[quote author=CaveAdullam post=132119125]Women's desire for "chaotic men" is an evolutionary instinct that helps them determine a man that can protect and provide for them and the children.

Women are the weaker sex, so they constantly need a man to be bounded around them. (If you notice carefully, since the advent of feminism and "what a man can do, a woman can do it better", the patriarchy pillar around them has collapsed and you can see that every generation produces sets of more damaged women than the previous). Because no virile figure to guard them.

That evolutionary instinct makes them gravitate towards bad boys and jerks at their youthful age. They play. They have sex. They have fun. They have party. Meanwhile, they ought to use that stage and age to lock down a man who has a capacity to provide and protect even though he lacks the physique and destructive character of Brock Lesnar.

Women who openly forment chaos in their relationship, brewing useless drama is one that either is either a h0e or lack a strong father figure that exposes her to the peurile way of the street.

Looking for drama, quarrel, and war rather than praying for the consistent peace of the union reeks of extreme foolishness which sits on a low IQ bench + damaged enough to even be considered as a mate.

That's why there's always an emphasis for men to get married to virgin women only + or women that have a strong father figure in their life.

Those other ones that have found glamour in the street are only fit for sexual recreational purposes because they are the ones that always seek for chaos + they are baggages of worst sexual and emotional experiences.

A woman is the resting nest for a man. That's why she's softer + tender + finer than the man. You don't expect a man to fight battles outside and still come back home to repeat same with a person lower than him and even at that, no ROI for engaging in such drama.

This is also why men must be assertive too. Because it helps to calibrate the hubris of women around them without being domineering, a talkative, or fighter. Being assertive and dominant will send signals to her that you are aware of her drama + won't participate in it + if care is not taken, she will be thrown outside.

Dramatic women = damaged women = h0es.

yunafa:

recently relocated to the USA so his musical career will materialise...

Ha ha ha ha

Fiyin007:
The craziest and most strategic thing that can happen in the final week is for either kassia or Kellyrae to take a voluntary exit if they both enter 🤷‍♂️🔥🔥🔥

If Biggie allows that.

Geezeem:


He is still a mumu regardless

He might win....who knows? Not that I give a flying fcvk

But I hope he has enough sense to refuse an appearance for all star game, if not what happened to white money Will happen to him

....by then, the wagon would have gone to select another project to work on

What happened to White money please?

I would be happy if one of Kelly or Kassia wins not because I am a fan, just to change the narrative and also the fact that they are married and both in the house...I like their hustle spirit..

And the winner of Big brother Naija Season 9 is Kelly or Kassia...whoo whoo

BelieveAfrica:
For a guy seeking to marry, you are too clinical. And it seems to me that you are 'majoring' on minor.
Ask yourself why would someone, not even your girlfriend, would come into your house cook noodles and want to deny?
Your investigation extended to checking for crumbs of Noodles on top gas cylinder. And to make matter worse, you are asking if that's red flag? So you will make a long life decision base on Noodles that was cooked?
So if she had own up, you would have given her pass mark?
Incredible!
Whoever tells you, one day you will marry holy Mary is deceiving you. The issue is so inconsequential to even consider, except you are looking for an alibi to dump her!
Goodluck.

Thank you!!
He did all these to a lady he willingly gave a spare key to?
To each his own.

LilMissFavvy:
Why did you ask her repeatedly if she cooked? According to you, you bought food items so as to cook, so when she said she didn't cook, why did you keep asking. Did you expect her to stay without eating? You even went to the waste bin to check, checked the kitchen, checked the gas, you are a very stingy man. When you leave her and start dating a new lady, remember to come back here and give us update/complaint of what your new woman does, because you sound very stingy and follow up tiny things which shouldn't matter.

We still have people with critical reasoning!
Thank you!

finallybusy:
All this write-up on top noodles. My friend, it seems you’re better off single.

Guyman turn FBI cos of indomie as liru as indomie ...Omo, country hard tho, can't blame him...These are the kind of guys that will check and count the meat or fish in the soup before jetting out to work!!


Single ladies, stay sharp!

N:b I do not justify the ladies act of lieing , cos it's totally nasty to lie as such..

I don show face my pple..
How are y'all doing?
Hope this season will be fun..

frankblinkz:
For this 9ja
You no want Mad,
You no want do ritual.
You no want do fraud.
You no want be pastor.
You no want be politician
You no want be Add yours......



And you want make am for this Naija ,How !!!
I ask again How

You no want be prostitute

My cute neighbor
Hope you are reading bayi
This could be us!

Sterlingdgreat:
This girl has been giving me green light for almost a year now. I am not currently ready to venture into a relationship. This girl keeps on pushing even though I have told her I'm not ready for any form of relationship right now. I want to focus and develop myself first


I like this girl but I don't love her. She is nice, decent and in her early 20's. She has never had had any form of romantic affair with any guy. She's is this kind of churchy girl.

