₦airaland Forum

Sion47:
U ended up not telling us who will be taking ur vote.

Oga , who is your preferred candidate??

obi

TheGift:
You have not answered the question you asked us but have even Jumped to the conclusion of the matter. Why now? Bias?

Anyway, I am a detribalized Nigerian from two states in the south- south. I may not know who I will vote for. But I know who I will never vote for. His name is Atiku.

am voting obi sir

Prettygirl200:
U must be a fool.

he is not but youre the fool you call him, you guys will be using real life matters to catch cruise on Nairaland

what is the essence of her friendship if they cant tell themselves something like this

Eaziimoney:
I'll advice you to mind your business. Na Nigeria we dey. Your friend might even know about their relationship.
Incase your conscience doesn't let you rest, you should try and bump unto them so you can see and decipher her reaction.

why should he mind his business just give me reason if not that your promoting cheating

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

Lalasticlala

please let your friend know youre is friend, and not his enemy you should be there for him

duduade:
Please mind your business

please don't he should do the right thing bro

if i was his friend i will get angry if he never told ne

mind is business why should he do that if you were in that his friend position would you prefer he never told you such secret

we lack honesty in our current culture our culture in the past was way better than what it is now where everyone watched out for everyone one

I am from Edo state, benin precisely.
over here everyone is supporting obi i feel edo state is the most obident state in the south

Tinubu would get the least support and disliked by many over here, everyone here thinks little of Atiku no knows anything about Kwan Kwankwaso


so what's yours....?

Flamemignon1:
like I said under White supremacy because if you knew the history of African,you will know queer people existed before the advent of the west. I'm done conversing with you because you can only scream and be mad yet pride keeps going on

another tales by moonlight to justify your sexual madness

Flamemignon1:
Right.... it's obvious you haven't left the four walls of this country so I'm not gonna converse with someone still living under the adverse effect of white supremacy. Have a great day

who is living under white supremacist if not you gay, who is promoting such nonsense to the world if not the white and we africans and Arabs are rejecting such disease

when you mean i have not left Nigeria meaning you have visited a whitemans country... lol so much from someone calling others white supremacist and then practicing a white man's madness of sexuality

Flamemignon1:
Oh look, another pained person mad at someone for living his life,lol....do you think it's all queers that are weak? You mad you ain't sexually adventurous or because what you see as human sexuality is in the confines of straight sex,too bad people want to explore more and not be boring and normal like you.

Your power only shows around queer people,what happened to terrorists and political embezzlers,you know... the ones hurting people?

political leaders wont lead to the extinction of humans race but your evil act will do just that exploring sexual fantasies when monkey pox is killing innocent people, a disease brought by homos like you, soon you will Bleep your mother and sisters and then move to Bleep donkeys and call it exploration.....

what if a murder comes up with your so called excuse....

disgusting gay

Astrokid911:
wait wait bruh u don see transmen before ,u be cabal o only u na men ,make a thread about your sexcapades this your story I get plenty question for you

you be gay... disgusting human being out of the thread spit

Flamemignon1:
I'm pansexual and somewhat demisexual or gray asexual,what that means is that I'm attracted to all genders so as long as you are 18 and above,yea we can hit it but the demisexual/gray ace part in me depends on human connections before I sleep with them,I just can't sleep with anyone without knowing you first and having a mutual bond because if we don't,no matter what you do,my dick will never get up,be it cisgender male, cisgender female, transmen or transwomen or non binary and other gendered folks and I've had sex with all of the above....yep,I'm that sexually adventurous but we need to connect first

na life you come so, see this one openly saying youre atrracted to all gender don't allow me catch you making out with a guy it will turn my business....

gay 14yrs await all of you....

you all need psychiatrists

Prosper123:
Since Tinubu emerged victorious in the APC presidential primaries, he has been congratulated by many, especially the Yorubas.
While I believe that Tinubu is a political juggernaut, but his victory and praise reveal the true color of Yorubas. They have chosen him because of tribe and sentiment without putting the country into consideration.

They easily chose him forgetting about the lekki toll gate saga,saying he is a real politician. What is wrong with the youth?

They have forgotten about his health issues and say he can handle the country anyways. A man that jitters when he talks. Watch the APC primaries, on one occasion, he staggered as he was climbing down the podium.
I could have gone for the young Osibanjo or any other option.

They have forgotten about the cases of corruption raised against him.

Many of the people from the south wanted a Christian to take the helm of affairs as the next president. Many Christians from Yorubas wanted that, but since Tinubu emerged, the Yorubas, both the Christians and Muslims have forgotten about what they believed could be best for the country at the moment.
When we talk about religion, they tell us they are liberals. Nothing could be more fearful of the truth.

