Frigga13:


After all your gibberish.. and all..

Make Obi come chop President make we see

Una go shout
Biafra or dead tire .. for Nigeria

Common sense it’s not common

Politics is not for igbos

shut up am an edo man....

edo are rallying for Peter obi they there dey point who be igbo or not..... until dem leave you behind

chinjo:
Sir, [s]you are someone I have so much respect for. Forget about people giving you false hopes online. A lot of them does not have PVC. No matter your level of competence, you need the right platform to win ection in Nigeria. How can you win election in Nigeria with a party that does not even control any state in the country. I like your spirit but the truth be told, leaving PDP for Labour party was a very big political miscalculation[/s].

tinubu dem people

Gandollaar:
That commandant was very stupid. Did she kill anybody? Why the man dey call call people!

if she didnt kill anyone then let the husband be the judge

there will never be a room for women's whoreness in our society

TforT19:
My husband and I are married for 4years now and God as really helped us but I am the one who initiate sex most of the time and it often makes me feel unwanted because he sometimes turn me down and it hurts �.
I am always on sexy bumshort, trousers e.t.c yet my guy go lock up.
Recently I found out that he's been cheating on me and it's really getting at me because I have never for once denied him of sex.
But however I am managing the whole situation so it doesn't scatter my home.
But I really want to seek advice
1. should I stop making advancement or initiating sex maybe that will make him wants me.
2. I also want to ask if initiating sex all the time as a woman is okay or I should stop for now.
3. Lastly if a man gets steady love, care, sex, good food and attention home. why then does he cheat?

Guys please kindly advise me on what to do.

threatening him with the fact thst f he cheat again you will cheat in return or you will park out of his house and he has no rigjt to deniel you sex

youre his wife and not a maid

Isabelle16:
This morning, my boyfriend, my first and only boyfriend texted me the message bellow:

"Anyday anytime, feel free to dump me without hesitation if you no longer love me.Don't forget to inform me quickly when you take such decision".

I'm still figuring out what that means.I begin to doubt his love for me.I'm restless.Did he actually love me?

as i guy i have sent my babe this message if she was acting strange asap.....

and her head go correct back

only u can decode the message

mine can be wrong

Kologirl:
The last time I posted, I spoke about me falling in love with the guy who disflowered me about 10 months ago, prior to us having sex, we had a very healthy friendship so I ask him to disflower me because I thought it was time to lose my virginity.
We later fall in love but our differences was something I couldn't look past, for one I'm not religious, don't want marriage and tradition life, he on the other hand was the opposite of me, he was religious, wanted marriage and a tradition Christian family.
I thought we wouldn't have a future together so I posted about it on nairaland hoping for some good advice and thinkful I got some.

Firstly I spoke to him we discussed about the religious, he's a very understanding person and as promised not to focus me into religion, he says he understands that not a lot of people love the idea of religion but he loves being aware that no matter what, someone, somewhere has his back, he says it gives he comfort knowing that he's not alone in life.
I'm a very realistic person and he is a idealistic, but I think the religion part is no longer a source of tension.
Secondly we had to talk about me not wanting marriage. He explained that he grew up in a Christian nuclear home, and he always wanted that for this family, he grew up happy and in a non toxic environment, he grew up being close to both of his parents, there was never a quarrel that ended their relationship, his family was always there for him, he explained that wanted that for his kids. A stable home
I on the other hand doesn't want that, I grew up in a very toxic environment and I Know what can happen if a marriage goes wrong.
So we decided that let's just wait and see. That maybe one day we might get married or not. Let's just see what works for us

I'm so happy I'm in this relationship, like I said we are friends before lovers

Note: I just want to thank some people on nairaland for giving me good and reasonable advise, thanks

Now I noticed a lot of people where asking for my age, telling me to repent, some called my boyfriend a simp, for not hitting and running.
So said he just wanted to continue having sex with me. So called me names Because I choose to lose my virginity. Like Bleep of, it's my body, I choose what happens to it. Some asking me to repent because they don't have the common sense to understand that not everyone wants religion or believes in it.

