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@Godmystrenght, LOL.

@ephe. Ouch. keep it alive.
@phema. Hmm, i will try that on hubby's birthday.
@ kweenkong. Sincerely, i never taught of that PLUS ephe's opinion is perfect cos am sure her gift to hubby will not be the regular type. U know what i mean(smile).
@ shizzlestar. MYOB. What's your opinion?
@Godmystrenght, sex, perfume, gold wristwatch, suede shoe, t.shirt, car, vacation, favourite food etc. Ladies keep going.

Officiallyurs: How is sir or daddy a pet name?

to some it may be a pet name to others, its official. so, dont force ur view on others.

@officiallyurs, ure something o. u are just twisting everything on this thread. there are pet names u can call your hubby. to me, calling my hubby, daddy means i will be scared to relate with him. well one man's food is another man's poison.

nope. i no call am daddy the time wey we dey court, so na now i go start abi. what happen to all the names iv been calling him. i no fit laugh

@oseiwe,you can decide to change ur ring from gold to silver ok.

oseiwe: Them dey replace rings?

the old one. you can decide to change ur ring from gold to silver, clear @ oseiwe

i gave hubby a customized t-shirt and a set of wedding rings for replacement.

wolewill: I raised the issue of general medical check up with my wife. She insisted she cant step into any hospital right now with the ebola case same with my friend. So is being difficult getting them to go to hospital.

if she finds out at the hospital, it might be a disaster. i will advice against it.

if you are scared, which is normal, then maybe u should involve a trusted spiritual leader. situation like this u need atleast someone to share ur fears with.

my dear, u did wrong big tyme. first of all, we are talking about her mother, either ebola or something more deadlier, u shouldnt have mention it cos to her u dont care about the mother's wellbeing and to her its also a sign of disrespect. pls apologise and be sincere about it.

HA. this is serious sha oooo. pls tel ur wife first, though it might be difficult, pls do tell her and be ready for wateve consequences it brings along.secondly, get medical advice.

am sure she knew the aftermath of what she did. hmmm, her saving grace will be for her hubby not to find out cos that will be the beginning of their seperation maybe not physically but emotionally. it is easier to forgive but not forget. God will see her through.

using there negative(mistakes) to work on myself and home positively.

@efemenaXY. am not looking for pity from anyone, just opinios and as well releiving myself of emotional spree.

@rolled. we live in the same town but not the same house. iv done all manner of test includn hubby.e

guys sincerely am trying hard, but she's dificult to understand. she only sees u when u give her things. i dnt know where i went wrong. i which there is anytn i can do to make things right.

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hi, am a new nairalander. i've been married for almost 3yrs without a child. my husband is a rare kind, he is so caring and understanding, he even set a standard for me with his family(they dnt mess with me). my mother-in-law is so harsh and she doesnt care about anytn. since we got married she hasnt ask for why there are delays. there's notng i do dat satisfy her. right now we are not on chatting terms cos she wants me to slave for others since i dont v a child of my one. anyone in the same boat?

thanks richy4, that's an eye opener.

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a wonderful husband i.e caring and understanding is like an ornament round ur neck. mine is too wonderful(if there is any word like that.) l adore him.