Let us tell ourselves the truth.
The south has been betrayed by our Yoruba brothers in the south. They have revealed their true colors. They have always benefitted more from the North because they easily bend, feigning knowledge of politics.

Until we are true to these issues, the youth will always be in chains in this country.

I know many would say I'm wailing, but it seems we are not ready to change the country.
Tomorrow, the youths are the ones to cry , we need to change the country, fight corruption, and what nice rhetoric. But we have decided to sell our today off based on sentiment.

This is a vicious circle holding the country. When it gets worse, let us not cry again. Let us live with the monster we have groomed. The old ones have fooled us, but we keep fooling ourselves the more.

what are you saying first of all am edo to begin with, what tribe are you? probably igbo i guess

but tinubu bought is way through money no yorubas will give him any of such support. peoplewho stepped down for him to win the primaries where they just yoruba your wailings speaks of tribal misappropriation

dont soil Peter obi name i beg of you with tribal hate

Prosper123:
Since Tinubu emerged victorious in the APC presidential primaries, he has been congratulated by many, especially the Yorubas.
While I believe that Tinubu is a political juggernaut, but his victory and praise reveal the true color of Yorubas. They have chosen him because of tribe and sentiment without putting the country into consideration.

They easily chose him forgetting about the lekki toll gate saga,saying he is a real politician. What is wrong with the youth?

They have forgotten about his health issues and say he can handle the country anyways. A man that jitters when he talks. Watch the APC primaries, on one occasion, he staggered as he was climbing down the podium.
I could have gone for the young Osibanjo or any other option.

They have forgotten about the cases of corruption raised against him.

Many of the people from the south wanted a Christian to take the helm of affairs as the next president. Many Christians from Yorubas wanted that, but since Tinubu emerged, the Yorubas, both the Christians and Muslims have forgotten about what they believed could be best for the country at the moment.
When we talk about religion, they tell us they are liberals. Nothing could be more fearful of the truth.

Let us tell ourselves the truth.
The south has been betrayed by our Yoruba brothers in the south. They have revealed their true colors. They have always benefitted more from the North because they easily bend, feigning knowledge of politics.

Until we are true to these issues, the youth will always be in chains in this country.

I know many would say I'm wailing, but it seems we are not ready to change the country.
Tomorrow, the youths are the ones to cry , we need to change the country, fight corruption, and what nice rhetoric. But we have decided to sell our today off based on sentiment.

This is a vicious circle holding the country. When it gets worse, let us not cry again. Let us live with the monster we have groomed. The old ones have fooled us, but we keep fooling ourselves the more.

spell colour properly first you were not colonized by America

iiifedimma:
anthony m okeke also known as Faith S. H, he just opened another account today with plewin he is a very notorious scammers on nairaland. He has been busted on several occasions. Don't fall in to a victims of him with your hard earned money please, he is well popular here as a greatests scammers on nairaland please try to ignore him here

Anthony M okeke Faith S.H he has scam a lot of people here their hard earned money don't send any penny to him again please if you loved yourself because he is a criminal and a very confirmed well known fraudster

He has scam a lots of people here with a touching heart story, he even add a video to it to fool a lots of people's, please try to ignore him on nairaland bcuz he is a 419

wetin e scam you off, create a thread and stop giving half info

all i read is okeke is a scammer without knowing what he or she scammed about

Frigga13:
After all your gibberish.. and all..

Make Obi come chop President make we see

Una go shout
Biafra or dead tire .. for Nigeria

Common sense it’s not common

Politics is not for igbos

shut up am an edo man....

edo are rallying for Peter obi they there dey point who be igbo or not..... until dem leave you behind

chinjo:
Sir, [s]you are someone I have so much respect for. Forget about people giving you false hopes online. A lot of them does not have PVC. No matter your level of competence, you need the right platform to win ection in Nigeria. How can you win election in Nigeria with a party that does not even control any state in the country. I like your spirit but the truth be told, leaving PDP for Labour party was a very big political miscalculation[/s].

tinubu dem people

Gandollaar:
That commandant was very stupid. Did she kill anybody? Why the man dey call call people!

if she didnt kill anyone then let the husband be the judge

there will never be a room for women's whoreness in our society

TforT19:
My husband and I are married for 4years now and God as really helped us but I am the one who initiate sex most of the time and it often makes me feel unwanted because he sometimes turn me down and it hurts �.
I am always on sexy bumshort, trousers e.t.c yet my guy go lock up.
Recently I found out that he's been cheating on me and it's really getting at me because I have never for once denied him of sex.
But however I am managing the whole situation so it doesn't scatter my home.
But I really want to seek advice
1. should I stop making advancement or initiating sex maybe that will make him wants me.
2. I also want to ask if initiating sex all the time as a woman is okay or I should stop for now.
3. Lastly if a man gets steady love, care, sex, good food and attention home. why then does he cheat?

