Gerrard59:


Three years ago when questioned about his reason for adopting a female child, he mentioned the love of humanity as one of his reasons. The Nlder suggested volunteering at an orphanage which he replied "he rarely has time for himself....". How then should we expect such a person to have time to properly raise a three-year-old girl?! Remember, he is in his mid-20s.






Let's not forget that OP did not outline the process involved (his state of residence can be left out) in the thread and even when asked, he did not respond to their questions.

zicoraads:

Omo...

WomenAScum abeg...

I go soon adopt pikin. Come buy one dog. Shikenan. C'est fini.

Layormiii:
Read through the thread and op avoided all the questions asking him about the procedure and amount and process of adopting a child

Imustnottalk:
why are you more concerned about everything do you left a child at the orphanage and you are thinking the op has adopted her.you can't how I'm going to Live my life and I can't tell as well so always mind your business

Gerrard59:


What was your grade in English when you wrote WASSCE (assuming you wrote it unlike Buhari)?

1Sharon:


He also said fornication is a sin, how many Nigerians obey that?

TMTR:


Look at our politicians today, infact look at our society in general, most if not all were raised in a religious background and how is that working out for us so far, Nigeria still ranks as one of the most corrupt countries and other negative indices while less religious countries are doing way better

Will rather teach her humanity

Youngsage:


Hello Sharon, just stumbled on your last thread in the Islam section, kudos. I'm wondering why I can't leave a reply though. Any idea why the reply button is missing? First time I'm seeing that happen on here, seems strange

FarmTech:

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The problem with many Nigerian Christians is hypocrisy. For example, parents who are exposing their children to immoral celebrity programs, will u call them Christians? Yet, this is very rampant and the children will grow and follow the evil path celebrities show them. This is the major issue I see with fake Christians. But there are still good Christians.
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Teaching her humanity isn't enof. It takes a change of heart for anyone to behave right. And only Christ can do that. Those so called countries u praise, are they not the ones that legalise abortion, prostitution, same sex marriage and other nonsense? Only Christ can truely save us from ALL sins. Money or prosperity is not everything. We have to always ask where we'll be after death.

AutoChick4U:
Don't hold your breath

Topmaike007:
no give your Pikin up oo na beg I dey beg you

greenie77:


For those asking him how they too can go about it, I was expecting him to give details on how to identify a registered orphanage, choosing a child, making an application, how he was interviewed, how social workers visited his home both expected and unexpectedly, how many times the toddler was presented before the magistrate to push the case for adoption etc.......If going through the legal route of adopting a child in Nigeria is a smooth ride, couples will not be patronizing baby factories.

zicoraads:

Omo...

WomenAScum abeg...

I go soon adopt pikin. Come buy one dog. Shikenan. C'est fini.

Mrsoft3:



Whenever you want to give her up for adoption kindly mention me. Good future gurantee

AutoChick4U:
I just hope its not baby factory cos Nigeria that I know would hardly give out a single male in his 20s a female toddler to raise.

Baby factory will deliver a child , feed and take of the child till she is three years plus Come on no baby factory will do that cause they sell the child almost immediately the child is delivered

Make Una dey reason things before Una dey talk am

Alldew:
I'm sorry but this your baby girl adoption thing didn't go down well with me.

greenie77:


For those asking him how they too can go about it, I was expecting him to give details on how to identify a registered orphanage, choosing a child, making an application, how he was interviewed, how social workers visited his home both expected and unexpectedly, how many times the toddler was presented before the magistrate to push the case for adoption etc.......If going through the legal route of adopting a child in Nigeria is a smooth ride, couples will not be patronizing baby factories.

TMTR:


First of all,I never said it was a smooth ride adopting a child in Nigeria, if you read my post carefully , you will see where I said I began the process in mid 2018 and not until late 2018 before my application was granted , that is to say it took me almost half a year before I could adopt.

For those asking for the process, just get a good and popular lawyer especially the ones working with women affairs and NGOs , table your matter and be absolutely honest about everything. They will handle the rest cause those lawyers knows the registered orphanages and all the process involved, they will guide you through everything and the last but not the least be patient with everything cause you will need it.

TMTR:


Baby factory will deliver a child , feed and take of the child till she is three years plus Come on no baby factory will do that cause they sell the child almost immediately the child is delivered

Make Una dey reason things before Una dey talk am

TMTR:


I don hear, now go hit your head on the wall if it pains you that much

It's because of people like you I opted for a baby girl to prove y'all wrong.

Nonsense

Alldew:

By good future what do mean. Answer pls.

greenie77:


Ok. I will want to know if your daughter ever appeared before a Magistrate for her her case to be pushed for adoption?

TMTR:


okay,let me just outline the process involved to the best of my knowledge because my lawyer practically handled everything and I was just being updated on the progress of everything because of my busy schedule.

First you write to the state ministry, ministry of women affairs and social development to be pricise accompanied with relevant documents like ID, A medical Certificate of fitness from a government hospital, Evidence of means you will use to take of the child be it business or gainful employment, passport photographs, if the ministry deems your application fit , they will then forward to the courts for processing , the courts will no now decide if to do an open Court hearing or in the chambers.

After that, the court will assign an Officer to inspect the applicants which includes home visits and even visits to your workplace and business to ascertain if all your documents are true and if you are capable of taking care of the child. The officer then reports then back to the court about his findings, if his report is positive, the child will now be given to you on probation for three months or more but mine was three months to see how well you will do with the child, only if you pass the probation will your adoption application be granted.

Mind you , the court still reserves the rights to revoke your adoption until the child turns 18 if they one day pay you an unexpected visit and found out that you maltreat the child or something like that. So always make you are treating the child right.

And to your question , yes she did appear in court

AutoChick4U:
Who grooms d Lil girl? Do u have a maid?

TMTR:


I wouldn't call her a maid but she is distant relative that I am helping with her schooling, she is in the university, she does all the grooming apart from her hair, I take her to the saloon for that

AutoChick4U:
I just hope its not baby factory cos Nigeria that I know would hardly give out a single male in his 20s a female toddler to raise.