Romance › Re: Observing The Lockdown With My Daughter - Photos by gulfer: 7:14am On May 04, 2020 |
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Health › Re: 238 New COVID-19 Cases Reported. Total 2170. 352 Discharged. 68 Deaths by gulfer: 6:58am On May 02, 2020 |
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Crime › Re: Man, Wife Pay Assassins To Eliminate Neighbour Over Covid-19 Palliative by gulfer: 3:34pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
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Family › Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by gulfer: 10:25am On Apr 29, 2020 |
Beautykate: I am writing to ask if you can help me to persuade my husband to do less around the house. I am worried that he is going to make himself ill from exhaustion. Also, and it is hard for me to say this to him without being hurtful, I married him for his fun personality not his work ethic and I fear I am losing him to domestic drudgery. I want an equal partner, not a slave.
We have a toddler and a baby, born few months ago. During the pregnancy, I was quite tired and run down and my darling, supportive husband started to do more and more around the house and with our son (and despite a full-time, responsible job, he has always done more than his fair share of housework). I am now breastfeeding the baby, which is tough because he barely stops feeding and won't really nap anywhere except in my arms.
So this leaves my husband doing the shopping, tidying, washing and cooking. He gets up at 6am every morning to get our toddler ready for nursery, with a packed lunch, and he drops him off before he can get himself off to work. Meanwhile, I just sit around feeding the baby!
I feel permanently guilty and as if the only way I will get my husband to do less is if I do more. The thing is that I can walk away from mess and he can't.
I hugely appreciate him helping, but, beyond the basics, would rather see him sleeping or even cuddling me on the sofa rather than trying to be on top of everything. I love my husband – he is truly the sweetest, most loving, most wonderful lover and father, but I find myself resenting the fact that I barely see his fun side these days because he is so tired that he is essentially ill – and I can't help thinking it is at least partly self-inflicted Get a help for the chores to relieve hIm until the baby stops breastfeeding  |
Crime › Re: Boy Abadoned In Benin By Mother Who Was Fleeing From Security Operative by gulfer: 8:59pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
Where is Ned Nwoko, I have a question for him o  |
Crime › Re: How Can I Get This Fraudster That Duped My Sister by gulfer: 8:55pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
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Nairaland General › Re: Photo And Video Of The Snake I Killed Today by gulfer: 8:40pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
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Crime › Re: How Can I Get This Fraudster That Duped My Sister by gulfer: 6:22pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
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Crime › Re: Murder Of Catholic Seminarian: IGP Arrests 3,orders Manhunt For Fleeing Suspects by gulfer: 2:05pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Apostle Suleman On Coronavirus: "Permit Us To Heal & Pray For COVID-19 Patients" by gulfer: 10:11am On Apr 26, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Why Do Black Men Hate Giving Their Women A Head by gulfer: 2:29pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Bettymax: I Got complains of black men especially Nigerian (men) who hate giving their wives or girlfriends a head and they expect the (women) to give them a (BJ) . Guys defend yourselves (Do you give your babe a head ) Ladies (Do you love getting a head)  Your monicker suggests you must be very BIG (BettyMAX)  |
Education › Re: Angry Zambian Father Slaps His Son Over Poor Result After Paying $21k As Tuition by gulfer: 7:32am On Apr 23, 2020 |
Those are future music stars ��� |
Phones › Re: Should I Buy Iphone Xr Or iphone11 I'm Really Confuse by gulfer: 11:09pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Runs Girls Are Getting Better Husbands Than Church Girls - Lady by gulfer: 10:54pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
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Crime › Re: Help!! How Can I Deactivate My Atm Card by gulfer: 10:27pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
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Celebrities › Re: Rat I Killed In My Bathroom This Morning. by gulfer: 7:58pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
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Career › Re: Mohammed Babandede Resumes Duty After Recovery From Coronavirus by gulfer: 4:25pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
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Travel › Re: Lockdown: 3rd Mainland Bridge Today's Morning (Photos) by gulfer: 10:41am On Apr 20, 2020 |
Essential staffs are still required to work... The cause of the traffic is security operatives checking for pass for movement or if you an essential staff. I don't eben think thatsv3rd mainland bridge, it looks like carter or Eko bridge. I am an essential staff and know what I'm saying....  |
Politics › Re: Was Abba Kyari's body Flown In From London? (photo) by gulfer: 6:21pm On Apr 19, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: How Abba Kyari Died Of Coronavirus Disease In Lagos - By LASG by gulfer: 1:03pm On Apr 19, 2020 |
He died in the health system they neglected.. Prince Charles, Gordon Brown, the Canadian first lady and the German Chancellor have all since recovered . Recoveries made possible because of effective and working health systems. The case of Kyari is not same because the monster they created has come out to eat them up. All borders are shut  |
Politics › Re: Late Abba Kyari With His Beautiful Family (Photo) by gulfer: 5:38pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Covid19: RRS Shuts Down Bar In Lagos (Photos) by gulfer: 4:25pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
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Nairaland General › Re: Share Your Experience With Weird People You Have Encountered by gulfer: 11:28am On Apr 18, 2020 |
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Nairaland General › Re: Share Your Experience With Weird People You Have Encountered by gulfer: 11:06am On Apr 18, 2020 |
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Crime › Re: Kubwa Robbery Update:owner Of Abandoned Car Turns Out To Be Gang Leader [PHOTOS] by gulfer: 7:34pm On Apr 17, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: He Wanted To Make Love To Me But Passed Out. by gulfer: 7:30pm On Apr 17, 2020 |
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Celebrities › Re: Video: Oluwo Of Iwoland Caught Rolling Marijuana In A Video Released By Ex-Wife by gulfer: 6:36pm On Apr 17, 2020 |
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Phones › Re: Screenshot Your Homepage..lets Have Fun by gulfer: 10:56am On Apr 17, 2020 |
Microsoft launcher
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Politics › Re: Obasanjo: I Have Sent N5000 To Nigerian's Using Bvn by gulfer: 9:57am On Apr 17, 2020 |
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Sports › Re: Covid-19: Israel Adesanya Donates Medical Equipment To Lagos by gulfer: 9:55am On Apr 17, 2020 |
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Family › Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by gulfer: 5:45am On Apr 17, 2020 |
Your wife is wicked, for this lockdown  |