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Sirchiboy:
It is sad seeing our young girls doing hookup because of failed society.
I met this girl..
Damn this girl was too beautiful to be doing hookup.
I asked her why is she into this.
Her story touched.
Her parents are very poor and she is the one sponsoring her self in school with the little money she make from business.
Omo this girl started crying 😭 that she needed some funds to continue her business in school.
That her business crippled.
That if she can see like reasonable amount that she will stop . .
I felt pity for her.
I wish I have the money.
I will support.
I know some hookup girls are very deceitful and lie alot but this one story was pure.
Please guys that carry hookup girls please be an instrument that God will use to change them .
Even if it is not money.
You can provide them with jobs.
God bless us all amen.

You want to save a girl doing hookup of her own volition, not that she is being trafficked oo? Lmao

It is easier to save a drug addict.

You are JJC, there is always a lesson to learn in life.

You go learn by force

Stricker321:
How do married men cope with this situation? My wife wants sex like max of once a week. If she can even reduce it to twice a month she will do it. Even the once a week is usually a struggle. At night, she will say she is tired, in the morning, she will say I am disturbing her sleep.

This has caused quarrels, we have discussed, but before the blink of an eye, she has returned to her old way. I am determined not to sleep with another woman, but the struggle has been terrible.

I am just wondering why it has to be this tough and stressful to have access to my wife?

Sexual incompatible is real. Better be sure before you say “I do”.

@Op you might want to consider marrying another wife, but the ready for what comes after you break the news to her. End.

15 years? If it wasn’t conducive for you, you won’t have stayed!

Only a simp pity women and their choices.

You see nice guy, you say he is too nice and gentle. You pitched your tent with “Mr Beast” for a whole 15 years, you knew why you stayed for that long naa

jesusjnr2020:
Here they go again. The spiritually blind hypocrites in the order of the antichrist Pharisees marauding as Christians in NL, that would only clearly see pride when it's not in their noses or those they support, but only in others especially those they hate.

Please carry your baggage of spiritual ignorance to the spiritually blind who can't discern the Truth just as yourself.

I didn't make this post for the swines who were blind to the things of spiritual quality and would rubbish them, but those who can see and appreciate them for their true value.

Please rest.

Your post reeks of extreme carnality. Zero spiritual substance.

If you have come across the bible verse below, you wont make this silly post like a very careless child

1 Corinthians 3:6-8
6 I have planted, Apollos watered; but God gave the increase.
7 So then neither is he that planteth any thing, neither he that watereth; but God that giveth the increase.
8 Now he that planteth and he that watereth are one: and every man shall receive his own reward according to his own labour.

Michael547:
At the bolded......so every christian that is poor does not pay tithe and live a sinful lifestyle? Yes or no?

Read and comprehend - the bolded clearly stated that not every Christian is an actual or genuine Christian, that was the point.

and the final part of my write clearly states reasons for poverty of genuine Christians

But it seems you just want pick out an argument where there is none.

Your question is obviously a stupid question cuz i even stated the story of a genuine “man of God” (from the Old Testament) that was poor.

Michael547:
So why are there poor Christians today?

The poor will always be among you and the people of God perish cuz of lack of understanding.

There is no religion on earth that doesn’t have poor people.

Is it every so called “Christian” that pays tithe or lives a sinless life style? Of cuz not but we still call them “Christians” lol

The fact that you have malaria drug in your house, does that make you automatically free from malaria? You have to look for that drug, find it and put that bitter drug in your mouth. That is where most are lacking.

Remember the Old Testament - Elisha and the widow of the “Poor” prophet of God, whose children were sold into slavery. That man serve God but was poor: 2 Kings 4:1-25

First, you must understand It was the fault of that prophet of God for being poor. For all things are available to the children of God. Ask and you shall receive, seek and you shall find. It was after the prophet’s death and many discomfort the wife went to look for a solution: it is like having a boil on your ass then ignoring it till it become as so big you can’t even sit down, does it have to get to that!?

