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CallMeDrino:
Weytin you dey download.. Ah ah

CAPSLOCKED:
OH, SCREAMING JESUS CHASES AND KILLS CATS... BUT CANNOT CHASE AWAY HERDSMEN, OR SOLVE ANY REAL LIFE PROBLEMS.

ABEG CHRISTIANS, WHY DO YOU LIKE DECEIVING YOURSELVES?

DivineGrace123:
Yeah, most introverts are good listeners because they usually listen before they speak.

okikiosibodu:
I have never been to a beach not because I can't afford it, but cos I can't stand the imagination of a crowded place with total strangers, in an open space. I live in lagos. If it's a big hall (say a partyl I can always step out or go to the gents to get a grip of myself and then return. In the theatres, I make sure I go early to the cinema so I can be among the first set of people to enter and then walk straight to the furthest chair at the rear, to avoid human interaction/ contact. But don't knw how to deal in a beach
I know it won't be a day's work, but can you give a guide on how to come out of this shell?

JacksonMS:
we were not made to have a partner.

Martinez39:
I have been celibate all my life. I don't intend to get married or have children or form any short- or long-term romantic relationship till I die. I will just enjoyingly ride through my only shot at existence.

Edit: for those that are replying me, the celibacy is voluntary.

OneKinGuy:
It's not about riding horses shit. People have their choice. The lowest movie quality I can ever download is 720p and that's around 800mb-1.5gb. And that's if I don't see the 1080p version at all. Have a good Morning

saajus:
Do you want to be downloading 2gb video every day? 5g or 4g will not change your data consumption rate, but your browsing habit will do. 5g does not increase the size of the facebook homepage or increase your mailbox size or increase the Instagram page size. Maybe because it's fast, you may be tempted to do more activities than what you are doing right now. Let's use a real-life Scenario. Assuming you are living in Lagos and Govt finish a fast rail line that can get to Ibadan in 30mins. Will you be going to Ibadan everyday without purpose all in the name that it's fast to get there. The fast rail line may only tempt you to attend more irrelevant functions if you are not disciplined.

1Sharon:
Bullshitt!

AwkaetitiBabe:
Most psychopaths are introverts... How true is this?

MisterKings:
Do you agree it is shyness that makes you crawl into your shell in the first place? Turns you to an introvert and converts a tiny little place in ur home to ur complacent zone.

MisterKings:
I used to be a very strong introvert. I still am Sha but e don reduce small. I don't start conversations unless the other person starts first. But it was different when I dated my wife. Although my pick up line was sincere. I told her I have seen her face before not sure where and she simply responded that it was in secondary school and from there we started dating.

Toasting a girl for me was one thing that got my heart beating faster than a drum set in church.

Now I look back at my life I regret all the girls I could have dated and all the ones that were giving me signs to come and knack. I was just there dulling.

One time I liked a girl and my only way of toasting her was to form secret admirer and send her small small presents and even stalked her telling her what she was doing at a certain time.

This created a kind of value about me and she was dying to know who I was. When she finally did. We started getting close but my olodo self told a young girl in University that I would like us to start courting for marriage in the nearest future and at this time I no get shishi. The girl blatantly refused saying she had plans for her life and we stopped seeing each other.

Sometimes I feel I probably got married because I can't kill myself over toasting woman who might reject me over and over.
My wife is not an extrovert but she is a very social person as a matter of fact I learn how to talk to strangers from her. She can become friends with u in a few hours and u guys will discuss your whole life.

Being an introvert really keeps u from living your dream and hides you from opportunities. Its really a negative trait. I work full time and run a media business that provides media content in general but it is suffering because I don't know how to talk to potential clients.

That is why next year I have decided to come out of my shell on full throttle. For instance since I am into filmmaking I always love staying behind the scene but next year I am starting a YouTube channel and will appear more next year in front of the screen and I will talk to people just to kill my introvert personality and shyness.

scave:
The problem we have is thinking too much, as I got the idea I decided if I want to talk I won't think of the repercussions. I start talking when ever i wished to and I see people laughing when I talk.

Don't think too much just say it.

The first girl I asked out was a very classy one even the play boys are shy to ask her out, I developed courage asked her even though she didn't accept we became friends and we communicate and she respect me till today.

No lady is too big to talk to, always have that in mind, if she turns you down it's a normal thing don't think too much, look for another, life goes on.

Explorers:
Chris Hemsworth, Avengers Endgame

Iamdeagle:
You're not alone on this. I work best under pressure or when I have a deadline to meet.

As a student then, I spent all my time reading novels until a week to exam, then you'll see me reading like crazy. Beginning of every semester, I'd vow to study every day only to get bored before the week is over.

The andrenaline rush has always been my biggest motivation.
As funny as it may sound, I don't panic under pressure. I'm always calm and will still deliver no matter what.

You ain't alone on this, it's our make up. Hope this helps.

swtme:
Hello everyone
I just came across this post and i am really so excited
I am an introvert and also suffer from anxiety disorder and one of the symptoms is panic attack

This has not been easy because i am married with kids but the good thing is that i no longer have OCD and sleeping paralysis,thanks to the drugs given to me back then by my psychiatrist.

I have stopped seeing the psychiatrist though because i was getting addicted to the drugs and I don’t want to live my life on drugs

Please I would like to know if there’s anyone out there going through this and how they’ve been able to handle this so far

Greatzeus:
That's where you guys always get it wrong. Nigerians call artists who are no more releasing albums broke. They may be right sometimes or most times but not all the time.
Rihanna has several huge sources of income that pays her more than music,same with Jlo,Maria Carey, Rihanna,Maria Carey are among top 5 highest earning female RNB artists in America.

Angelfrost:
You mean a 2 year old is that old??!... Interesting...