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It was when I tried modelling one time
that I understood that male sexual
harassment is a thing.
Na just say men no dey talk. I mean,
shame no go gree dem say another man
sexually harass dem. Look at this trending
Solomon issue on Twitter, all the males
recounting made sure to mention they
could have beaten him up but blah blah.
Dem no wan appear weak or victiminized.
One time I visited this guy, some guy who
just came into the country. He now
reached out and twisted my nipple at
random. I just burst out laughing like a
mad man. I was too amused to even
remember to be offended and disgusted. I
just found it amusing. Like, See this soft
soft guy o.

The guy was looking at me and I was
laughing and looking at him like, Nigga are
you alright ? And no, I didn't hit him or
anything. I just played it cool and sat
down. I later left and didn't reply his
messages again.
The truth is, this consent thing, even
women shouting about consent don't
understand it. Because the mentality of
women, Naija women, is that men should
be grateful to be offered sex. That a man
always wants it. That if you "seduce"
them, they will give in.
Most of what people call "bottom power"
or "feminine wiles" is actually harassment.
You can't say you understand consent and
think it is okay to force your body on
someone and call it "seduction".
You are shouting teach your sons this,
teach your sons that. But what are you
teaching your girls?

Consent is a two way street. Unless you
are already sexually involved with
someone, you have to understand that
you are not entitled to their bodies. No
matter how "hot" you are. No matter how
"irresistible" you think your yansh is. Guys
won't say it, their male pride won't even let
it register to their brain that they were
sexually harassed, but it is what it is.
Throwing your body in someone's face
isn't right no matter the gender. If a male
friend visits you then takes off his shirt
and start doing some belly dance or
moves close to you and just casually
begins to rub his body against yours, even
if you like him I am sure you would findit
creepy and intrusive as f. You would think
there are better and more polite ways to
come on to someone. You would feel
harassed and even afraid.

So turn the tables, why would it be okay
for women to do that to men? Why is it
called seduction when women do it and
harassment when men do?

It should be equal. Because women don't
have the muscle to enforce their will
doesn't make them any less abusers.
And please before you comment,
understand that I reserve the right to
refuse to entertain comments that derail
off the subject matter and go into gender
bashing.

Written by: Hymar Idibie David from FB

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Lalasticlala

Drink water

Marry ko... marriage ni.. mtchew

fortran12:
Thank you I appreciate your concern. However I will still go on my quest.

Don't die of high BP because of Islam

fortran12:
Well, islam makes claims that it liberated women etc, I am here to counter that.

And how is it your concern. I hope you don't have high BP because of Islam.
Nobody sent you. I tell you my own oo

fortran12:
The hijab is a tool for suppressing women. Islam in general suppresses women

is it your suppression?

These Christians have problem oo. Islam is giving them headache and I pray they die of that headache

Pes13:
It should work. If you are fast enough, because I really don't know how UI get to know those who have matriculated before.

Immediately you see your Putme result, you should be able to predict if you stand a chance, then you can terminate it before the cutoff mark is determined.

The surest way is to score very very in utme.

OK then. I'm very grateful. Thank you

Pes13:
Yes, you will be informed during your orientation program. If you wish to choose ui again for another course, you will need to terminate that admission and applied again.

However, I know of someone who did it another way . He wanted to applied for Mbbs, he retook Utme.

When his Utme result was released and he was sure he will be admitted with his Utme score (328), he deferred is admission, and sit for putme. He finally terminated the admission when the cutoff was released.

Hmm. Okay. Thanks.

But what if I do it this way.

If I resume with this incoming freshmen and become a student.Then I write this year post utme and meet the cut off mark. Then I go to terminate my studentship immediately. Would that work?

Nltaliban:
Improper documentation and yeah some have connect b

Hmm. Thanks

Please I'm confused about this prohibition of double matriculation in UI.

Some say it's impossible no matter what

Some say it's possible but I will have to terminate the previous admission and won't be able to attend class for a whole session.

Bosses should please clarify.

Pes13

Nltaliban

Damayogenius18

Nltaliban:
No, Ui does not allow double matriculation and it is illegal to do such. But some people do and get away with it.



I think it's a criminal offense self if caught

please how do people that get away do it?

I swear these christians are mad. They still don't believe. Anyway sha, I'm not surprised because christianity cannot spread without lies

Psoul:
See your level of understanding.
How do u know that Shakua is a terrorist? Is he ur brother?
How did u know that HIV/AIDS can kill, have u suffered or before?
How do u know that there are Cabal in Aso Rock? Are you in Buhari's cabinet?

My brother, you must not experience or be part of what you know for you to know it.
You can get info from a source you're not even part of.
So stop exhibiting this poor level of reasoning.

so where is his source? stupid person

elder1002:
And the so claimed sucide bomber said his name was Nathaniel Samuel.

Me:- from where... No tribal names attached, no tribe, no state, son of who??.. because someone called a random Christian name doesn't automatically makes him one my brother..

I wonder how our anti-criminal forces interrogate criminals to fetch quality information. Like
1) who sent you?
2) how many more of ur type are out there)
3) what other plans and objectives are you yet to accomplish.

#SCAMMERS

But all these questions would have been unnecessary if it were a muslim name abi. Nigerian christians are the worst hypocrite

You want to sign your death warrant abi. Please cut all ties with him even his mum and his sister. Leave him with no trace of you. Love yourself before loving anyone

lavylilly:
And men play or fool around

No. While should go out and work so as to provide for the needs of their wives and children

tohyorsih2:
While men are supposed to be fucking around?

No. Men should be responsible for the needs of their wives and children

Yes, they are right. Women are supposed to take care of the home.

Jeweltz:
Lol. I remember then when Love was still fresh and sparking in my eye. We were in the university, I borrowed#3,500 from a friend to buy him a watch. I gave it to him that evening. He was too happy. He woo me that night,I told him I'm not ready for any relationship whereas I was only trying to form princess. Was already dying for him and anticipating him to ask me out. I was very happy to know he likes me. When I got to my hostel, I started crying and regretting why I had to tell him 'No'. From that day forward, I always hoped he asked me out again but he never did as he started avoiding me. Used to pray about it then in my prayer point during church service. Foolish me. Lol

You supposed to tell him then. Ladies and forming sha

Does the JAMB news policy prevents a candidate to register for both UTME and D.E? Lalasticlala, fynestboi

Respect55:
I never said she is. My feelings towards her aren't there anymore.

I feel that you should move from your house to another place for the time being

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shogsman:
What if he ends up winning next year too that will bring his tally up to 7

Then he becomes LM7

donstan18:
I don't know for women, but I strongly believe that children are one of the major reasons why most men settle down.

Reason the day a man becomes a father is more memorable than his wedding day.

So I think it's proper not to wait for anything before making babies, especially these days where 70% of slay queens are womb-less. Start immediately to help you know if you married a fertile woman or not.


In fact, any lady that fails to take in at most, 2 months after wedding should be questioned or sent packing.

You are dumb for the last paragraph

Starkid3010:
how far give me your whatsapp no

08147329288

Starkid3010:
i think I know you somewherecmaybe hede
Did you do oau pd??

yes

Starkid3010:
i used the science also
And new school tbs

Ok

Starkid3010:
you can get that in any book shop
If you're not also good in calcs you can inbox I have inclusive phy PDF file it's the best phy calc tb
Am not with lamlad tb Pdf as of now but I can help you to get as soon as possible

What other materials did you use apart from lamlads and explicits

Christians and hypocrisy