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burritto:
That’s why you need so marry someone who is understanding and you should understand each other’s want and need and see how you both can come to a compromise.

Attached to this mail is a copy of a conversation I had with an older male who understands his partner and is willing to live with her. We were chatting last night and this was one of the mails he sent me

true

But if you cannot bring yourself to be understood and you are always in your high horse I no fit bother myself

I cannot come and give myself high B.P

Emaprince:
forget..you can't compare o.

A man bedding four women enjoys it more than a woman getting drilled by four men.

If four men dey drill you( though I know say you dey joke)!...na suffering you dey...unless you are doing it for the financial gains, if those men are all filthy rich. Cos when these four leaves you, you will feel used...thats not same for a man.

I have this feeling that you are the type that will do everything possible to keep her home in order. Abeg no mislead the gullible ones reading your post

story story stooorrrry

Cheating is sweet

Four dicks is the replacement for any Bleep up

burritto:
It’ll be hard to get married again as a woman o. Lol

The problem some ladies have before going into marriage is not understanding the kind of person they are with. They jump into marriage just cos he is rich, good looking or cos of the society. They know he was a player but in their mind he’ll change or I’ll put him in check, but that never happens cos he is still the same old person. If the woman had know her husband as a person who alway rejects old food or like a particular kind of food, we won’t be here having this conversation. There is no understanding in the marriage and no compromise too. It’s her fault, she should have known the person she intends to spend the rest of her life with.

You can’t marry a drunk and come online to complain after marriage that he drinks too much. Like you serious now??

As for me ooo
I don't believe in changing anybody, that person can only change when he or she makes genuine efforts to change

I can only advice you, if you like don't listen to me your own cup of tea

My I can't come and kill myself mentality won't even make me bother

Godoverevery:
You are very funny ooo.

Am not a fan of baby mama but trust me in nigeria guys don't care whether she is a good woman or not.
Alot of this guys most times take the child to there mother and ladies who tries to use the child as cash machine end up frustrated.

The one that still have it good are divorce woman but you see baby mamas most guys don't even remember them.

please how many babymamas will allow you to take the child to your mother, very few do

She would rather take it to her own mother to raise

virginprincess:
Most men are wicked and heartless,wasted 5yrs of someones life, i can't be in a relationship with a guy more than 1yr,if i see than that relationship is taking us nowhere i move to the next avaliable person,i got no time for rubbish.

Asin ehn one and half years I don tire already

burritto:
I like your mind. Lol

Good thing you know he can chase you to your fathers house cos it was him who married you and not the other way around.

yes ooo

I cannot come a die on top community dick

Na to enjoy my life

Emaprince:
That one concern you.

What he doesn't know won't kill him..but what he rubs on your face, drains away your happiness.

Since two can play that game...why can't the two do it the same way?...why should one be proud about it, while the other is scared and ashamed to let it show?

Hiding will make you not fully enjoy it when you want to..because you don't want to be suspected. But he can make calls on speak out in your presence and head out for a quicky.

Do it and prove you are both equal. Lol

story story stooorrrry

Cheating is sweet na to a 4 extra dicks to any man that trys this with me
Divorce is not something that is new, because that is the highest he can do

You can shame the shameless

uthlaw:
my son is 7 staying with my mum...singlehood is just the best!

good luck

Emaprince:
Can you also have the guts to rub it in his face or..you will hiding and be sneaky about it?

If you really wanna challenge him, best way to do it is to rub it on his face as he did to you..then we shall know if you no go feel the heat. Let me not talk about the shame.

Its like you want to start singing " carry me dey go" all over again?

You think men and women are equal? Keep deceiving yourselves

story if e pain you go hug transformer

All cheat na cheat, openly or not

It is even sweeter when you do it at his back, when he thinks he is suffering you not know you have 4 dicks at your neck and call

Cheating sweet ooo, because you can't shame the shameless

uthlaw:
You yourself as a woman, what is the benefit of marriage...
Don't include the following:
I pray for him-he can pray for himself and is mum can pray for him.
He can advice himself.
Remove sex-na normal thing.
Cooking-eatery is available, if he can't cook..
So watin de marriage self?

please I'm not advocating for marriage

My own is as you are looking for babymama, shey na just anyhow woman you go look for on the street ni

Good woman is hard to find ooo, babymama or not

indodon:
every girl's dream is to marry a handsome, god-fearing rich man..

