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naughtynaughty:
lol grandma gbogbo wa ni NL mo dobale o

believe me, I've seen so many stupid people in this world, but yours is special.

titi4fola:
I think that FIRST love, especially if you are a teen is the most passionate & life altering love you will ever have. You feel complete and at peace in your soul when ever you are with them & everything is dream like and surreal. It's all so new and wonderful. When that first love is over it's like your soul has been ripped immediately from your body. All your joy is gone and you become zombie!
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wanna ask a question... Is it mandatory that your first relationship will be your first love? Or your second relationship may be your first love or even third relationship. Thank you guys

BrideOfDracula:
And I could turn around & say, a fool doesn't know when he's being a fool. Exhibit A is you. You're throwing insults instead of making a sensible argument. Not that I blame you because insults are after all the arms of the weak-minded.

I'm so done with you now. Ciao Ciao, malaka!

make I check your picture again self.. I mean you no just get sense. Abegi swerve

There is this girl I been trying to chyck.
She tends to avoid mean in whatever means(by wind or fading) she said she doesn't want to see or even talk to me one on one for now, saying she's shy of me and can't even stand talking to me. she gives me all sort of romantic gestures from far away, greets me first, calls me whenever she sees me. I don't understand what's actually happening.

BrideOfDracula:
LOL. Whatever. Since you don't know me I couldn't care less what you think of me. Stùpidity is synonymous with you & your rabid ramblings with no valid points. Don't have time for it. Buh-bye.

only the stupid ones knows their other stupid species.. Mumu

BrideOfDracula:
I can't win with stùpid because you'll beat me with years of experience. You're an idiot! Period.

"stupidity" you've been emphasizing on since. You were created a female, but you choose transgender as a goal instead of living a good life. Who is more stupid here. I'm not even sure you know what stupidity means. Seriously I gotta know your relatives/family, cause you're really creative and special at bringing shame to your love ones. Repent today. Daughter of jesibel

BrideOfDracula:
Idiotic response as expected. Typical. When you have no leg to stand on, grasp on straws & keep reaching.

Fùck you! You're dismissed for being a slowpoke.

jeeeeeeeez!! Your pain serves as a comic book to me girl. Can't help laughing, yiu shouldn't have brought this qualms up little kid.. It something you'll never be a able to win over instead you get hurt and depressed with each line in my reply. You're just too weak and lame. now go get a life daughter of jesibel

BrideOfDracula:
No, the rètarded one here is you for making baseless ASSumptions about jealousy when you don't even know me. You shouldn't have assumed & I wouldn't have to go through all that explanation about my physical preference. You claim I'm jealous, jealous of what? Over what? Give me a break! Make sure you connect the charger to your head, your brain sure needs a shock!

you got totally exploded because I termed you a jealous type? How weak! Imagine, well judging on my feelings of seeing you going crazy. If terming you crazy would make you go totally insane, u useless she-male lwkmd I hope that makes you completely nagging like a mad horse.. Don't forget to eat your beef.. Useless ungrateful human being, you're not satisfy for being created a female, so you had to change your gender as to help ya lesbian ministry.. Ah pity you.. Jealousy bitch.. Now die

BrideOfDracula:
Right after you go for eye surgery to correct your eyesight issue. Why in God's name would I be jealous of that when I spend most of my time making sure I keep a boyish figure? Not every woman wants to be fat.

forgive my approach baby girl but I'm tagging a retard... Yes, a retard.. Tell me how I'm supposed to know that you're a boyish or whatever you assume yourself as. Anyone with BB charger here?

pinkyliceous:
Fat everywhere. Miss cellulite.

see them jealousy at it peak

BrideOfDracula:
And you wonder why guys say women have fish brain. Who cares if you are? Will your endowments jam & stop the earth from rotating around the sun?

all I see it "envy" madam go do nyash surgery..

This op is a pussy ass nigga honestly... What About women who as well jilt guys to the extent the guy how ever commits suicide or have his life ruined.. Op you gotta keep quite to develop some good reasoning faculty, this is so annoying. Ion see why this retarded thread had to make first page. It's useless believe me.

