₦airaland Forum

purples25:
You mixed with nasty women. Cute women with ugly attitudes. Because you guys only focus on the body and not the character. I see it a lot. Guys hanging out with girls that will mock someone else nastily in Public and you guys will even join them to laugh at other girls. Then you wonder why the girls character turns out to be bad.

Lol.dey play. Me that is highly selective in my choice of women. I go for quality,but even at that they never cease to disappoint. It's just a matter of time,women will always be women.

ledaman:
May Almighty God will expose their sponsors

lol,I wish prayers can solve these kind of problems, Nigeria would not have been where it is today. I stopped praying for Nigeria many years ago.

Nonexisting1:
Tinubu will handle economy, shettima will handle security in the mud. Economy is dead, security is dead but 2027 is the goal. Tinubu, our life president until we all get sense.

it's been long I heard "It will favour me and my family".

ledaman:
Boko Haram are hypocrites and cowards.
Killing innocent people with no justification.
Mohamed Yusuf the founder of the Satanic sect will rot in hell fire insha Allah.

They are not cowards. The are doing their job as given by their sponsors.

gidgiddy:
You can never see Tinubu supporters, APC members and those who believe in 'one Nigeria', on a thread like this

Its not about Nnamdi kanu, Simon Ekpa, South East or Biafran agitation. So there's no need for them to be here

60 people allegedly killed in the North, they see no reason to be here

But if one person sits at home in the South East, they will make the thread 20 pages long to wail about this incredible act of terrorism called 'sitting at home'

You people will not kill me with laughter 🤣 😂

what do you expect from bunch of hypocrites?

Satazaa:
Listen folks, watch the values and personality of your potential mothers in-law, not in all circumstances but in most her values is almost certainly what her daughter is going to be to you, if a mother in-law bad mouth or disrespect your potential father in-law then run away like hell, my experiences here.

I can attest to this. Initially I tried to ignore her behaviours but it got to a point I couldn't take it anymore. Overtime the bad behaviours I ignored in my potential mother in-law started manifesting in my gal. Na there I pick raise.

Rindo69:
He was expecting to be given all the contracts nationwide for supplying bbq to all government functions. He was abandoned and sidelined as is now living in poverty.

lol,e go touch everybody last last. Rain no dey fall for only one person roof. Na mvmv dey think say Nigeria no fit happen to am.

Vinnie2000:
MannaVultureGrills is mourning his Darling Daddy Buhari.

lol... tinubu is now his new darling daddy.


Vnnkkmmmmkk

The way women dey reason na why e go hard dem to marry these days. It takes a level of blindness,ignorance and mvmvness to marry these women. I can't afford all that so I rather remain single.

blacksam01:
You see oyinbo..., Fear them... If they sell you something, even if it's still looking healthy, trust me there is something going down about that thing u haven't seen yet...

When the owners of shop right announce it for sale, you will wonder what is wrong with them... Because as at then, it's malls were all very busy and bubbling with large crowd... But economics from their stables have advice them to sell off... They were told from them on, it will be decline... As good as they were, they followed advice and sold off...

The Nigerian man thought he knew more than ppl who established, manages and saw its peak are seeing... He gave them billions and changed ownership...

Since then, steadily there was gradual decline... and now very visible ones...


Next is DStv which has been sold off... Sensing fast decline spending for leisure as poverty grips Nigeria, again with the growing popularity of internet channels subscriptions t. V ...

Let's watch as canal + is not a walk over also

A good business has foresight... it's not only oyibos. A good business man is planning 10 years,20 years ahead. If he foresees that business will stop doing well in the next 10 years,he will sell of now.

Gerrard59:
Wahala dey o.

But Nna, people are flexing on Instagram and TikTok! Parties are being held weekly. Where are they seeing this money?

P.S. Jumia should cease to exist. The model doesn't work in Nigeria.

You dey believe social media...The harsh reality is out on the streets. Everybody na millionaire for social media na.

Gerrard59:
I'm genuinely curious, these people that left Port Harcourt, where did the majority flee to? Those that left Lagos, to where please?

Why are they running?

Tinubu is chasing them away.Many people can no longer afford city life in Nigeria. Some too,have gone abroad.

KillahPriest:
Una must to chop this statistics by fire by force

Tinubu is happening to them.

I swear,women are wired differently. I have experienced this before. I wanted to buy food for my gal. I asked to make transfer for the payment but they said they didn't accept transfer. Only cash or debit card. I didn't have ATM,the cash with me was only #5000,not up to 5.5k I needed. I asked her to borrow me 500,and she did. Could you imagine she kept reminding me of her 500 even after I gave her something worth much more than that. Since day I tire for their matter

StoryHaven:
Ladies are all ingrates. They are like toddlers.
Every time you buy sweet for a kid, I love you daddy. The day you forgot to buy, I won't play with you again daddy. You're not my friend.

I trained the one I called wife in some courses. She finished, and told me. I have done nothing special. Today we are no more together.

You see this life ehn, just be hard on ladies and they will respect you and even love you. Be nice and yould be taken for a Mumu.

That's the truth young guys, be careful.

lol...just imagine. This one na even your own wife...when I dey tell them say wife is not excluded,them go think say na joke.

