Wow so Naija guys like spark in marriage? What with all this married woman should not complain when oga eats all meat, married woman should smile when oga cheats on her cos men are scarce, married woman should not post her photo on internet, married woman should make sure she greets oga first, married woman should not expect oga to help at home,married woman should submit salary to oga, married woman should not own anything that is not bought in oga's name , married woman should kneel when greeting and serving oga food, married woman should look for a way to feed oga good food even when he can't provide much etc etc I believe spark in marriage is mainly for the man, going by some posts men make on NL.

maclatunji:

Are you done or is there more to come?

Go ask the person that gave you the message of not allowing women post photo if there is more don't dos for us to come. So we women can prepare.
Insecure man using woman to show power. I pity your wife. Inshort sef its your type that women cook and eat on their heads. Come to nairaland and ask crazy question. Unrepantant adulterer looking at womens photos all over the internet and in true fashion of a cave man blames the woman for glueing his eyes to her photo.

Backward Nigerian men, next we will hear is , IS IT OKAY TO TRAIN MY GIRL CHILD? SINCE SHE WILL BE OWNED BY ANOTHER MAN ONE DAY.
Don't let your wife take photos, don't let her leave the house(Even though you go about fucking small girls everyday) don't let her go anywhere o. Cos your prick is her master.
Habba woman cannot eat carrot or cucumber woman should stop wearing bra, woman should not be educated, woman should kneel down and present food and water, woman should wait in room and make sure she greets oga first cos its a crime for oga to wake up go to the kitchen hug his darling from behind and say good mornning dear how was your night? Its taboo for Nigerian men. Woman should not use makeup , woman should then be bought and locked in ya papa's house nau while goats and cows roam free.

Right on point my brother. Eg, they make us pay parking tickets and tell us its done in the US and UK. Don't they notice that in the US and UK there is constant electricity, water, good roads, schools and medicals? Why don't they copy the things that will bring comfort to the masses? Cos it will involve them sharing the nation,s wealth beyound their wives and underage girlfriends and their inner personal persons. But anything the western world does that can help them gather wealth, they quickly implement.

Lerin: It's only in Nigeria u will see a new born baby say up NEPA.

Very true. My 1yr old says upaaaa (up nepaaaa) when Nepa take their light.

These are two different things. Traffic offence is different from murder.
The police should locate the said danfo before the owner hides. In advanced country they will stop and study the scene before jumping into conclusion.

Those of you complaining about the woman running away from the scene, who does not know that in nigeria if you hit and kill a person you stand the risk of being lynched to death or burnt in your car by area boys and emergency sympatizers if you stop to acces the damage?

The government is responsible for the lives of people using facilities built by it. You cannot build a bridge don't maintain it and blame the citizen that become casualties for its negligence. Now if people don't use the bridge will it be safer to run across the road? What about those vehicles that have no option but to drive underneath it? Do we also blame them? In nigeria problems that masses should not worry about becomes the major source of worry. We suffer unecesarily in Nigeria. We have a govenment. We should focus on other things like making a living and discovering things to make life easy for us while government takes care of Security, Electricity, water etc but in the black mans world, all man for himself.

Truth of the matter, if Oga does not drop money he should be happy with what ever little or big thing madam puts in front of him for dinner cos she is trying to make sure they don't starve in those trying days.
He should not ask why there is no shaki and bokoto in the soup. He should not ask for turkey when all she can afford on a thight budget is iced fish. He should not ask for fresh fish and appama soup when he gave her nothing to make dinner for the family that day.
And who says a housewife is not contributing to her family? Your mom if she was one wasn't she doing some good for the household by taking care of you kids and your dad?
Men sha, woman work you will be quick to say she is trying to drag position with the man and neglecting the kids. If she sits at home you will be quick to rob it in her nose how useless she is and not contibuting to the household. Well I hope you all have daughters that will marry men with your kind of minds.

Just got a message from my bro that a group of secondary school students are being kidnapped, it said one of them regained conciousness and tweeted. They are in a bus that was supposed to take them within lagos but the bus is now heading towards oshogbo,Ibadan and its Environs. So please if you know the police SOS number pass the message so the men on the roads can lookout go along that road just incase the badguys try to move along hidden paths where police does not stand. If you are in a car along that road pls spread the news to others and be on the lookout for such bus it just might be standing beside your car in that holdup.

Thanks. I just weave it after washing .Have never carried it as fro before sha.

My hair now. Was cut like 4inches short in december and as at today before washing. This is what it looks like though it curls back to half this length when washed.

GirLs take note. See how this young man handled it? And parents too should follow up such reports are made so that this nonsense will stop.

If armed boko boys kill those ones now do we pity them.

Na wa.

@kulyie these ones are big o. They are proud as hell. Once the babe needed my help knocked at my door asked my sis to come and call me that she does not have strength to come in then I said they should send her in she came and was asking if I could help her mend something. I told her I was busy and will never have time to help her that day or another. Na when she go my sis come dey tell me sef say she been dey say she no get power come in make them call me come for am. If say she tell me sooner I for tel the girl word. Her mom is my friend so. This na pikin wey I take 20yrs old pass o.

You welicomu o.

Johndoe100:

I recommend this to all new or about to be husbands. Implement it and enjoy.

Yes recomend it o jare, next victim o sorry new wife will be your daughter or sister. Its very good for their husbands to cage them cos they canot be trusted.
All their kaya will be burnt and then we celebrate their weddings while they are in the cage.

