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bluespice:
cute

But i understand what you're saying, the problem is when it all comes down to the basics, we are both saying the same things. If a woman chooses or finds herself at home while the husband brings home the philosophical bacon, they should both never try to trivialize the other's job. While the man should see no reason not to help out occasionally and when he's asked (politely and reasonably) by his wife, the wife should also understand the man works and gets tired the same way she works and gets tired.
Understanding and compromise is how marriage works, or isn't that what our parents try to tell us? isn't that what submission is really all about?

The inherent message that both husbands and wives shockingly miss is LOVE.

A man should love and cherish his wife like God loves the church, and the woman in honor of his love and the mercy of God should submit in deference to her husband.

bluespice:
even with that example, the man still has the responsibility of helping out ocassionally
you can't go on about providing the money n expecting everything to be done for you for that reason alone?
a marriage is a union, not a contract or acquisition.
Making the effort to join in the house work on weekends, taking out the trash, these are menial things that a sole breadinner can do to help out a bit. (since we're talking home responsibilities now)

again, the man will not completely fold his arms and renounce househould tasks, he just wouldn't be under as much of an obligation to perform the soft-chore responsibilities.  if he's out there winning bread, what is she doing and where does her money go ?
women are dissatisfied with useless men and in relation men also refuse lazy women.  i understand the plight of men who shoulder the monetary responsibilities, and it's only fair for the woman to pamper the home.

a lot of this conversation borders on the kind of relationship one is in so i am going to desist from making absolute statements.

GL:

hey, is that good or bad because lol i would have emailed you quicker than the speed of light

bluespice:
It doesnt begin to materialise when they marry, sh1t starts when they dating. If i'm dating you, you have absolutely no right to tell me to do your laundry

GL:
sometimes they put on good disguises before marriage, so the woman has no inclination of how useless her husband is until after several years of marriage.

if prayer didn't lead you to the right man then
then divorce sweetie! God does not compulse a woman to put up with a heartless animal.
i know it's easier said than done, but . . . . sometimes count your loses

(the fc-uk we got laundrettes for?) if you're sick or other wise indisposed, that's understandable lil things like this are examples; submission to many people (both men and women) is another word for glorified slavery. Glorified cos you get to live in the same house, sleep in the same bed, bear the same surname (the doods will rarely ever let her retain her maiden name for any reason), and have intimacy together.

I agree with this, except in relationships where the man is the dominant breadwinner of the household.
A woman then asking him to come home and man the other responsibilities is just being ridiculous.

those are useless men. women should know better than to marry useless men.

bluespice:
tell me u aint ever seen that fuckery before

LoL only African Americans

GL, I'm going to treat your wink as a yes. LOL

smh

gl please marry me o

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chiogo where's your track
i wanna hear u curse

chiogo:
Lmfao!! you're not well.

Anyway, I dunno how to do this recording thing, I woulda cussed your a$$ out

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