Guys please kindly advise me on what to do.

threatening him with the fact thst f he cheat again you will cheat in return or you will park out of his house and he has no rigjt to deniel you sex

youre his wife and not a maid

Isabelle16:
This morning, my boyfriend, my first and only boyfriend texted me the message bellow:

"Anyday anytime, feel free to dump me without hesitation if you no longer love me.Don't forget to inform me quickly when you take such decision".

I'm still figuring out what that means.I begin to doubt his love for me.I'm restless.Did he actually love me?

as i guy i have sent my babe this message if she was acting strange asap.....

and her head go correct back

only u can decode the message

mine can be wrong

Kologirl:
The last time I posted, I spoke about me falling in love with the guy who disflowered me about 10 months ago, prior to us having sex, we had a very healthy friendship so I ask him to disflower me because I thought it was time to lose my virginity.
We later fall in love but our differences was something I couldn't look past, for one I'm not religious, don't want marriage and tradition life, he on the other hand was the opposite of me, he was religious, wanted marriage and a tradition Christian family.
I thought we wouldn't have a future together so I posted about it on nairaland hoping for some good advice and thinkful I got some.

Firstly I spoke to him we discussed about the religious, he's a very understanding person and as promised not to focus me into religion, he says he understands that not a lot of people love the idea of religion but he loves being aware that no matter what, someone, somewhere has his back, he says it gives he comfort knowing that he's not alone in life.
I'm a very realistic person and he is a idealistic, but I think the religion part is no longer a source of tension.
Secondly we had to talk about me not wanting marriage. He explained that he grew up in a Christian nuclear home, and he always wanted that for this family, he grew up happy and in a non toxic environment, he grew up being close to both of his parents, there was never a quarrel that ended their relationship, his family was always there for him, he explained that wanted that for his kids. A stable home
I on the other hand doesn't want that, I grew up in a very toxic environment and I Know what can happen if a marriage goes wrong.
So we decided that let's just wait and see. That maybe one day we might get married or not. Let's just see what works for us

I'm so happy I'm in this relationship, like I said we are friends before lovers

Note: I just want to thank some people on nairaland for giving me good and reasonable advise, thanks

Now I noticed a lot of people where asking for my age, telling me to repent, some called my boyfriend a simp, for not hitting and running.
So said he just wanted to continue having sex with me. So called me names Because I choose to lose my virginity. Like Bleep of, it's my body, I choose what happens to it. Some asking me to repent because they don't have the common sense to understand that not everyone wants religion or believes in it.

I really hope it was all you guys internet persona, Because if u guys are really that intolerant of other people choices and Ideology, then we have a big problem in Nigeria.

Thanks for giving me good advice.

you should understand some people are not happy with their life here, if they see anything good they will pour thier hate on it, here is not a goid place to seek advice

the redpillers are number one people to avoid their comment, those people have been hurt severally and they keep living in circles being hurt all over again because they decide to Harbour their hate to innocent people

if youre not wise you may pick their hateful advice Nairaland redpillers never like hearing about a successful relationship

Sleekskin:
We never can tell, she might be in an open relationship.

console yourself

Sleekskin:
She had sex with someone's boyfriend too.

the cheating circles never ends

you just slept with someone babe

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everyone knows the benin ife oduduwa tales but when we took a deep look we found out that the history was purely fabricated and was brought to life during early Colonial era, by the edos and yoruba for political benefit which
didn't last in a long run, due to tribalism by the yoruba towards the edo people. in as much as edos wanted political unity with the yorubas they also wanted their cultural distinction which the yorubas at a time forced the edos to yorubanise....which inturn led to a break out from western region although both royal heads knows the truth but they still promote this false history for personal interest.... everything we have to know about benin kingdom was heavily documented by the European and as such this researched article would be referencing European text about the benin people, from the European document about thd benin kingdom we also notice the benin, ife, oyo relationship was never mentioned in their documentations how could they have missed such great relationships if truly the oduduwa tales where true in benin history , this is another reason not to believe on the oduduwa tales in the benin kingdom lets evaluate some point carefully.....


