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Lol dude she's been getting pumped. Her behind has been hardened. Just kidding o what a post.

You don't sing your feelings to a girl unless you're 100% sure she's attracted to you. Sure you can express your feelings through other actions, but I don't subscribe to that tenet of you voluminously telling her how you feel; at least not so soon.  She ain't even your girlfriend. You may end up looking like a foolish wussy when she hurts you.

Just let her know you're interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with her.  If you go coo coo and gaga for her like that, telling her you're in love and all that extra pansy soft puppy crap, you will most likely feel miserable for a really long time.    Been there, done that.  It ain't even worth it.

I do think you should take charge by being assertive.

Happy Super Bowl Sunday.

aye,
Since when did I begin caring about your platitudinal, negligible remarks. Back ko front ni. Ko ra e lo jo.


poster,
didn't you say you don't mind?

Maybe you're not attractive to her by her measure of attraction.

Assuming all you have listed is true, I wonder why she wouldn't be attracted though.

gosh this babe and her ridiculous absolutes. annoying as heck.

yup it's the face.

the rest are meaty and peachy

Her face

I believe this man is toying with your emotions and being manipulative. Maybe he feels he's found a good woman but still wants to eat the crumbs outside before venturing into something meaningful with him. Put your foot staunchly on the ground and make it known to him that you will not wait around for him or accept his indecisiveness. Sounds like you care for him, but that's no reason to let a man turn you into an emotional wreck. There are men out there that I'm sure can treat you better and are ready for what you have to offer.

Being introverted is no reason to be inarticulate.  Once again though, patience is key.  If he's not unfortunately dumb or uninterested in you, his one-word responses could be due to nervousness or something  .

Facebook is what you make of it.

It's very tough, but it happens. 

If you can't escape or fight the feeling then it may have been set in stone that you two are meant to be.

The holy book did say that love never fails.

shilling,
You are cute yourself so you probably should have given it a shot.  But I understand that guys are typically expected to make the first move, so that may have prevented you from making a move.

Don't give up, there are many tons of us introverts left that you can indulge. I'm one. lol.

Siena:
I don't agree with one's girlfriend sleeping at another man's place, just because of power failure. It's morally wrong.

Where has this girl lived? I'd say she should be used to power failure, that's a poor excuse to sleep at a guy's house. If we all did that, most homes in VI, VGC and Abuja would be over crowded, due to the sudden rush of people from power-stricken areas, coming to sample electricity, so they could sleep!

OP, there's plenty your girlfriend has left out - sure, she said without being coerced that she was spending the night at some guy's home. But, would she have made the call herself to tell her you? There's also the possibility she only mentioned it, just in case her male corper friend spoke in the background, and you our mugu poster heard. It's called, covering your ar5e - she's just a smart liar. If you think nothing happened, or this was the first and only time she's spent the night with the male corper, then you're a stone jerk, and deserved to have the word "MUGU" branded across your forehead with a red-hot branding iron.

Wake up and smell the coffee, and do what you know deep down needs to be done, rather than come here with your sob story.

I agree.

Are you particularly interested in an introvert, if I may ask? and for what reason?

I've always been an "it's the thought that counts" kind of dude. Weigh your pockets before you decide to fork out huge pennies on val gifts for your woman. If she's considerate she would understand. Besides, there are far better ways to show you appreciate her on valentine's day than outrageously expensive gifts. Immerse the day in romance and plan some events to show how much you care.

^^ It really depends on her reasons for being interested in the introverted guy to begin with. If she has the patience to discover the person behind the shyness/introversion(??) . I would simply say be yourself and accept him for who he is.

Yes dude you can definitely fall in love through internet romance.  Although those feelings may not be a good predictor of what meeting your lover in person would be like.  That physical meeting (if it happens) can either enhance, reinforce and tighten the spark of love you have developed, or it may kill it.

In all I would say don't be discouraged by the iea of possibly loving someone you have not seen, even if it is the fantastic idea of that person you are in love with.  Even though folks can lie about their identity (but that happens both in person and in cyber-reality). A lot of love these days are heavily devoted to our imaginings of what we feel about the other person, because it's truly impossible to completely know that person inside-out.

One of the benefits is that you would probably get to connect deeply to the core of that person's personality.

Seriously gross dude.

I'm a shy dude too. Introverted. Just take your time to get to know her and get more comfortable with her. Break her in. Before you know it she will feel at home with ya and her bubble of personality will be revealed to you.

I am going to bite you

Must you question my freedom silly gee

Sarah a:
if it were to be the Guy no body we hear of it.but one thing am sure of, is that, this lady mean no harm

What nonsense. How are you so sure? Are you the girl in question or were you there with her?

Birds of the same feather.

one person managed to teach you what the male gender is all about?

pray tell what' the male gender all about?

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=393277.msg5463077#msg5463077 date=1265493266]Beauty without brain is like a well without water, so I say both.[/quote]A well without water is not a well.  Just a pit or some sort of hole, no?

Bin Laden's hideout  

Hard hitting, skill, speed, athleticism, thrill.

Fun to watch.

Hmm unle imhotep

It's organized war

Well I won't be dicking her brain. So if we're speaking strictly in terms of bedmatics here of course I'll opt for the hottie.

lalaboi:
Yeye sports lol. . .break spine untop wetin? lol

Male pride.

superbowl weekend