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bigpriik:
If we do a financial breakdown and estimation today on who spends more on women you will be amused that it's mostly broke and average men that do the spending rich guys spends lesser I can bet you with my life.
Women are damn scared of billing rich guys I don't know why everything about them is the reverse,I remember my schooling days they were few guys in my department that were rich and have cars these guys actually knack these girls for free or spend very little all they do is just to lodge in a hotel close to school post the pics and videos of the lodge on their status for the girls to see,next they start inviting these girls one by one and these girls will gladly go visit them,a little drink or so and boom sex happens.

From my little observation it seems once they see a rich guy they start plotting how to be part of his life,they will start acting a good girl wishing he takes them serious and as they have fish brains they will offer him great sex believing it will keep him hooked because that's all they got to offer.
When a woman meets a rich guy they don't bill him ,they plan how to make him fall in love so he gives them full access,they goal is to make him simp for them and if he falls they use him but if he is wise he will use this opportunity to his advantage and knack many as possible.

Yes women are scared of billing rich guys, they bill broke guys more

ohosi4real:
Edo are divided in three, Edo South ( Benin) Edo Central ( Esan) and Edo North ( Afemai) so who are you addressing to ?

The edo people, the rest are what you called them esan and afemai

Mariangeles:
Watch as the fulanis will try to take over that place with a strong sense of entitlement. A once peaceful state.
Just watch.

Jos was never peaceful

Fr9m what i cam deduced most guys married because of financial help rendered, not for beauty, nit for sex, not for tribe

Like your family didn't profit from the corrupt system, use us to catch cruise

Mcreloaded:
This happened many years ago as the girl I used to shag then has was also dating this masculine mountain of a man and on this faithful day after much steamy love making she ran into the room saying that I should hide that Nosayaba was about to enter the sitting room and I hid under the bed.
Not up to 5 minutes Nosayaba was pounding this my nurse girlfriend with such strength I never knew can be exerted on sex alone. The pounding was so furiously being executed and nurse was screaming and hallucinating at the same time.

The dust coming from the foam and the fact I was sweating and the noise from top of the bed was so repulsive that I crept out from under the bed and just walked out of the room and damned the consequenses, I sensed the noise stop as I opened the door and walked out.
The story continue but then OP only wanted to know what happened in the room and not outside.


This is the Short and final story and OP please sorry am deviating outside the room as lovers of true life stories want to know how it all ended.

This happened a very long time ago I was still very very young and nurse was by far senior to me and Nosayaba was well known in agboju area as a tug.
He came to my house in festac on several occasions trying to intimidate me as I was very young then but I refused to yield to his bullying. Any way I secured admission to a higher institution and left only to come back on Holliday's and I heard he was killed by operation sweep. Nurse did everything for us to get back together but then after my pre degree year I was disgusted with my self for shagging someone of nurses age.

She was receiving intense sex from that guy and still decided to cheat

gracias124:
She blocked me after that convo

Women do not care about age 10 years is not a big diffence for a lady

HacheNoire:
University of Benin needs to be demolished!

That institution is no longer a school but breeding ground for all societal menace.

The landmass should be converted to a cattle ranch!

Ewobi

Toolegit123:
Good day everyone here.

So lately I've been in contact with my ex girlfriend who's now supposedly a happy married woman, according to what I was told initially . Tho it on Whatsapp when I got a message from her,but I tried to be careful and mindful while conversing with her.

After a while,one thing led to another and I curiously asked her if she was really happy in her marriage. To my greatest surprise,she said NO,and she didn't even end it there. She said she regrets getting married to a man who's old enough to be her father. Mind you, she's in her late 20's while her husband seems to be in his early 60's. They've got a son together

Well,I just told her plainly,that I shouldn't be the one she should be complaining to . I only asked her a simple and polar question,and she ended up pouring out all her pains and agony before me as if I was amongst her kinsmen that took bride price from her husband Because I could remember we were still dating when she left me for him, thinking everything that was glittering then was gold .

