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@Chelsea4su.

Thats crazy.why must a man be aggressive towards his loving wife?the wife should try to study his behavior to know whats causing or prompting the aggression.u know if he used to be loving and caring and suddenly become a bully.i think there is a problem in their communication link.Thats why as a man not everything a woman does u have to react to.women will still be women with their mouth and always bluffing.its unwise for man to transfer his stress on his wife.no.i think is wrong and women too should study their husband to the extent they should be able to notice every little change.cos some women are not wifes,their is check out the latest fashion.latest hair style and become an occasion lady.neglecting the feelings and communication bridge between her and her husband

i wonder wetin the woman give me chop wey go make me change my surname for hers.then i be outcast.people contribute to this ya all that is familiar with our home videos.Olu Jacobs married to joke silva.wat is that?why did she refuse to be jocobs.guy una go allow that shit?after all the cash wey i pay for her head?

You thought u are smart but u aint.well u are still young.next time dont try such stunts cos u will end up in shit.it serves u right.only a LovePeddler will take u back.u did not even try woo someone esle nah her sister u see.nah wah oh.

Guys who just want to have u for a night will admire all those exposee.but guy wey want wife go want make she look decent.cos how my girl go dey flaunt all her curves for others to see.abi is she for others or me.whitelexi i dey with u.

Girl i dont know how else one can love without being vulnerable.cos if u truly love,u will be vulnerable.if u dont want to love then u wont.

girld keep those post coming at least so guys can work on themselves to attract more ladies.

do what u have to do,u are on track.

as for me weather good or bad,i aint rolling with such.

i dont know how possible it is for a 16yr old to impregnante a girl.that story is hard to beleive

that will be nice.just let us know the venue.we have to know who is trust worthy to contribute this funds to.cos funds will be need to get drinks food and all that suffs.

ok.good and hope u did not ask why he didn't call u last night?

star gate,this confidence is in u.just the way u ask for something for someone.thats the way it goes.u can start by just going straight to the point.tell a girl u like that u like her and want to go out with her,no long talk.at first it may sound stupid,but as it keeps looking stupid ur inner mind is forming and before u know it u begin to woo a lady with the right lyrics.

Pride goes after its fall.pride and integrity are two diffrent things.u have to pick that phone and call him not asking why he did not call u cos if u do then he will know u where anxiously waiting for his call just call asnd ask how work is going and other things and remeber dont ask the ? ok so he will not think or feel u are throwing urself at him.and u should also know if he is seeing someone else before i comment any further.

i just want to commend honey_pot and chinani on their matured post.i appreciate this alot.am not chy but i think u both have spoken well and chy,take their words aight.

First why must men beat up their wifes?secondly why must children beat up their dad?God is against all this.the bible says if the foundation be faulty what can the righteous do.that is why i will still stand on this that marriage should be built on God and his principles and we should learn to seek the face of God before getting married.the a faulty foundation was layed even with the way the kids where brought up.bible says bring up a child in the way that he should go and when he grows he will no depart from it.mamaput this goes out to you the bible does not contradict itself cos my God is not an author of confusion.bible says choose this day life or death.it did not say choose this day in other things excluding marriage.when the man beats the wife the a point that she feels her life is not safe no more then she has to choose life.and flee from every apperance of evil.the kids also are ignorant of the devices of the devil cos they have layed cos on themselves.no matter what no one should lay his/her hands on his/her parents.i must say if the foundation is faulty what can the righteous do?

There will be trials.but its takes endurance and the marriage as to be built on Jesus Christ as the foundation.so there can be the fear of God.cos where there is the fear of God understanding comes.in marriage as a man u have to learn to listen more than talk more.cos when u listen u digest then u say what u wanna say,but if u are quick to react,then problems will always arise.tolorance also.as a man u are not surppose to react to everything ur wife says.and wifes learn to tame ur tongue cos the bible says he who tames his tongue keeps his life.show love even when she is wrong.men we have to learn to bend and stop that men thing as the head of the house treating our wifes as slaves.they are the weaker vessel so the bible says.Husbands and wife cope with ups and downs in marriages trusting in God.and calling on the great teacher the Holy Spirit to come teach them how to make it work.cos we should learn to trust in the lord leaning not on our own understanding.Amen.

i dont think its right to move in with ur boyfriend as a man not until u are married.cos u are just dating.cos every move he makes will bring suspicion.he may be working late but sine u are alone at home u start building up some crazy imagination that he is with a girl,but if u are with ur girls hanging out that time and he calls to tell u he will be home late.the company of ur friends will help u beleive him.when we are alone as humans we start thinking both positive and negative things about our lover but which stays?the negative or positive.and if both of u are true christains u know sex before marriage is against the will of God and it will be difficult to avoid sex cos u both see your unclothedness.i dont like to sound like a preacher but its the truth though.

