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Romance › Re: Observing The Lockdown With My Daughter - Photos by gulfer: 7:14am On May 04, 2020
Airforce1:
I've been around but on a low key
Just say no data sad angry sad angry angry
Health › Re: 238 New COVID-19 Cases Reported. Total 2170. 352 Discharged. 68 Deaths by gulfer: 6:58am On May 02, 2020
Just like in the elections, the north I'll soon overtake the south..... cool shocked cool shocked cool shocked cool
Crime › Re: Man, Wife Pay Assassins To Eliminate Neighbour Over Covid-19 Palliative by gulfer: 3:34pm On Apr 29, 2020
Gangster couple shocked shocked shocked shocked
Family › Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by gulfer: 10:25am On Apr 29, 2020
Beautykate:
I am writing to ask if you can help me to persuade my husband to do less around the house. I am worried that he is going to make himself ill from exhaustion. Also, and it is hard for me to say this to him without being hurtful, I married him for his fun personality not his work ethic and I fear I am losing him to domestic drudgery. I want an equal partner, not a slave.

We have a toddler and a baby, born few months ago. During the pregnancy, I was quite tired and run down and my darling, supportive husband started to do more and more around the house and with our son (and despite a full-time, responsible job, he has always done more than his fair share of housework). I am now breastfeeding the baby, which is tough because he barely stops feeding and won't really nap anywhere except in my arms.

So this leaves my husband doing the shopping, tidying, washing and cooking. He gets up at 6am every morning to get our toddler ready for nursery, with a packed lunch, and he drops him off before he can get himself off to work. Meanwhile, I just sit around feeding the baby!

I feel permanently guilty and as if the only way I will get my husband to do less is if I do more. The thing is that I can walk away from mess and he can't.

I hugely appreciate him helping, but, beyond the basics, would rather see him sleeping or even cuddling me on the sofa rather than trying to be on top of everything. I love my husband – he is truly the sweetest, most loving, most wonderful lover and father, but I find myself resenting the fact that I barely see his fun side these days because he is so tired that he is essentially ill – and I can't help thinking it is at least partly self-inflicted
Get a help for the chores to relieve hIm until the baby stops breastfeeding angry angry
Crime › Re: Boy Abadoned In Benin By Mother Who Was Fleeing From Security Operative by gulfer: 8:59pm On Apr 28, 2020
Where is Ned Nwoko, I have a question for him o shocked shocked
Crime › Re: How Can I Get This Fraudster That Duped My Sister by gulfer: 8:55pm On Apr 28, 2020
You seem to understand the business so much, what are you driving at exactly huh huh huh huh
Nairaland General › Re: Photo And Video Of The Snake I Killed Today by gulfer: 8:40pm On Apr 28, 2020
This your compound sha, e get as he be angry angry angry
Crime › Re: How Can I Get This Fraudster That Duped My Sister by gulfer: 6:22pm On Apr 28, 2020
The dates/time on those alerts look suspicious to me, which alert came first huh huh huh
Crime › Re: Murder Of Catholic Seminarian: IGP Arrests 3,orders Manhunt For Fleeing Suspects by gulfer: 2:05pm On Apr 26, 2020
Why do the police parade criminals in the north respectfully while down south, the case isways different.... angry angry angry angry angry
Christianity Etc › Re: Apostle Suleman On Coronavirus: "Permit Us To Heal & Pray For COVID-19 Patients" by gulfer: 10:11am On Apr 26, 2020
Do you seek government's permission in the past before claiming those miracles....oga, do you wonder and le5 the healed testify.shikena angry angry angry
Romance › Re: Why Do Black Men Hate Giving Their Women A Head by gulfer: 2:29pm On Apr 23, 2020
Bettymax:
I Got complains of black men especially Nigerian (men) angry who hate giving their wives or girlfriends a head and they expect the (women) to give them a (BJ) undecided . Guys defend yourselves (Do you give your babe a head ) Ladies (Do you love getting a head) grin cool
Your monicker suggests you must be very BIG (BettyMAX) lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Education › Re: Angry Zambian Father Slaps His Son Over Poor Result After Paying $21k As Tuition by gulfer: 7:32am On Apr 23, 2020
Those are future music stars ���
Phones › Re: Should I Buy Iphone Xr Or iphone11 I'm Really Confuse by gulfer: 11:09pm On Apr 22, 2020
Buy both angry angry angry
Romance › Re: Runs Girls Are Getting Better Husbands Than Church Girls - Lady by gulfer: 10:54pm On Apr 22, 2020
yyba:
99.9% correct, I know a lot of runs girls that got married and they are leaving peacefully with their husbands.
Some even married expats, I know quite a few here in Victoria Island cool cool cool
Crime › Re: Help!! How Can I Deactivate My Atm Card by gulfer: 10:27pm On Apr 21, 2020
You van do it through the banking app also angry angry angry
Celebrities › Re: Rat I Killed In My Bathroom This Morning. by gulfer: 7:58pm On Apr 21, 2020
That's a Jerry rat species angry angry angry
Career › Re: Mohammed Babandede Resumes Duty After Recovery From Coronavirus by gulfer: 4:25pm On Apr 20, 2020
OP, today is 20th o....or is he resuming on an unknown future date huh huh huh
Travel › Re: Lockdown: 3rd Mainland Bridge Today's Morning (Photos) by gulfer: 10:41am On Apr 20, 2020
Essential staffs are still required to work... The cause of the traffic is security operatives checking for pass for movement or if you an essential staff. I don't eben think thatsv3rd mainland bridge, it looks like carter or Eko bridge. I am an essential staff and know what I'm saying.... cool cool
Politics › Re: Was Abba Kyari's body Flown In From London? (photo) by gulfer: 6:21pm On Apr 19, 2020
Ownership of that jet changed since 2015 and the plane now appears to be owned by a Nigerian whos now using it for charter flights in Nigeria.... angry angry angry
Politics › Re: How Abba Kyari Died Of Coronavirus Disease In Lagos - By LASG by gulfer: 1:03pm On Apr 19, 2020
He died in the health system they neglected..
Prince Charles, Gordon Brown, the Canadian first lady and the German Chancellor have all since recovered .
Recoveries made possible because of effective and working health systems.
The case of Kyari is not same because the monster they created has come out to eat them up. All borders are shut angry angry
Politics › Re: Late Abba Kyari With His Beautiful Family (Photo) by gulfer: 5:38pm On Apr 18, 2020
okomile:
God will give the family grace to bear his death
What's the meaning of your monicker undecided undecided undecided
Politics › Re: Covid19: RRS Shuts Down Bar In Lagos (Photos) by gulfer: 4:25pm On Apr 18, 2020
All...all I see is the Honorable from the west grin grin grin grin grin

