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WriteBoy:
People still name their kids Matthew?? Strange

Wat's bad abt dt?

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JideSM:
Y'ello Holmes, please note that the plan is valid for 7days. We regret any inconvenience. You may as well send the affected phone number to us via Private Message. We will like to confirm this.

Thank you.

Why was d validity portrait as 30days in d first place Do u tink if it was portrait as 1week i would subscribe?? Hell no!! I want my validity extend pls u bunch of criminals!

cc: lalasticlala pls move this to frontpage

I subscribed for this ''pay N300 get N950 + 50MB for 30days'' available to mtn ipulse users, after subscribing to this offer on the 25th of june i got a message stating dat the validity of dat offer will expire on the 2nd of july,making d validity one week.. I report d anomaly to MTN customer care agent via watsapp nd nothing was done about it... It's a pity dat these so called telecom companies scam Nigerians nd go scot-free.

Add me on Watsapp via 08160248782

Jozzy4:
my point is clear, If God did not send Adam [ who sold mankind to sin] to hell , that tells you its baseless taking the op serious

How did u knw God didnt send Adam to hell?? Iv u're nt sure abt somtin den dnt propagate ur ignorance keep it to urself.. Pple like u turned d world into hell spreading false information which they dnt even have d slightest idea abt.

Jozzy4:
my point is clear, If God did not send Adam [ who sold mankind to sin] to hell , that tells you its baseless taking the op serious

How did u knw God didnt send Adam to hell?? Iv u're nt sure abt somtin den dnt propagate ur ignorance keep it to urself..

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Toks2008:
[size=14pt]Malachi 2:16:“For I hate divorce!”says the Lord, the God of Israel.[/size]

"I want a divorce" is a word that tend to be common when it seems one of the two married couple wants to opt out of an affair and it has become a regular lyrics in many homes but the question i tend to ask is this: Is divorce always the solution?

Today i want us to look at 8 lies and propaganda surrounding these words:

[size=13pt]1.Irreconcilable differences[/size]: This is the funniest excuse ever because most of what people complain about have always been there but because they believed he or she will change,they went into the marriage just to get disappointed when the person refuses to change.As long as you are two different entities,there will always be.Even twins from the same womb has differences.The problem is that when a couple decides to have a deaf and dumb affair,irreconcilable differences will never be reconciled but if you can learn to be very observant even before you say i do,i guess most irreconcilable differences would have been resolved. If you like change spouse a million times,there will always be irreconcilable differences and until you learn the act of tolerance i guess you should just stay clear from marriage.

[size=13pt]2.Infidelity: [/size]I know many people will wonder if there is a lie about this but what you are about to read will shock you/

As a man i really don't see any need to divorce a "repentant" wife who commits the act of adultery especially a woman you love because of what use will it be if you divorce her against all odds and you bring in another woman who might even be worse than her and does it make sense to push a woman you love away into the waiting hands of an irresponsible randy man? Yes Jesus instructs that a man divorces his wife on teh condition of adultery but he also preached about forgiveness.The act of sex is not all there is to marriage so i guess guys should just give the wife another chance and only divorce an unrepentant adulteress.

As a lady i am happy to be the one to tell you that there is no where in the bible that suggests that you divorce your husband because of adultery. Yes many bible scholars have accepted that the Bible is not gender specific and wherever he is mentioned,it also refers to she but definitely not in this case and i want us to read together right from the start of Jesus speech.

Matthew 19:4 ►

"4And He answered and said, “Have you not read that He who created them from the beginning MADE THEM MALE AND FEMALE, 5and said, ‘FOR THIS REASON A MAN SHALL LEAVE HIS FATHER AND MOTHER AND BE JOINED TO HIS WIFE, AND THE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE FLESH’? 6“So they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.” 7They said to Him, “Why then did Moses command to GIVE HER A CERTIFICATE OF DIVORCE AND SEND her AWAY?” 8[b]He said to them[/b], “Because of your hardness of heart Moses permitted you to divorce your wives; but from the beginning it has not been this way. 9“And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.”

[size=13pt]3.Ill luck: [/size] Some men can be so myopic. Yes we know this is a dark continent where crazy spells are casted on some men but most times,men are the architect of their own failure and they readily put the blame on the wife as the one responsible for their bad luck especially when the man seems to be doing so well before meeting the lady. This is indeed a very funny mindset and men should stop this odoriferous act. Even if you marry a witch or ogbanje,love and cherish her and she will use those powers to help you rather than destroy you.