SQLmastar:
It is totally wrong and inhumane to try to retrieve a gift as paltry as a wig, from a lady you previously dated.
A gift is not meant to be retrieved. Did he sign an agreement with her prior to the wig gift?
The guy is too petty!

to you it's petty. To him he just realised he has been fooled. There are gifts I will never buy for a gal. Especially gifts that lasts long e.g phone,wig,laptop etc. I prefer things that will not last long so there will be no need to retrieve them once things go south. The ultimate rule is do not give more than you can afford to lose,same rule applies to betting. So you see it's actually a form of gambling.

jojothaiv:
More reason I'm always nonchalant when it comes to women matters, I've break it down for one that I hope she doesn't think she owe me marriage because I'm sticking out my head for her, I've never subscribed to that school of thought and now isn't the best time to do that.

Some men will learn in the hard way.

e get the level of understanding for woman matter when you go get,you go realize say na you even suppose dey owe her marriage not the other way around. Marriage should be a reward package you gift her for been a good gal friend. I wonder why a man would now be begging a woman to marry him. It's such a shame any time I hear or see such. It means that the man doesn't even understand the power dynamics in romantic relationships.

hosemujica:
Rule of thumb should be, don’t spend what you can’t afford to lose on a woman not your wife yet.

even the one that is your wife should not be exempted from that your rule. Ensure she invests in the relationship or marriage,that way you have insurance.Before I ended my last relationship,the gal was telling me that if not that she has invested in the relationship that she would have walked a way.So her investment was keeping her glued to the relationship,not because of her love for me.

Lol,where are those that will say "not all women are like that"? Una go learn the hard way. Women don't deserve your kindness. You might be doing what ever you are doing just like a philanthropist would normally do,but women don't see it like that.They see your kindness as foolishness. If you happen to be in their midst when they discuss men,you would vow never to be nice to any of them. Make sure any woman you deal with calls you stingy. The word "stingy" is a compliment from women. One was calling me stingy the other day. I told her I am a proud stingy man. Na so she laugh. Last last we ended up having fun. Money when I go use train woman for school,I go gather the money set fire on am. I go use the money as rizler to roll weed smoke. When I finally understand female nature,I stop to dey dash dem even #100. No be say #100 big pass me,but I hate to be called a fool for giving out my money.

AllBlack:
This one is 1000 times smaller than the ones I have seen. Years ago in NYSC camp, I saw a girl sitting on the laps of a corper and receiving the call of the man that paid all her school fees and bills and even her camp bills. Nothing she no tell that man. She blasted him till he started crying and begging her. All for a corper she met 3 days ago but I don't blame her one bit. Na the man wey give her the power wey I blame.

Men,things dey sup. Before e go reach this extent,the guy should have just counted his losses cos that gal will never respect him anymore.

EvilMerodack:
Where are those always preaching "If a woman is worth it..."?

The fact that it worked out well in your case doesnt make it a norm. In fact, when making sweeping statements, exceptions are noted and they dont invalidate it

When people say "All women/men are this", they sure know not all are like that, but the few exceptions dont make the rule, they are part of the rule

If i would need to search down to a bag of beans to find a non-beans content in it, then its still safe to call the entire bag a bag of beans. The other foreign materials in it dont invalidate the tag

I like this your analogy. It saves one alot of stress.

Smartguyboy:
So CR7 is Nigerian footballer ?

ok I get your point. Also,one thing you have to note is football career is shorter than music. Only few players have been able to remain in the game at competitive level in football for twenty years. Some footballers no dey last pass 5 years or 10years before them retire

fxexperts:
Footballers are nothing but employees of club so they can never have money than people who are business men who sell their own albums. so therefore the highest paid footballers like Ronaldo are not as wealthy as the highest Musicians like Rihana, Kanyes west and Jay Z. Know that and know peace.

Wrong footballers are ordinary employees while Musicians sell music and control their earnings. Burna boy is richer than Oshimen, Oshimen networth is about $12M while Burna boy is about $40M. so know that and know the truth.

if osimenh enter Saudi club now,him money go beat burna own oooo

harjay1986:
Naa because the footballer no dey dash am money

footballers don't have any need to show off their wealth...na musicians dey do all those things just to stay relevant.

Smartguyboy:
Check his entire worth

You mention only CR7 but I can mention 3 billionaires
Musician for you

those are USA musicians no be 9ja musicians....you want use burna boy they compare USA musicians?

Smartguyboy:
Which footballer worth 1 billion dollars?

Ronaldo

Robnectar:
Mehn e no go better for ur dealer oooooo,.... Wetin u dey smoke gan gan

abi na you dey smoke? You know how much Ronaldo worth?

StaffofOrayan:
I remember one clown that said he should go back to school
hehehehehe

Ask the clown wetin him don use school take achieve,e go start to stammer.

destinychildolu:
She has like 300m in fixed deposit account already

Na you be her account manager Una go just dey talk anything Una like.

Kobojunkie:
Stop with the desperate attempts at distracting from the main issue which is that OP's parents intentionally started his life in the midst of poverty and without a clear plan of getting themselves and their children out of it; when your starting point in life is poverty, it literally means you are literally in the middle of some of the greatest disadvantage. 10s of millions of Nigerians — over 160 million at this point— will likely never see life outside of poverty because of the choices made by their parents before them.

2. These are unrelated issues.

In addition to your point,a poor person should not bring kids into this world. It's not a must to give birth to kids and let them wallow in porverty. It's an act of wickedness.

Kobojunkie:
Yes, because in the Nigerian context, there is absolutely no evidence of the effects of parents prayers. Over 160 million Nigerians are stuck in poverty with majority having their parents to thank for it.🥱🥱🥱

2. So we are conveniently choosing to completely ignore the fact that the same sheet also happens to lots of non-stubborn children out there whose parents only had good things to say about them? 😩😩😩

Lol,I agree with kobo on this