I really hope it was all you guys internet persona, Because if u guys are really that intolerant of other people choices and Ideology, then we have a big problem in Nigeria.

Thanks for giving me good advice.

you should understand some people are not happy with their life here, if they see anything good they will pour thier hate on it, here is not a goid place to seek advice

the redpillers are number one people to avoid their comment, those people have been hurt severally and they keep living in circles being hurt all over again because they decide to Harbour their hate to innocent people

if youre not wise you may pick their hateful advice Nairaland redpillers never like hearing about a successful relationship

Sleekskin:


We never can tell, she might be in an open relationship.

console yourself

Sleekskin:

She had sex with someone's boyfriend too.

the cheating circles never ends

you just slept with someone babe

...

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everyone knows the benin ife oduduwa tales but when we took a deep look we found out that the history was purely fabricated and was brought to life during early Colonial era, by the edos and yoruba for political benefit which
didn't last in a long run, due to tribalism by the yoruba towards the edo people. in as much as edos wanted political unity with the yorubas they also wanted their cultural distinction which the yorubas at a time forced the edos to yorubanise....which inturn led to a break out from western region although both royal heads knows the truth but they still promote this false history for personal interest.... everything we have to know about benin kingdom was heavily documented by the European and as such this researched article would be referencing European text about the benin people, from the European document about thd benin kingdom we also notice the benin, ife, oyo relationship was never mentioned in their documentations how could they have missed such great relationships if truly the oduduwa tales where true in benin history , this is another reason not to believe on the oduduwa tales in the benin kingdom lets evaluate some point carefully.....


1) first of all the ogiemen history was sn history involving only the benin people and it never concerned ife or oduduwa, Benins in the past had many Civil war and went through several constitutional changes likewise it made several treaties like that of the popular esan gbe do treaty, the ogiemien( worshippers of sea) and not ogiemien( meaning it's only ogie they see in benin and not oba') the later was a revisionism made by oba erediawa when he wrote the benin history to make it completely align as truth against the yoruba false history on edo people....


2) there was nothing like ogiso the first mention of ogiso appeared in a European document in 17 century, as a matter of fact it was a myth told by the benin to Europeans the benin knowing about Christianity told other coming Europeans to the city who wanted to know about their religion that the ogiso(sky kings) made humans and that the ogiso existed before the creation of the moon as noted in a European document in 1600AD, the benin tradition as we all know was based on pure ancestral worship although there were also idols being worshiped in the kingdom, they believe life existed on earth and they thought little or nothing existed in the heavens they belive the gods that caused rain and sun where distinct God's and they existed on earth and also believed the Oba of Benin was the ultimate Gods and only worship is own ancestors for powers and guidance
and the other gods were smaller gods including the god of the sea olokun and they also believed the spirit of the deceased remained on earth to protect their loved ones so an alter were built to encourage communication between the deceased and the living.... now we can see the benin tradition revolved around the earth and not the heavens not until the Europeans arrival but in today Benin history the ogiso myth has been used to make the dynasty look older....which is not really true....the Benins could have reference to a God king (ogiso) out of inferiority complex from their religion or the situation at then but whatever reasons it maybe the History of ogiso holds no sway in Benin tradition as kings but rather myths


3) the name Benin wasn't coined by oduduwa or oromiyan the name was formerly called ogodomigo which was later changed by ewaure to Edo reference a servant of a chief that was killed when he was escaping death by his
younger brother due to the throne struggles between both of them, the name Benin was coined from ile binu which the itsekiri describe the Benin as a warning to the Portuguese against entering Benin without proper notification, and was later mispronounced by the Portuguese as Benin to describe the ile binu people


