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Pls I need advice from mum and doctors,
My lady has been pregnant for nearly 6months now, but stomach still flat, sometimes grows and sometimes flat, with persistent pregnancy symptoms. Prior to that she had some kind of miscarriage as a result of drugs she took for terminating it, since after the drugs and bleeding scan saw twin, weeks after that a miscarriage occurred and tissues came out. Since then scan hasn't been seeing anything, all test result shows negative, but persistent pregnancy symptoms, noticeable by another person, frequent stomach pains at the right abdomen, frequent vomiting, most times eat and poo almost immediately, frequently urinating, swollen faces sometimes it gets back to normal


Pls what's the cause, how can we handle this
All doctor says is go run test and scan which says negative


Another doctor said the baby has stood yet, it might fail, it might stand

Another phamarcy man mere looking at her said she is 5month gone and need to massage , pls who has idea on how to handle this

I made more than a million from Ponzi scheme, (ECG investment), Project writing, etc at age 21, but lost them, on track towards making another, just that am an awaiting dad, so its really slowing me down, but next year regardless we reach there again

So help me God

See this useless man
Bcus u da yankee, u da miss yarn, come back naija make Malami treat ur Bleep up,
May our money wa u follow chop purge you

I once asked him why rushed to get married without a good source of income and he bluntly told me that he had always been broke while he was single and still broke now that he's married the only difference is that he can boast of his kids as an achievement unlike when he was single that he had nothing to boast of.

This Answer Sha very funny.
Children and Marriage is not the cause of anyone not doing well, your will power to achieving your goals. But children and marriage might slow down the rate at which you get them (goals) fulfilled. Most children and wife bring goodluck, in some cases they fasten the rate at which u achieve the goals.

OP what if you never get to build 3bedroom flat and buy a car? You remain single and childless?

There are people who built houses and bought cars after about 4 children, so it depends on the individual resolve to achieving his or her goals

He was about your age when he gave birth to you, he da fear make you no toll that route.
Sit him down and talk to him, plan on furthering your education, if all this no work, just relax wen his action reach you wella, the man in you go revolt

Candidlady:
iwont turn down a 500k offer!

but if he has hidden agenda, then two can play the game!

he knows ihave a boyfriend/husband but decided to blesme with 500 thou'. Am sure my boyfriend/husband wont telme to turn it down

That means you follow all the guys offering you 500k?

Make we chop him money na so olosho take start

Wahala

DenreleDave:
Your current job gives u maximum of 2k daily and u Wan change again....?


The devil you know is better ooo

Thanks Sir

tosbobby:
Stay in the new one because the proximity is good. You don't need to trouble yourself since you're going back to school next year.
25k - 3k = 22k month. It doesn't worth it.

Alternatively, tell the contact person politely to increase the pay to 30k if he really need you.
If he refused, let it go after all you have nothing to loose.

Thanks so much for your input
I appreciate

AdeOri99:
Which kain mumu question you com dey ask like dis na?

You've done the math yourself, and logic demands you chose what's most comfortable for you, or is it a must to take a job cause you are given an offer, even though the job may not be the best for you?

Alright thanks I get your point

ugwumichael:
With what you wrote here, do you think it's wise taking the new offer.

It not wise but, i ain't proud of the current job because of the pay

chatinent:
Go for gold.

My daily allowance is more than the gold ? Should I still go for it?

MightySparrow:
Yes

But I get more than the 25k monthly, I don't pay transport, but the I will pay 3k for a month as transport and I will feed too.

Should I still take the offer

Hello Nairalanders
Pls help me on which job I am to go for.
I am a young student who is suppose to be on 1year IT in any chemical engineering related field, but Nigerians would not want to hire a student even when you want to work for free.
I am currently engaged now in a small jobs that pays 12k monthly and treakable from my house, but the job comes with steady daily income of minimum 300 naira daily and maximum 2000naira daily.

Now I was reffered for another job of 25000 naira , with me paying the transport fare of 100 daily .
My current Job is hectic and time consuming, but my daily allowance sha.

My new offer is just 25k which should I go for?

Pls I need your advice
Both jobs are computer related
And note I will be going back to school next year

Pls Mods help push to front page

Adesina has 2 male children, stop lifting unverified news from peoples walls and posting.

Check his Wikipedia Profile for more info

Papparassi:
This is Leader of Etche legislative Assembly in Rivers state, Cynthia Nwala.

She was allegedly stripped naked and her car damaged by Chief security officer of the council popular called SUP by the order of the Chairman Obinna Anyanwu.

Her sin according to them is that she took the maze of the assembly with her, before the gate to the council was locked and she was allegedly beaten by CSO and their cohort.

Credit on FACEBOOK Post:

by Ayo Hidayat Odungweru

This Obinna Anyanwu self every time always in the news for wrong reason

What's his business with legislative mace?
Its high time legislative assembly be separated from the council secretariat.
This same man locked the assembly building for months and gave his deputy a used kabu kabu Toyota car as official car

Anyway like wike, like his LGA chairmen, like GDI, like taskforce

My first experience was been waked from a good sleep to go buy fried yam and viju milk by 11pm, it wasn't funny but what can I do?

