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Samantha125:
Of course I'll stay, but we'll take weekly turns to taking care of him, there more the wives he has, the more the freedom I'll have until it's my turn...

Lol modern day girls will never agree,they will just kpai the man if he brings another woman to the house.

Samantha125:
I wouldn't mind being in a polygamous marriage, it'll give me a chance to enjoy myself elsewhere while he's busy with his other wives...

Lol you are going nowhere. You must stay and take care of him.

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Kobojunkie:
Are we talking here of many of the same grandmothers and mothers advising their daughters to pursue their careers, make money so that if any man gives them nonsense in marriage, they can immediately leave him and his kids without looking back? 🥱🥱🥱

Are we asking here of the very same grandmothers who now advise their grandchildren to never settle for a man and to choose themselves over love for a man any day? 🥱🥱

Clearly, they want their grandchildren to make smarter decisions than they and their own children made. 🥱🥱

Are you sure grandma really said this?
The mum can say it but for grandma I don't think so

illicit:
What happens to the grandmothers if the grandfather should die when they are no longer knackable...

Their children?


The children or grandkids can take care of grandpa too nah

Most times the children are grown up and have started their own family.
It's quite difficult to take care of grandpa.

MightySparrow:
None.


Each manages the evil if his time

Lol you are sitting on the fence

Our great grand parents had alot of wives then and even the most senior wife will even marry a new young wife for the husband if she feels she is getting old and can't really meet up with what she use to do when she was younger.
If one of the many wives of the man passes away or is indisposed, other wives takes care of the man's home as the man will never be lonely surrounded by the other wives even till old age.
Present day parents now practice one man one wife and if anything happens to the only wife especially when the man is old,just give him 3 months, he has joined the wife in thy kingdom come.
Who is smarter between our grandparents and the present parents ?

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It seems mobile calls are now being taxed and also the rate increased too for calling.
It seems calls are now inclusive of VAT or has it been there and I am just noticing it.
T pain on the beat.

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Got the screenshot of this heartbreak that went viral.

helinues:
I started taking care of things as early as first weekend of December.

Laundry, food stuffs, groceries, infact the January bills already taken care of.

This new year, abeg I no want stress

Very important to sort things out before time and start the new year on a clean slate.

Verbtips:
Happy new year boss

Thanks Verbtips

YoshihideSuga:
To avoid being called "evening newspapers" by social media alpha males. However, the "rush" to marry mostly happens in states with fewer corporate jobs. States like Kwara, Ebonyi, Ekiti, Bayesla, Kogi and the rest of the north. If I be woman wey just finish school in such states, me sef go quick marry.

Lol very true ,you won't really blame them as even their parents wen de shield boys from coming to see them since will now be on their necks asking them to bring a man they will marry.

ednut1:
This is not new. Has been like that for like 20 plus years

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That is how it is currently.

emmy512:
Omoh the way some of them talk to me, I always know they want sharp sharp relationships that leads to marriage. If I be anyhow guy I for don use them

I think marriage is now for the highest bidder currently.
Just have money and pick one,no need to date .If it fails everyone goes his or her separate ways.

always247:
werey curses na scam nothing will do me. I will talk to you on april to remind u that nothing do me

We shall see you cursed soul.

Reloadedisraelp:
Bro abeg take am easy Those words are powerful.... reverse them

Does he know that I am a brand and he is soiling it with false accusations.
If he does not come and renounce those false accusations ,those bullets will certainly get to him.

ThePureDiamond:
Thank you mister guobe. This is an effective way of dealing with, and detering most naysayers on here.

When they come with stones of falsehood, answer them with fire 🔥 and thunder ⚡!

Thanks he will meet his Waterloo as he is a cursed soul.
You will see the correct scores on him very soon.

Joeblaze26:
Àsé!!!

He will see what will hit him.
It is not everyone you catch cruise with.

franchasofficia:
Dating someone for years does not guarantee a superb marriage should you guys marry.


Marriage is a gamble.

Many ladies and guys pretend and hide certain bad qualities in them during dating until you marry them, then u can uncover some of those dirty characters and attitude.


What matters most is to make sure you are physically attracted to the person, number 1.


