₦airaland Forum

My man you're not alone in this struggle .............. Please if you are going through depression don't form macho or fake smile on Facebook ...p
Please cry out for help....
Talk to a Pastor or Imam
I just spoke my heart out to a Pastor on what I am going through A female one for that matter ....I felt relieved and healed ....

KingOfTheDamned:
Lol

Yoruba people... I slapped one of you here in Bini yesterday and the imp.ran crying... See Tinubu will never rule this nation take it or leave it

Your tribe will never ever enter Aso rock again. HE Gov Obaseki doesn't support failures go and check history whoever the Bini people support will be victorious.

We are very Obidient take it or leave it

Another Yoruba man is on his way with the confusion in PDP and LP structureless.....if this election degenerate to a tribal issues APC got my votes
No one takes your slap seriously �

Drunkenness is bad ...Say no to drinking and politicking
LoL �� y

cleantitleautos:
Where are Tonto's fans? Your Lady is now a politician o. She's the running mate for ADC governorship candidate in Rivers State come 2023 general elections!

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Wonders shall never end .....
Nothing wey person no go see for Nigeria

Wike the Yoruba Ikwerre man

Please don't beat her for us ooo

Keneeby:
Another wife beater loading.......

Lol u no well ooo

ugodson:
What d guy sent is totally unacceptable i get it. But when u ladies come here to say Marriage is not an achievement which i agree sgain ITS NOT, but u dont have to come here to say it as of u are sad . From your tone u are definitely not married.
If u are proposed to wont u marry?
No offense, if it came out wrongly.

And Yes i know is not always sweet i get that too. Have a nice day

Don't mind that's what they say when no-promising guy is coming around them ....But let one propose to them even it's their Sister fiancee just watch what would happen

This is totally uncalled for ....move on and wish her well....I don't subscribe to rejoicing at the hurting of other people even at women who have hurt me in the past ....My Christian mind won't allow me

Okafors law at work ....A woman wants what another woman already have....Treat her well and she would pepper are friends, Sisters, cousins who want such .....
Do they keep giving the old man green light .....
They don't have conscience according to the the book "manipulated man"

I just watched Henry Ford life ....I could learn alot but from this one it's just an information for me to know he exist haven't learn anything

Congratulations

My brother calm down .... Don't bogg your mind over issues that will still pass ...
Tell him how much you intend giving him...
Tell him what you're going through in school ...
As for the girl I am sure you planned marrying her..
Don't go extramile of dissing your family because you want to please her because I know that's were you are likely going to end up ....

They should better revert to a single sex institution ...Male University of Nigeria only male lecturers and Female University of Pure and applied studies only Female Prof ....
I think this will help ....
May the Lord help our lecturers once you know one girl is dominating your thought through their manipulative please tell your Pastor or Imam or even your wife this are agents of darkness at our institution all out to bring down great men ..... I shall never fall their victim in JESUS NAME AMEN
Share it with someone then find happiness with madam and your family

Akakanfirstclass:
abstinence from sex isn't easy..

in the bible time, people get married from 16.
becoz when God instructed that sex should only be practiced in marriage, he knew that at teenage age konji Don set in..
my biological father is 64 and he got married at 22,

today I am 24 and I can't even imagine my self getting married in 5yrs time becoz things have change (asin the economy).
it takes longer time for a man to be established in this generation that the previous ones..

now assuming sex is food, Ur father says everyone should fast from 6a.m to 6pm knowing that Ur body will later need to eat naturally, but in this generation, we are fasting too long and can't hold anymore becoz the resources to get married isn't available..
what we need to pray for is mercies and Grace to be established and marry the right person early..
becoz to be honest, abstinence from sex isn't easy

Sometimes when people just gives rules without understanding they create more sinners than saints.....
You will never hear them encourage marriage mba since we are in a consumerism culture.....
Paul said if you can not hold marry..... Celibacy is not by force ... There's already a system to prevent this to the barest minimum but we deceive ourselves too much in this generation....
Most religious leaders know people have a strong tendency to get it wrong in this aspect even if they're not seeing anyone comiting fornication on the street....
The bible that say "flee" didn't stop there it also said "follow" there's no vacuum ....
But you hear this religious guys emphasing on the flee part.....
We already have a sexualized generation already in great need for redemption....
And stop threatening people with curses.....
The world is not as Just as you think...

