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Divoc19:
You really got me when you said we can't mention our earthly Father's or Mother's name. True.

Even my older siblings...

I got chills reading(discovering) this one.


Some of us still reverence our 'Dead' relatives, respect and fear the word 'Death' more than our own 'Creator', the originator of our life, because we were told our God is merciful?

I am going to unlearn to relearn.

Thanks.

You are very welcome

Cheers

Hmmmmm

so sad
We need good leaders who are ready to do the right thing

Omokrireno:
Believe it or not, this thing called money ritual is real...

I noticed that ever since i started dating this girl, things have been very difficult for me. In fact, things just stopped working for me and life became so difficult..

The red light came out first when she left to travel for a week. It's was like a magic, things started working well for me and just when she arrived everything became stoned... This sequence continued for months until one of these school holidays when i went for a church program and i was told to leave the girl that she was used for money rituals and anyone she gets in contact with will become broke and difficult as the person's luck will move to the ritualist.... Everything happening in our relationship was revealed to me that day....

When she finally came back from holiday, all my business and street hustle became blocked again and we always have this argument because she has a difficult attitude and lies a lot. At first, i didn't want to tell her about it, i didn't want her to feel bad and it doesn't seem right to me then... One night, i frankly told her, i had to because i had no one in my life except few friends, i was fending for myself and paying all my bills right from 100level...


Well, i broke up with her this night, not because of the ritual stuff but because of her attitude and she called me crying that she rather die than for me to leave her to go through this kind of pain....

She has turned it to a do or die affair... I need input on this.

Are you not the come who called me.about this issue last year ?

You shared these details in a one on one session and I told you what to do did you do that?

A demon when attached to a lady isn't something easily dealt with so easily by deliverance or prayers or fasting , it is deeper than that

Omokrireno:
I'm a student, i run my expenses without a single contribution from anyone.

The thing is, i am into drugs, tramadol and it takes money from me, about 4k daily. I can't even stop it for reasons best known to me. I also have a serious girlfriend that thought i have graduated because i lied to her when we started dating thinking it would be a one day fling.

Plus, she stays with me in school too. That's an extra on my expenses.

Currently i feel loosed because i suspect she is cheating on me where she is now. Being far away for like a month now, plus she doesn't want to come over until God knows when....

Same girl have had 7 abortions for her ex boyfriend that lives in the same town with her, where she is now... She had a pretty ugly past, lies upon lies, she even slept with her married boss at one time.

She just want me to trust her blindly. I don't know what to do. I feel like i have no one in my life and that i am all alone. I don't feel hooked with her at all but still, i feel like i have a loosed life.

Whenever she is around, things become very tough for me, everything suddenly freezes strangely. She even attested to it. Whenever she is not around, things start working well for me. I'm not being superstitious, like i said, she attested to it.

I don't know, maybe i am just depressed or something.

I asked you this question in your other post so I ask here again where is she from?

Omokrireno:
Believe it or not, this thing called money ritual is real...

I noticed that ever since i started dating this girl, things have been very difficult for me. In fact, things just stopped working for me and life became so difficult..

The red light came out first when she left to travel for a week. It's was like a magic, things started working well for me and just when she arrived everything became stoned... This sequence continued for months until one of these school holidays when i went for a church program and i was told to leave the girl that she was used for money rituals and anyone she gets in contact with will become broke and difficult as the person's luck will move to the ritualist.... Everything happening in our relationship was revealed to me that day....

When she finally came back from holiday, all my business and street hustle became blocked again and we always have this argument because she has a difficult attitude and lies a lot. At first, i didn't want to tell her about it, i didn't want her to feel bad and it doesn't seem right to me then... One night, i frankly told her, i had to because i had no one in my life except few friends, i was fending for myself and paying all my bills right from 100level...


Well, i broke up with her this night, not because of the ritual stuff but because of her attitude and she called me crying that she rather die than for me to leave her to go through this kind of pain....

She has turned it to a do or die affair... I need input on this.

Where is she from

Vizconson:
Please can we talk privately?

Send me a DM

DEMZEE:
Interesting

So women should be the breadwinner of the home ahbi??

Where, how , when , how did , wait what?

How did you come to this conclusion? Wait what forum are you on ?



Hahahahahahahaha

MejiLoyon:
Not surprised. They should be the world power. Na them start civilization. Na swear wey Moses swear for them dey affect them till now.

That's why I keep saying respect person wey you suppose respect. Some swear na everlasting.

You do realize what you said is totally unfounded and false right?

Mynd44:
This mentality needs to stop. A woman is not a cook but a partner

You mustn't argue with some people. When you read their comment that should be enough caution to not bother with .

