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you will ask your husband to change his name to femi

lmao

i'm not femi

i'm dosu

sickness!

is there a heaven for hopeless sinners

har har har that's hilarious @ ibukun

yea

you about to make another one of those? cool
put the finishing touches on it abeg

sugabelly:
What is this Nigerian obsession with women and submission? The Bible was written according to JEWISH culture.

In other words, if you are not from Israel, and your wife is not from Israel, then I beg of you get the f uck back and stop disturbing us.

There are so many silly Nigerian men out there that keep coming on Nairaland and complaining about how women are not 'submissive enough' and how women are becoming 'westernized' and there are more than a few equally silly Nigerian women supporting them and spouting the same bullshit.

Well here's a newsflash for you:

1. Submission is not part of our culture. Nigerian women were the breadwinners of the family (with their trade and other economic activities) for thousands of years before those missionaries came and filled your heads with bullshit.

So, if anyone is behaving in a Western manner it is you silly Nigerian men that are desperate to have someone submit to you so you can beat your chest and feel like a big man.

2. I don't know about you, but where I come from little boys are not born with accompanying female servants attached to their umbilical chords so if you are waiting for a woman to bow down to you and answer 'yes sah! no sah!' then you are wasting your time. Go out and achieve something with your life instead of looking for someone to put beneath you so you can feel important.

Your wife is not your servant, and even more importantly, your wife is a GROWN ADULT. Adults don't roam about "obeying" other adults that are their mates and adults certainly don't roam about "obeying" their lovers. A relationship is a compromise. If you want something, you ASK NICELY (with please and thank you included) and if the person says no, you shut your trap and go do it yourself. No woman on this Earth and beyond it is under any obligation to serve or obey any man, husband or not.

Men need to stop fooling themselves and being silly. There are SO MANY threads like this on Nairaland. Should a woman be submissive? Should a woman wash her husband's clothes? nya! nya! nya!

Just stop it. Your silly dreams of a chauvinist utopia where women will meet the beck and call of men are just that: DREAMS! And they will never, NEVER come true. EVER. I'm tired of all these silly as f uck men with their Dark Ages mentality.

Nobody is going to submit to you. And any woman who will is A SlowPoke or desperate or both.

Men who have confidence and pride in themselves and their accomplishments don't need to constantly look around for submissive lackeys to feel important.

Nonsense and ingredient. Is it only obey? Is it only submit? Why don't you daft men submit to your wives? Oya come and work for your wife! Wash her panties! Wash her bra! Plait her hair, help her dress, cook her dinner, clean the house, take after the children.

All you idiots know how to do is brag and complain about women meanwhile you are so ungrateful and unappreciative of all the things women sacrifice for you glorified spermatozoa donors.

In fact, it's not your fault. I blame the legions of silly NIGERIAN WOMEN that act as if marriage is a do or die affair. I blame every last one of them that start freaking out if they're not married by 25. Because their idiocy has given you men swollen heads. You now think you are so important that everyone should 'submit' to you.

Are you God? Why the hell should anyone submit to anyone else when they are just flesh and blood same as them? Who do you think you are, some kind of supernatural creature? Submission my foot. Rubbish. I blame those silly missionaries. They are the ones that filled the heads of Nigerian boys and men with poo and overinflated ideas of their own limited self-importance.

Rubbish. You men had better watch it. You do almost nothing yet go about making demands from women like you own the world. You had all better be careful. When technology advances far enough we'll just pack you all into a warehouse on the moon and milk you of your spermatozoa while women on Earth will have government issued vibrating dildos and visit spermatozoa banks for artificial insemination when they want to get pregnant.

It will be good riddance to all you silly men that think just because you have pe nises you can boss women around.

Submission ni, Submission ko.

what's with the long-winded dissertation and male abhorrence

if you harbor a grudge against nigerian men, you are not under obligation to marry one.

kick rocks and stop taking your frustration out on your keyboard!

didnt talk you to me yesterday.

why

one of us must know how to cook  

it just appeared to me that way lol

ibkaye:
no I'm not, I usually cook my food

wow   cardiac shock  
wouldnt have g uessed it

lmao are you a pre-cooked food junkie

do you know how to make it

are you obsessed with garlic

that's gross

i'm not much of a cook lol

what then

come hither i will make you breakfast


scrambled eggs with toast

breakfast time

bluespice:
submission is a term that people don't understand
i can be submissive to my husband don't mean he's going to sit on the sofa and yell "woman make me a sammich" and i'll go scuttling around

lmao

love is non-negotiable.

Yeah mods, please efface the divergent posts.
The mission is to save lives, not apportion blames.

It's no secret that Haiti is severly impoverished and those dying people need all the help they can get in the wake of this disaster.

lmao some nigerians and their myopic approach to issues

lol david didnt eat his wheaties today

maga don pay make i shout halleluya

give am belle

naw dude i dont mean london uk