Secondly, he/she has fear of God, two.

Thirdly, he/she has empathy and human conscience.


For ladies, she must be respectful and have a forgiven heart cos you must offend her severally self. If she is an unforgiven person, na war, and u can decode all these qualities in few months of dating and knowing if you are serious to know.


Lastly, her family background matters, how is the relationship among the siblings and between the children and the parents.


Money management. If she is a spender who only find joy and happiness when she is spending money, run!


If he is violent and find it easy to raise his hands to beat, run and don't look back.


If he does illegal things and crimes to earn a living, run!



Lastly, follow your inner spirit if you havent destroyed it in the past.


Over familiarity can breed contempt, dating for too long can lead to over familiarity and growing apart. People should not date beyond 3 years unless it's due to financial lack, then both should agree and work together to improve their finances if they truly wish to marry

You just said it yourself, how will she know these traits within 3 months.
If one that have dated for sometime is a gamble then the one that have dated for just 3 months should be ready for an electric shock.

dynicks:
that's not the point he's making bro....what he's tryna day is that any lary that's displaying desperation to get married, could fall victim to someone who would just wanna play her and probably waste her time ....

Exactly the message I'm passing.
They may marry you,even have 3 kids with them and the beast in them comes out and they are through.
I have seen it happen to so many girls.
There is nothing as good as marrying a Friend you are used to as it guarantees marital bliss.

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franchasofficia:
There is nothing wrong in a lady that have graduated from the university to desire to marry and start her own home, if she is lucky enough to find a man stable and serious to marry her, and she finds him okay, why is it a problem?


Abi u want them to remain single so that u can be using them to learn different sex-style in that your unholy bachelor bed ba?

If you go through my write up properly, you will see where I said some may be lucky while most get their fingers burnt.
It is not really about getting married but staying married.
If you rush into marriage ,you might probably rush out.

always247:
guobe the draw scammer happy new year.

If I have ever scammed anyone it shall never be well with me and may disaster await me this new year but if you are lying and making false accusation s on me may you be hit by a great disaster within the first 3 months of the incoming year.
So shall it be and I lay a curse on you.

helinues:
You must have probably had some bitter experience

From what we see happening, one has to be very conscious in this present day.

Goodmarlian:
Time is going na why,I once had a lady like that too, I asked her out years back she refused because she was dating a big boy living in the island and I am a broke student living in the mainland after four years the guy dump her, she came back to me to see if I am still interested but sorry I don move on, no feelings again she try try try try to cajole me into marriage but I can't marry her because of her desperation I don't like her romantically anymore.

That was an error some of the girls make by going for frivolities and when reality sets in they become desperate .

AfeezShomorin:
There is nothing wrong with ladies being anxious to get married knowing that they have a biological clock which is running down

Anxious leads to desperation and mistakes can be made.
Knowing your partner properly is the most ideal situation

helinues:
How about some guys getting married the moment they start having extra change because they can no longer do house chores

It's so funny how jobless ladies always talk about marriage

It's important to know your partner properly even if you are a guy.
Plenty witches full outside, if you go marry witch na u sabi.

There is this girl I know, I chatted with her just like 3 months ago and asked about her love life.
She explicitly told me that the guy she really loved and was dating wasn't really into her and it seems she was the person pushing the relationship .
She said she had to break up with him because the relationship wasn't heading anywhere.
Just a couple of days now,I am seeing proposal, traditional wedding pics of her flying around.
The bottom line is that once most girls are through with university, they just want to get married.
Once a guy comes and say mar before he says rriage, they have jumped on him.
Some of the girls are lucky though with this act but alot get their fingers burnt.
You need to know the person that you will spend the rest of your life with very well as just knowing someone and getting married to the person within a few months can be catastrophic.
I know most girls won't take the advice as asoebi has to be sewn and jolof rice eaten.

Double0h7:
You just want to give me work! My hoover and washing machine will work in 2026. I’m chilling tonight 😏

Are you a genz,Hand washing is what we were brought up with,better use your hands and clean up those dirty clothes. Lol

meobizy:
I don’t understand how betting works. What are you showing me?

Stop being a kibitzer or a buttinsky in what you know nothing about.