4) the artworks of both Benin and ife has been evaluated thoroughly by a European researcher's in a bid to find the origin of both artworks in their research they found no similarity at all, they found the material they use in making the artworks between the Benin and ife arts where distinct likewise the pattern and also a had a distinct cultural identity, it was also noted by olowo of owo that in the ancient times they purchased their artwork's from art merchant's before the arrival of the Benin dynasty in the owo kingdom, it is noteworthy that both the ife and owo terracotta artworks are of same pattern and both were used and buried for religious purpose this further means that the ife artworks also purchased from merchant and they were neve where made in ife, you could easily tell it wasn't made in ife by the cultural attributes on the artworks were different from that of an ife person, such as the clothing, the tribal marks...and the artwork's shouldn't be used to draw a conclusion between Benin and ife relationship as it doesn't hold Waters

4) orun oba ado, is a place identified by the ooni of ife as the burial spot of the oba of Benin heads, which the oba of Benin has denied severally that non of their kings were buried in Yoruba Land or ife but the tribal war would keep distorting History
in the early 1900 a European did an escavation in that particular burial spot to the find out the truth in what the ooni of ife said and they found no skull's or Bones on the site but the Yorubas still lay false claims to it's authenticity maybe for tribal bashing, another point to note is when the oduduwa history took place in Benin according to both versions of thr Benin and ife story the name of Benin then was known as ogodomigo and not Edo which was reference as Ado in the orun oba ado burial spot




5) the name called Oba has always been a centre of debate between both tribe let's do a review to the authenticity of the ownership of the name, the name ogie meaning royalty, kingship, king ,duke which is similar to the context of emir in an Islamic Nation and Oba which is the overall ruler could mean sultan in the Islamic context ,the Benin's with no denier staged military campigns on Yoruba territory especially controlling Yoruba areas and according to a french document in early 1800 he noted the oba of Benin was feared by the entire Yoruba nation and was much respected by them and his influence stretched all over southern Nigeria except for the northern region which they were journeying to at the time of this documention and they called the Benin soldiers for an asistence and it was said if they felt threatened crossing the northern region they will have to rely on their own guns....

I wish to end it here for now not to bore us up with a lengthy write-up to be continued...

IbileIfe:
TWENTY REASONS WHY QUEEN AMINA OF ZARIA NEVER EXISTED

By Ndagi Abdullahi

1 – The earliest Zaria traditions never mentioned Queen Amina of Zaria.
2 – The people of Zaria first heard of Queen Amina of Zaria from two non-Zaria sources, namely, the Kano Chronicle from Kano & the Infakul Maisuri from Sokoto

3 – The utterly Islamic name Amina was not a Hausa name in the 16th century that Queen Amina was supposed to have lived
4 – The Queen Amina of Zaria described by the Kano Chronicle is completely different from the Queen Amina of Zaria described by the Infakul Maisuri.
5 – Apart from the Kano Chronicle and the Infakul Maisuri no any other primary source document in history ever mentioned Queen Amina of Zaria.

6 – No contemporary source, written or oral, ever mentioned Queen Amina of Zaria.
7 – None of the pre-Colonial European explorers, including Mungo Park, Captain Hugh Clapperton, the Lander brothers, Dr. Heinrich Barth, Dr. William Baikie, etc., heard about Queen Amina of Zaria.
8 – Queen Amina of Zaria was completely unknown to native griots until European Colonial historians popularized her at the beginning of the 20th century.

9 – The Northern Nigerian story of Queen Amina of Zaria is evidently a rehashing of the Middle Belt story of Kisra.
10 – The Original Zaria Province or State is the ancient Nupe Province of Old Gbara formerly known as Gunguma or Kangoma and now known as Wushishi or Dunguru (Zungeru).
11 – Al Sadi’s ‘Tarikh Al Sudan' of 1655 and al-Mukhtar’s Tarikh Al Fattash of the 1660s both are completely unaware of the existence of a Queen Amina of Zaria who was supposed to have been born in 1533.
12 – The earliest of the Arab historians to write on West Africa, including the celebrated El Bakri, wrote that today’s Nigerian Middle Belt was known as Mina or Al Mina.
13 – Gigantic idols and massifs bearing the name the ‘Goddess of Mina’ or the ‘Goddess of Al Mina' replete the plains of prehistoric Central Nigeria centuries before the supposed birth of Queen Amina of Zaria in 1533.
14 – Lady Flora Shaw Lugard wrote that the people of the Nigerian Middle Belt used to worship the idol of a fertility Goddess referred to as the ‘Queen of Al Mina’.

