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I love you but you don't love me back

davidylan:
It had already gone beyond unfixable. Worse i had to spend a few hrs running through her many emails for 1 yr begging me to reconsider. If i hadnt left Nigeria i would have been married to her by now.

All's well that ends well anyway.

Chai, that sucks.

Ahhh so many men have wept.

davidylan:
Yeah . . . once.

- the night i woke up and realised i had made a huge mistake leaving and hurting her.

So then why didn't you go back.  Fixable situation, no?

Abekeade08:
Hmm i didnt know you were this wicked.

No, boo, I'm not wicked o. I'm probably too nice of a dude. Btw, that's what I THINK I will do. I probably wouldn't hit her though.
We men have got to control ourselves.

she wee wees on the bed? ooo

michelin89:
The thing dey heavy me!

SMH @ Word governorship by Censorship bots.

horrible.

Words like assiduous, assumption, and hassle are now forbidden?


Edit: Nevermind. There was no censorship. Just your own dirty mind playing tricks on you. Heavy backside coo, lumpy frontside ni.

I want both. I'm not interested in falling victim to unrequited love.

daylae:
Well,yes.lost her in a car accident.

Sorry bro

michelin89:
@ poster

Whoever the babe who made you cry is, I must send her an appreciation card.

ROFLMAO Big ASSumption there  

parislomo:
oops!! I'm not a guy!! **jets out**

You noticed I didn't ask the babes, huh?  Their tear ducts are ever-flowing.  

You can contribute nonetheless.

Read the header. Of course if you're asked publicly by friends or other questioners, you would likely deny it.  But have you ever at some point cried over a girl, publicly, privately? If yes, why?. . . Don't lie!

I've heard about and read stories of guys falling off mechanisms, breaking bones in their bodies, bleeding from their noses with knots all over their faces who still dont' cry over these injuries.  Yet these very same dudes can sob like new-born babies over a babe.

Peyton Manning is a great reg. season quarterback but a mediocre playoff performer.

True GOATS git 'er dun.

baybbootz:
player alertttt

Lol , I beg your pardon? I beg to differ. Oya give me your number and I will prove it to you .

She's posting for therapy, ujuju. ujuju since when did you become a therapist.

Make that 0. No val for me. I'll be making love to my books.

tkb417:
whats there to plan
got it outsourced to some ladies who are into events and stuffs.

the headache of plannin isnt mine

Lol abi o

I'm not casting blames at her, just simply wondering why she's waited a whole decade to cry blood and foul.

Probably not.

We didn't have Bynum either,

Ujujoan:
Please try and read the posts . . . and understand them before commenting!

She said she told him that (to sleep with other women) before he disvirgined her . . and that after she gave in and had intimacy with him, it was on the condition that there would be no other women, which he agreed to, but being a MAN, he just couldn't keep his thing between his legs!

She forgave him then, yes, but that dosen't mean she forgot! Betrayal can be tricky! I bet she's thinking back now because she's beginnig to see signs that maybe he's doing it again!


@ Poster

I don't the direction of your thinking. I know you think you'll feel better if you cheat too but you are wrong, you'll only feel worse. And to make it even worse, if you get caught, people will blame YOU . . . So if I were you, I'll just let that thought go! When you took the chance with him, I'm sure you knew deep down that he'd do it again.

I think you should learn to live with the past, try and forget it. Don't let it ruin your life now, it's not worth it. But if you catch you hubby cheating on you again, let me know . . . _{I have a gun!}

You shouldn't encourage your man to cheat on you. Pre or post marriage. It's a disaster as evinced here.

LOL

[quote author=Tee_Jay link=topic=281345.msg5476836#msg5476836 date=1265677233]her generosity, she never says no.[/quote]If ever I meet your girl, you're in trouble

I would make her say yes so many times that you would beg her never to say yes ever again.

Lol try listening to pohrno while studying

@POSTER, and so? Should we start crying or fidgeting because of that?

Y'all can take your prima donna baby-mama arses back to your white masters' footsteps.

Mschew. Nonsense and ingredients.

Oh please, cut off the sappy love bull. She cheated on you! I can't think of too many things that are more disrespectful than that. Are you waiting till she cheats on your matrimonial bed as well? Sure you love her, but she has repaid your love by spitting on you and showing a lack of care for your own feelings. That's piss poor love from her in my opinion. You can love her all you want but you probably deserve much better treatment than that.

Then discuss it with your potential wife before hand to avoid any complexities if/when you do get married.
If your partner does not want children either, then that's one problem that's been taken care of.

Correct me if I'm wrong, but you brashly encouraged your man to go out and do work on other women? And you buttressed that by telling him you don 't mind?? To add insult to injury you caught him cheating but waited 13 years to start hurting?

Am I missing something

Anyways, I don't see how evening the score will make you feel any better. Might end up leaving you feeling worse with more voids to fill. You can either forgive him or simply terminate your marriage. Your decision.