So when you get married y'all will feel like you have 'arrived'...

That( marriage) is your (female gender) greatest achievement

has it stop women from cheating

Women have this and even more but still cheat

Two can play this game my brother, no one has the Monopoly of being bad

indodon:
... Easier said than done

that is what you think

Toor if na me I go even give you car keys to go to your side chick's house, put condom in your bag so that you can Bleep her join

Just know that two can play the game, if I don't have side boyfriend make I bend

Highest na to chase me to my father's house

MrBrownJay1:
you seem to not understand the attraction for babymama....its simply that there is nothing that connects you to that woman apart from a baby....therefore your duty is towards the child and nothing else. this is a great way to make sure that this woman ACTS RIGHT, because if she doesnt, she out the door (and so is your devotion to her). the difference with marriage, is that if/when that woman decides to fukc up, you still need to go through a lengthy/pricey divorce, and probably pay her spousal support etc

remember, a man dont mind paying for his child, its paying for the yeye ex wife that doesnt go well with us men!

Who said you want to have a connection with your babymama

Raising the child is the Koko
And not everyone can do that

so you mean it is that easy to find a responsible woman that will raise your child

OscarJaden:
and how did you arrive at this statistic that men are more than women in Nigeria

When a man can have upto 10 girlfriends in Nigeria

A lady will know that a guy is in a relationship but she will tell u that she can be ur sidelined chick waiting for the day you will break up with ur present babe

men that have passed the economic pass Mark are the ones that are scarce not men themselves

So considering today's trend and the consistent ranting, wailing and crying of our fellow males

They seem to be no longer interested in marriage

Oh marriage has no benefits whatsoever to the male gender

Nigerian girls bring nothing to the table apart from their overused pussy

Nigerian girls are useless

I'm team foreign women

Or I will rather go and have a baby mama, ahhhhhh

Just for clarification o, will you just pick any woman you see on the street and use are as baby mama ni

Abi please help me make it make sense

Abi you Guys to find good and responsible Woman easy like that ni, you want to use an irresponsible and useless hoe as a BABYMAMA .

Getting a baby mama is easy ooo especially when you have money


Very very easy, but to get a BABYMAMA that will peacefully co parent with you, be a good mother and not be using the child as a meal ticket and troubling you unnecessarily

na where the work dey

Please share your thoughts on this


Lalalastica

190theclown:

Rest!

No one send una.

you don't send us and your fellow brothers are posting and creating threads about us

Well I don't blame you guys sha

THERE ARE 101 million WOMEN AND 104 million MEN presently in Nigeria, these is now scarcity of good and virtuous women. Abeg who will not panic

Wife materials are now scarce

Anyways thanks for the concerns sha

It seems these days men are more concerned about women matters more than women themselves

Hahahaha why are you guys surprised

Humans are polyamorous in nature
Even a good woman can cheat because she has blood in her vains, hormones and there is something called temptations

As for me too one Gbola can't reach me
Monogamy is not even realistic

Nazgul:
The word born again doesn't exist in Nigeria. P
When pastors engage openly in fornication, is it members you expect to live holy. Las last everybody na hypocrite.