My wife off course
Who else could it be if not her

My bad habits,.sins or Selfishness
I want tjem to inherit Jesus nature

Munzy14:
From where did you see men develope themselves for women? Even though you are pretending it isn't about that most times.

All this online Jim Iyke and offline Tony umez guys sef...

A developed man is useful to anyone he comes across...

Take this your misguided wannabe redpill comment to the joke section..

The most Important thing is developing oneself...Whosoever they are doing it for is and will never be your business.

My comment addressed the topic of the thread...How you choose to assimilate after reading is a case between you and how developed your brain functions..

I Know your kind .... Continue to develop yourself for woman because that's your purpose in life don't worry when you comit suicide for their matter .....
You are going to be remembered woman-hero ....

The man who developed himself for women that don't give a hoot about him

Munzy14:
It's a pity....

A lady choses potential over love..

But a man invest in love over potential and self development.

In the end, she will date who she like and marry a man with potentials.


Men!!!! Develope yourselves...The right one will be there whenever you are ready.

If this factory worker had invest more in his self development, he wouldn't go to this length when the lady moved to planB...

Too many decent and well trained good ladies out there...For a fool to kill himself because of one charlatan..

I hate it when people tell men to develop themselves just because of bitches its the worst simping advice .......
Develop yourself to be useful to the society and your family ....Stop trying to develop yourself because any woman ..

Such naughty advices given to men hoping to buy the Loyalty of a Nigerian woman bring about this issue of Suicide from men after finding out that it's not about development But self-love ...


She jumps to the next mouth watering offer for some other reasons.....
Men 20-29yrs at that age barely know how to handle heart+break

See as everyone dey blame the man .....of it were to be a woman that comit suicide because the American man that came from abroad promising her marriage married her best friend in an elaborate wedding.....
Men are scum crew go full here

Ilaje1:
Firstly they didn't package shit to compete with Americans. The most constant thing in life is change. Naija music has always been dynamic and there are different genre. Baba fryo, danfo driver, father u turn, daddy fresh, gravity, daddy showkey just to mention few have their own genre which is ahegunle galala. You have people Blackky, Zito etc with their genre. And you Majek Fashek who was already international with his reggae influenced with talking drum. AIT started in late 96. Seyi Shodimu already released one or 2 tracks, same with Mc that sang allen avenue. Lots of us that time were already singing boyz to men, memorizing tupac and Biggie rhymes. Remedies went to meet Kennies so they can use AIT to air their music. I remember Kenny gave them the opportunity to perform life - shakomo. And people loved it. Kenny and Dayo used the opportunity to start a label using AIT (own by Kenny in-law) to make money. And AIT started lunch break program anchored by Jumini Adegbesan and sometimes with Tosin Odukoya. My point is don't call those guys nobodies, they were already known in their areas before AIT came. Without AIT, they would still be prominent because naija hip-hop (as it was called them was ascending). Kennies were just cashing out because they had the TV, and AIT was the only TV transmitting 24/7 then (they started it). So it was normal to be looking forward to lunch break with Juobi at 12pm-2pm.