1) first of all the ogiemen history was sn history involving only the benin people and it never concerned ife or oduduwa, Benins in the past had many Civil war and went through several constitutional changes likewise it made several treaties like that of the popular esan gbe do treaty, the ogiemien( worshippers of sea) and not ogiemien( meaning it's only ogie they see in benin and not oba') the later was a revisionism made by oba erediawa when he wrote the benin history to make it completely align as truth against the yoruba false history on edo people....


2) there was nothing like ogiso the first mention of ogiso appeared in a European document in 17 century, as a matter of fact it was a myth told by the benin to Europeans the benin knowing about Christianity told other coming Europeans to the city who wanted to know about their religion that the ogiso(sky kings) made humans and that the ogiso existed before the creation of the moon as noted in a European document in 1600AD, the benin tradition as we all know was based on pure ancestral worship although there were also idols being worshiped in the kingdom, they believe life existed on earth and they thought little or nothing existed in the heavens they belive the gods that caused rain and sun where distinct God's and they existed on earth and also believed the Oba of Benin was the ultimate Gods and only worship is own ancestors for powers and guidance
and the other gods were smaller gods including the god of the sea olokun and they also believed the spirit of the deceased remained on earth to protect their loved ones so an alter were built to encourage communication between the deceased and the living.... now we can see the benin tradition revolved around the earth and not the heavens not until the Europeans arrival but in today Benin history the ogiso myth has been used to make the dynasty look older....which is not really true....the Benins could have reference to a God king (ogiso) out of inferiority complex from their religion or the situation at then but whatever reasons it maybe the History of ogiso holds no sway in Benin tradition as kings but rather myths


3) the name Benin wasn't coined by oduduwa or oromiyan the name was formerly called ogodomigo which was later changed by ewaure to Edo reference a servant of a chief that was killed when he was escaping death by his
younger brother due to the throne struggles between both of them, the name Benin was coined from ile binu which the itsekiri describe the Benin as a warning to the Portuguese against entering Benin without proper notification, and was later mispronounced by the Portuguese as Benin to describe the ile binu people


4) the artworks of both Benin and ife has been evaluated thoroughly by a European researcher's in a bid to find the origin of both artworks in their research they found no similarity at all, they found the material they use in making the artworks between the Benin and ife arts where distinct likewise the pattern and also a had a distinct cultural identity, it was also noted by olowo of owo that in the ancient times they purchased their artwork's from art merchant's before the arrival of the Benin dynasty in the owo kingdom, it is noteworthy that both the ife and owo terracotta artworks are of same pattern and both were used and buried for religious purpose this further means that the ife artworks also purchased from merchant and they were neve where made in ife, you could easily tell it wasn't made in ife by the cultural attributes on the artworks were different from that of an ife person, such as the clothing, the tribal marks...and the artwork's shouldn't be used to draw a conclusion between Benin and ife relationship as it doesn't hold Waters

4) orun oba ado, is a place identified by the ooni of ife as the burial spot of the oba of Benin heads, which the oba of Benin has denied severally that non of their kings were buried in Yoruba Land or ife but the tribal war would keep distorting History
in the early 1900 a European did an escavation in that particular burial spot to the find out the truth in what the ooni of ife said and they found no skull's or Bones on the site but the Yorubas still lay false claims to it's authenticity maybe for tribal bashing, another point to note is when the oduduwa history took place in Benin according to both versions of thr Benin and ife story the name of Benin then was known as ogodomigo and not Edo which was reference as Ado in the orun oba ado burial spot




5) the name called Oba has always been a centre of debate between both tribe let's do a review to the authenticity of the ownership of the name, the name ogie meaning royalty, kingship, king ,duke which is similar to the context of emir in an Islamic Nation and Oba which is the overall ruler could mean sultan in the Islamic context ,the Benin's with no denier staged military campigns on Yoruba territory especially controlling Yoruba areas and according to a french document in early 1800 he noted the oba of Benin was feared by the entire Yoruba nation and was much respected by them and his influence stretched all over southern Nigeria except for the northern region which they were journeying to at the time of this documention and they called the Benin soldiers for an asistence and it was said if they felt threatened crossing the northern region they will have to rely on their own guns....

I wish to end it here for now not to bore us up with a lengthy write-up to be continued...

IbileIfe:
TWENTY REASONS WHY QUEEN AMINA OF ZARIA NEVER EXISTED

By Ndagi Abdullahi

1 – The earliest Zaria traditions never mentioned Queen Amina of Zaria.
2 – The people of Zaria first heard of Queen Amina of Zaria from two non-Zaria sources, namely, the Kano Chronicle from Kano & the Infakul Maisuri from Sokoto

3 – The utterly Islamic name Amina was not a Hausa name in the 16th century that Queen Amina was supposed to have lived
4 – The Queen Amina of Zaria described by the Kano Chronicle is completely different from the Queen Amina of Zaria described by the Infakul Maisuri.
5 – Apart from the Kano Chronicle and the Infakul Maisuri no any other primary source document in history ever mentioned Queen Amina of Zaria.