Second experience was with my girl, she's pregnant and I went visiting omor we literally buy every food been sold on our way and the worst of it, i end up eating it as she would not eat.

Another was, she made me buy sharwama only for her to say its smelling

I one day shout for her na so she begin da cry ooo

Pegi23:
Jesus. Op you might be out of your sense oo u want to destroy the girl future abi...19years old what did u know about fatherhood,what about the world (u know nothing) u are still collecting feeding money from your parents

You are a tout for thinking of taking touts to their house...the girl is mad for opening legs for a jobless boy..you can't take care of her and that's the truth stop thinking about the present think of the future period... abortion is bad tho I don't support it but the parents decision is good and the best..I hope the girl isn't underage oo because if she is ehh I will advice they should lock u up

You are a serial aborter
How is the girls life ruined?
After birth can't she go school?
Can't she achieved her dreams?
Are there no prosperous single mum ?

Are there no visionless and irresponsible girls without children?
Are there no ruined girls without children?

Stop encouraging abortion, because if the girl dies now you won't save the boy from what will before him

Everyone is attacking you, they forgot that you had a consentual sex, so the mistake was done by you both.

Most person would not understand until they impregnate a girl.
It takes a lot of courage to terminate your child regardless of the situation you are.

Bro I will not condemn you, because I am in your situation now, but I am older than you.

Abortion is never an option, never allow her go for it because her life is at the line, and you could enter a bigger problem than this if she dies.
The deed has been done, go with your family to meet her family, and a common ground should be reached. If they insists on abortion, sign an agreement not to be held responsible if anything happens to her.

Try and figure out how you take care of them.
On the long run you be happy seeing your child.
No go fight den

Some persons claiming saints here aborts all there children without remorse but are quick to rubbish you.
Some persons would not also have children too, but God has given us, although we facilitated ours at the wrong time,

Trust me we can still be what we want to, she too can, dreams die when we die.

chatinent:
If you have evidence your husband is cheating and cannot remain in the relationship, you leave. If you are not leaving, you are still married to him! At least, I believe the only grounds for divorce is adultery.



Can two wrongs make one right?

Your reconnecting with an ex is a payback, yeah?

What if everything was a mirage and the end brings you this dropped eyeballs that your husband wasn't cheating actually? Can you unscrew the screwed? Or you wanted a reason to cling to to return to the arms of this new 2face?

Why condole cheating if that's the case?

If you cannot accept it, you leave the union. That's the only ground morally acceptable to regroup with your new 2face.



I doubt you have feelings for 2face...it's this new attention he's giving you when you so need it that's translating to emotions, pills, and feelings.

Hanty, I will not mince words.

You are afraid of your tendency to meet your ex and ...history history...yeah?

What is the assurance your ex would make a good husband? If he would, you wouldn't have left him!

You are still a married woman whether or not you accept it!

How do you manage an ex who knows you are married but wants to screw you! Doesn't it ring the bell to you he only misses your body?

Wetin dey happen for this world sef.

Abi is it only my brain that has no downtime?

Wisdom wan finish you
Kai
See pure wisdom

Ave always wanted to have a baby on or before my 25th birthday, but thanks to God, I am an awaiting father at the age of 22, e no easy sha but the feelings and responsibility gives me inner joy

I already love my babies

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Stevyne:
If I may ask hope say no be those #150/200 condom

Na the 150 own he da use oo,the normal kiss and gold circle, but he da pour water inside after use and no leakage, now he da fear weda village people da on in matter

Wahala,

Pls what's the possibility of impregnating a girl using condoms?

My bro used condom but always impregnate his girl, the last time he made out using condoms, the girl took something the next morning and all the sperm came out from her but condom no burst,?
A beg how pregnancy take da enter?

Addme:
You actually don't need to go the first paragraph way.
On the bolded, YES, I have experienced that not once or twice. If you keep minted money especially the ones coming from a very cold places, you will understand. Though mine was not as wet as the OP painted his own.

Apologies on my first paragraph
But we see things such as disappearance of money deposited, etc

Hence the spiritual possibility of this case, otherwise the bag is suppose to be wet, but to the extent of water dripping , permit me to say, there is more to it

All of you speaking grammar about moisture and other gibberish, are daff

Life is spiritual, have any of you experienced this before, bag is dry but money inside dripping water and u are bringing science theory in it
Kai

Bro go deposit the money, dealers of agency banking are seeing something

Something like this happened to me all over my body,I was afraid of going out to public place, until I buy some Cameron agbo wa flush my system and I drink mix some in my cream, now am proud of my skin

B4 then I da wear cloth when in action, and I buy more than that drugs u buy

Fayemi, my man, banish all SWAGA
Nothing for that old man

[quote author=ejighikemeuwa post=102789659]Who are the people doing these things? What about the 73 boys loaded from nasarawa to owerri yesterday? What are they going to owerri to do? Who are doing all these things in Imo state? Uzodinma what is happening in the the state you captured?


Oh you call Uzodinma now, but in Benue you call Bihari

You see yourself now?[color=#006600][/color]

Please which APC governor should consult PDP government?

Umahi of Ebonyi state?, El rufai of Kaduna, Gandollar of Kano?, or Sanwo Olu of Lasgidi?

All PDP governors no reach any of the above mention governors, River state da try small sha