Sadly that is the reality

Humans are natural hypocrites

Candidlady:


This forum eh
Make ino just talk

Anyways lagos compared to where istay na rural area

That is way too expensive sef for a place like lagos

you see

Anyways mangoes sef na seasonal fruit so e dey go small so it's a little expensive

I used to even buy it for 450/500 before

But it has to be cheaper in a rural area na

So I saw the thread of the guy that bought five mangoes for five hundred naira

Please I not your fault you are just a novice in the market game

Next time ask around for general markets in your state, like me I got mine from the Army Barracks arena in Oshodi
I'm sure there are places in benin that sell cheaper food stuffs too

and while at it please don't look like you have money

I saw the thread on the front page about the guy that bought bought five mangoes for five hundred in benin

Abeg are you new there, or you are just a novice when it comes to going to the market. If you are any please ask around for general markets

Like me I got to ask around and I directed to the army barracks arena in oshodi

Abeg when you are going to the market look like you don't have much, na when they see big Man/Woman Dem go dey increase price

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czarr:
Lol....clown I am not in any commited relationship and I don't intend to marry so I could care less if women cheat, like I said before no be today women de cheat, women have been cheating like men ever since, so what you are saying makes no sense whatsoever, imagine I say men's cheating has come to stay as if men started cheating today, both men and women cheat to the same degree, I would even argue that women cheat more.

Please you people should cheat on the men who are stupid enough to commit and trust y'all, cheat with us who stay outside and enjoy y'all while your stupid boyfriends and husbands provide for you.

The more women cheat the more available vagina for people like me who know human nature enough to not commit to a woman.

now you get the point

Women infidelity is the way

czarr:
LIES!
Stop making up stories to score arguments points.

toor

Na my neighbor be dat cheating with her full chest

Women infidelity has come to stay

Elporo:
Yes .. this happens all the time.

Chiwetalu Agu been get one wife her name na Lovina; she get one bukka e name na akwuna kuwna.
she show Chiwetalu weh ... for that nollywood movie
Chiwetalu go baff pickin, boil rice, sweep compound.

Nah people like @Fuckaniza dey do maintenance for those kind women.

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Your Nyash is ur Nyash.
My prick is my prick.
Don't ask me stupid questions, when you find out ; all this while I have been fvcking your juicy lil sister

who bloody cares Toto has to be serviced

czarr:
I agree that women infidelity has come to stay, intact it has been happening since no be today, I am also of the opinion that women just like men are polygamous in nature.

But what I doubt is your story of the man begging his wife to stop cheating, even if she is the bread winner, still not gonna happen and you know you just cooked this story up from your asss.

they are my neighbor oo

I know them very well

czarr:
Lol...no be only beg her to stop
African man beg wife to stop cheating?
Stop lying because you want to paint a false narrative...

this is my neighbor

And yes African men beg their wives to stop cheating

Mama cannot leave her sidecock ooo
She told me his dick is to sweet

When a woman is too stressed in her marriage and is not happy she must chop outside food if you like be an African man or pay the world as bride price or even marry her a virgin.

Since she started cheating see as wife body fresh

Put magun on her she will still cheat
Women infidelity has come to stay

Vinnie2000:
Nice one, OP!
Let younger guys learn!
As a Guy, If u want to sustain a relationship or even marriage, just have a side chick or a Beautiful female bestie!
Ladies will conciously and subconciously need Competition to maintain love for a Guy!

hahahaha

God men are so predictable

I know a woman who her husband tried this, she was acting up at first, he cautioned her that he is the man of the house blablabla

9 months baba no touch her
She went outside without any noise got a side niggar to Bleep the daylight out of her

Husband found out and started begging her to stop, did she stop? NO

She is even loving it has she is doing it at his back

Do I blame her? NO

As you dey bring competition Sha make sure no other man is will to make her feel needed

I look better in person

I'm not photogenic at all no matter how I try

Ehn don't marry na who dey beg you

As if women don't get tempted when it comes to sex

Get baby mama but Sha make sure she is not like Tonto dike or black Chyna.
Choose babymama wey get sense which is hard because there is no good girl again


Understand this humans are naturally polyamorous including me

As you see me so one gbola cannot even be okay for me

Last week I tried party mhen it was out of this world

Imagine if I should now get married
Na to pity the husband ooo

At the end of it all do what works for you

Demigod22:
Why you shouldn't date me

I too the play

I am too intelligent

I am not a regular boyfriend material

I am carefree

I hate commitment.

This is just me

Especially that care free and commitment part.