₦airaland Forum

Caaz:
Another nui..sance is on facebook by name indiscov,mehn that man needs to be arrested.

why arrest him? The guy is spilling the raw truth as it is. You are allergic to hearing truth abi

ravensckar:
Wetin concern religion with my post? Or are you sleep-typing ni?

The fact that you folks keep mentioning me to regurgitate the same hocus-pocus belies good reasoning.

For the record, I said that; "Any adult that allows himself to be indoctrinated by another adult is not yet an adult". Rather than cogitate deeply on the philosophical meaning and implication of my assertion, you Night School Graduates have been hyperventilating on my mentions by alluding to my assertions meanings that are wide off the mark.

Please ehn, I'm having a headache in my stomach this evening. I have neither the vigour nor the patience to educate you folks. Make una go play with sand abeg.

#Picks_tooth

nobody is completely shielded from indoctrination. Knowingly or unknowingly we are all getting indoctrinated. A lot of brainwashing is going on through media programming, Religion, government,school, family,culture,jobs,societal values e.t.c. it would be self-deception to think you are completely immune to all these forces i mentioned.

Nnamdipapa:
They have other sources of income. The gross will never be N30k on a month. I have a very tiny company and the lowest of my staff in Nigeria earns over N200k pet month and they have to work from home.
If a full adult has to work for N30k, I would suggest a skill upgrade and a switch of career.

I once worked in a company in Lagos where I completely forgot my salary. I get about N300k in a week from the side from Ago tanker drivers. Omo, life was sweet in those days.

Life in Nigeria doesn't revolve around you. Go out there in the streets and hear people's story.some private school teachers earn 30k or less monthly. You seem to be out of touch with the reality on ground.

Nnamdipapa:
Who earns N30,000 and why will anyone earn N30,000 in 2025?

just dey play....those pump attendants you see in filling station,how much did you think some of them are paid?

Talismann:
gehgeh the clown is just smiling to the bank everytime. Merely looking at him, he has nothing to offer anyone. He loves that niche. He very much enjoys rage baiting his male audience and that's the only way he can cash out.

if you as a man think you can run from responsibilities you are only living in self denial.

You only get respected and cherished by, first what you can offer regardless of who is eating it and secondly, the people you raise up.

You dad, your mum, your girlfriend, your kids, your church, your wife, your neighbors, even strangers. You are responsible for them in varying capacities.

Nobody loves you unconditionally, even your mother. If you become a failure and can't take of her at old age, she will prefer others who can. Let's not deceive ourselves.

That is what makes a man, a MAN.
Any other thing is an illusion

Accept this truth today

Simply say your definition of man is slavery. What is sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander. Life is give and and take, anything short of that is unbalanced relationship. My advise to men is give as much as you receive. I don't support slavery in the name of proving to be a man. If you chose not to respect me for prioritising myself,I cut you off.

omooba969:
They're probably gonna tell us that 'women are not providers', lol .

Maybe they are consumers by nature ....hahahahaha 😂🤣

Consumers that wanna be dragging opportunities with men. Shame on feminism. With the way things are going,e go reach one time when men go dey their own,women go dey their own make we see who go suffer am.

ravensckar:
Dude, stop being mischievious by trying to bandy words with me.

I didn't use the word "influence" in my post. I said "indoctrinate". Unless you graduated from a Night School, there's no way you won't know the difference between the two.

Please ehn, I don't have the strength to argue this afternoon. I'm having a headache in my stomach please.

#Picks_tooth

is religion not indoctrination? You are expected to believe something that is not proven and sometimes by force.

motymop:
but your pastor, friends teacher, imans and politicians influences you.does that not makes you not an adult? thinking you will not get influenced in the society you live is silly thought.

Lol,nice question.

Jeje247:
It's not always good to learn from personal experience. Sometimes you learn from others mistakes.. If I had taken relationship matters seriously and learnt from experienced people, I probably wouldn't have experienced the trauma I went through 3 years ago. I thought I found love and left my self exposed. My heart was torn into shreds without remorse by a Nigerian woman.
Thread cautiously and spend wisely

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PresidentMUGABE:
I'm scared for Nigerian women in the next 10 to 15 years. When I look at Gegeh's doctrines and the number of young men who followed him, lots of Nigerian women will face a massive decline in masculine men.

Therefore there will be lots of masculine women. Gehgeh is teaching men not to be responsible. Running away from responsibility, which is one of the principles of turning a boy into a man.

This isn't rocket science! If the men are running away from being responsible men who work and take care of themselves and their women, the women will have to work hard and become the men they wish they had.

