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i'll give you an example sigh. I can't believe after I told myself i would ignore you I am still helping you. Such is a kind heart.

Ruby_Pearl:
Cholos?
Is this suppose to be an insult?
You don't bash women? <be still my heart> what a lie!
Ok, no female bashing.
What do you win? At the end of the 3 days, I'll let you know.

Cholos, dogs, homies.
Nah, it's not an insult. Just don't expect me to come out and say "Oh this is what I mean duh" .
I don't bash women . . . please show proof.
3 days huh? Okay then rodent we have a deal.

Ruby_Pearl:
Why don't I show you list of peeps instead:
SeanT21
Jenny
Oyinye2
Gabby
Me

those are my cholos. what about them 

What message?
You won't tell?

if you can't figure it out don't worry about it.  i thought you were old enough to understand it.

ok, maybe you're <hmmmmmm> nervous?
Ok, let's make a deal, what do you say?
No female bashing for 3 days.

that's no deal at all. i don't even bash women . . . your list is filled with girls but yeah sure.  no girl bashing for three days.
if i do this what do i win?

_{not like i bash them anyway.  they just say some really stupid stuffs}[quote][/quote]

dreeldee:
when i make my first 10000 bills i'll let you know

please do o . we can spend it together.

Ruby_Pearl:
Who said I don't know?

so you do know. good

dreeldee:
I could only be nervous when i see 10000 bills or more not mere women

lol. nervous to make greens which kain job be this o

Ruby_Pearl:
Now, me and you both know that you love bashing women
lmao! on your phone ke?

hey that's not true.  not phone, i meant post.  see my mind is onto other things.  i don't love bashing women. . . show me the post where i did this  
but if you have your mind set there's nothing i can say to change how you feel.

hmmmmmm, you've been trying to insult me for some days now.
For what purpose, I seriously don't know.

okay i apologize if you feel that way.  was sending a message but i don't think you get it. nevermind it. squashed.

Your post are rather indirectly insulting me, are you trying to make me feel guilty about something?

no   nothing.

]quote]You're not a bad person, yet you're not close to good either.
[quote][/quote]you are entitled to your opinion.  i don't agree with it.

Ruby_Pearl:
Yes, you've been str8 forward and honest. And I appreciate that
What have I been trying to teach you? I really don't know myself.

honesty is important.  If you don't know then I guess we are running around circles here.

is this a slang?

ugh nevermind.

Negro_Ntns:
@post,

Yeah, I'm nervous around women too. Women are safe and protected around me, no fear.

Ruby & HCH, I ordered a three-tiered cake, y'all let me know the date.

Free me o . Ruby is a married woman.

gabrywyl:
Heheh! You don't know yet ohhhh. . . . .  

When I first met my boyfriend friends, I was shivering and in my head, all I can think of are 2 birds flying around making chirping sounds. His friends said Hello and I did not answer looking at them like some kind of alien. . . . . I froze and almost peed in my pants!    

But after awhile, am all good.  

gabriel, ewww   peeing in your pants?  na wa o.  
i could freeze for a few seconds if i saw a hot breezy, but i snap out of it because i know she's . . , well you get what i mean.

Ruby_Pearl:
You must think I have to time to search through all your post.

Well you questioned my integrity and i sure hope you can back it up.

But then, the evidence wouldn't be that hard to find, it's more than 60% of your post, which are directed towards women of this forum.

you are getting it all wrong.  if you are interested in finding out a certain truth, it's best to just come out and ask me.
60 percent of my phone is . . .centred on bashing women? so not true.  

Not really. I don't expect everyone to be perfect.
If they are, then they must either be pretending or they must be close to a doll

Okay then, until you are able to prove that I am a bad person why not just accept that I am a good person.  Work to prove me bad.  No need to pretend to be an asshole when i'm not.

Ruby_Pearl:
That's the only thing you learned?
From all I've been trying to teach you?

I don't think you have been trying to teach me anything. Been straightforward and honest with you for a while now. you know this.
What is it you think you have tried to teach me, spill it.

