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@ christygenius

I am yoruba and God blessed me with a wonderful Ibo chick. We are very happy 2geda. Though neither of our parents had issues with our coming together, my father inlaw is pretty much another Dad to me and my parents the same to my wife.

I can only pray for you my sister, but I would advice you not to listen to all these Ibo this and yoruba that! My wife still sent me a text within the day to thank God for our home and I do the same. We have no issues at all at all other than the normal relationship things. So I am at lost with these comments on inter tribal chats from simingly educated people who have the level of access and education to even use the internet. I guess we still have a long way to go. Nne, seek God and this is from a yoruba man with ONE luvly Ibo wife and thats where it stops. I hope this encourages you which ever way you choose to go. God be with u

Meeen, Its tough I must say. But hey! I guess I am trying to learn from this outage. I reckon my phone bill will be higher than when BB was active sha   wish they would sort it out sharp sharp!

Guilty as charged. I know say I dey leave things in places I can't remember. That's why my wife is my wife, my friend, lover and even mother at times sef make I no lie. Kai, women, you people try for us no be small.

On behalf of married men who are guilty as charged! WE SAY THANK YOU OOOOOOO

Quite important to keep the breath nice and fresh you know? Nothing is more a put off than a stinky breath, So e good to chew especially now that they have many flavours that can help dental care.

At Poster, AMEN!

Am amazed at all this actually. Me I fear God and I be Christian, yes I will share my faith but its up to you to take am or leave am now, no b by force, in the end, we will know if God exist or not

I go dey pray sotey

People, make una calm down. Let us wait and see. At least after 6 months something must show bah? We will see. I commend the initiative sha and I am hoping Osun State begins to show as one of the working states in the country. Funny enough, na only Lagos, Osun and Ekiti I dey hear say dey do anything, What's up with the rest?

@ Godman_n Snakes must craw we say in Igbo land. You cannot change from left handed to right handed in old age.
I gree with wetin you yarn to be honest

@ PointB The cautious movement of a cat, should not be misconstrued as a sign of cowardice - Nigerian Proverb
And you also make sense.

I combine both togeda and decide to wait an see. Like wan of our guys song talk, I go dey pray sotey,

Someone wrote this on Jimmy Sonde's blog,

A big fool you are. Can you bear to listen to the garbage coming from your own mouth? "My father has the money to bury me. So, why are they talking about it"? They are talking about it because you're not intelligent enough to know the ill-effects of smoking. Also, you do not sound as smart as you make yourself believe, as no father/mother would like to use their hands, or spend their hard-earned money to bury their child. Parents pray to be buried by their children not the other way round. What a daft stupid low-life with over-inflated feeling of deluded self importance.

Very shallow way of reasoning.

Somebody please knock some sense back into her porous brain.

All the above PLUS THIS

Tonto, a movie star has responsibilities to those who follow her. Misguided children may one day repeat what you are saying. I wonder? would you like to pay for your child's burial? Though sadly, I won't be suprised if you think thats okay sha, I go dey pray 4 u.

@ Poster,

Do you mean inter-racial marriages or inter-cultural?

For me, I will marry whom ever I believe in and won't let racial or tribal issues get in the way. Wetin be tradition self if no be laws of men wey dey discriminate a group and allow a few?

Please let true love reign across the nation (at least)

When people say this guys should be arrested, I wonder if they missed the part where he gave himself up and then was inprisoned. Abi, wasn't he in prison when he was saved? May be na me sha,

Then Iroko tree, wife from kingdom and all d Yoruba type jaz tins, Some people say e make dem laf I dey hia dey laf u too o, just thank God say u never experience anything concerning the dark world. And if you are in Christ? even better for u because na only dos people wey God recognise as Him own seem to fit escape the dark things of this world wey truly exist,

Make una Shine una eye o. A word is enuf!

Waooo! A tough one! E no easy.

I won't be too quick to shoot either husband or wife sha, only God knows what else is going on. Either way, if she can smartly get them (herself and husband) a 2nd opinion just to eliminate his own fertility as well that would be great.

Na prayer o o and/or IVF sef get this situation o. A mentor or someone of respect could also advice them to chill as this is just months we are talking about, what about those who are have been expecting for years?

Anyhow sha…. I wish your friend and her family all the best and I reject divorce for them as some have mentioned above, marriage na covenant not to be taken lightly like this people today take it. Think well before you sign oooo, once you sign, you don sign is what I say to people.

My prayer and thoughts are with them.

Nyce wan Presido, U try, But you can do better!

I know we all have some level of good in us. Try well well hmmm, Ndo

If light dey, work dey, security dey then hope too go dey,  Our young men no go dey waste dem life dey hustle like dis ones,

Housa, Yoruba & Igbo (plus the small small tribes wey add dem) Na d same hustle we all dey and we have specialist areas in our runz.

Na waooo,  Nigerian leaders, when now? when will you stop stealing from yourselves? 

@ freetwo

I know this post is old, but did you actually buy from Platinum Estate Magboro ? Are they truly genuine and not in the woods? I ask because I am thinking of buying from them too. Thanks

@ ne4real

You did the right thing in my opinion. Just to keep things smooth, your Dad should have called your husband there is no biggie in it. My Father In-Law calls my wife first on all issues as they are close, but my wife then advises him to call me just as a sign of respect and I love my wife for that. Its now a norm in my home that once my In-Laws (and my wife) do there planning, they finally say what they have planned with my wife to me and I never have issues with it once I am in the loop of things.

All in all, my wife and I are the team here and everybody is a third party something we agreed a long time ago.

Good Luck in smoothing things out

This video (Baby Phat) by De La Soul answers everything


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bUtf_Q4dg9Q

In my Opinion oooooooooooo

In the brain for calculated lovers

In the heart for true lovers

Simple!

Being a leader is not beans, when it works we praise you and when it doesn't we diss you.

I believe all leaders (genuine at least) should have this in mind. I for one had so many hopes on our President, but very sad at the snail speed at which things are going if things are going at all that is!

All in all, I am for keeping the respect, but as a leader, these things will(must) happen. We have the right to what we say about what we see and also what we hope to see.