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PraiseGod4u:
On it first na ,🤣🤣

Lol are you saying OP wants to sell a phone that doesn’t come on?

MadamVanessa:




That's for those that seen marriage as an achievement or winning laurel. However, those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we've realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.

Oga stop capping.

Nobody is happy to be single and lonely most especially when you are woman pass 30 years of age.

The feeling that it seems no man wants “you”, definitely adds to your depression

Omo if this boiling ring never shock you before ehn, you haven’t learnt any lesson in life

ViceGovernor:
Imagine the exploitation, 225,000 visa applications and I'm sure they turned down at least 200k+

So all that visa application fee for over two hundred thousand Nigerians will go just go to the UK for doing nothing.

This should be illegal... its basically the same thing as racketeering.

It is very illegal.

It is theft, even a scam sef cuz to the people rejected essentially no service was provided to them and their hard earn money was still pocketed

Dandsome:
Remember when some people were threatening to burn business places of people from the eastern part of Nigeria?

Is this the threat being carried out?

Sigh. Until we move pass this divisive tribal mentality, we can’t make any progress as a Nation.

Habbeyy:
God wey run dis one go run the remaining 360 days

Lmao

Smh. When are we going to stop this feed a man (for a day) for a job approach. What will happen to the remaining 360 days, assuming this feeds them for 5 days.

I don’t understand the Subject of this trend.

“…Like a major world leader”

Tinubu as the president of Nigeria is beyond any doubt a major world leader.

The amount of disrespect in this generation ehn

UK is cashing out, it is obviously profitable for them

It is high-time we implemented, refund for refusal policy

ChizzyBuna:
I love and respect my dad so much
He is old in age but he can still drive

The issue is anytime I'm driving him
Instead of him to relax
He will turn to Conductor every 2 seconds, sometimes he will shout that I'm speeding to fast but I'm not going past 60 kmph

At the bolded, you sef get choco for head

I think your old man has a good perception of speed:

Most people don’t realize that most accidents occur on the average 30 - 50 km, when most people are inside the car, their perception is altered but pedestrians hit at this speed; there is above 50% probability it would be fatal for them. Talk of less of at 60km.

Even if you are right to so extent you are right, about your dad trying to control the driving from passenger seat, there is no need bring up the matter again. Na man both of una be lol, just do something extraordinarily nice for him - put him on his favorite cruise - favorite drink & food - seat with him and gist.

When you are driving him, you sef try chilling. No medal for who reach there first. 2 seconds of calming down can save your life oo

The problem of the country originates from its citizens (Nigerians)

advanceDNA:
She probably went to eat free food and start billings. ....but wèrèy guy gat other plans... Hahahahahaha !!!
....

Az in ehn very hungry creature lmao.

Why go on a date with someone you don’t envisage a future with

Capillary88:
Obviously. I know of one pastor who has been married for over ten years but without a child. His wife is always frustrating him and they bring their grievances to the church. Whenever any issue or conflict arises at home, their body languages tend to say everything when they come to church. The pastor's wife seems to be too aggressive for the young husband, she's always ready to quarrel and susceptible to fight

At a point in a young man’s life, when you mistakenly cross path a quarrelsome woman if you have brain you go give am space: milessss

Omo! Na real Palatial, Seeing the structure below i can imagine the cost of acquiring a landed property in Nnewi now.

Sirchiboy:
It is sad seeing our young girls doing hookup because of failed society.
I met this girl..
Damn this girl was too beautiful to be doing hookup.
I asked her why is she into this.
Her story touched.
Her parents are very poor and she is the one sponsoring her self in school with the little money she make from business.
Omo this girl started crying 😭 that she needed some funds to continue her business in school.
That her business crippled.
That if she can see like reasonable amount that she will stop . .
I felt pity for her.
I wish I have the money.
I will support.
I know some hookup girls are very deceitful and lie alot but this one story was pure.
Please guys that carry hookup girls please be an instrument that God will use to change them .
Even if it is not money.
You can provide them with jobs.
God bless us all amen.

You want to save a girl doing hookup of her own volition, not that she is being trafficked oo? Lmao

It is easier to save a drug addict.

You are JJC, there is always a lesson to learn in life.

