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there is this yoruba adage that goes thus.iya ni wura,baba ni jigi

chitiana baby.nice one girl.

wont trade 1thousand of my dad for my mum never.i love my mum.

@domwas2

wat i the situation of things now?.any improvement.lets know what the present situation is like.

@busta

are u the moderator?

where u are from does not count to me,but what is important is u are a christain.

@whitelexi

this man.how far.how was ur gig.hope say u go take ur woman to God in prayers before u marry am.

i will gladly do that for my wife to be.with the whole of my heart.

wetin that papa chop.evangelist,mis-interpretation of the bible thats a problem,especially with all these archaic churches.when a particular ministry is doing well,they call the big man church,according to pastor chris oyakhilome(they thought us the theory,but we are doing the practicals,and praticals brings result).

How can?we wil share the same room and bed,and thats love.compromise thats love.

Dont be tempted to call her,cos thats how it all starts when the devil wanna attack ur faith,a call,them a harmless dinner with an old lady,before u know it u will be laying on her.throw that card off ur window.i aint going to be someone toy.she is just a church attendant not a christan cos being a christain u have to be christ like.we are not perfect but we all should try to flee from sin,cos u cant see God if u regard sin in ur heart.if it was a younger and more decent approach,then u can give it a shot.but with no sex involve.

When u feel u have found her,take her to God he prayer sking God for a sign showing that she is truly ur better half,just like rebecca for issac in the bible.know that story?cos he is the maker of men.and he said none shall lack her mate.alles klar.

LOVE
TRUST
HONESTY
u can communicate and not understand so i
UNDERSTANDING
and above all u both have to have the fear of God,cos will help u both to have a conscience inorder to avoid jilt and betrayal.

Man.my candid advice is get buzy,get a job and get hooked to Jesus cos u never know where ur problem is coming from.this is naija.lots of envy.who know maybe they have seen what u will be in future and they are trying to alter it.man pick up that phone and cal J E S U S.

@BigSis

if u think so,then support urseldf while ur man supports himself.when u get married do ur own thing.think before u open ur big mouth.

how long will that continue,she has to take her stand now or leave like that for a long time.

@Analytical

i agree with that,but not that u will have to change urs to ur wifes,or ur wife choose to keep hers.

@ishaahamed

can i ask u a question.why do Gambian men brutalize and assult their ladies physically?

Guys let have some dignity.let the ladies also do some posting here,not we alone seeking them,they too should come after us.we are the men.can i get an amen?

whoever am getting married to has to bear my last name.or she is out of my house.love or no love.oyinbo no go come change our respected culture with their nonesense.

@davidylan

bless u bro for that post.i dont understand why the whole world is against africa.a man from gambia does something bad,its now a norm in africa.and the anti-africa poster is a black lady.thinks cos she is in the usa,she is an american.thats how they go round the world painting Nigeria as the worst nation.never wanting to see the good in Nigeria.

Bless u sister.i really needed that cos am about tightening the nuts.bless u again.

the modification has being effected

that was rather harsh.am sorry ok

i agree with u .because this lady confided in you

the info given is not enough.

Man u've known her for too long.what makes u feel or think she will wanna go out with u.dont mind that friend of urs.is better u remain friends with her or ask her out and she turns u down and u loose ur friendship.the choice is urs.

@iice

Then am romantic.but lets me real,my wife to be thinks and feels also knows am romantic.

@mukina2

If this is true,then i fall in that category at least 90%.

@iice
dont skin me oh.

nah u know the one wey u dey do oh.just put God first in all ur affairs ok.

let God be the judge.