The funny thing was that it didn't end there, because ever since then,she has been on my neck,from one polite billing to the other. And to be honest,I don't want to and will never have anything to do with her . I'm even Planning to block her number if she wouldn't stop pestering my innocent single and not searching life

Now,the real problem is that,for the past one week,her messages have been popping on my phone like steadily . And which has left me wondering and pondering , are married men not spending quality time with their wives ? 🤔. Is marriage not really enjoyable like those married folks makes us believe, especially on social media? Those of you who are married and happy in your marriages, please come in and give those us who are about to consider getting married in the future some tips on how to make a happy home.

Nlfpmod obembet Dominique mynd44 Seun

Women are emotionally manipulative, if she had married someone younger the story wouldn't have been different

letskeeptalking:
I guess my real question is: knowing what you know now, would you make the same choice again?

I’m currently on the verge of divorce after 15 years of marriage and three kids.. Even though this is my decision, I feel like I have no real choice. My husband (if I can even call him that) says he doesn’t want to lose his family, but he does absolutely nothing to show it.

A lot has happened over the years, and it’s reached a point where I genuinely believe there is no future for us as a couple.

So I feel like I have two options: divorce him and move forward as a single mother… or stay, knowing I could never love him again.

I worry about my kids and how growing up with parents in a loveless marriage might shape their future relationships and choices. But then I also wonder, would they be better off growing up with a single mother?

I’m not concerned about stigma or even about finding another partner someday. Honestly, the way I feel right now, I’m ready to remain celibate for life.

If you’ve gone through this, can you please share your experience?
Do you regret your choice?
Looking back, would you make the same decision again?

Stay with your husband through thin and thick, before you choosed him to be the father of your kids why didn't you study him first, divorce like you're in a western society

Saleslourd:
Okay, so back then when I was a teenager in my hood, I’d say I was the cool kid around. And because of that, girls were always around me four of them, to be exact.

They were all friends. Three of them were the "super girls" you know how it is, the ones everyone thought had it all going for them. Then there was this one... the one folks might’ve called the odd one out, the one everyone thought had the least potential.

But me? I connected with her more than anyone else and honestly, I couldn’t even say why.

The other three got mad sometimes talked down on her, spread all kinds of stories. But she still stuck around me, and I always made time for her. I could tell she wanted more physical stuff, touching, kissing. But I valued her way more than that... I can’t even explain why, but I just couldn’t do it.

After secondary school, she traveled for university checks and applications I did too. Then one time we ran into each other, and I just decided to go for it: asked her to be my girlfriend.

But she said no. Just like that "it’s not possible." I reminded her how she’d liked me back then, and she said "that was then not now." She wasn’t rude about it, but her reasons just didn’t make sense to me.

I felt downplayed.
I couldn’t figure it out,

what did I do wrong?

Was I supposed to have taken advantage back then?

Even though I was doing well then (and still am now), she just wasn’t into me anymore.

The thing is... I still don’t know what the lesson is here. But maybe that’s okay. Maybe some stories don’t need a clear takeaway – they just are. And looking back, even though it hurt, it’s a good thing it ended the way it did. That’s basically it.

Learn to rush them, don't give time to think because they don't have sense like men

Mrkc:
I said it..
How can you work for 12 years as a single guy without any achievement before getting married .
No house to your name, no land , no business.
You are a civil servant with NCE and throughout your 12 years working before getting married.
You didnt bother to upgrade your certificate.
You still went ahead and marry a Lady you are 16 years older without education or handwork.
Worst of it. You don't go to church.
Part of your salary was used in playing pool till you retired.

Your father lived is life, my only blame is nor directing you all well.... Even those their father gave everything still find it hard if daddy pulls out is support

Negroid001:
Nearly all my colleagues and friends don run go U.K finish.