You go learn by force

Stricker321:
How do married men cope with this situation? My wife wants sex like max of once a week. If she can even reduce it to twice a month she will do it. Even the once a week is usually a struggle. At night, she will say she is tired, in the morning, she will say I am disturbing her sleep.

This has caused quarrels, we have discussed, but before the blink of an eye, she has returned to her old way. I am determined not to sleep with another woman, but the struggle has been terrible.

I am just wondering why it has to be this tough and stressful to have access to my wife?

Sexual incompatible is real. Better be sure before you say “I do”.

@Op you might want to consider marrying another wife, but the ready for what comes after you break the news to her. End.

15 years? If it wasn’t conducive for you, you won’t have stayed!

Only a simp pity women and their choices.

You see nice guy, you say he is too nice and gentle. You pitched your tent with “Mr Beast” for a whole 15 years, you knew why you stayed for that long naa

jesusjnr2020:
Here they go again. The spiritually blind hypocrites in the order of the antichrist Pharisees marauding as Christians in NL, that would only clearly see pride when it's not in their noses or those they support, but only in others especially those they hate.

Please carry your baggage of spiritual ignorance to the spiritually blind who can't discern the Truth just as yourself.

I didn't make this post for the swines who were blind to the things of spiritual quality and would rubbish them, but those who can see and appreciate them for their true value.

Please rest.

Your post reeks of extreme carnality. Zero spiritual substance.

If you have come across the bible verse below, you wont make this silly post like a very careless child

1 Corinthians 3:6-8
6 I have planted, Apollos watered; but God gave the increase.
7 So then neither is he that planteth any thing, neither he that watereth; but God that giveth the increase.
8 Now he that planteth and he that watereth are one: and every man shall receive his own reward according to his own labour.

Michael547:
At the bolded......so every christian that is poor does not pay tithe and live a sinful lifestyle? Yes or no?

Read and comprehend - the bolded clearly stated that not every Christian is an actual or genuine Christian, that was the point.

and the final part of my write clearly states reasons for poverty of genuine Christians

But it seems you just want pick out an argument where there is none.

Your question is obviously a stupid question cuz i even stated the story of a genuine “man of God” (from the Old Testament) that was poor.

Michael547:
So why are there poor Christians today?

The poor will always be among you and the people of God perish cuz of lack of understanding.

There is no religion on earth that doesn’t have poor people.

Is it every so called “Christian” that pays tithe or lives a sinless life style? Of cuz not but we still call them “Christians” lol

The fact that you have malaria drug in your house, does that make you automatically free from malaria? You have to look for that drug, find it and put that bitter drug in your mouth. That is where most are lacking.

Remember the Old Testament - Elisha and the widow of the “Poor” prophet of God, whose children were sold into slavery. That man serve God but was poor: 2 Kings 4:1-25

First, you must understand It was the fault of that prophet of God for being poor. For all things are available to the children of God. Ask and you shall receive, seek and you shall find. It was after the prophet’s death and many discomfort the wife went to look for a solution: it is like having a boil on your ass then ignoring it till it become as so big you can’t even sit down, does it have to get to that!?

Secondly, you don’t even need to look far, look at the OP. Who calls prosperity part of the gospel “evil”. Your hands can NEVER touch what your mind can’t accept!

jesusjnr2020:
I hardly heard him teach the antichrist prosperity gospel and its heresies about tithing as was the usual of David Oyedepo .

You believe the gospel of prosperity is anti-christ.

It is clear You are very delusional about your standing in Christ

Apart from the Spirit of error, operating in your mind, let’s see if you have any academic competence. Read the verse below out loud

Luke 4:18

The Spirit of the Lord is on me, because he has anointed me to proclaim good news to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners and recovery of sight for the blind, to set the oppressed free

Question:

If freedom is to prisoners
Recovery of sight is to the blind
What sort of “good news” is to the poor?

Orinechi:
Looking at the first picture, the wife thought she could beat up the man. She tenaciously held the man and the man was begging her to leave him but when the fight ensued, the wife saw the opposite. Lesson: Tomorrow dear ur husband again .

Bruh ehn.

I don’t how where men find wives like this.

See as she is challenging her husband

In cases like this i support feminism, men and women have equal rights. If a man challenges and attack his fellow man, the man being challenged has a right to respond in kind. So in my opinion the man did very well

He was even careful when giving her the smack down. It should have been her head that hits the ground, so her brain can do hard-reboot

I hate when people form tears after they are caught.