Nairaland General › Re: Share Your Experience With Weird People You Have Encountered by gulfer: 11:28am On Apr 18, 2020
ORBLIGHTS:
My roommate in my year1 during my university days, this guy won't sweep our room, nor cook or even think of washing the dishes. It was all-guys lodge so we are so free with each other to the extend that we don't lock our kitchen cabinets so that any of the lodge member could access anybody's kitchen cabinet to pick whatever they want at anytime of the day even when the owner is not around, any of the lodge guys could just go in and pick plates, seasoning, salt e.t.c
The roommate of mine would go from room to room whenever a plate or our broom is missing, he would locate the person with the missing stuff, retrieve it and even jokingly insult the person. It's always so funny to me whenever I see him doing that cuz he never practically used the broom on the floor of our room or wash the plate but has taken it as a duty to retrieve em whenever these stuffs got missing... (it amazed me and I just love him for that)
Your roommate is providing the tools you need to sweep and wash dishes na grin grin grin grin
Nairaland General › Re: Share Your Experience With Weird People You Have Encountered by gulfer: 11:06am On Apr 18, 2020
DanWord:
I think there are three weird cases i know.
1. This guy ask the same questions every five minutes. Like martial scored yesterday. Me: yes. Then five minutes later. Did Martial sore yesterday. Omo we dey dodge the guy. But that guys is really intelligent, he is uniben medical school now.

2. Guy number 2. Always blinking his eyes non stop. I think that is an health condition.

3. In Nysc camp some hausa guys close to my bonk always keep there evening meal and would wake up by 3 am to eat. I could not believe my eyes. When we were getting ready for morning meditation this guys are eating egusi and eba from the previous day by 3am.
@ your number 2 guy, I had a friend in scholl then too...i think his nicknmae was 2shy cool cool cool
Crime › Re: Kubwa Robbery Update:owner Of Abandoned Car Turns Out To Be Gang Leader [PHOTOS] by gulfer: 7:34pm On Apr 17, 2020
Where in your report i the car owner mentioned as the gang leader huh huh huh
Romance › Re: He Wanted To Make Love To Me But Passed Out. by gulfer: 7:30pm On Apr 17, 2020
Let me use your monicker to describe this thing you posted....barefaced liar tongue tongue tongue
Celebrities › Re: Video: Oluwo Of Iwoland Caught Rolling Marijuana In A Video Released By Ex-Wife by gulfer: 6:36pm On Apr 17, 2020
Oluwo na confam ganjamana, see slender molling of jumbo. He Sabi package, e be like say he learnt the trade for Lagos Island....those guys can moll cool cool cool cool
Phones › Re: Screenshot Your Homepage..lets Have Fun by gulfer: 10:56am On Apr 17, 2020
Microsoft launcher

Politics › Re: Obasanjo: I Have Sent N5000 To Nigerian's Using Bvn by gulfer: 9:57am On Apr 17, 2020
We have not seen anything here in Burundi o angry angry angry angry
Sports › Re: Covid-19: Israel Adesanya Donates Medical Equipment To Lagos by gulfer: 9:55am On Apr 17, 2020
ThierryJay:
Great gesture by the last Stylebender. This is a real son of the soil who understands his roots.

This is what our Nigerian celebrities with means should be emulating. Being a celebrity is not only about benefiting from fans and doing publicity stunts. They need to give back to their communities. Only very few of them have done that.

Anthony Joshua you're next.
The 30 billion gang should man up o grin grin grin grin
Family › Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by gulfer: 5:45am On Apr 17, 2020
Your wife is wicked, for this lockdown huh huh

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