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Almost everyone is intimidated. The thing is make swift action and pray God bless your hustle. Opening and confessing on a thread won't change anything. Go offline and become something.

Nice.

Not all Nigerian girls though and as someone said, this can't change who they are.

Let them be with what they choose to believe in.

Putting out your frustrations on Nairaland won't help.

The insults here alone can kill faster than the sickness you already have.

And please, take your threads to the health section. It's possible someone understands what you are going through.

Nude or semi-nude..

That guy with 'come home and die' comment got me..

The point makes sense.

Most of the times, they expect you to shut up if an elderly person is accusing you even when they are wrong. You have no right to object and they are always right cos they are elders. Shìt is annoying.

Many at times, we've gotten our heart broken by that person we value so much. It could be very disastrous and we may have found it hard to get back to our feet. Trust me, stalking them will leave you worse than the heartbreak did. So, what's the best thing to do in this situation? The best thing is to revenge and make them regret ever breaking your heart. Below, we'll discuss how you can do that.


1. Delete the memories of what you had: This is the very first step in overcoming an ex. Delete their numbers, pictures and text messages. Let nothing remind you of what you shared or had. It's a difficult thing to try yes, you have to be brave to get a sweet revenge. Don't agree to become friends with them. Keep no relationship whatsoever.

2. Move on: You heard that right? Move on. Go to parties. Hang out with your friends. Give chance for a new boyfriend. Take selfies and remain happy. Don't discuss them and don't think about them... Doing so can ruin your mood. Some exes come back into your like the moment they see you are happy without them. Never accept them. Someone who broke your heart can make sure you never heal. Stay away and enjoy life.

3. Be successful: Yes. This is the sweetest part. The best way you can revenge an ex is to be successful. Solely chase your career to the end. Go for auditions. Do well at school. Write scholarship examinations and be great. Let your success story haunt them. Let them read about you on Google. Do the things you love to do and remain elegant. Trust me, you don't want to know how remorseful they would feel. They would want to explain to their friends on how they used to know you but who cares, you are up.

Let me add this.. So many of you think breaking other people's heart is the best way to revenge(indirectly) an ex. No dear. You are breaking innocent people and you've given that ex power over you. Power to turn you into a monster that cannot love again but to break other people's heart. No one is worth it. You have a life and a future. Don't let that ex have the final say in your life..

Cc Lalasticlala

Mental problem has grades..

I came late to this thread but that won't stop me from saying this..

Other women are my allies not my competition.

Its because he's not always around to reprimand them. They tend to get drawn and miss him.

Seriously, you think being able to handle marriage has to do with age? You thought wrong. Most older ladies are desperate and that's why you may not know the attitude of the lady you're marrying. Just hope you find yourself a good lady that understands you even if she's 18 e.g Omotola married at the age of 17 and her marriage is still going strong. Not all young girls are dependent and rude. Try harder.

This your advice is not totally accepted.

I wonder if it's fun to troll. Don't you have things doing?

Ehya.

I have never seen such a pessimistic mind. You think so low of yourself. Still dwelling on past mistakes and now, you are envying the stars of people you know nothing about their storms.

All I can say is, God should give you the opportunity to see the light in your life. Only then can you aim high and know you are not a mistake.

1. Stubborn
2. Not a fan of religion
3. Ambitious
4. Loyal
5. Choosy when it comes to friendship.

locust:
Aunty sorry o, no vex for your pikin. Na just say u come dey accuse am of wasting time on PACs. But he never told you so. Besides, this thread is about bodybuilding and not moneybuilding. You don't mix business with pleasure.


No mind my mouth, u no be 'dis people', you hear?

OK.

He's good at what he does.

locust:
Is everything about bank account for you people?

Which people?

That I'm advising him not to waste time on PACs now means I'm interested in his bank account?

It's to his own interests. No person will force money out of his bank account when he finally has it going.

At this age, you can only survive the street with PACs but not really the world.

I'm not discouraging him o. He should keep it up. I won't have had you quoting me had it been I told him to keep it up and that's my mistake and why you had to refer to me as 'this people.'

Madness with levels.

I like her skin.

As for the nudes, whatever rocks her boat but I think the little boy should be considered till he's well aware of what is being done to him.

I neither read nor see romance. I hate fairy tales. You will get hurt if you try bringing the memories into a real-life relationship.

Marriage is beautiful.

I hope it isn't far for me.

Happy married life.

I hope you are working on your bank account too..

Lol. But please, what's wrong with using Always ultra pad this modern age? And what do you think should be in usage?

Nothing really matters.

We have most of the things we have and still get bored.

I can't eat this. Looks scary af.

Sausage roll.

Yes. Sex is.

But, definitely not love making.

It's dry season. More reason they have to take enough water. A dry mouth is unpleasant.

Love is just a word.

That can be used by anyone.

Doesn't really matter. Play boys are very good in this but they will end up dumping you.