You didn't even make mention of glo, mtn even Obasanjo made policies that brought the music success we see in Nigeria

Ilaje1:
Firstly they didn't package shit to compete with Americans. The most constant thing in life is change. Naija music has always been dynamic and there are different genre. Baba fryo, danfo driver, father u turn, daddy fresh, gravity, daddy showkey just to mention few have their own genre which is ahegunle galala. You have people Blackky, Zito etc with their genre. And you Majek Fashek who was already international with his reggae influenced with talking drum. AIT started in late 96. Seyi Shodimu already released one or 2 tracks, same with Mc that sang allen avenue. Lots of us that time were already singing boyz to men, memorizing tupac and Biggie rhymes. Remedies went to meet Kennies so they can use AIT to air their music. I remember Kenny gave them the opportunity to perform life - shakomo. And people loved it. Kenny and Dayo used the opportunity to start a label using AIT (own by Kenny in-law) to make money. And AIT started lunch break program anchored by Jumini Adegbesan and sometimes with Tosin Odukoya. My point is don't call those guys nobodies, they were already known in their areas before AIT came. Without AIT, they would still be prominent because naija hip-hop (as it was called them was ascending). Kennies were just cashing out because they had the TV, and AIT was the only TV transmitting 24/7 then (they started it). So it was normal to be looking forward to lunch break with Juobi at 12pm-2pm.

Like I said they gave some people opportunity
You've still not ruled out kennis music....They had their shortcomings but still played a role in the entertainment industry

Taba21:
So this greediness and hatred caused by your cursed region are government.

I have no issue against the man Obi....
But this their Ibo factor who come to bare with time after being elected just like what we see about Bubi

Vinnie2000:
Thank you bro.
Despite dier shortcomings, Kennis music were the ones who Revolutionize Nigerian music.
Formerly, it was the nice but low class music from Baba fryo, Daddy showkey, Ovie Whiskey,etc dat held sway!

People have even forgotten that makosa had already taken our musix space before this kennis guys did something with Lagbaja...

They may have their shortcomings but they played their role in making an impact..


Kennis music can never be Wished away in Revolutionizing music in the History of naija

Let's not be ungrateful to the kennis guys ...
They package nobodies like Tuface, olu maintain Remedies to beat the competition from American music.....
They played their role well because very few can own a standard music record label to compete with the outside world ...The likes of baba fryo, Daddy showkey, and a few others couldn't beat the competition from outside especially during the Earl 2000s...

GoodMuyis:
Deeper Life vindicated again
When we talk about Christian moderation, they will say we are judging and practising the law

Those who fought Deeper Life church in 90s and early 2000 for not giving women liberty are regretting it now with the scandals they are dealing with.......
Daddy Kumuyi was very right honestly many are already hooked looking for a Savior

StagethemTVee:
Happy 16th wedding anniversary to me and my best friend of University days and prayer partner...coughs. A lot of victories we have celebrated together but it has not been all smooth without sacrifice.

I can tell you for sure that marriage is a beautiful thing if you are willing to be patient, selfless and forgiving. Most importantly, be in the right circle of influence.

It has been 16 years on this journey and several decades to go.

Congratulations to you both
Continue to inspire other nairaland guys day marriage is sweet even after 16yrs

TruthinAction:
Whatever people say, Peter Obi is still a better option than Atiku and Tinubu.

We know he is but I don't subscribe to threat and intimidation from some his supporters......This guys would not mind if he does worse than Buhari as long as he's the President

Dominionkid22:
we understand ur fears,u never knew it will be this large; movement far beyond Igbo;buru ku

Wetin come be insult for here ....
I Didn't quote you na ....I come in peace and lf you want war Definitely it some from somewhere else not from me

AshiwajuFoward:
See one of them. Acting true to type. No worry. By the time Obi loses the election, Una go return to Una 'Biafla or Death' past time. Enjoy your 5-mins of fame, ok? But you can be rest assured that majority of Nigerians won't allow extremists and cyber bullies like you people anywhere near the presidency.

Thats ibo people for you ....No one has threatened anyone for insulting BAT since 2019 till now...
Give this people opportunity of one inch they want a mile through intimidation....They behave like that anywhere they go and would support their own against outsiders no matter how wrong he may be