Cheers

Is it compulsory for a man to be a good leader or head of the home ?

While it's not bad for the man to also be able to cook infact I recommend it but any lady who is about to be married would be best equipped by learning how to cook properly

I am sure pocahontas can offer culinary classes for such women

Nuel4:
no. You are just following the normal narrative of casualty reporting which is the most disgusting thing in the whole world. Let terrorist attack a community now what you will hear is hundreds were killed, "including women and children" no matter what, men are always removed from the conversation. Nobody ever say anything about male victims, no matter what. Male casualties are seen as a normal thing the only ones that are ever emphasised are women and children. Throughout history, on news media, in films, everywhere. It's stupid for men to follow this narrative. It just further the notion and ideology of male disposability.

I don't understand what point you are driving at but if it's what you believe in finer by me.

Have a good day
Bye

Nuel4:
you said women and children suffer the most. Literally they're the only ones to potentially survive and before anything happens to women and children during war the men must have already suffered that same fate 1000 times. The men get blown up to pieces, lose their arms and legs suffer ptsd majority of them die either from bullet or hunger yet women and children suffer the most. The idea of downplaying the sacrifice of men is regarded as normal thanks to Simps like you.

Now I have one question only

If I said dogs are the best pets or dogs are the nearest pets does that mean cats are terrible pets according to your logic?

Or if ii saw hausa women make the best wives so that means automatically I means yoruba and ibo women are terrible wives?

Bro that is a very elementary way of thinking you need to broaden your horizons.

Saying women and children are the worst hit victims of war is obviously talking about excluding the soldiers of both sides which are primarily men ..I am talking about non combatant casualties.

Is this so hard for you to grasp?

Hahahaha

Nuel4:
this is the dumbest popular belief in the history of mankind. The men that are maimed, captured or killed don't matter it's the women that will most likely marry the victors that are the biggest victims. This just goes to show the dumbness of the simping bluepill world

It is ironic in pointing out how dumb my comment was you focused so much on your annoyance about the fact I said women suffer that you neglected to acknowledge the suffering children of both sides, diseases, raped, murder are the fate of children during the war. Or is the fate of children not your concern?

Is this simping enough for you?

narrowpathy:
Dear friend I have read every single one of your write ups. I follow you here on nairaland so I see most of your posts as well. If you go through your topics you would even see my questions and comments.

That said, I'm from a Christian background myself so I'm not necessarily antagonist to your views. I will keep reading your posts as you know a lot of things which I don't.

However I was only pointing out a mindset which is obviously a symptom of over dependence on religious ideology. And yea I doubt if the Divine or God or whatever anyone may want to call it is really bothered about a mere word being uttered carelessly. Good for you if you let yourself be bothered, still good for you if you let yourself not to be

That's the thing you still don't get it dear friend

I will write a lecture on the power of the spoken word

There is no such thing as a mere word

All your words are meant to resonate in the entirety of your being and no just prattled

Try to first grasp the significance of words and names then you can view my write up aright


Cheers

narrowpathy:
Lol. I hope you know not everyone believes in Jesus and different people see gods or God differently. I can say you're still kinda tied to the apron strings of your religion (Christianity obviously).

It's not necessarily a bad thing to still be dependent on your religion but it'll limit you on your spiritual journey. That said, just relax. I'm sure even Christ himself must have evolved beyond his previous limits.

I was addressing Christians clearly as transgression is not so common in islam

Or any other religion. Isn't that obvious in my write up?

I do not believe in labels but it's fine you don't know this because this is obviously the first of my write ups you are reading

Same way Christians accuse me of being anti christian

Now you see why I avoid religious people like you guys are always quick to judge and label people

Read my other write ups it may yet give you a different perspective

Be well my friend

narrowpathy:
Nice one op but I feel your good intentions are a little bit misguided. The word God is basically a title and some mystics even claim that our creators who took on the title are demagogues. They claim the Great Divine cannot be bothered to be worshipped or not or with mere titles for that matter.

Anyway, It's the same way the word Humans is just a title and not anybody's real name. If a robot which humans created was to say "fck humans", most humans or even it's human creators will just ignore or not take it serious because that's perhaps part of its programming or its simply a virus due to the technical disability of its creator.

Good intentions you have but I don't think you should let yourself be bothered by such utterances.

It is funny that there is a commandment clearly to this effect and yet you said I am misguided

Even Lord jesus was clear in how he addressed his father our God in all writings which I have studied

I didn't just write this out of a mere sentimental whim

This is a clear transgression which much be corrected.