If after doing all that wahala I still need the year of birth why not do a straight forward calculation then?

Tell me how to calculate a strangers age using only his shoe size.

If I know the year of birth, no need for the long story.

And what happens to the man,s sim? Abi him no get babes wey I'm been dey do for corner before maRriage? Maybe they should both brerak their sims na.
Chie Na woman body most men dey form king sha. Inferiority complex will kill men if women don't exist any more o.


MEN leave women alone o. Break sim o destroy sim o a woman dog like most men dogs will always stray. Best bet? Lock her up.

And while at it change phones and skin color and voice and all.

Ayobami concerning the rash, go see his doctor cos you have to be sure if its heat rash, An allergy or some thing like measles or the pox.

For homemade baby food at that age give ground brown rice or any whole grain unpolished rice. Though any other easily available one will do but the first is best. Ground oats too not the pre cooked one if you can manage. Cook and serve with whatever milk baby drinks. Potato irish or sweet boiled or baked. Sweet apples not the too sour ones boiled or baked. Serve with some milk. Same with marshed banana.don't cook banana just wash, peel mash and feed baby .

When your wife or daughter gets pregnant don't allow anyone to treat her nice o. If they want to give her a seat take it from her. Leave her in the sun and ask for another seed planter to sit in the shade. Don't treat her well to make her comfortable afteral pregnancy is nothing its just like an over fed male. Easy to carry like beer induced pot belly. Some men sha, complaining of anything that makes a woman comfortable and if you the poster has common headache he will expect to be treated before an Accident Victim. On that BRT que are there no non-pregnant women too? Or do they do it only when men are around?

Yes! Break it, burn her young single lady clothes, cut her off from family. while at it, burn her certificates and diploma if she has any cos if she dare find a job men can toast her. Then kill all those ex bfs and then put her in a room and seal it with bricks. Keep space for food and your dick to do her doggy style without openning the cage. Durriong labour deliver her yourself o Cos a midwife can go tell people how her younder is and what it looks like. Don't let her look at any man hide her sons from her too. There! Now you have her ALL to your dick alone.

Dudugirl, its safe to give cereal now or mashed banana and some milk. If baby eats enough through BFing then by all means do it for as long as you want. Even while feeding cereal baby can still suck. Milk is still important so don't feel guilty if you try to feed him other. Just know that feeding other food may be challenging at first. Don't do golden morn and others soon o. Most goldenmorn babies don't like eating home made food lots of it can come after babygets used to homemade foods. Wishing you and baby well.

@ Agiboma Are you kalabari? I knew when my son was ready cos before he turned two he would not mind pooing on his pants and playing with it in his pantsfor hours till I find out. I tried the potty thingy but he was scared of it and would not sit on it but scream and would not let me know when he wants to pee or poo cos I wiill make him sit on the potty. I tried at 6mos dint work, tried at 9 mos dint work 1yr for wia? So when I noticed he wasn't comfortable with poo and pee close to his skin again, I siezed the opportunity. His potty has a spot in the living room safe from the eyes of vistitors but he knows where it is so anytime he is pressed he goes there and pees or poos and we both clap sing and do the potty dance praising him. Now he uses the Toilet started last month so potty has been packed for my DD to use soon. Down side? He poos and wears back his pant without letting me know since he gained shitting freedom.

@ dominique awwww sorrry o. My daughter too is teething and the poo isn't leting her rest. She likes eating soup(I cook chicken with rice and beans, potato, carrots and tomatoes and grind and freeze)she loves the crayfish flavour so I add some to the soup. Hope the little prince is fine now. I can't wait to hold her own babies o. One day sha.

Fault of Parents. My neighbours kids are soooo disrespectful they don't greet anyone or say thank you. They are so proud cos their mom makes them think that as long as someone is not feeding them, they don't deserve respect. I am still waiting for opportunity to tell them my mind. E no go funny sha.

@Medler, I am based in Abuja too. Okay let's see how many more we are here in ABJ. My hair pic comming soon.

Siena: I'm not sure how others cope with an interfering mother-in-law, but I know how I would deal with such a situation.

I loved my mom before I met and married my wife. The love I have for both women was very different - I loved my mom, but I'm in love with my wife. My wife is Number One, my mom was aware of this, and accepted it as such. She would never have disrespected my wife, or interferred in our marriage. Why would she? She had her husband, my father to contend with, he kept her busy.

Only an idle, spiteful mother-in-law would attempt to come between her son and his wife. And for this to happen, the son has to allow it. I would never allow it, my mother would never have just turned up unannounced, or decided to move in on a semi-permanent basis. I'm not such a weakling as to fail to defend my wife if need be. And yes, against my mom too, even if it meant I had to banish her from our home, till she learnt to respect my wife. Any man who sits back and allows his mom to torment his wife, and generally raise cain in his house is a stone jerk.

You are different. My MIL is twice divorced and retired so she has all the time to treat hubby and I like a project. SOme women are just wicked. Husband will complain, daughters will complain and son will complain but for where? She wants the DIL to suffer stress. And most DIL can't help but be blamed by MIL for turnning her kids and husband against her. Then the you must go song will start.You must go oo, since they married you there has been divission in my house even my son now warns me cos I talk some sense into you. Something he has never done until you came into this family.

Abi o. A natural hair convention in Abuja every one come with your hair maintanance product let's share Idea and styling tips.

Huuuun

My hair is natural tOo. I use castor oil and shea butter to keep it soft. For conditioning I use organics shea butter conditioning cream. My hair is not long its tough keeping it.