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Rayban25:
Na lie you dey make some some sensual moves at her

Nonywendy:
I have been dating this my girl friend since 2017. She made me fall and believe in love, she ticked all the qualities I desire in a woman. When I we started dating she was in her 200L, and everything was going on smoothly. Now this is where the issue lies,
When she went for service in another state, I started noticing some changes, wen she comes back home during holidays I used to go through her phone.(note: she has access to my phone and I too).
So one of those period I realised she is seeing another guy in the state where she is serving. I confronted her and she opened up to me and confessed. I forgave her.

Then after like 4months again, I later noticed she is also seeing another guy different from the initial one I noticed, she denied that but I had to do my deep investigation and got an evidence, she opened up again, at this point I broke up with her and moved on. After like one month she came back begging for forgiveness, It took me time to heal and I forgave her.

Then this last one that broke the camel's back, I noticed she traveled to the state where she did her youth service for something and all this while I thought she was staying with her sister, not knowing she was staying with the first guy she dated while serving whch she apologised. She stayed with her for three good weeks. How I realized was, I called her line one early morning arnd 3am and a guy picked the call asking me who I am. At first, I froze cos I haven't been in that kind of situation, I calmed down and explained everything to the guy, and the guy also told me she has been with her for the past three weeks and that's the girl friend too. I was shocked. I have broken up with her finally cos I don't think forgiving a cheating partner is worth it.
The first time she cheated, 90% of my friends advised me to dump her ass and move on but I had to forgive on the basis of nobody is perfect, but this third time is a no no.
Now she has been begging and asking for forgiveness that she has really learnt her lessons. At this point I'm just so mad that I don't want to forgive her.
Now the big problem is that I'm always seeing her in my dream, I have not really moved on cos it's not easy for me. I have loved her for solid 6 yrs plus.
Note: all the family members from my side and her side are fully aware of our relationship and have approved but they are not aware that I have broken up. If you are my shoes will you forgive her for this very last time or will her cheating continues?
Your advise and suggestions will be well appreciated. Thank you

TimFisher2:
Where is your location?

Lutherblaq:
This happened to me, last year, When i was dating this random lady, she visits me like Twice to thrice a month.

she is a good partner i will confess , but she has this ridiculous stealing habit that i don't like,i mean every time she came visitin me, something must always find a way to get lost in my apartment.

The last time she stole from me. before i part ways with her, was when she stole soap from my bathroom, (i saw it inside her handbag) can you imagine comnon soap oh, she should had asked me na...,

Anyways back to the main question

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Have You Ever Been With A Patner Whom Steals From You?

Berrityga:
drop your number let’s chat on WhatsApp

Berrityga:
If you don’t have experience in dry cleaning work I’ll advice you not to start it. I worked for about 5 years in 3 different laundry outlets to gain experience and knowledge before I set up mine. Most laundry company’s that are owned by people who don’t have prior knowledge about the business most times close down.

Ilamina:
because I don't want to work, and I don't want too have friends

Ilamina:
yes

judatech:
1st withdrawal is $200...I'm close

judatech:
Go register and get your $25 ...watch videos and make $15 per video

Bfly:
Entertainment Celebrities live rresponsible lifestyle. But they know who they are. They can defend it as custom. Their work speaks for them.
But this jobless and social media sexual celebrities Gen Z go hear kwehn for old age.


Imagine Bob Risky without the clout and instagram.

I think instagram has a span in the circle of life.