Secondly, you don’t even need to look far, look at the OP. Who calls prosperity part of the gospel “evil”. Your hands can NEVER touch what your mind can’t accept!

jesusjnr2020:
I hardly heard him teach the antichrist prosperity gospel and its heresies about tithing as was the usual of David Oyedepo .

You believe the gospel of prosperity is anti-christ.

It is clear You are very delusional about your standing in Christ

Apart from the Spirit of error, operating in your mind, let’s see if you have any academic competence. Read the verse below out loud

Luke 4:18

The Spirit of the Lord is on me, because he has anointed me to proclaim good news to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners and recovery of sight for the blind, to set the oppressed free

Question:

If freedom is to prisoners
Recovery of sight is to the blind
What sort of “good news” is to the poor?

Orinechi:
Looking at the first picture, the wife thought she could beat up the man. She tenaciously held the man and the man was begging her to leave him but when the fight ensued, the wife saw the opposite. Lesson: Tomorrow dear ur husband again .

Bruh ehn.

I don’t how where men find wives like this.

See as she is challenging her husband

In cases like this i support feminism, men and women have equal rights. If a man challenges and attack his fellow man, the man being challenged has a right to respond in kind. So in my opinion the man did very well

He was even careful when giving her the smack down. It should have been her head that hits the ground, so her brain can do hard-reboot

I hate when people form tears after they are caught.

I was she was arrest and charged to court and is in her way to prison

The high and mighty always have skeleton in cupboards.

But as i always say in a country where N100,000 is enough to get you killed brutally, you want to fuvk with a billionaire (in Nigeria) ??

You have to be excessively stupid (like your stupid is enough to win a nobel prize) or you just have a death wish. Either way it would end very badly for you, they should thank God they are in court, they were messing with a gentleman.

Law 19: Know Who You're Dealing With—Do Not Offend the Wrong Person

Mscheww @OP your guy is a mumu

Was this not the same falsification Otedola accuse Zenith bank of, years ago.

You can see that there is an element of true in the story.

Zenith bank and falsification are 5 & 6

Fahvvy:
I remember in my conversation with 1Sharon, I said, maybe this woman cheated on her husband and what he was doing was pay back ...

And ofcourse, she laughed it off, but here we are ...

It's obvious that the woman isn't as innocent as she and the other women on nairaland painted her to be ...

It's clear now that she's a cheat and her action is prolly what spurred the man in this direction ...

Indeed, the women in 21st century that are worth keeping are abysmally low ...

(Sighs) God help us ...

Cheating women would always justify a cheating woman!

Watch how they would react to your comment, you’d know them

RSAV:
Experienced parents please comment.
My 3 year old daughter, she would be 4 years old in Feb, is sharp and very bright.
It only happened occasionally that she would pee on herself. Usually when engrossed in cartoon.
However, it the last 4 weeks, it has become an everyday occurrence.
She would even poo on herself!
I've talked to her, yet no serious change.
I just had a baby boy few weeks ago. Could this be responsible for the change in my daughter? If yes, how best can it be handled? It's already affecting her in school.

The sooner you stop her from watching whatever it is, the better.

There are other ways to have fun, try coloring books, buy toys and turn off the damn TV!

NwaNimo1:
Her friends and family right now.....

https://storage.ko-fi.com/cdn/useruploads/display/98596f1f-c3bb-4d49-8bfc-a0ec26510d9e_18.gif

I pity any man wey fall for such a psycho....

Brother, as she is looking well over 30 like that i can bet you she is unmarried.

When you see an unmarried beautiful matured woman that is still single, oh boy you better leaver her alone. You are not wiser than the men that saw her before you

Fahvvy:
And yet you stayed for 5 years, because...? ...

If this guy is as bad as she's painting him, why did she stay with him for 5 years? ...

It's one of three things, it's either she couldn't do better before now and thus stayed till she finally could...