Sadly, the same men will hate their women because they will become aggressive, competitive, less agreeable, dominant and masculine traits are opposing to men in the dating market.

Women are not built to face toughness. Men are built for it. Men becoming women is a choice of weakness; women becoming men is a choice of survival.

We need men to be men and women to be women. It's what its...

I don't agree with you. Gehgeh is an urhobo guy and there is something I love so much about the urhobo culture. They don't worship women over there,so this makes their women to be less entitled unlike most gals today. The urhobo culture sees man as the king or the prize and places more responsibility on the women to work and care for the family. We need to change the narrative that a man is to work all his life like a slave for the family. Many men are dying in silence because of this way of thinking. To even make matters worse the women you are toiling day and night to take care of don't even appreciate or give a bleep about you cos women naturally tend to value a relationship or marriage that they have invested so much in. Urhobo is one of the few places you see a man married to three wives and those wives are very hardworking and loyal to their husband. Gehgeh has come to liberate men from years of unappreciated servitude to women.

Anybody telling you Nigeria is not hell is deceiving you. Out here you work so hard for little. Everyday I keep imagining how an average Nigerian is managing to survive in this tinubulation. Both lazy and hardworking people have now turned beggars,yet someone will want to compare Nigeria and USA. It is the same narrative that government push to the gullible ones and they swallow hook line and sinker. If you can survive in Nigeria,you can survive anywhere else in the world.

Osiris12:
you should produce your own medicine too

and also refine his own fuel. Lol

Ihebu4chelsea:
And die of hunger? Or depend on you? It's better to keep quiet most times, you ain't making sense.

don't mind him. They should refuse to work for 70k as if he created any job for them.

Even if tinubu salary na 100k monthly,e dey siphon billions monthly so who dem dey deceive?

Therock5555:
No be prayer, na curse


😁😁

Curse self no dey work,else all our politicians for don kpai finish.

Commentor:
How many did Obi add to the Grid?


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you go dey there dey drag obi,them go siphon our common wealth finish...if in this 2025,you no want get sense then it's finished.

theredaddy:
No be say Yahoo/fraud is anywhere good But EFCC prioritizing Yahoo over corrupt public servant is outrightly ridiculous

Your friend blaming yahoo boiz why Rent is high might be right to an extent But he must be ready to accept same yahoo as helped alot of Sme business grow n stay flourish ... businesses like mall, boutiques, echow, dispatch riders, lounges, uber, airbnb, car dealers .. phone n accessories this boiz pour in a lot of money

i keep saying if Businesses are to depend on salary earners inside this Tpain economy many smes will die

to add to that if not for the yahoo,the rate of armed robbery would have been very high. People would hardly sleep in their houses with out getting robbed. The problem with alot of persons is that they are not brave enough to mention the biggest problems we have in our society. Religion, tribalism and bad governance are far bigger issues in this country.

theredaddy:
Well if they are listening, Naa ogun go kee dem, how does getting rid of yahoo boy solve our national problem which is corruption

one politician will pocket constitutency allowance living people lives in mess ... Efcc turn blind eye But they are carrying armour tank n fighter jets to arrest a boy carrying iphone

it ridiculous the stunts we see Efcc pull up just to arrest boiz carryin laptop, then they see a yahaya bello n start lookin like drenched cat

I once had an argument with a former colleague. The guy was blaming yahoo boys for inflation of prices in house rent. I told him that yahoo is the least of the problem we have in this country.yahoo has been in existence even before we were born and the reason why it's now so loud is as a result of moral decadence in our society. The society currently don't value morals,they worship anyone that has money,coupled with failure of government in taking up responsibilities,has pushed more and more persons into yahoo. Some landlords are happy letting their houses out to yahoo boys cos they are the ones that have more money to pay so the root cause of this whole problem is societal moral decadence.

Babalegba:
You are actually making my point for me. When you make money legally, you will be highly unlikely to fritter it away on fast living, unscrupulous women and meaningless things but money made in an evil way would drag you to those things whether you like it or not.

bros na lie.... it simply has to do with an individual's mindset. One thing I have observed is when someone that always seek external validation makes money,he would spend it lavishly to impress people around him. There are people that don't need to prove themselves with money just to feel good about themselves. It's not even about making money legally or illegally.

Gerrard59:
The summary.

The so-called "good culture" many Nigerians parrot is a farce. The religious folks are largely hypocritical as they don't practice what they preach.