6 – No contemporary source, written or oral, ever mentioned Queen Amina of Zaria.
7 – None of the pre-Colonial European explorers, including Mungo Park, Captain Hugh Clapperton, the Lander brothers, Dr. Heinrich Barth, Dr. William Baikie, etc., heard about Queen Amina of Zaria.
8 – Queen Amina of Zaria was completely unknown to native griots until European Colonial historians popularized her at the beginning of the 20th century.

9 – The Northern Nigerian story of Queen Amina of Zaria is evidently a rehashing of the Middle Belt story of Kisra.
10 – The Original Zaria Province or State is the ancient Nupe Province of Old Gbara formerly known as Gunguma or Kangoma and now known as Wushishi or Dunguru (Zungeru).
11 – Al Sadi’s ‘Tarikh Al Sudan' of 1655 and al-Mukhtar’s Tarikh Al Fattash of the 1660s both are completely unaware of the existence of a Queen Amina of Zaria who was supposed to have been born in 1533.
12 – The earliest of the Arab historians to write on West Africa, including the celebrated El Bakri, wrote that today’s Nigerian Middle Belt was known as Mina or Al Mina.
13 – Gigantic idols and massifs bearing the name the ‘Goddess of Mina’ or the ‘Goddess of Al Mina' replete the plains of prehistoric Central Nigeria centuries before the supposed birth of Queen Amina of Zaria in 1533.
14 – Lady Flora Shaw Lugard wrote that the people of the Nigerian Middle Belt used to worship the idol of a fertility Goddess referred to as the ‘Queen of Al Mina’.

15 – It was Hausa city chroniclers who unprofessionally transcribed the ‘Queen of Al Mina' as ‘Queen Amina’.
16 – The Hausa city chroniclers then hijacked the well-known history of Kisra the Nupe King of Zozo and rehashed it as the story of Amina the ‘Queen of Zazzau’.
17 - The official royal history of early Zaria written by professional palace historians and titled the ‘Abuja Chronicle’, published in 1952, tellingly did not include Queen Amina on the Zaria king-list.
18 – The detailed biography of Queen Amina of Zaria we see today was fabricated by the playwright Umar Ahmed in 1954 in his drama play titled ‘Amina Sarauniyar Zazzau’.
19 – It was unsuspecting scholars, including the Colonial historian S.J. Hogben and the post-Independence academician Professor Abubakar Sa’ad who unwittingly gave scholarly credence to the Queen Amina of Zaria myth.
20 – World renowned historians, including Professor Abdullahi Smith and Professor Murray Last, have conclusively demonstrated that Queen Amina of Zaria never existed.

i believe this writeup with all sincerity not because am Hausa or an hater of them

but because you gave fact likewise i have given several fact that the benin and ife relationship
or oduduwa in beinn never existed but people keep promoting for tribal benefit... hood writeup am just going to put my own under

OloYeOfEgbE:
Sorry the thing too long...

If she wasn't Hausa....Uhmmm are you saying she is IGBO.?

As the oldest tribe,you feel me... that thing too long and night don come

never said tribe it, she never existed

usebog:
So the lady you get easily will not cheat or what?

she fit cheat but am not loosing anything i didn't use money to attract her


the money talk is almost useless because it gives no advantage i just feel simps sre the ones using the money talks to get ladies

golddust6000:
Hello beloved nairaland, I am here to seek advice from smart people in the house.

I met this girl at a market square in my village, last year December from then till now we have been dating and about to get married end of this year ( not official).
She is a university fresh graduate, she came from good and okay family, and ready to settle down. For now she is not working.

She asked me to open a shop for her as soon as we get married, I am not living in Nigeria, opening a shop won’t be problem to open for her.
The question is, can I open the shop with my name or I should open it with her name, because I don’t want to hear the story that touching the heart.

Smart people of nairaland pls advise me on what to do hear, before I can make a final decision.

Thank you guys in advance.

why marry a lady when you dont stay in the country find someone in that country you're to
marry

headbasher96:
money rules the world

it can only buy you sex and if it buys you marriage then sorry

money don't buy love

that's why the number if failed and cheating relationship thread is always increasing because you guys pass the wrong info to innocent boys...