Or she has very low self esteem, so much so she could put up with this for this long...

Or she's blatantly over exaggerating his flaws to get cheap attention and pity ...

Either ways, this kind of woman isn't worth being with ...

He obviously has money.

To which she felt entitled, the audacity to say “he has never gift me” and still put “he has never given him more than a few thousand”

Please ask her what she has ever gifted her or how much she has sent to him

Caleycash:
What is money market bro?

It’s a real conservative investment fund, your money used to investment in low risk instruments like treasury bills, commercial papers etc.

It is doing about 20% per annum now, which is a pretty decent return for a low risk investment.

You can get started for a little as 5k. Just imagine it like a current bank account, where your money grows.

Check out the mutual fund trend:
https://www.nairaland.com/1912965/mutual-funds/337

I would recommend Stanbic IBTC Asset Manager or FBNQuest Asset Management (Stanbic is baba for operational efficiency - getting money in and out: nowadays FBNQ seem to be offering better returns and i see they also making effort to fix their operational efficiency too).

God bless.

Imagine a whole 8 btc. He will die in poverty, it is not a curse; it is certainty. These are ones are financial illiterates and e-diots.

Just today i was thinking about how someone would just hammer his first N100 million. Next thing the fool is creating more liabilities with the money - rents a house of 3 million per year, buys a 20 million car, buys latest iphone, carry olosho etc

When my first thought is to invest that money, to create a stream of income: even if its money market. Then cut my coat according to that income stream.

Poverty is in people destiny no matter what they do. Smh.

Lastly, money gotten from fraudulent means would always turn to fire and consume its keeper and everything he owns. It’s in the good book.

BlackManta:
There's a minor plot hole in The Penguin that no one is talking about.

THE ABSENCE OF BATMAN in this show doesn't make sense.

I don’t agree, BatMan was mentioned once and twice..

Besides Gotham is in disarray, there is a thousand and one crime going on everyday. You have to be a real noisy or nasty nutjob to get the Bats to attend to you. ie - something like kidnap a bus load of school children, go on daily women killing spree or planting bombs in churches and other religious houses and blowing one up every week.

These are the crimes BatMan has to prioritize, not one crime family going ham on eachother, even drugs flowing through the street to regular customers is a lesser problem than when the streets are dry: that is even a recipe for more chaos, when junkies don’t get their fix..

“Whatever he says is a form of mental torture for us,” an Afghan woman in Kabul told The Telegraph.

“Living in Afghanistan is incredibly painful for us as women. Afghanistan is forgotten, and that’s why they are suppressing us – they are torturing us on a daily basis.”

I don’t pity them cuz these same women would go to a foreign country where woman have freedom and be fight to implement the islam in its full glory as it was in the country they were crying and fight to leave

Is that not a form of mental illness

Well boy and girls were all invited. He dropped it on their WhatsApp group.

Albeit looking somehow somehow, it’s a gray area but He didn’t force anybody, if you no want just don’t show up.

I think it can happen in a foreign country though, so far they are not underage

JobAndVacancies:
you and Abagworo are wrong.
Haven't you heard that blood is thicker than water?

For where.

Brothers are killing brothers. Mothers are killing and prostituting their own children.

It’s like you are not based on Earth

nifemi25:
You better thank your star someone adopted you... I'm sure things were easy then... If it was now that things were really tough.... Nobody will dare adopt you... You could have been hawking groundnuts or opa by now

You dey mind am lol.

So many children even their own Father & Mother didn’t bother to care for. You see family to take care of you, you no thank God

Abagworo:
Her real mother is the mother who raised her. The other one is just her biological mother that gave her out.

100%

Family is not people you are related to by blood. Family is who was there for you when you needed someone!

This camera sef. You just had one job, you still do nonsense

Is it only me thinking “killed 4? How?”

