institutions.
Another example is the Kikuyus of Kenya. They fiercely opposed British presence during the Mau Mau Uprising, a major revolt that played a key role in pushing the country toward independence. The resistance was so impactful that, in 2013, the British government issued a formal apology for its role in the brutal suppression of the rebellion.
In contrast, while there were pockets of resistance in Nigeria, none were as sustained or as intense as the Zulu or Kikuyu struggles. This may partly explain why many Nigerian tribes didn’t command the same level of reluctant respect from the British.
Resistance came at a price but in the eyes of the colonizers, those who fought back often earned a lasting legacy. The britsh did not respect any African tribe your bravery were all seen as foolishness the ones that didn't fight may have even been more Respected and seen as wise, get thst into your skull |