15 – It was Hausa city chroniclers who unprofessionally transcribed the ‘Queen of Al Mina' as ‘Queen Amina’.
16 – The Hausa city chroniclers then hijacked the well-known history of Kisra the Nupe King of Zozo and rehashed it as the story of Amina the ‘Queen of Zazzau’.
17 - The official royal history of early Zaria written by professional palace historians and titled the ‘Abuja Chronicle’, published in 1952, tellingly did not include Queen Amina on the Zaria king-list.
18 – The detailed biography of Queen Amina of Zaria we see today was fabricated by the playwright Umar Ahmed in 1954 in his drama play titled ‘Amina Sarauniyar Zazzau’.
19 – It was unsuspecting scholars, including the Colonial historian S.J. Hogben and the post-Independence academician Professor Abubakar Sa’ad who unwittingly gave scholarly credence to the Queen Amina of Zaria myth.
20 – World renowned historians, including Professor Abdullahi Smith and Professor Murray Last, have conclusively demonstrated that Queen Amina of Zaria never existed.

i believe this writeup with all sincerity not because am Hausa or an hater of them

but because you gave fact likewise i have given several fact that the benin and ife relationship
or oduduwa in beinn never existed but people keep promoting for tribal benefit... hood writeup am just going to put my own under

OloYeOfEgbE:
Sorry the thing too long...

If she wasn't Hausa....Uhmmm are you saying she is IGBO.?

As the oldest tribe,you feel me... that thing too long and night don come

never said tribe it, she never existed

usebog:


So the lady you get easily will not cheat or what?

she fit cheat but am not loosing anything i didn't use money to attract her


the money talk is almost useless because it gives no advantage i just feel simps sre the ones using the money talks to get ladies

golddust6000:
Hello beloved nairaland, I am here to seek advice from smart people in the house.

I met this girl at a market square in my village, last year December from then till now we have been dating and about to get married end of this year ( not official).
She is a university fresh graduate, she came from good and okay family, and ready to settle down. For now she is not working.

She asked me to open a shop for her as soon as we get married, I am not living in Nigeria, opening a shop won’t be problem to open for her.
The question is, can I open the shop with my name or I should open it with her name, because I don’t want to hear the story that touching the heart.

Smart people of nairaland pls advise me on what to do hear, before I can make a final decision.

Thank you guys in advance.

why marry a lady when you dont stay in the country find someone in that country you're to
marry

headbasher96:
money rules the world

it can only buy you sex and if it buys you marriage then sorry

money don't buy love

that's why the number if failed and cheating relationship thread is always increasing because you guys pass the wrong info to innocent boys...

usebog:

So your girlfriend will not cheat if you don't have money or what?

what is the essence of the money to getva lady's attention when she will still cheat with the whole money talk... to a nigga riding wheel barrow.....

i dont have the money most guys have but i get laid so easily

una money talk nor follow

headbasher96:
oga by the way am not the reason u cant feed yourself dont ever tell me Bleep me again.

you males are pathetic on Nairaland

money buys sex... that's you all come to Nairaland and complain of cheating girlfriend since y'all believe money buys love

headbasher96:
Once u have money she will not even think about all those crapbu wrote there ask me hw them the sheepishly follow guys wey the harvest their organ a woman first weak point is a full motuary standard a.c once e blow am the brain go reset the rest na history