[size=13pt]4.Family troubles: [/size] I have heard of many divorce cases because of this and i kept asking why will a amn or woman use this as an excuse for divorce? In any marriage it is you and your spouse before anything and as long as both of you are good, every other factor remains secondary.

[size=13pt]5.Interference by spiritualists: [/size] Any one who tries to divorce a spouse because one pastor said they are not meant for each other,such person should be sent to evil forest to be eaten by wild animals.Some ladies have fallen prey to many false prophets,imams and pastors in the name of seeking spiritual help where they are told rubbish about their spouse and they just believe like fools. They will suddenly tell you your wife is a witch or your hubby is evil and before you know it,they are done just to remarry and experience real evil marriage.

[size=13pt]6.Childlessness[/size]:This is a very unfortunate one that has destroyed many marriages but the truth is that this is no longer a biggy in today's world but you should rather explore many options available and pray for finance or solicit for funds if needs be so that you can have a successful assisted conception rather than try another partner out of frustration and risking being the father of another man's child or the lady having an embarrassing child outside her marriage.With prayers and decisive steps by you,a child will definitely come in no time.

[size=13pt]7.Finance[/size]:This is one big issue that has destroyed many homes and will destroy even more. Many ladies go into marriage with high expectation that the man will make a headway within an expected period of time and as time passes and this expectation is not met,the lady becomes so frustrated and starts to hate the man even when he is so loving and caring. This has made me to conclude that the best thing any lady can do to avoid this possible frustration is to love a man in a condition that will not frustrate her in years to come and only pray for a better situation and not just marry a man with a die hard hope that he will make it big in no time.

[size=13pt]8.Domestic violence[/size]:In my world,this is the only logical reason for divorce because i will never advice a lady or a man to stay in a marriage that may send him or her to her untimely death but let us wait a sec and ask this frank question:"Is domestic violence preventable"? the answer is an emphatic YES. Ladies are more at the receiving end but If every lady can learn to be very very calm and silent during any form of crazy arguement by the man,i believe the case of domestic violence will not come up.Some women can make an angel beat them up with their parrot mouth but nevertheless no man should raise his hands to beat a woman except he is a beast that deserves to be in the jungle.

I believe that in most cases when people opt for a divorce,they are actually looking for flimsy excuses to be with a new partner but after a period of time, they tend to realize that there will always be a reason to divorce anyone we have in our lives no matter how perfect they see,mIf you can't make your first marriage work then what is the assurance that you will maintain the second one if same problem crops up? Staying married to one partner is not about feelings but a conscious decision we must make.


Hope this epistle makes sense.

In matt 5 vs 32 it says ''But i say unto u,dt whosoever shall put away his wife,saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery...'' The Biblical condition for divorce is ''fornication'',as confusing as it may sound a married fellow who cheats commits adultery nt fornication. So what the bible is trying to say is that ''what God has join together let no man put asunder'' and the only time they can go their separate ways is wen they're in courtship phase,that wen the issue of fornication comes in, when u notice ur partner who is cheating during courtship. One can also divorce nd remain unmarried.

If ur interested send me an email nd i'll send u my contact..

Lawz20:
Good day my fellow Nairalanders, I have a very serious problem which I so much believe that with your kind and generous advice, I might take the right step. I met this girl around April 2012 at my work place and since then we have been together after I proposed to her last year. The fact is I love her so much and I thought she also loves me.

I went down with her to her village around April 2014 to see her parents formally and they were so happy, her mum, dad, grand parents and even her siblings welcomed me wholeheartedly and I was so happy. I stayed with them for two weeks just to see if I can picture out any bad behavior but seriously, non was found.

The problem am having with her is that she has too much male friends and most of them are always sending her love messages both on 2go and Facebook. I once stumble on her Facebook inbox and I found a chat between her and another guy and he was just thanking her for coming to spend good time with him, bla bla bla and how he enjoyed her. I was so mad because during this period she went to the village alone and promised to return in a week but she didn't until after 3 weeks, this is what she always do, she travels like 4-5 times in a year and never return on time. When she returned, I confronted her and she said she is not the one that did that chat with the guy, I tried asking her who did but she never gave me a good answer.

Later that week, she gave me her phone to help her charge it in a barbing saloon, then a strange number called and I picked, the person hissed and cut the call, he later sent a message saying, "you're picking my wife's call and asking me who it is" I replied him that he should check the number that he might be wrong, he then mentioned her name. I went back home to ask my fiancee who own that number then she said its that guy I saw his chat and I should not worry, she will fix it.