Due to despiration ppl refuse to seek the face of God before getting married.if its once then its a mistake but if it keeps happening then i dont think that man respects his wife.and girls who are not married but enjoy dating married men all just for the goodies how will u take it when it comes back to u?when u have the fear of God i dont know how u will be moved by another ladies attraction when u've got a wife.see ur wife as the mose beautiful lady in the world talk about her everwhere u go instead of sleeping around and later u come home infectiing the innocent woman with STDs.and u as a man know what this woman went through just to convince her parents to marry u and also what she did to help or contribute in making u who u are.those men are just sorry ass who need Jesus Christ to help straighten their ways.cos a life that is not governed by Jesus Christ will go astray.

We have to properly examine this situation and not just say things without understand.she must have a reason for her introducing her fiancee as her brother.most frims i mean firms dont employ husband and wife or huband and wife to be,cos they wont want their establishemnt to be turned into a love zone.if there is trust then i dont think there is any reason for u to think ur boss and ur fianancee has something going.concentrate on making her happy and erase that idea that she has something to do with her boss cos if she has she wont get u a job there cos she knows someday she will be caught.so ignore all this thing that she may be seeing ur boss.i disagree.

why does money have to come first before ur feelings.some men are just heartless.some dont even know how it is being with a kid.how sweet they are.how they call u dada.this man God help u.i am a man but not a stupid one.am a good Nigerian man and above all i've got Christ.just take heart girl and forge ahead.and a lesson to ya all ladies not everyman that says he loves u ya have to open ur legs for.some men are greedy ass who just want to satsify their sexual orge at the expense of someone else feelings.

i think thats wrong how and why will i stop the flow of sperm when making love.its crazy all this oyinbo go dey inroduce some nonesnse and we black no go take time check am out,we go just begin use am.its crazy.diddy4 i agree with u man.

my mistake blacknbold but u know girl he has to open his eyes and make the right choice now to avoid divorce later cos its not African to divorce cos when 1+1 in the lord is 1.so i just hope u opens his eyes and forget about the things he likes in his ex and try to build them up in his new found love.

what kinda love?philo?erose or agape?which can money buy.cos if truly u love,u vant say or tell why u love the person.so ya all have to understand what truly L O V E is.if truly we say we are in love then we dont know why we love our partner.

ell 77.u see man when ppl begin to get scared of females they just get close to males cos there will be no rejection with them and before u know it they start liking the male.but trust me its the fact.

This is a typical example of a naija girl.am not a stingy guy so don't get me wrong,but the fact still remains that naija girls do they really love?or they love Ur pocket? that girl has found someone else and needs to maintain her person and u are the sacrificial lamb.can i ask u a ?or rather some ?s when last did u give Ur mum that 30k or Ur Sib's?she is a fresher and wants to enjoy the best of campus.we all know how it is with the freshers back in school.she has lost her love.i think u are a christain cos u are yet to make love to her.but man just open Ur eyes.get a serious girl and let her be.cos she is only looking at u as her financier.co call it quit before she does.cos its better u dump her than for her to dump u.i guess u have being investing in a ditch.

i will just say this to u and u figure it our urself.ppl dont exactly know what love is.ya all have to get this straight.TO LOVE IS ONETHING,TO BE LOVED IS ANOTHER,BUT SHARING LOVE IS EVERYTHING.since u are just dating and not married and dont intend to,i dont think its right for this guy to know everything about u,only ur partner i mean ur wife should know everything about u.

Man u need Jesus.how can u have a wife at home and still want sex from other ladies are u sick.i wonder what kinda world we are living in.u proposed to her and took an oath before God and man,that u will be with her through thick and thin.all this doctor sef una no dey fear God.i think ur brain has to be examined.God help u.

15-21.that age?hope u are not an older guy who likes little girl.pls oh let those age go for their age mates.

this act is barbaric.why must u marry Ur cousin u are insane then and need help.this is y2k6.gosh.this world is coming to an end so many nasty things are happening.

it all has to do with what we want from life and how we want it.marriage is not something to sweat about.if u rush into it,u'll rush out of it.take ur time to seek the face of the lord,cos marriage nort built on Jesus Christ as the foundation will definately sink.he said none shall lack her mate.he did not say at 30 non shall lack her mate.as long as u are still a living being.if u know u want to get married or u see that u are 30 and will like to get married still keep ur heads high and dont make urself available all in the name of marriage,keep ur integrity not just throwing urself at any man who says he loves u.so many girls are like intimacy gadgets now to men all becos of this despiration of wanting to get married.someone once said live everyday of urlife as if though it was ur last.stay connected to the naker of men.Jesus Christ the solid rock.