All these girls go dey do like say them no dey shit

That's rather too selfish of her. I don't see why you're influential, and helping less privileges up is just something you'd never think of doing.. Meanwhile, these girls are now becoming more of a begger, why don't you go to the street and start begging like these hausa people.. A resent post talked about a girl questing for necklace. living fake will do you no good, instead you get nurtured mercilessly. Ouch! it sucks

yummyricka:
Ass and boobs would fill everywhere nau

Kai.... Presently all I need is big boot, with a well befitted boobs to lash and squeeze.

say I no go squeeze that nyash nah lie

phensbassey:
but come, HW hard is d maths in that computer science dept?

Bro.... it's not been easy actually. You gotta study as to have a good grade aftermath.

Good evening fellas.

I'm so interested and curious to be a blogger, but I actually have no clue of it. So, I was thinking if you guys could at least help my dream. I'm a 200L student of achievers university located at ondo state(private university)
Dept: computer and information science. Thanks in anticipation

SweetieConstie:
LMAO! Tobyshegz.. You're damn so hilarious!!

SweetieConstie:
LMAO! Tobyshegz.. You're damn so hilarious!!

mtchewww!

Good morning nairalanders! these tips I'm about to post here has been the most crucial and essential steps to a better life from depression, emotional pain and agony. I'm an introvert who had experience numerous emotional pains/wounds, I've an INFJ personality thanks to byers-Briggs for making my life more of a meaning and fun. For those who haven't checked out their personality type, I'll here by advice you to check. I discovered I'm living for no one after I checked my byers Briggs personality. it was fun aftermath, after all it made me understand my mysterious life style better, it became stale, and i became used to it. Well, according to the title of this thread, I'll go straight to the point.

Here we go

1) Stop over-thinking. Just stop, it’s not good for you. Since
we’re natural thinkers, it’s OK to be deep in thought but
over-thinking will ruin you.
2) Stop helping people so much. Now get me on this, we
always want to make everything easier for others. But we
over do it! People will take advantage of this. Instead do
what you need to do and people will ask for help when
they really need it.
3) Stop planning social events. Trying to think of things
you’re going to say, or do, etc. will only create anxiety.
Introduce yourself to others, smile, be confident, and ask
how are doing? The rest of the conversation will unfold.
4) Realize that not everyday is going to be perfect as we
like it to be. That’s life. Instead, learn from it and learn to
let go when things don’t go your way.
5) Fight and I mean FIGHT for your happiness.
6) Stop using others to fill the things you lack.
7) Let others know who are by speaking up for yourself. If
something they do bothers you, you need to address the
issue upfront.
Laugh when you make a mistake. Being hard on
yourself is counter-productive.
9) Find a hobby, something you always wanted to try but
think you can’t do. Whether it’s working out, dancing,
music, art, hiking, cooking etc. We need to find something
to channel our energy and makes us feel good. It’s a great
way to escape and have some alone time.
10) Cut out people who don’t care about you, because they
probably don’t.
11) Stop caring what others think of you. Know who you
are and embrace it. The right people will come your way.
12) Make time for yourself, mediate, and think about your
ultimate goal in life. Thank you so much. And please never forget to Myers Briggs personality as it makes it better to comprehend these steps above.


posted by an INFJ.. EBEN

Chuckles.... No girl can ever treat me this way... I'm a confortable and satisfy badt boy.. Instead I make em want me more

missingrib:
geez

you'd be surprised! But that's my personality

I start being dramatic....

missingrib:
it always annoying,I hate drama in relationship

then we both ain't compatible. Meanwhile, drama makes relationship more lively at times.... I'm a die hard fan of mind game/drama. I'm chronic drama king.. Geez!

WalkerMichael:
Toy car ahhhhhhhh!!! Igbo kwenulmfao

abegi... You fit do the bolt? Learn to appreciate

xxxtedyxxx:
The Danger of Over-Focusing on How you want women to behave instead of first Creating the Right Emotion to motivate the Right Behaviour.

Do girls flake on You? Do you always wonder why she doesn't return your calls? Or why she doesn't create time and space for you to be with her? Perhaps you don't just understand how her weird emotions can sometimes be a tool against our romantic journey with her.