Bleep you money is not everything stop saying money is everything if she doesn't love you would regret your money

money can only give you Bleep

Comradegist:
Happy weekend guys.
Sorry to bother you with my own issue. Please i just need reasonable advice. I was in a relationship with a girl I met through her elder sister friend. We got Introduced to each other last year November 2021. I chatted her up and we started from there, we kind of clicked and we decided to meet. We stay inter city just two hours traveling from each other. We met and she seems to be so much into me. She showed me everything a man needs to believe that a woman loves you. After like 3 months of being together. This lady that always tell me her self willingly that she loves me, she cant wait to have a family with me, she cant do without me suddenly told me she dont love me again. I thought I was dreaming at first, but indeed she was serious and she said she doesnt know maybe she's the problem but she has tried her best that she doesnt love me. We talked about why she's not feeling every efforts I made, she mentioned she doesnt feel romantically connected to me, mind you I disvirgined this girl after many guys have made attempt and she didnt allow them. She allowed me to dis virgin her withing two weeks of meeting her. She said I'm good on bed but she doesnt feel me in the romantic part, this is her main reason as she said. We continued the relationship. We fought again after the 5th month of the relationship. Her sister came into this issue. She settled it for us but she mentioned same thing to me that she's not interested in me anymore and she's not saying this because she has anyone or anything but she just doesn't feel me. I've been seeing this red flags as a guy but I didnt leave because I love her I choose to stay. We still continued. It finally ended the 7th month. This is how it ended, on Eid mubarak day, she had told me before that she was going out and she even asked me for money for Eid cloth. But I told her I didnt have much on me right now. And truly I didnt, mind you I always give this girl money even tho it's small but I do try my best but I think she wants more. She went out this faithful day on Eid mubarak day because she posted pictures on what's app. I now asked her that who was with her? She didnt reply. She continued to use me to post pictures, ignored me and I called her several times she didnt pick. She later responded in the night that she just doesn't want to reply my question and she doesn't want my wahala I should leave her alone. She didnt talk to me for two days and she looks very happy in everything she posts. I was wondering why asking a simple question like who is with you cause what she's doing to us. I called her sister and explained,even tho she has told me to stop calling her sister anytime we have issue. But because of I was so confused and didnt know wath to do, I told her sister what happened and i told her she once told me she dont like me telling her anything we have issue in the bid she'll not tell her everything I told her and maybe use style to talk to her without her knowing I called her sister, but her sister got so annoyed hearing it that her younger sister could say that. She advised me that I should man up and move on and never beg for love. I didnt know her sister later confronted her, abused her of playing with my heart and not being serious. I didn't know all this happened until she suddenly text me that I called her sister and told her, she said she's not interested in me anymore and she never loved me and she will never love me, this Is coming out somone that has told me she love me several times willingly without forcing her. She blocked me in every mean I could reach her. I'm so heartbroken broken and pained

Please what should I do OPs in the house?

No girl will leave a guy they love for money rather they will want to double date to keep him, if that happens to be the case, and they'll only want to break up with you only if the said rich guy she is dating along with you is proposing marriage even at that she go still dey bless u with Bleep

I'll say that girl fell out of love for you, it happens even in marriages it does, you're not that handsome like you think stop praising yourself or any lady...

Goodluck and move on ,she fell out of love and nothing more

Modify: most Nigerian only believe there is only falling inlove and no falling out of love
But it does exist ,your crush of last year could be irritating to you the following year and you ill be imaging if you were initially blind... some people fall out of love easily and fall in love very easily too
Pray not to meet such people

Mavrick2012:
Bia,did i just hear 1.5 million for just one,a single night?

O boy,can the dog meet a man?

are you mad

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:


This is actually very true , I was always the one getting hurt before and then I got used to it , I just started going with the flow
Last ex came to me , cute and everything said he wanted me , he got me and all of a sudden , he didn't pick my calls anymore , didn't call or text , lied about where he was when I was seeing him at a different place , cheated on me a lot but I acted like I was dumb , I was always happy around him , he didn't even know that I knew everything coz I actually did not care and I did not want to address it , I believed at the time he didn't know what he wanted and maybe in a month he'll see that I'm definitely a lady and not a girl and he'll get his act together and if he's still blind adieus