I was she was arrest and charged to court and is in her way to prison

The high and mighty always have skeleton in cupboards.

But as i always say in a country where N100,000 is enough to get you killed brutally, you want to fuvk with a billionaire (in Nigeria) ??

You have to be excessively stupid (like your stupid is enough to win a nobel prize) or you just have a death wish. Either way it would end very badly for you, they should thank God they are in court, they were messing with a gentleman.

Law 19: Know Who You're Dealing With—Do Not Offend the Wrong Person

Mscheww @OP your guy is a mumu

Was this not the same falsification Otedola accuse Zenith bank of, years ago.

You can see that there is an element of true in the story.

Zenith bank and falsification are 5 & 6

Fahvvy:
I remember in my conversation with 1Sharon, I said, maybe this woman cheated on her husband and what he was doing was pay back ...

And ofcourse, she laughed it off, but here we are ...

It's obvious that the woman isn't as innocent as she and the other women on nairaland painted her to be ...

It's clear now that she's a cheat and her action is prolly what spurred the man in this direction ...

Indeed, the women in 21st century that are worth keeping are abysmally low ...

(Sighs) God help us ...

Cheating women would always justify a cheating woman!

Watch how they would react to your comment, you’d know them

RSAV:
Experienced parents please comment.
My 3 year old daughter, she would be 4 years old in Feb, is sharp and very bright.
It only happened occasionally that she would pee on herself. Usually when engrossed in cartoon.
However, it the last 4 weeks, it has become an everyday occurrence.
She would even poo on herself!
I've talked to her, yet no serious change.
I just had a baby boy few weeks ago. Could this be responsible for the change in my daughter? If yes, how best can it be handled? It's already affecting her in school.

The sooner you stop her from watching whatever it is, the better.

There are other ways to have fun, try coloring books, buy toys and turn off the damn TV!

NwaNimo1:
Her friends and family right now.....

https://storage.ko-fi.com/cdn/useruploads/display/98596f1f-c3bb-4d49-8bfc-a0ec26510d9e_18.gif

I pity any man wey fall for such a psycho....

Brother, as she is looking well over 30 like that i can bet you she is unmarried.

When you see an unmarried beautiful matured woman that is still single, oh boy you better leaver her alone. You are not wiser than the men that saw her before you

Fahvvy:
And yet you stayed for 5 years, because...? ...

If this guy is as bad as she's painting him, why did she stay with him for 5 years? ...

It's one of three things, it's either she couldn't do better before now and thus stayed till she finally could...

Or she has very low self esteem, so much so she could put up with this for this long...

Or she's blatantly over exaggerating his flaws to get cheap attention and pity ...

Either ways, this kind of woman isn't worth being with ...

He obviously has money.

To which she felt entitled, the audacity to say “he has never gift me” and still put “he has never given him more than a few thousand”

Please ask her what she has ever gifted her or how much she has sent to him

Caleycash:
What is money market bro?

It’s a real conservative investment fund, your money used to investment in low risk instruments like treasury bills, commercial papers etc.

It is doing about 20% per annum now, which is a pretty decent return for a low risk investment.

You can get started for a little as 5k. Just imagine it like a current bank account, where your money grows.

Check out the mutual fund trend:
https://www.nairaland.com/1912965/mutual-funds/337

I would recommend Stanbic IBTC Asset Manager or FBNQuest Asset Management (Stanbic is baba for operational efficiency - getting money in and out: nowadays FBNQ seem to be offering better returns and i see they also making effort to fix their operational efficiency too).

God bless.

Imagine a whole 8 btc. He will die in poverty, it is not a curse; it is certainty. These are ones are financial illiterates and e-diots.

Just today i was thinking about how someone would just hammer his first N100 million. Next thing the fool is creating more liabilities with the money - rents a house of 3 million per year, buys a 20 million car, buys latest iphone, carry olosho etc

When my first thought is to invest that money, to create a stream of income: even if its money market. Then cut my coat according to that income stream.

Poverty is in people destiny no matter what they do. Smh.

Lastly, money gotten from fraudulent means would always turn to fire and consume its keeper and everything he owns. It’s in the good book.