With me, this girl has broken her boundaries. She had promised herself never to sleep in a guys house which she had always maintained until of recent when she visited me and I cajoled her to stay which she succumbed to. At the long run, I caress her and we had a deep kiss, her first kiss

She promised herself until after her wedding b4 she will have sex which she always emphasize on. The way things are going, I can scope her and chop her fresh coochie only on the basis of love which I know it's a lie. On the other hand, I don't want to hurt her cos she's a nice girl. I have never spent on her, otherwise is the case. She brings food for me sometimes 😁

Guess what, this girl come dey ask me one mumu question

''what are we. Do you really love me ''

I just gave her the answer that will put a smile on her face

LOL

If you see someone acting strange in a mad way e.g people with mental illness..

Abeg just FOCUS on where you are going.. especially Idumota market
Don't stare at them else.

Proudly Omo Ijebu...

Steeze on different levels

Bluffly:

They should fight to reduce those senators and executives salaries and not just increase workers salaries

Trueee but who will endorse it? Prsesident or Members of house reps?
This country is a goner

If na monogamy go work for u( do it with your full chest)
If na polygamy go work for u( do it also with your full chest)
If na co- parenting will work( fecking do it)

Everything has it's own Pros and Cons, weigh your options and act accordingly..IMO

helinues:
Wetin Abiodun do una now.

Oh I forgot, una dey wait for physical projects done by his administration when there are lots of abandoned projects littered across the state.

Though he could do better but not as worst as some people are claiming

Do you reside in Ogun State or are you from Ogun State...Tell me one thing he did as governor that's special to this administration.

Dapo Abiodun -3/10

Thegamingorca:



Ruptured appendix will not show. Only an inflamed appendix will show very well. Your sister go still drop that 700k for another hospital within the next 6months

You mean your sister cause my sister is hale and hearty since she took the antibiotics....You have an issue with the experience I shared, call your police

Mom007:


I think the millions of men that have good wife's don't celebrate them enough, that's why whenever the few odd stories of misbehaving women break out, they go into a frenzy. Anyway, the world loves bad news so let them enjoy.

Trueeeee.

Mom007:


How is that a sign of good treatment? That is what 70% of folks that travelled using study route did. The wife schools and works just 20hr a week but the husband, who is dependent is open to work as many hours as possible. The same thing that worked for others, why is his own different? Stupid and incomplete story. As if you Nigerian men don't know how wicked and toxic you are. You also don't know when and where to stop. Carry your bad behaviour to UK where to divorce is easier than to cook a pot of soup. And all you birds of his feather are here bashing the woman without hearing her side. Like say Osinachi did not die now, the world would not have known that she was in an abusive marriage with a beast that eventually beat her to death.

Let them " feast" on the incomplete story to massage their ego...They need it sometimes..

I want to believe that No sane lady will do that to the hubby considering the sacrifice (s) he made...Are Nigerian ladies that bad OR It's the Media painting us bad?

Ogbuu101:

It is not nature.
It's the hunger in Africa

Kill meee

1.Rice

2.Hot Amala and gbegiri soup combo

3.Beans and soft corn..


Hmnnnn, salivating already

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Please don't let any of your siblings study any of the aforementioned courses in this era, they are better rewriting JAMB or learning digital skills than going to higher institution to waste time and resources, and if by mistake you allow them study any of these outdated generic courses, then prepare to support them with learning trade or starting a small scale business after graduation.



Some courses ought to be scraped in Nigeria. NUC/NBTE and Ministry of Education ought to revisit our tertiary education curriculum and remove a lot of outdated courses from there and replace them with current trends that can produce graduates that will solve current global challenges.

Be calming down nahhh
Kilode..

I like her act in Alakada movie..
She was the girl that acted the role of Toyins friend from a wealthy home....

May your soul rest in peace

Proudly Gen y

Truthfullone19:


At Seun, I wrote a writeup about the process at the healing school on page 9 of this thread. This exposes the tactics used from a first hand experience.

Thanks for sharing....
May God keep you
May God protect you
May God bless you bountifully

Donaldoni:
This looks like a sponsored post...

Morayo was only playing devil's advocate. She wasn't serious with her submissions.

Thank you cos I don't understand again ooo
I feel people don't just like her for whatever reasons...

Damsel 7.5/10..

A very good movie.

It's Economics for me....
How I hate that subject
Demand and Supply wetin concern me with dat

Thegamingorca:



Nah your stomach your own appendix dey? If sonographer tell you say he no see anything for the stomach, does that mean there is no appendicitis?!.

Lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

We did abdominal scan ooo...A ruptured appendicitis will not show in the scan abi? Maybe you were even the doctor, repent now before you go kill innocent patients....Na Prison you go land straight

Thegamingorca:



Nah your stomach your own appendix dey? If sonographer tell you say he no see anything for the stomach, does that mean there is no appendicitis?!.

Lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

The doctor said it has ruptured that it's an emergency....okay
So next time ask questions if some things ain't clear to you b4 pouncing on my mention...okay