One day he raised his voice at me and it was an absolute turnoff , I know the patterns coz I repeated it twice so I ended the call and I waited to confront him physically but when I saw him , I couldn't help but feel stupid for allowing someone like that to feel comfortable to the point where they think they can talk down on me because I look like a nice little girl who doesn't know what love looks like ( he said he wanted unconditional love from me LOL)
I Sha came back home and blocked his entire existence and it was like that till he found me on FB and started trying to do that rubbish where exes become friends and just keep each other around but I had to tell him off , I blocked you for a reason and I haven't unblocked you yet that's a sign that I don't want anything with you anymore,
If you see the insults he rained on me on top of say I don't want to be your friend " you're heartless , I regret anything I had for you , you're this and that , if you see me don't greet me "
Someone that was seriously fucking around and even asked my friends out , someone that I did not take anything from , someone that couldn't even make time to speak or come and see me

He just packaged himself as fine boy and one innocent girl will think he has sense and I feel like I'm the first girl to break lose so quickly and that's probably why he was so upset because I can bet with the last #500 in my akant that he was trying to use me and he didn't give two shits about me from the get go
He wanted a girl that would kiss his butt and rub his feet and he got the wrong biatch

sad but u will get a better someone someday always watch closely and dress decently if you dont

it sad most women are not sharing their experiences here just the male

ThatrealestApex:
Why are Nigerian girls like this? They are so full of themselves, very Proud and Arrogant like they've got it all.

I was trying to inquire something from this girl, I actually called her and she said she'd get back to me but never did, I texted her on Whatsapp to inquire about the said stuff and it took her forever to reply my messages yet she'll be online posting statuses. This is someone I can just text once in a year, I barely knew she even existed on my WhatsApp!

The most annoying part of it all is that they form for everybody, even the ones that doesn't give a Fvck about them They always think every guy wants them

I really do not blame them, it's those Perverts and Sex-Starved Male folks that when a girl Sneezes on social media, you'll see 10,000 likes and comments as "Awnn, I love your Catarrh” That causes all these. Those number of ''Likes" they get on Facebook, Instagram, TikTok etc keeps getting into their head and making it swell so big. RUBBISH!

you talk too much, if she is forming let her be, you self dey form for person nor lie

forming shouldn't b a big deal a guy should cry over she doesn't want ur attention and don't force it, it is not forming

d only people when dey form na children adult
don't form , forming is when she wants you but she acting tough...but clearly don't want your ass

if someone doesn't want you always learn to Bleep off you can't force attention period

Pascopele:
From on inboz

Good day,

I want to share my story,please keep me anonymous. I broke up with someone that I was in a relationship for almost two years. The relationship was the best I ever had. I think I am still in love with this lady but something happened that made me leave. And that has made me to have trust issues with ladies and I am finding it hard to trust even as I try new relationships.

Dupe (not real name) and I knew each other since 2016. We met during NYSC. I love that she was a homely and godly girl. After service year,I got a job but Dupe could not find a job for almost one year. So,I got her some money and she started a buying and selling business. I liked how industrious she was. She started an online business too. She would deliver orders to customers at their homes or offices.

Early this year,she made a delivery to a man and claimed that the man ended up raping her. I was livid and wanted to report the matter to the police but she said she did not want this to come out cos of the shame and stigma. I tried to convince her but she would not bulge.She begged me to let things be. I then asked her to tell me who the man was,she initially did not want to but maybe cause she did not want me to be suspicious,she told me but made me promise not to do anything about it.

God knows,no man will hear that his wife to be got violated and will do nothing about it. I tracked the man down and confronted him. He laughed and told me he never forced my girl. That it was a mutual agreement. He told her he liked her and before he could buy stuff from her,he wanted to sleep with her. At first,she resisted but he made her a handsome offer and she finally agreed. I told him he was a liar and I would deal with him but he said,go and ask your LovePeddler girlfriend to tell you the truth.

Now,this whole revelation was very hard on me. Here I was,dating this lady for two years with no s*x cos we wanted to wait until marriage and here someone else is claiming she willingly gave it to him? I could not take it and I asked her. Of course,she denied it. I then asked her to let us report to the police to prove her innocence but still she refused. She refused on the grounds of the shame and stigma of being known as a rape victim. She said,my family would also find out and hate her. I know it will be hard if people find out the truth but I did not care,I just wanted justice for her and wanted to make sure she was not lying.

