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trojan84:Smiles |
Cos it's not in us I think We are always afraid of what people will say. Stuffs that they can't even say to our faces. |
Just give out to motherless babies home now. It will go a long way. |
Do it in a wide and spacious sitting room. Ten representatives from each side is okay. You are going into depression lol. Just marry and be happy. The event is only a day. |
Just seeing why threads like this move so fast. So many threads on Naija based guys seeking marriage advises and suitors don't go this far. Op, I don't think you'll get a solution even if your thread goes beyond 100 pages. You've outlined every possibilities and you've ruled them all out. Since you are a church boy, why not just retract and change method. Rather than seeking for marriage. Make friends with ladies both home and abroad. You will then see that some ladies don't give a flying f where you are cos they've gone further in their minds. If you want to pretend that you are in Nigeria, you can still use your Nigerian number for whatsapp. Save contacts. Chat. Relate. See people for who they are. Disclose identity and check if the energy is still the same. Try all of these if you have time. If not, just wait. You are not too old. |
Yes. I think you did good by running away. |
Funny people are the best. They whine you, talk to you without you wanting an end to the conversation. |
I've learnt a lot from Nairaland's great minds. Some comments would wow you while some would make you do the rolling on the floor kind of laugh. |
Why is this guy trending ffs. |
Broom and slippers. She would beat you and say you want to kill her. ![]() |
Age is relevant. But living in the moment matters. You don't want to miss your youthfulness thinking about old age. |
TheSourcerer:I checked this out on YouTube geez |
You've turned the family section to fictional section. Not funny. |
You dunno fashion is pain. |
There was no textbooks or self-help books he didn't get for me. My best moment with him was during the time we went shopping for provisions to take to my boarding school and he asked me what kind of sanitary towel he should get for me. But the very embarrassed me (I just started at the time) told him to get tissue. I got to school and had to go buy the sanitary towel myself lol |
Emmaxlee:No jor. They should have come first. |
Learn to whine them too Turn am to play. |
A man said.. 'even in an example, my wife can't be raped' |
It depends on my mood. Sometimes, I delete random pics on my phone maybe ones sent on whatsapp groups so if I come across ex's picture and I'm there, I will keep it. The fine ones especially. Otherwise.. garbage. |
You can go for long rich products |
I owe my parents and other family members and even strangers the best and I will give it to them. It doesn't matter if they have expectations or not. I will go beyond whatever expectation for them. |
mizzbouqui:This shoe was compulsory in my high school. Just pray you don't start looking for the other leg on assembly days. I'm familiar with the first and second post. I try. |
You would have made this a better competition if a phone is up there instead of make up. |
He would have left you if the mom had said yes. You are a second option my dear. You were never relevant to him. |
emmarocks:I do this. Smiles |
I think he's glad you broke up first. Saved him the stress of hurting you. |
The gods must be crazy The week of Jexi |
crackkhaus: ![]() |
There was a time my mom told me she had a dream where she saw my 13 year old brother then crawling like a baby. I was so teary that day cos this boy was too stubborn and dumb. But now, you'd beg for his talents and intelligence. You see op, let your boy grow out of it. But try and give him confidence.. if any boy his age torment him, tell him to face him back and stop being a baby to his mate. If younger boy does, please scold him very well. But you will be amazed at how he will grow and you will whine him with this later in the future. |
Of course. People really need to start taking lectures before getting married. I hate reading sad marriage tales online. |
Strong meat in parties. Just like a punishment. |
I love BLACK!!! |