Nelson21:
I saw this on X today. Is it true or false?
Also, to the married folks, if your wife suddenly gets a tattoo, how will you react?

jackmrandy:
drop your digit lets talk

ijustdey:
https://dailytrust.com/ndlea-how-fake-20m-was-found-in-an-abuja-bound-bus-from-lagos/

honorik:
my dear friends, please your kind assistance is required i have i lady which i assisted during her school days, although i propose but she decline given me an excuse hat nobody is learned in her family she want to go to school first before married after much argument i concord. i was the one responsible for virtually everything both hand out, feeding, phones, assignment, project,clothing e.t.c
In summary anytime i make an attempt to see her people for a proper marriage right she will start avoiding me and i use to spend on any of her family member which i know and i do send money to her mom interval of 3months highest 5months. there is no member of family which i know that did not benefit from me. i told this lady to exercise patience with me to enable me prepare for the marriage i will only be responsible for her feeding and i will be given her money but occasionally, after two months of doing this she came to me and challenge me that when last did i buy clothes for her and give her money to make her hair, that her problems is not only food and i responded to her to be patience at least i will spend a lot and moreover talking about the ecol ac and the occasions i will single handedly do everything she wasted my time for 7years and what pains me most i avoided good woman that really want me then and the painful aspect of it all i have inform her pastor about the wedding which i give us his blessings and after that she change totally by avoiding me and frustrating my life she even refuse to pick my calls and tell me to my face that she is not interested anymore. I am seriously confuse whether to go and tell the pastor what she said that she is no longer interested and her sister even talk to her she is said until i refund 20k to her which she treated herself during that period which i didn't give her anything before i even promise to give her 10k instantly and send the balance by next week she said if the money is not complete i should forget it and forget her. she refuse to come close to me anymore stop picking my calls i even try to make peace with her but to know avail. so probably she discover that i love her so much that's why she keep doing this. so please i just need a woman that will understand me and make me happy that's just what i need. please ur suggestion is needed so that i will take my final decision

Bellotelli:
My brother thanks for your understanding. Just imagine someone i fuucked like crazy and after only 3 days she has started nagging about sex again. Should i kill myself to keep up?

brightmorningst:
people please encourage me, this is 3:14 am I couldn't sleep cos my babe broke up with me. I actually did cos her action shows she's not interested anymore.
This is someone we our chats flow but for like a week now,it doesn't anymore stopped calling me claim she doesn't have card. She always do,we can talk for over two hours on phone but everything just changed.
I CHOOSE A LESS ATTRACTIVE LADY,ONE LF HER FRONT TEETH EVEN COMOT,SHE SHOWED ME LOVE I RECIPROCATED IT, IN MY MIND I WAS LIKE SHE NO FINE, GUYS WON'T ASK HER OUT BUT I WAS WRONG. SHE DON GO.

ALL LADIES ARE THE SAME WHEN SOMEONE BETTER THAN YOU COME AROUND THEM WHETHER BEAUTIFUL OR UGLY.

I DON TIRE FOR WOMEN MATTER.

THIS IS MY THIRD RELATIONSHIP... IT'S ACTUALLY A LONG DISTANCE ONE THOUGH.

ENCOURAGE ME MEN.

Abolodje:
No boss

I feel you on that my bro, I don’t take any pill at all and I’ve been on smoke break for the past 5 months. I literally just rolled up a joint of Canadian loud I bought by mistake tbh but e go well

Thugnificent:
I'm on Airtel freebasics sir and I Access nairaland without paid data. Also, I'm a graphic designer but for months now no jobs as the economy is unfavorable for business. I'm also a graduate of public administration (2:2) and served since 2017 but i haven't been able to get a job. Things are really tough. If you have a graphic design work, my number is on my profile. Also i could submit my CV on request too. Hunger is really terrible

Love56743:
Same with me, if it past loud, i don't take any drug again except for Tramadol just 50 gram once in a week.

Oyindamolah:
May your long awaited job opportunity arrive this week

If you can see this post, may your job application receive favour this new week! 🙏🏼🙏🏼

Kastrom:
Must you joke with everything? I know what am saying bro

wittywriter:
Location.?


What's your upfront payment offer? So I can arrange one with balance repayment mou.


Wittyness

Can we talk on phone or WhatsApp for better communication? 09034seveneight8399
That’s mine , you can drop your so I can text you

wittywriter:
Location.?

Wittyness