Recently again, she has travelled and up till this moment, she is not back, she promised she won't stay upto 2 weeks but yesterday makes it 5 weeks. That same yesterday, my mum's pastor asked my mum to call me that he has a message for me which I later went, he greeted me and say, while he was praying for me because of my mums request, that he was shown that the lady I am planning of marrying is not mine alone, that if I go ahead to marry her, she will wreck me and leave me, he said she travelled now and I said yes, he said she was seeing someone else in the village, he said if I doubt him, I should go ahead.

It was then my mum now said, my younger sister told her of a dream she had, that I caught my fiancee with another guy and it leads to a fight which the said guy killed me. I myself have had such dreams too. The pastor gave me 3 days fasting and prayer. I am confused, despite all her cunning ways I still love her but what should I do and how do I go about leaving her. I will be 30 by 5th April, am not getting any younger. Please advice.

Oga the choice is urs! Not many pple had this opportunity u had,God divinely intervened on ur behalf, he showed u the BEAST in that girl but u still ''LOVE''.. Life and death are before u choose life so dat u'll live

bunchyproject:
GOVERNOR WIKE Flags off the Construction of the 2nd Phase of the New Mile-1 International Market as he fulfills The promise he made to the market Traders on the 13th Day of October 2014 at Rumuwoji Play ground during the Electioneering period.
"Vote me in as your Governor and I promise to construct the 2nd phase of your market"
these were the words of Chief Barr. Wike on the 13/10/2014 At the Rumuoji community play ground during the 200Million naira Grant Donation to the traders after their shops and goods were engulfed by Fire.
On Completion of this Project, it will help
●Accommodate over 1000 traders
●Boost the internally Generated Revenue of the state
●Ease the sufferings of traders trading along Ikwerre road as a result of the fire that engulfed their shops during the Amaechi led administration.
●Allow Free flow of traffic along the Ikwerre Road Mile 1 Axis.
WIKE IS A PROMISE KEEPER....
By Ezebunwo Ichemati

He FLAGGED OFF the project meaning he jux started it, i hope he complete it nd nt abandon it. Politicians can't be trusted.

KashyBaby:
Oh my goodness..tnxx I ain't white

Kashybae i'd like to have you on my watsapp contact. Pls mail me ur digits..

The other man be like ''Lai, why u too dae lie! God have mercy on u.''

Lol. All points highlighted by OP are so true! A girl will quote OP while a woman will try to understand what OP is saying..

oldtopics:
rita is a fine girl if I can be her lesbi partner

I can also be ur partner bt i'm no homo.

makenzie:
do you also know that she is chartered first in UK and and later Nigeria.she has worked as an accountant in blue chips companies including prime auditing firms in the UK before coming to Nigeria which implies;

that her credential is unquestionable
that this is only a simple human error
that even the professor of mathematics who teaches the same subject every day makes this kinds of mistakes

lets try and always be realistic and stop calumnious criticism

SMH!! Nd this thing was created in the image of God?? Idontbelieveit

RECEIVE SENSE!!!!!!!

Tpave:
It's a mistake and nobody is above it

The fact that no one is above mistake should nt be used blindly in defense.

[quote author=ifelovemi post=43136930][/quote]What a silly opinion..

banmee:
See how confused you are? You say someone is an atheist buy yet you say they believe in a higher or lower being. How can they be atheist then? I think the comprehension of the english language is your problem. School good ooo.

Well i wouldnt wanna proceed wit this but i av my own opinion nd u av urs. I recall saying ''some of them who u think are athiest are nt'',which is way different frm wat u just said. I see ur problem u lack simple understanding and as a gentleman that u are, doom awaits u if u carry on with the habits of taking on som1 without getting to understand them. I wish u goodluck in ur adventures, that if it's possible considering ur inabilities to comprehend written language that's nt ur father's. Good day.

banmee:
What statistic or hard data do you have to back that up? I believe the definition of atheist is someone who does not believe in a higher or lower being. You can't just say whatever you like without facts. It's just like me saying every Nigerian is secretly gay. Yeah!! I don't have data to prove it but it's true because i said it.

