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Abeg make una no vex o GO shildren. In the good ol days true ministers and missionaries left home comfort and others to go preach to people the opened schools, feeding homes and provided shelter for brethren s who could not aFford them. Theses days preachers take from the poor and don't look back to see how they can help the poor back. When last did new generation church build a school where the poor can attend? When have they provided lunch for poor kids? How many sick people have they sponsored for treatment? God is watching. Abeg their worshipers should not bite me oooooooo.

Well I had one who helped babysit my first baby she was treated well infact she is preparing to go for her HND now. She treated my son like a brother. No human is perfect so as expected she had her faults but nothing major. I couldn't live with a person I can't treat as human. If my househelp does not perform I sack her no need to punish another womans child. Besides in my house I cook, prep food for the baby, wash all clthese except that of the maid. I don't leave home for more than 3hrs cos I like to be involved in raising my kids and caring for hubby. Maids work? Clean the house, run errands, play with the children.

Naija men, you marry them poor wahala you marry them rich wahala. See o a woman decide to marry washer man and got herself burnt. If she dumped him and marry rich man they will say we like ready made. Abeg women remember we are important to ourselves learn to protect yourself from violent partners. Don't give anyman room to kill you na ya mama loss if you die like fowl.

Any person that raises his hand violently against fellow human is not of God and did so out of his own pride. Many members have been brainwashed and will gladly give their dady their wives to do if he says The lord told him so. If power dey shack am he would have asked the demon talkiong through the girl to jump out of her. He slapped her and so physically abused her and for that he should obey the law and appear in court . Jesus would have appeared if he was summoned and so would have apostle paul, peter and the rest.

Hmmmmm wonder what confusion would have occurred if jesus had slapped all those possessed people in his time. abeg make religious business men no add physical abuse to the list wey members dey suffer.

Boko Haram is not charity and investment friendly. They probably will blow his company up for employing christians and women.

Well as a woman I will like to be informed by anybody that is not my blood sibling or that is not as close to me as my blood sibling before they visit. Before you judge hear me out. All things beign equal my sibling will understand if I say I am too tired to cook wash and clean after him or her
[We women need a break some times too] and won't even mind doing stuff for me hubby and the kids. But someone not close enough to me to run errands and that will go back home to announce how BROTHERS wife did not serve my food early or wash my clothes or place my bath water when last I went to visit you have to inform me so I can summon up strength and will to take care of your needs while you are around and at least I can also tell you how I am feeling and what you may have to put up with when you come. But of course if you are like a bro or sis and you are my in law feel free to come oooooooooo. I need company. Mama inlaw and papa in law that won't impregnate me for their son are welcome too.

Engagement rings should be worn on the wedding ring finger not on that finger you use to say" bleep you" lol. But our naija people believe that only wedding rings should be worn on the wedding ring finger not true. Oyinbo that did engagement  and the ring put it on the wedding ring finger of the woman.

yes if they plan to be faithful to each other after marriage.
No if they will waka waka after marriage cos a negative test does not mean one is immune to HIV infection in future.

It killed my dear mom last year. stupid nurses who thought swelling up was normarl after a drug was administeered told my sister not to worry that its part of side effect of the medication given to my mom who was recovering from meningitis the doctors took 1 full week to diagnose in BMH port harcourt. she had all the symptoms stiff neck, sensitivity to light, blindness etc they did not know the cause and did not bother to open their medical text books.
In all she swelled up, brain and other organs swelled and failed. They killed my mom just like that o.
Nurses were called they said oh dont worry, the swelling will go down. when persin double im normal size they say its no cause for alarm. chie it still pains me till today. Now I am a complete orphan.

@ MRbrownjay

Abi o. correction taken.