_{koo pic on pro btw}

Ruby_Pearl:
@HCH
You did not directly imply that we are not.
Your kind hardly ever recognize the status of women in society

please show evidence where i indirectly implied it. i give women the respect they desire and i back them when i have to. i am not a misogynist. you must think i'm a bad person huh

gabrywyl:
Not like that? You sure??

I am sure. I learned attention without intention from toyin.

I think the poster is not scared of them. Just nervous being around them like the way I get nervous being around 10 guys.

it's okay to be nervous but try not to show it too much

Ruby_Pearl:
women are creatures too. glad you finally recognized that.

girl what are you talking about . where did i ever imply that they're not

gabrywyl:
hey Bobo. Not every guy is brave like you to flirt around with all da kokolets sha.

Hey man! I am not like that. Women are creature too are they not. You have no reason to be scared of .

:p

do you get scared

mikelbay:
e pass mouth thin

what's there to be scared about anyways

I guess this ends the discussion then. Too bad

gabrywyl:
Hey Bro, I don't mean no harm ohhh. Just making a point that not all females are like the Topic of this thread.

oh! sdxzcvlkxjx why didn't you just say that

onyinye2:
My definition of an incredible man is

One who is able to love all of me. From me being quick at the mouth to my romantic side

One who is able to get to know the real me. That alter ego that stays at bay.

One who understands im his equal not inferior to him, but still holds it down

One who makes is out of his way to make me happy. no matter what mood im in.

One who understands when i need to talk i'll come to you not the other way around.

there is more but i aint going to say it or write it.

i know the one in bold has consequences.

i don't know if you have met your incredible man yet it takes guys time to figure out these qualities you listed. people are so unique and different at the same time. you meet one person you do the things they like, then it changes when you move on to someone else. make every effort to mesh your attitude with his so that you complement each other. do all you can to help him understand what you like or dislike. if he remains interested in dating you after your list then kudos to you.

I feel you . What's the definition of an incredible man? You mean like incredible hulk or what

onyinye2:
Oka that is truly questionable. Any ways if the guy lives in a different city then one of us is going to have to sacrifice our comfort zone and move to the other one's city. i highly doubt it would be me.

Too bad you think I'm joking. You should never date outside of your comfort zone then. If you travel to the other side of the country you just might fall in love with it. It's perfectly fine to leave your comfort zone once in a while.

onyinye2:
well you just do you. me on the other hand will give a man the maximum of a year to get what ever he needs to get together.

I can't do me without you. What if the guy lives in America but is in a city different from yours, is that worse?

gabrywyl:
@ tOPIC,
says who my boyfriend was first broke when I met him. he cannot even afford to buy his own food. . . .

Way to throw him under the bus

onyinye2:
yeah but three years is a long time. a lot can happen in three years time. i could have met someone more wonderfuller . . . yes i said wonderfuller. . . then the guy im waiting for.

I'm a strong guy what can I say. Not emphasizing physical strength.

onyinye2:
Whoa three years is alot.

thanks for breaking my heart

If waiting 3 more years is enough to secure me a partner for the rest of my life, sure.   Hey he can always go visit her in Naija.  he could be lying though  

chiogo:
Blondie?? Nah, am far from that. Do I really gotta explain this? Here I go, I confuse myself by callin one thing another. When I'm thinkin 'tv shows' or 'comedy', am typing 'soaps'. Just like I confuse martin lawrence with Eddie murphy. I call the former d latter and vice-versa. I don't know why but I think martin looks like an Eddie and Eddie looks like a Martin. Weird, right?

Oh no dear you don't have to explain anything. Weird indeed. I guess your vision (or is it memory) has a transverse way of storing information in your head. . . or you have a funny way of explaining what you mean. Maybe you think eddie is a martin and martin is an eddie because they're both comedians.

chiogo:
I didn't know guys watch soaps. Anywayz, I confuse myself. I grew up watching soaps: passions, the young and the restless, ER, etc now, I don't watch 'em any more but I call comedy soaps still.

Confusing yourself blondie
I don't watch soaps. I did that to distract you from the topic - to start a conversation like this one we're having

chiogo:
Oops, I don't watch any of those. General hospitalbeen a long time.

Did I say soaps?? I meant TV shows, comedy! What was I thinkin?