Which state do u reside hmm mm mmm

Ban that shit its poison

iwadobo:
It is called Oseen in Edo language.

Which edo language

SeverusSnape:
Go and jail them, Come Kaduna and Kano come see gay guys plenty, We call them Dan Daudu, They are not committing any crime by expressing their sexualities, As long as they don't impose it on anyone.

Gay yiu will end up convincing yourself if we catch una

SeverusSnape:
So what?. Did he kill anyone?. Is it a crime to be atheist or gay?
You might feel that it's morally wrong, But it's not a crime.

Gaysim is a crime in Nigeria

Nairalander248:
Hausa is a language and also an ethnic group... Go and sit down

So how do you differentiate them from fulani

Drifter02:
At 25 years, I've never had a proper girlfriend.. might sound like fiction but it's true

I've actively chased girls all my life.. but I've never actually met any that liked me for me..

This was particularly worse in university.. all the girls I met were dumb and were only interested in chasing good grades instead of just actively existing..

Some are even married now and their lives are still robotic and pathetic.. these days they're chasing corporate certifications and more needless difficult things instead of just calming down and living their lives

Interestingly, the only one that had a school cert I met that gave me her number later told after two years (we never had sex btw) that she feels my family won't allow us marry as I had a BSc and she doesn't.. (young girl of 22 ).. naso she break things up. Bro the reason was just weird and strange. I suspect though she has another man she's attracted to.

All the other girls I keep meeting keep using me for money.. rather than bonding emotionally, it's always send me card.. buy me ice cream.. take me out.. stupid nonsensical crap and whatnot

Bro.. I'm just tired. I earn 100k a month and all I do I just sit indoors, jerk off and hate my life.. it's almost true love died with the last century. Without a partner.. my life just feels hollow and meaningless

First there is no true love buy it mske more money and buy it... If you buy it secure it with pregnancy Goodluck with the advise

It is edo soup…it is called ogisi not egusi …ogi= melon,isi=far(melon from far) the particular melon plant called catoulpe melon was brought by the Portuguese to the oba of benin to be eaten as fruit just like water melon and the seed inside was grinded and converted to soup what made it popular was the soup came out nice and was introduced as a soup to be used in festive period controlled by the benin royals…since the benin had an empire the rest is history it can also be callee uwonmen ikpogi ,ikpo there stands for ikpotoqi (Portuguese) and ogi melon

Adexgentle005:
why do they say 3 major tribes i Nigeria are Igbo, yoruba and hausa ?

They have yet to review it, it should be igbo, yoruba and northerners because hausa is now a language not a people

CJStarz:
Kindly educate me, what is the tribe of the Hausa speaking people called?

Hausa used to exist as a tribe but they have mixed to be unidentifiable hausa is more of a language not a people now they people are called northerners

Hausa is a language not a tribe

With the advent of rising homosexuality its scary to put kids in boarding school this days

Feminist think the internet is real life the trend will be over soon

I don't belive our politican is signing this laws

The edo people are working, in speaking out against what strangers are doing in their land we are revisiting our over welcoming society to stranger's

Manny21:
And some people will sit in one corner and call it inferior language

It is

Stephen0mozzy:
Pronounced "nearly" the same, but the gha in "Oba gha to kpere" is not the same as the "ga" in:
1. Osasenaga (God is worth of worship)
2. Awon-oga (The Master's Wife)
3. E na ga (One who's worshipped)
4. Ola-aga (Chairman)

"ga" does imply worship/adorning/lordship/master but you've quoted it out of context. And ascribed the origin of "Oga" without any historical proof.

Are you Bini, Sir?

Yes it is not out of context thank you for submission

.... No one debated this i assume every Nigerian respect the edo culture and its truthfulness may god bless Nigerians for nit going against truth

It's is spelt ogha, it can be seen in words like
Oba gha to kpere... Ise... Like words like osasenagha.... Gha means to adorn or woship

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