Isnt it dangerous to leave him for that long with drugs in his stomach I think they said such could burst and kill the courier?
If he had drugs without excreting it for 3 to 8 days wouldnt the stomach acid have dissolved the plastic used in wrapping the drug before swallowing?

when will armed robbers learn that rape complicates matter for them? if you must steal then go ahead steal and leave the place. but once you add rape then spiritually you open door for trouble. crime(robbery) wey you for commit then maybe one day repent you come rape woman join, God go just fast forward your capture especially if you rape a married woman. The gods of every land and religion forbids that a woman esp married ones be touched sexually by a man who is not the husband so armed robbers who rape are prone to be caught sooner and they always get worse punishment than others.
Not that I support robbery o. Just the world cannot be cleansed of thieves so if you feel say you must be armed robber dont rape it spoils everything for you.
when robbers attack people normally say ah thank God they did not harm you o they just took phone and money and as long as you are unharmed you can still buy better and bigger car, phone, clothes etc.
but when they rape or kill or maim you hear, God punish them, may they die shamefully,may their families suffer etc etc so, there you have it.
All Ndi fine boys reading this, dont let any of your gang member add rape to your already dirty profile, it will backfire. Make it a strict law. NO RAPE OF MAN OR WOMAN in this gang. and no killing too biko leave peoples lives alone if una kill us all who una go rob again na? as una too lazy to work make una no dey kill people wey dey work hard for una to come thief for night.

I feel for any soul lost. I feel for any life taken. I feel sad if ghadafi killed people and I am sad he got killed and will be sad if those that took his life got killed themselves. No life should be taken or cut short by another.
May God heal libya quickly and grant the souls of those that died during this brief war peace. That said I want no more wars in Africa. cos once there is a war greedy men will want to seize the opportunity to enrich themselves and so they will draw supporters who will fight for their bosses to become the leaders, presidents or kings. And such aftermath of wars dont end quickly.

alimat 2:
Its just too unfortunate and UnIslamic that that some group of Muslims  poll themselves together and name themselves the special/best   group/kind/type of Muslims whereas the Quran does not mention any group/type of Muslims.

The Quran generalized all the muslims as Muslims, their is noting like sunni,shia,wahabian,liberal,bla bla bla Muslims Its either u are a Muslim or not a Muslim.

All mention in the Holy Quran about Muslims is to fellow the footstep of the Prophet(saw) as our role model and anybody that feels he is not among the footstep followers is definitely not a Muslim or a disobedient Muslim.   

I think we as Muslims have more task before us than this Sunni,shite  bla bla bla issues we are disturbing ourselves over.

[b]We should work together to fight the unbelievers instead of the sect issue.
Muslims should think forward towards the growth is Islam in our prospective community rather than d sectoral issue

Any u any body thinks that the Quran made mention of types of muslims u can quote the chapters and verses

Why do you want to fight unbelievers? wetin dem do you? its not in your place to force someone to believe in a religion just as nobody has a right to fight with you to force you into accepting any other religion than your chosen faith. Tomorrow when they say islam is violent na una go carry dirty mouth come say na lie. shiooooor and you are a woman o. Violent woman at that. You can kill sef if them put knife for your hand may God punish you everyday and take health from you so you wont have time to preach this violence poo anymore. Amin.

My dear you are really brave. I had4 miscarriages with before I sought doctors help cos they normally dont do much for you with miscarriages until you've had two or 3. So I went to the gyno and I was told 1 of my tubes was blocked, I had uterine subseptum,and I think some cysts too and a small fibroid. and I was also sent with my hubby to run genetic tests. We were praying that all will be solved before matter of big money treatment arise cos we had no insurance to cover such high cost medicals. As God would have it I got preggers again (note I wasn't having problem conceiving it was keeping the embryo for 9 months that was the problem) Anyways to cut long story short The doctor tried to help us even though it was stupid of us not to have waited to see what the problem was that was causing me to miscarry. She prescribed progesterone injection I think once in 3 days for a week or two then changed it to progesterone tablet one 2x a day for the next 12 weeks.
With prayers fear and hope I carried my first born till 40weeks and 3 days and had him through CS he was 4.2kg.
Now I recently had a baby girl I also was placed on progesterone she was born at 39 weeks 5 days a healthy 3.9kg

I wish you all TTCers good luck and I hope you have 2wns and 3plets at once.

we all know that the post UME is just an avenue for schools to chop money. many students who passed did not get admission but if you have from 60 to 120k to spendon bribing a lecturer, his boys or any other official doing the "runs" then wwhala your name appears on the list.
let them scrap it and put better measure to make jamb results trustworthy. We do not treat wounds by covering them up with more and more bandages each of those bandages would become tainted with time as the festering wound grows bigger. so, adding more and more exams for students who wish to enter the university in a corrupt nation will only give room for more chop I chop activity to go on.
will people now say since SSCE is full of malpractice that schools should also set up another SSCE to be sure that the students are knowledgeable?
The solution to this is, start afresh. Jamb should strengthen their force to protect their questions from leaking. As this is the only way an average Nigerian youth can be sure to get admitted without hassles and magomago.
write almighty jamb, Pass in flying colours, school sets their cut off point for each department and then those that meet such score get admitted shikena. No need for run go here run go there buy scratch card,write exam, try to bribe so your name comes out etc ,etc.