This disagreement between us caused a strain in our relationship. It was clear there was trust issues. We could not get past it. She would cry and say that I am insensitive to her plight. I was torn between believing her and sticking with her.

you nor wise why didn't you just on your own arrest the man, when tensions are high the girl will speak the truth...

your babe collect dick bro

Thrycimacus:
Hello guys I'm in need of a solution. I started dating my babe since last year, and we plan on getting married this year.

Believe me, I'm completely in love with her. Since I met this girl, it's as though every other girl isn't worth my time. I would say that we love ourselves to the best of my knowledge.

I didn't ever believe that my babe was a cheat, so I don't suspect her, neither do I read her text messages , nor even ask who called her and all that.

Something stupid happened today though. I checked my babes whatsapp chat out of curiosity without her permission (please guys forgive me for that). She was working on a project beside me while I was reading her chat.

I noticed she wasnt comfortable as I told her I only wanted to preview her whatsapp stickers. As I spent more time with her phone, she became so worried that she had to get her phone, asking what I was doing with her phone.

I told her I was reading her chat, then she got real angry, that I shouldn't have read her messages. There are contents there she doesnt want me to see.

Pretending as though I havent seen anything yet, I asked her , which content? Then she was already angry and collected her phone.

I tried getting g her phone but to no avail. Then I sat her down. Babe tell me, are you a lesbian ? She vehemently denied, asking why I will even ask her such question. Then I told her about her chat with one girl. She was trying to defend her self that the chat doesnt mean anything. The said chat was actually lesbian related.

I asked my babe, is the girl you were chatting with a lesbian, she said yes. I said fine, give me your phone let me continue reading then if you have nothing to hide from me. She refused.

I told her that her refusal only means 1 thing, and that can threaten our very relationship...

To cut the low g story short, at some point, she began to cry. I told her I knew she was a lesbian from that chat, I only wanted her to tell me with her mouth. She didnt directly admit it though, but she said that she was working on fixing her problem.

Admit it baby, so I know if its something I can fix with you, babe said she will tell me everything tomorrow, that she can't get herself to discuss anything with me today. With this, I had to understand and let her go. Hopefully tomorrow she can confide in me finally about her (I suppose) lesbian affairs.

Honestly I love this babe. Up until today, i have always believed that she loves me too. But this revelation is really threatening to destroy my future with her.

Before she left today , after I must have given her my word that telling me all her dark truth will not stop me from loving her, she said I was saying those just so she can open up. That if I leave her or change my behaviour towards her when she tell me what shes been hiding, it will not be good.

Please guys, how do I face this serious problem now in a mature way ?

Please I'm not here to play, I need mature contributions.

I created a new account for privacy sake

i would never marry a lesbian and i will consider it cheating and a disgusting one at that

how will you deal with the thought your wife can have an affair with a guy or lady there will be so much insecurity in the marriage

godforbid having anything doing with those psycho

Northernblood5:
To decipher the true propagandist, ask the idiots, "Why did Russia invade Ukraine, Putin idiots will answer " according to Russia, to stop Ukraine from joining NATO.

Ask the imbeciles again, Why then are they still on offensive despite the fact that Ukraine has dropped it's ambition. They will start mopping like idiots they are.

you're a pity.... you think with stupid emotions or is it the fact you dont know how foreign politics are played

when uk or any world power start interfering in the politics of Nigeria

won't you kick against?

answer this question lets move to the next

i find your writeup repulsive not just that you sound very proud in your writeup

even if we beg her i dint think your marriage will work...


tell us wetin happen to you and your ex fess before anything

Unclesmart12:
Some days ago a lady posted about being torn between her ex and her new boyfriend. Here's the link
https://www.nairaland.com/7021168/im-torn-ex-new-boyfriend#110871298
I happen to be the new guy in question, I even recommended posting the issue on Nairaland so neutrals could advice her since she won't let me rest because of the issue. She couldn't read past page two of the thread cos nairalanders were giving it to her hot hot.