But alas you are free to see this as you see fit I have done my path

Good day

Sad truth indeed

It is amazing how the people have allowed a simple physical activity like sex dominate and control them to the point they become slaves to it

Imagine a man being a slave to going to the toilet

Amazing

It ends up taking them several earth lives to overcome this one propensity

It's unfortunate

Good morning all,

I have not written anything recently due to my busy schedule teaching lectures and counselling but recent events seem to enforce my decision to write this.

Walk down any street in Southern Nigeria during the afternoon period and you would be sure to see groups of children playing ...

Pay particular attention and you would be certain to here the word God used at least 50 times within a 1 hour period from sentences like oh God, to I miss am God why, or God punish you, or God go catch you, or God oh hahaha, or God this and that the examples are limitless.

These children learned the abuse of the holy name from their parents and elders around them.

Go on social media and see how the cherished of names is abused with reckless abandon. I challenge you to open any social media and scan through the first 5 posts you are sure to count the name God used so trivially over 20 times .

From down right disrespectful with statements like Small girl with Big God , to attributing harm and I
Misfortunes to perceived enemies with statements like Na God catch dem .. God go deal with dem.. etc

Oh my .. how unfortunate that mankind don't know what they have done to themselves. A name holier than all the heavens , a name capable of stopping certain death when uttered at the point of need.. how they have abused this name indeed.

If the son of God the purest of love refered to his father as my father or our father then who are you to abuse the name of God the father?

It is now seen as fashion to abuse this name with most basic way. On t-shirts you see absurd writings God pikin.. If man na God and other nonsensical disrespectful things ..

They have wired their brains to see abuse of the name of God the creator as ideal and the right thing to do. Infact abusing the name of the Lord doesn't invoke shame or caution in the people anymore .. the name has lost all power in their lips .

Now they respect the name of their president or pastor more !. Infact all those children around you who abuse the Lord's name and you fail to correct them just walk up to them and ask them individually to shout the name of their earthly father carelessly you would see the fear and caution arise within themselves.

They fear to speak the name of their biological father be it Emeka, Ade or Musa but have no fear on abusing the name of their creator God the father anyhow.

Youths are afraid to put their mothers name on a T-shirt that will say Ronkes pikin or Ngozi daughter or Ibrahim son

Instead they will gladly use God's name in every skit comedy show joke song artwork to sell and to appear hip

A name that is meant to work wonders had been stripped of all power in careless lips.

A name that parts rivers and oceans has become lifeless in your lips

A name that is meant to save your life had become nothing in your tongue because I you have broken this sacred commandment so many times and hence the repercussion is the name won't work miracles for you.

The name is meant to be the difference between light and death.

He is the alpha and omega the yesterday, today and tomorrow, he is the All or nothing, he is the creator or all, he is the I am that I am, the father or all worlds, he is elshadai, he is Elohim, he is jehova, he is the word , he is everything!!

And you dare abuse his name ? You use the name for fashion, clout , acceptability?

You should shiver on your knees before speaking this name!

You see videos of people uploaded on social media showing their children uttering prayers they don't even understand all for clout or to make the parents feel good about themselves!!

What vile debasement of The Lord's name!

You respect the name of men on pulpits more than your Creator's name?!!

I have seen comedians and youths use this name for entertainment and clout online and none has the guts to call them to order

We as a people need to unlearn and learn anew the true meaning of the commandment. You abuse your father's name , you disrespect it and complain why your prayers are not answered?

Why when you need help at the most crucial moment when you call on his name you are never answered?

Instead of looking for witches and wizards plaguing you start from making these little amends .

Relearn what it means to honor the name of thy Lord thy God

Teach your children not to abuse the holiest of names .
Teach them it's not a fashion tag or a social club password

Begin to show your creator the respect he deserves

Honor the name cherish it adore it worship it keep it holy

Then when the need arises in a moment of life and death scream the name and watch unbelievable miracle happen

Cheers

Whoube99:
This buhari & his handlers are bunch of very unwise people.
What were you expecting, will be the likely resultant consequences of pushing a man to the wall
What are they thinking will become of Nigeria, by the time every region take up arms against all instruments of States
Chasing, kicking, beating & manhandling unarmed civilians is different from meeting & engaging an equally fully armed group that has been pushed to the wall by oppressive government & other selfish State actors. Violence does not & has never solves any known problem. Rather violence only begate violence in a seemingly equal proportions & magnitude. The Nigerian State at the moment, has reach a state of no possible return to normalcy. Things are speedily getting out of hand and out of control. The Country doesn't seems to me like the one with leadership. Who's is going to save the Country from this flame

My dear I am worried too

The moment I saw this news I became disheartened

mohims:
GofuckYourself please bro post some from the Biafra war pictures you posted some days ago. Most of the people clamouring for war here are the ones from the indomie generation. They need to see some pictures and know that war is not a good thing

Okay my bro

To all

There are no winners in war

It is the women and children that suffer most

Once this war starts that's the end of Nigeria

No country has ever survived 2 civil wars

Sme human beings should not be here

They are from lower regions during third month the mum went to some wrong places or allowed some dark people come around her on the very day the spirit was entertaining the body in her womb hence some dark spirits came here that should not be here

Conrod:
Slobadan milosovich will be watching nigeria with amazement.