I know that many school heads, lecturers and their small boy boy them will not want it scraped what with all the bribery and maybe some small booty they get from desperate students who want their names on the admission list.
with jamb all those are eradicated and then we can truly say deserving students get admitted to universities and polytechnics.

Gbam.
Nigeria police has closed the case. Oya neeeeeext. oh madam you agreed to be robbed case close.
neeeeext,

You want a woman you claim to love to die cos you want a child? after 4 cs, you can open your mouth and harden your heart and tell her to get pregnant again? so she doesnt like life ehn? so if a doctor warns you not do have sex after surgery as it has a high chance of causing your death and your wife comes to say try it just once so she can have a child after knowing your predicament. wont you come here to tell us how your wife wants to kill you?
Abeg, I understand if you say she did not tell you she had reached the maximum allowed to give birth by cs before you hooked up with her but to say you knew she had 4 cs and still want her to risk her life for you?Nna men the woman wan chop rice and chicken for long too naa.

You call c section just? Its a big change to a womans body.Its a major surgery that that woman has done 4 times.

I ve known two cases where men forced their wives to have babies cos they wanted boys and the women died after giving birth. Leaving the selfish men to live long and enjoy life while their kids are under the care of step mothers who dont really care about them.

Now over to Nigeria police forensic department to investigate.

Dem don shake her ni? maybe she don recieve threats to her life and she was ordered to recant all she said about TBj and so she has done the I was paid to drag his name in the mud story. I smell shit in this story.

I use the Chinese gender chart and also studied my monthly cycle to pick the sex of my two kids. The first was a boy the second a girl and I plan to have a boy next. For me it came out just as I planned. A friend of mine used the chinese gender chart alone she had two boys and wanted a girl and she got her baby girl recently. I cant say it works 100 percent but for me and my friends that used it it worked. though I used it in conjunction with studying my cycle.

The woman has planned with the nurse jor. she promised to let people into the labour room but told her midwife not to so she appears innocent. LIKE I WANTED YOU TO COME IN BUT MY MIDWIFE WAS AGAINST IT so its not my fault.

Even her female church members were not allowed in this is a rigged labour. The more you look the less you see.
Like I said I like this birth she publicised sef now we can catch her red handed.

Doctor should look for signs of lactation, signs of stress to her what ever due to baby's big head, and check out her uterus chikena.

perfect trimming. now a doctor can tell if this woman just gave birth truly. she has put herself in a trap. At least doctors can see physical signs of child birth in a woman who claims to have just given birth na. this is when the police should swoop in on her, drag her to a doctor and lets see how supernatural her births are.

Even if she went to have ssex with one of them it does not justify her being rapped. We all have sisters and female friends who are sexually active with boyfriends or what ever title you want to call a man you are not married to. Does that mean they should be gang rapped? Its a crime they commited. The poor girl was trying to calm them and make her safe exit from the house.

She should have screamed cos i belive i heard neighbours voices sho should have created a scene. On the other hand we all react differently when in distress

We dey look na. seeing is believing. I want the best for Nigeria and would be happy if this dream comes true.

Its not only girls that NYSC derail na. what about the guys that dump their pre nysc babes after they serve? I served and did not sleep with any man not even my husband (then my boy friend) for one year cos I did not go visit him through my service year.

I know guys that met their wives through nysc, dont you know that those wives are the lost girl friends of these complaining guys?? osondi owendi.

Na so Muslim big men dey take deceive the poor men among them. see how osama train and advocate for sucide bombers but when it reached time for him to die a he runs and hides. If the people paying them to die so believe in janat abi heaven why do they send others there first? why dont the leaders go first .
They run and hide eating pork and drinking wine in secret while they send mumu poor moslem men to die for them.

man cheats they all say, be sharp be wise do it but dont get caught on the other hand, woman talk to ex they say, hell no she has committed abomination dont go near her she isnt your best friend lol. men sef.