U dnt av to make Nigerian setting ur ceiling, u dnt av an idea of wat to say. U wont advice anyone to start making research on witches just to provide statistical evidence, how clueless that would be!! The fact dat thr is no statistical evidence does not undermine the fact that witchcraft is being practice there. By the way,a white lady on satelite tv once talked of how she was involved in vices like sorcery,prostituition nd drug addiction. Aside dat close friends,who have relatives living there, do narrate stories of withcraft practice over there.
Do not quote me again as ur comments are deviation to wat i originally said nd it also lacks COMMON SENSE. Good day..

banmee:
It took me a long time to understand this but you have to be in tune with the concept of freedom to understand America. America guarantees that if i believe in a donkey, nail, cat, tissue paper etc as my lord and savior then i have the right to worship it. They also believe that i don't have the right to impose my belief on anyone. But here's the thing, your private religious belief cannot interfere with the laws of the land and the constitution. So, in effect, you can worship as a witch as much as you like, but you cannot kill another man because your witch belief claimed that he charmed you. It is not a defense under the law. More often than not, they most likely will lock you up in a psych ward anyway if you do unlike Nigeria where people use witches and wizards as an excuse for doing something stu.pid.

Ur response is a deviation to my bone of contention. What i said in esssence was that some of them (the people who u think are atheist) practice witchcraft nd they also believe in the supernaturals,i never waded into laws guiding choice of religion,which i'm aware of..

DashMeYansh:
The happiest and most successful countries in the world are the Atheist countries Luke Sweden, Japan...And the Saddest and most miserable are concentrated in Africa.

The Atheists blame themselves and strive to improve from their former miserable conditions(Japan, Finland, Sweden) and others just Keep on blaming the witches and gods(Nigeria, etc)...Stop being superstitious, they dont exist.


But it's all good OP, I believe in Santa Claus and the Tooth Fairy

Concerning Japan i'd like u to read this article https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Religion_in_Japan. Keep dat act of denying reality to urself nd who told u successful countries dnt believe in the existence of the supernatural. The thing is dat they appear as atheists but they highly demonic some of them though. USA is an example,some of their young ladies practice withcraft but they appear as atheist. It's bcuz u're nt exposed that's y u habour all this fallacious opinions.

DOUBLEWAHALA:
He is testin it bcus he tinks dat notin gud can out of
D east apart 4rm fake









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If they produce fake things dat means they also capable of producing genuine things. What have ur generations produce?? I'm sure u're one of those unemployed liabilities,licking the dust of medicrity wen it comes to being an entreprenuer. Get a Job,get a life! Unemployed vagabond.

RisingSun1:
Why did he urge south-easterners for more local product?

Is he saying that it is only south-easterners that have brain in this country to produce products? He should urge other regions abeg.

Nigeria problems would be lessen if ur mother had flushed u frm her womb. It's a pity dat u have lost ur ''common sense'' to tribalism and nepotism. Go get a life, u're worse than a lower animal.
I'm nt ibo so dnt tink i'm being sentimental, i dnt just like it wen pple dnt av common sense!

Valentine died for love Romeo also died for love Jack in titanic died for love Samson in the Bible died for love, Greek heroes Hercules & Archilles died 4 love ... & even Jesus Christ died for love... Wetin !! ?? Haba !!! where are the women? Una no sabi die? Abi na only gift Una sabi collect? After U'll be saying that boys no dey try. No Gift again this valentine unless una give us 10 names of women wey die for love.

Misterpaul:
Ok. We know you are a good christian, we know you want to go to heaven, we agree you are the holiest person on earth and you don't want to commit "sin" by wearing trousers because your body is the temple of God.

But, sister Holy-pass.. it is just NYSC and it will only last for a year, God will not judge you for wearing trousers.

People abeg Wetin una think about this Sister.

I perceive that u lack undastand in things pertaining to christain moderation. Let undastanding be your companion b4 u create any thread like diz again.

prico32:
Hi NLders, I & my Besty has been close friends for years now. She has been single all the years busy working, always told her she needed a man in her life but she didn't border letting any guy in, she always said she has me she doesnt need another man. Told her i'm her best friend but she needs someone that will treat her like a lover.

Most times when I use I & my fiance pix as my dp she starts giving me attitude & all that...

Recently she finally started dating someone & kept it away from me, I even asked her when I noticed, she denied at first & later admitted she was dating someone, I was angry with her for keeping such good news away from me & even lied when I asked.

I scolded her for it but later told her how happy I am. Since then she stopped talking to me or replying my chats. what should I do?

Give me her contact,i knw how to handle people like dt.