Well read on to the end.

Grabbing this simple concept will give your GAME a 60% leap in the right direction.

•• First things first, attraction for women is not logical, its totally emotion. Its how you make a woman feel that matters to her, not what you do.

•• For the most part, we guys are action oriented. We think in terms of what we want to do and how we want others to act. Therefore, when it comes to the dating scene or any other social interaction we always ask questions like :

How can I make her say yes to me? ...How can I approach her and make her give out her number? ... How can I make her kiss me? ...and so on.

Asking the above questions puts us in an goal oriented cycle which is not bad. However, this goal oriented state of mind is addictive and it can make us begin to over-analyze subtle things that dont even matter - which is the mistake most of us makes.

•• All hope is not lost. With process orientation we can leverage the whole situation in our favour. Being process oriented helps you to think from the end.

So instead of asking... How can I make ber kiss me? ..You should ask:

What state of Mind can I get her into to make her kiss me easily?

What state of mind can I put her to make her feel free with me.?

What state of mind can I get her into to make her more invested in our relationship?

••••
A woman's emotion plays a crucial role not just in her decisions, but what she wears, how she laughs, the little things she does that makes you think she is different, whether she will say yes or no to u, or friendzone you .

••••
Armed with this knowledge there are lots of emotional states we can consider to get the girls to do or behave the way we want.

You can make a girl feel CURIOUSITY, LUST, FUN, ATTRACTION, A SENSE of BELONGING, ROMANCE and so on.

These are all good emotions, but always try to balance them out with emotions of TRUST, CONNECTION, SAFETY, COMFORT.

The feelings/emotional states a girl experiences when she feels free and totally connected to you is what I tag as TRUST/CONNECTION/SAFETY/COMFORT. This emotional state is important if she is gonna date YOU.

CURIOUSITY, LUST, FUN, ATTRACTION, A SENSE of BELONGING, ROMANCE are emotional states some girls require but we still need a balance of both sets of emotions.

Some guys are good at creating the CONNECTION/TRUST and safety emotions easily. They are so good at it that they don't include the second range of emotions. This is the sole reason why 90 percent of guys get friendzoned. . That moment when you here:

" Emeka let's just be friends please"

If you don't show her the qualities of a boyfriend, you are invariably putting yourself in a position to get friendzoned.

Some guys are fantastic at creating emotions of CURIOUSITY/LUST/FUN/ATTRACTION/A SENSE of BELONGING/ROMANCE but there sometimes get turned down at the last minute. You also need a little dose of CONNECTION to get her to feel some sense of trust. That way she won't flake at the last minute or put up resistance.

All in all, its important to give her feelings of attraction and positive feelings of emotional,safety and rapport to get her to do what you want.


Apply this to YOUR GAME today...and see the Difference.

Cheers.

Xxxteddy

Cc. Lalasticlala ishilove

my nigga, ma G... Bleep!! Nigga I'm massively overwhelmed by ego and respect for myself, I can't even get close to girls I like due to fact that ** I live too much in my head. ** fear of being rejected. ** I take things too fucking serious.. ** I play mind games a lot.. ** I love being chased.. ** too private.. And believer me hommie, I'm so fucking smart, full of intuitive, I play with people's mind cause I already know what they're up to. I mean, I'm good with rapport and so massively manipulative. People don't understand my type of life, they get wondered by the way I behave sometimes same with lasses.. Abegi. Do you've any advice for me on that?? You seems to be very smart, empathized and sensitive toward emotions and mind. I need to start getting girls laid. thanks in anticipation

Well, I think I won't go directly into judgment. Depending on the location it happened, if it happens in the woman's house, no doubt he should be dealt with. it's a lack of respect to the husband and his entire family. But he got caught in his home, I bet I'll never get involved in the torture.

PunkyV:
He is deeply in love with her, you can tell by the way he is looking at her & the body language.

Congrats to them.

ummm! Body reader.. Abegi the man wan bleep ni jawe, holding her ass in public kinda naughty.. Nigga las rough rider