Omo i don’t know the kind of leadership Tony Elumelu is offering UBA but I have started to believe he is living some kind of facade cuz the good book says - “as the anointing oil that was poured over Aaron's head, that ran down his beard and onto the border of his robe”: meaning whatever is going on at the top would get to other parts below.

I remember going to their HQ many many years ago, the leadership are the rudest set of corporate people I have ever seen. Very very disrespectful, even the middle level management guy coordinating was visible stressed and not comfortable around his own Oga.

Everybody just dey walk no single smile, before It was turn I had already said God-forbid to UBA. Lo and behold, the guy was trying to demean me that he just met for the first time in his life. Me sef fast-warded the interview for him by telling him I don’t fit i am a fit for the role lol and carried my kaya hurriedly out of their building that was already giving me weird creepy vibes.

Sparrk007:
1k fit save you from that plenty drama, Nigeria is not for the brokes

Why give him anything, is he not earning a salary. Begging for bride on the job, very distasteful and greedy e-diot

@OP next time please get is name, so he can be reported. There are h to e non-entities embarrassing our nation

Bluezy13:
"I will call my dad" hmmm...
Make I no talk wetin dey my mind sha but say no to violence.

Bruh may we never have a wife we have no control over as the Head of the house

You dey your husband house and you wan call your Papa. Just kuku marry your father naa.

All these HR corporate bunnies ehn. Just like yesterday one at ARM allegedly tried to blackmail an innocent man for money. Now this one bring private matter con social media. It is like wisdom just finds a way to elude them, a foolish and senseless wife would give you hell!

No one is support of rape or domestic violence but this i always say there is always more to the story.. ,


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The blogger/person casting the story, if you check well it could be the guy the wife is even having an affair with. Fear women.

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Omo if you marry wrong it has be for you. From the video, this guy was visibly mad about something she did, see as she is still behaving lackadaisically. He even exercised restraint, cuz he picked up the larger object (vase) he didn’t throw it at her. Apart from small objects, he didn’t touch her.

Any sensible woman - would have gone: “my husband don’t be angry…..”. 2 seconds baba for don calm - (Soft word turnth away anger). Of cuz she knew what she wanted to do with the clip - the guy rightly stated it in the video: she wanted him to lose his job. I hope she is happier as a single mother

psucc:
People dey get luck o! Imagine being able to gather about 50 @ 1,200 each.

Sha, Providence has a way of giving back to people. Na their luck

You realize this is a criminal act right, all of them could get prison term

flyinnizam:
that's not true.....Elon musk is not against Legal migrant. Express entry is legal

No offense you have a reading and comprehension problem.

Read my previous post again

The koko is whatever, opportunity, cracks or loopholes the system had, Elon migrated to the country and benefited from them. Now he wants them all plugged

If they were all plugged before he came would he be a citizen, of cuz not!

flyinnizam:
old biden should keep quiet. if Elon Musk was an illegal migrant, he won't be talking about illegal migrants all the time

You obviously this read the post.

It is just like Nigerians that go to Canada through express entry but years later they get Permanent residency and become citizens then start clamoring for the program to end.

That is exactly what Elon is doing

WeddingParol:
Those women at the Nigeria ports are the most terrible people you don't want to meet when you have goods to clear.

Even if everything is fine, they will still tell you to drop something. If you refuse, oga no go sign your paper or your papers will develop wings and fly away.

That's why I always say that "Nigerians are as good as the leaders they elect".

Bruh most Nigerian women in positions of power are literally the worst!

I don’t know whether it stems fro low self esteem or it’s pride. They are so horrible ehn. I can’t even imagine a Nigerian woman president, with what i have seen in the corporate world. You think past male government were terrible, put a Nigerian woman in power first.

God please make Hellfire extra hot

Eswatini is also facing an education and health crisis amid a shortage of drugs in public hospitals, while schools face a shortage of teachers and working equipment.

Can you imagine their idiotic king marrying wife after wife and clothing them in luxury while simple health care is zero in his country.

This is the lowest of men. *Spits*