My own issue is I can no longer cope with her confusion, she clearly doesn't want to let the other guy go. She's been sending me recordings of her calls with the guy where the guy has being begging her like his life depends on it. [s]I sincerely wish I can contact the guy so we can be running her together on a low but it's obvious he will snitch on me cos he's obviously obsessed with the girl.[/s]

Most of the calls has been about the guy talking about his accomplishments and how he will get her heaven and earth even though the girl admitted to having sex with another guy. He's been peppering her with credit alerts all these while and even promised to get her a bigger phone while the one she's using now which he actually bought is just few months old. For me I see those money talks as a challenge to make my own money.

I have more serious things to do with my life than compete for a lady that doesn't know what she wants. She wants to keep the guy for the financial benefits and also wants to keep me for the romantic benefits or whatever.

I have been trying to ghost her but I've come to realize that I actually like her a lot so its not easy. How can I do this effectively?? For some days now we not really been on the best of terms, she blanks me at any slightest provocation and if I don't call she will just lockup.

How do I swing the balance and dump her in a way that will hurt her?? She always brags that she's never met a guy that will make her beg cos she always has plenty options and can easily replace anyone that misbehaves.

why would you want to play her with the said guy is that not childishness

if you can't cope with a lady Bleep off her life...


i really don't understand the concept of you liking her and the same time want to share her
with her ex....

if you like someone so much, then it should be the easiest thing to let go, not because you want to but because the love you have for her is a respect of its own, not letting go will only hurt and cause more damages

Learn to let go bro some fight aren't worth it

This argument is totally uncalled for

The benin/ife relationship never existed it was a political tales told for political unification of the edo and Yoruba during the indirect rule system

The ogimien treaty was an indigenous treaty that involved no Yoruba as a party but was later twisted to include the Yoruba history as a distortion so the ogimien would look advantageous from what i know the true history of ogimien and the benin palace is still unknown to the benin people in all it never involved the third party called yorubas

The royal family of benin have already shot themselves in the foot by not openly dismissing the benin/ife myth when due they enjoyed the presence it brought so anyone can use it as a distortion against the palace

* The ogiso tales where myths and the myth originated from Christianity influence by the Europeans who believed on sky king Jesus influenced the benins to tell their own tales of a sky king who came to rule them like Jesus laughable, i guess but true, with the study of benin tradition from a traditional hunter who still go to the forest to hunt for animals at night even uptil last year i got a general insight of benin traditional worship like witches wizard, ghost, oso and omobabe from his narrative it was clear benin believe system and spiritualism was base clearly on earth and no heavenly narrative

Eko, is the short name of ekonuame meaning camp of waters given by the benins, ekosodin likewise was the camp of general oshodin in benin kingdom

The name benin was gotten from the iteskiris
Who first encountered the Portuguese and warned them not venture into the angry lands of benin

The word oba is as indigenous as olokun, ayelala, ovia, ogun.. Although ifa, oromila isago
Was introduced during the benin stay in the western regional politics, the word oba (shinny one), omo no ba nedo (the one who shines for the edo people) is an indigenous words that found is way into the Yoruba lexicon during the various benin military occupation in the west words like ogene in urhobo,etasko are still proves benin old words could spread that far and still remains till date

Samuk,

DrMrsFunmi:
nah I'm a guy and I dey use this account dey troll one bastard here.
I realized she was a lesbian after I came across a post she said she stays at ekosodin so I got her number and gave one girl still at Benin and she messaged her and the star fire was all over her asking to meet her in uniben and she wants to suck her pusssay. So I now messaged her and when she observed that I'm a guy she snub.
like you Said it's so terrible, and she come fine small.
how did you know she was Les?

She always pointing it out here, i tried convincing her to desist from her abominable ways and embrace dick she started giving attitudes

Lesbian and gays are the modern witches we need to burn in stake...

Why would you want to suck your fellow ladies
Irritating pussy....

For what pleasure mtcheew...

My guy you dey stay for ekosdin