Wow you remember this old world dictator

[quote author= post=98427987]Our own be say every and any politician that have stolen from our National Treasury to the detriment of the masses will never ever end well in this life.
They will all perish miserably in life.
Along with their supporters.
No matter the party they are.

The blood of the innocent will cry out to them and suffocate them.

So shall it be.
Nigeria will be great again.[/quote]I agree with you on this

These politicians don't know the kingdoms of suffering they are building for them selves in the after life

So I just look a smile

This is why I don't bother cursing them ,I know what awaits them on the other side

They can dash all the churches and CAN money if they like
They can dash all the mosques and sultans money too it won't change what awaits them on other side

tiswell:
yea,or are you expecting tribal sentiments like you usually do?









We have seen the true colour of your tactics

That member hates the igbo people's tribe

Hides and pretends to be neutral see all the inciting remarks


[quote author= post=98414584]They are now some persons.
Okay nah!
Better learn how to call a spade a spade and not an agricultural implement.[/quote][quote author= post=98414577]We are in the end time Chi boy.
May God helep us o [/quote][quote author= post=98414535]Lol .
Chibuike, Now na end time indeed!
Okay na, we don hear you!

Hypocrisy for dis our darling nation no be for hia! [/quote]Very unfortunate that we have such tribalistic members here

rayenigma:
WizKid ft Future everytime

I have responded to your email

GMBuhari:
.

I'll send his number

Okay

GMBuhari:
Sad story

May we not jam àgbákò woman

No matter how neatly you package a dog, a dog is still going to be a dog,

She didn't even go to another state, she slept with neighbors and had 3 kids within 10 years , it's logical to say landlord was just sampling the neighbor is the real OG

That woman was definitely anfaani àdúgbò and she cost that man 10 years of his life


Fear WOMEN. AND AGAIN MAY WE NOT MARRY OLÓRÍ BURÚKÚ AS A WIFE


I posted a story earlier about a guy whose babe and her friend gave birth the same day, that home hasn't settled since then, he just found out recently that while she was not pregnant, when she was pregnant and when she gave birth, she'd been talking to another guy who has promised to take care of her and "the baby" ( this is the reason why they fought all the time the lady always chatting calling and receiving texts from different men)

So throughout that period when the guy was suffering over pregnancy food, baby stuffs, she was actually telling someone else she loves him and she can't wait to be with him again


Problem now is guy wants to do DNA to confirm if the baby is his and he expressly told me, if it's not his baby he's going to murder the lady and her child

He just can't shake the feeling that his babe and her friend did 3 sum with some guy, they both got pregnant the same day and gave birth literally 10minutes after each other

What advise would you give a man going through this mental / emotional trauma?


This thing starts from somewhere and the man always gets the blame when they can no longer deal

Tell him to commit murder is a worse fate because on the order side he will be tied to a shadow of her spirit constantly chasing her to enact murder and same shadow chasing him to revenge

He will be tired there for years

He is better off walking away and wishing her well there is no worse vengeance than this for then the spiritual laws acts

plaindealer:
You are of course entitled to your ignorant and bigoted views.

How is it ignorant when I say you having sexual desires for your fellow man is abnormal?

Am I missing something here? Even in the animal kingdom it's seen as absurd and strange hence why it's recorded whenever it happens.

How can an act that places you lower than animals be normal?

Just saying

plaindealer:
Healing is impossible for you until you wash away hate, ignorance, bigotry and intolerance from your being and form as a human being.

Not that I think you are capable of doing that, but give it a try, you never know.

Calling homosexuality debauchery and a sickness isn't hate
It's fact

You should try and get some help

plaindealer:
It is not me seeing your comment and stance as being ignorant, the definition for your comments and beliefs is ignorance, that's the terminology and I did not create that terminology.

Hate and prejudice are generally born of ignorance

Bigotry is the characteristic of a prejudiced person who is intolerant of opinions, lifestyles, or identities differing from their own.

You called and labeled yourself ignorant based on your own comments, you keep saying ignorant things, but you are clueless per the fact that what you are saying and keep repeating makes you sound and look ignorant and bigoted.


Feel free to look it up in the dictionary.

You typed many words but ended up saying nothing at all.

You need some healing , I may be able to help you.

Bye