You have said it all.

timilehin007:
Good..I support this 100%..if you think u can demarket and bad mouth this country, you think your freedom of speech allow you to talk trash about the country the the extent of wishing evil and always rejoice on any negatives about the country, u are wrong o. Something that could warrant execution from most Asian countries.
China and other countries that blocked their citizen from accessing social media like of facebook, twitter, tiktok, WhatsApp etc, their citizen didnt didnt die and the government doesn't care if it's violation of right. The country face and interest most always comes first just like America doing now..North korea is worst even...many of you are just lucky African leaders are very soft...nonsense.

Quote me contrary to my stance and loose ur first issue in the nearest future

yeye dey compare Nigeria and North Korea. The shit people go through in Nigeria,north Koreans don't go through quarter of it. Everybody go collect one way or the other no worry

Factcheck0001:
just judge life based on your present condition, I know it's not easy for u but many are balling

what is the percentage of those balling?No dey let social media deceive you ooo

MichaelSokoto:
d master economic strategist, d world best chief accountant and number one state builder who built Lagos from scratch wit just an headpan of Ajah white sand and a bucket of lagoon water is aggressively pushing almost everyone into gambling and sports betting on a massive scale never seen b4 in any country!


Even abokis are massively gambling now too as a means of survival!

Who do our voters like dis?




in d mean time, abeg who get 2 sure legit odds for today mek I tek hold bodi?

bros,this aboki own when you talk still dey shock me...come see my area,na aboki full there dey bet. Even women self don join for betting. E no easy to survive for Nigeria.

Solofresh2:
All women are wired the same way .
They are all troublesome
A lady can be rude to you and very polite to another man that you won't believe it is the same lady.They are good at hiding character and are master of mind games
A lady can even be polite to you Just for their finish you
As a man always be sensible, sensitive and vigilant

You don talk am finish.

Samantha125:
Says someone who speaks broken English on a daily basis...😒😒😒

Take correction,no body is above taking correction. This your shaming tactics will not work.

Chubhie:
Historically, they tend to have the best honeypot. Just once and you hooked.

My brother,you na real OG. Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you. If not for bravery I would have stuck with one like that. I swear the honeypot is the best I have ever had but when she start her shege,I had to run for my life. The cost outweighs the benefit so I had to abort mission.

judewrites:
That's was in the olden days....not these modern times.

That's why more and more women are becoming financially independent from men who think they can cage them with fear.

I agree with you,times have really changed. My advice is if a woman doesn't respect you,let her go. Respect is number one thing you should expect from her, everything else is secondary. Once I notice she has stopped respecting me,I leave.

Patented:
All of them should fear women. Woman wey go cheat go cheat if you like carry horn for head

lol,if you like carry horn like demon,she go still cheat on you.

judewrites:
If so, then that marriage isn't healthy emotionally.

When a woman is terrified of her husband's anger, it kills love as love can't thrive in an environment of fear.

A woman should love a man enough to be faithful to him alone.

The real question should be does your wife really love 💘 you?

A woman doesn't need to love you,she needs to respect you. Fear brings respect.

Last last,woman when want cheat go cheat. We seem not to understand that humans are animals and when the conditions for cheating are enabled will behave like animals. She might do it discreetly if she fears and respects you,that doesn't stop her from cheating. If you truly understand human psychology,you wouldn't think she can not cheat on you. A woman can cheat on you with anyone. The list is endless,ranging from pastor,driver,little boys,geanacologist,female friends, colleagues in the office e.t.c.

amazonguru001:
Honestly na we be our own problem.
I didnt want to comment about spending 150k on food until I saw your response
I live in a part of the country considered as expensive but I no spend reach that amount on food. With the same family size and kids 10 & 14.
Madam go enter market only on a popular market day, when items go boku.

Baba, first cut your home running expenses first.
Then ensure madam also supports with something, at least she is working. Abeg what is she using her own income for when only you bear the entire burden, are you the Lord & Saviour?
Abeg stop that shit.
Call for help and get help from your wife.

Don't form that African man mentality bullshit.

With all the weight on the man, if the man come kpai (God forbids), the woman go live her life and possibly remarry after a few years.

Baba, be calm.
Reduce your expenses.
If I were you, i wouldn't live in a 2M apartment until I sort this imminent burden on my life and become more financially stable.

If 330k/monthly is not too small for you, wigh your capital intact, you can try Mutual funds. Ask for more details from Stanbic IBTC Bank.

Cheers

Op should consider the bolded. He should not waste any more time before doing that. Trim all your monthly spending to less than or equal to 330k. That way you still have your 20m and live off your ROI.