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coded guy: I vote A-40 hope the voting is still on.

Notedd!

tatiana009: And there is somewhere that categorically says that you must pay bride price before you are married? Of is there somewhere that says thou shall not smoke weed? Or have you seen somewhere in the Bible that says thou must not sleep with a 3 year old? Yet you would go ahead to assume those things in lie with what you believe he taught us.If that is the case only the things out lined but be followed. What are saying about bride price, which white man will ask for gift because someone wants to marry his daughter. Have you researched all cultures of the world to be able to come here and say everyone gives some form of price? Oh yeah, you're assuming.

Yes, sleeping with a 3 years old is rap.e which is already touched on under "oppression" ( the bible categorically spoke against oppression), since the 3 years can't fight off the rapist.
smoking weed is also under the law of "not serving another God except him', we know weed is addictive, and anything addictive is like a god to the addicted, whatever you can't do without is a god to you.

If you take time to read the bible pretty well, you'd find out that everything on earth was mentioned and what they also represents were ironed out. Not everyone can discover this.
unless you can prove otherwise that people can marry by just moving into each other's house without any formal, traditional or legal "backings", then you assertion is baseless.

Even in western world, as bad as gay union is, they are fighting for the right to get married, if such people understand the importance of marriage, why shouldn't "sane" people understand what marriage represent?

Like i said about pride-price, it comes in different form, what i know about marriage is that both parents mostly meet no matter what part of the world there are in and if they can't meet, the consent of both parents are sought after before any "union" is established, whatever it is that they give or take as pride-price depends on them and the culture but the former can't be ignored.

ogugua88: Broccoli, ravioli with marinara sauce, and baked salmon.

see dog's head besides your food

tatiana009: What are you on about? One can't have a belief about a situation if they aren't God. Then what are we discussing here? Aren't we all just exchanging our personal opinions and believes. As for the other part, does that truly sound reasonable to anyone? What about cultures that don't pay bride price does that mean they are not married? Do you see people in the west collecting bride price, they are all not married abi.

No, but trying to assume for God is the issue here, your statement points to 'assuming for God" and this same God told us that in order to serve and know his thoughts towards us, we should reference the bible which represents his words.

Unless there's anywhere in the bible your 'assumption" can be backed-up, i see that statement as blasphemy.

No country in the world that legalization of marriage is not done. there's always an exchange between one family or the other no matter how small the 'exchange" is, pride-price comes in different forms.

Haba, Pat, wetin na?

[quote author=Alaafia l‘oro]Which uefa super cup? The same cup that is not enough to qualify the winner for UEFA CL the next season,the one not competitive enough to allow the winner to play in the world club cup.. Abeg,it‘s not in anyway better than community shield,italian super cup,spanish super cup etc.[/quote]Funny enough, Atletio Madrid won the cup and not even the shepe club lol. total bashing that night. 4:1

slimyem: True as a statement...
Not true in reality..
Its's nothing to ponder on!

Maybe not to you, but in reality, it is because examples are all around me (though there's room for exceptions)

tatiana009: The english language is very simple you know. I specified I. Meaning from what I have read and seen that is the conclusion I came to. No one here is God, or are you God? No one can say for sure that they know exactly what God feels about this issue as well as many others. The Bible is subject to interpretation and you will even realise that even when 2 people gave accounts in the Bible they would do it in their own way according to their understanding. That is my own belief, you are free to have yours.

It's always good to read what you type before hitting the "send" button.

check again:

tatiana009: I truly believe thatin the eyes of God anyone living together and doing all the things married people do is already married. Imagine 2 people living together, they eat together have children move around as a couple , abeg what else is remaining? The ceremony just means you've decided to follow the procedure laid down by society. That's why you find that in some states in the US, a live-in partner has rights in the courts just like a spouse because the law recognises that both have worked together to gather what ever the family has.

What brought about that belief since you already told us you ain't God?
God specifically said in his holy books that "Marriage is honorable unto all and a "bed un-defiled". if you read further, you'd find out that "bride price" is a MUST for anyone looking to be called "married" or "wife and man".

farem: Marriage is honorable in all, the bed undefiled whoremongers[fornicators] and adulterers God will judge. Hebrews 13:4
The concept of marriage started and ended with God! This is regardless of what you think is 'good' in your eyes.

Living together without bride-price being paid is anything but marriage.

joeydozzy: the same losers that mostly take home the uefa super cup at the end of the day

Sorry again, what did you say?

Felixadded: [color=#990000][/color] What's your own definition of a Loser? What's your own definition of a Loser? What's your own definition of a Loser?

The definition is in the result of the group table from the last matches played in the champions league.

can you spot the difference?

CHAMPIONS'S LEAGUE and EUROPA CUP?

Papido: Unfortunately, I think I can identify with your husband to an extent. I tend to deal with issues same way though I have never done more than a week. Believe me, in your husband's silence, he is actually communicating. Ignoring him or indulging him are two extremes. you need to find a way between. he is suffering as much as you are and he is just expecting you to hear what he is saying through silence. I do this too for a few reasons:
1. my wife argues with me a lot when we disagree. we raise our voices and this puts me off. so, i shut down. if she won't hear my view, I can as well log off.when we both calm down, I sit her down and we talk. But while am logged off, she displays I don't care attitude and that only tends to prolong the truce because you are telling me by your attitude what you were telling while the voices were raised.
2. we are melancholics. forgiveness is difficult for melancholics. incidentally, we marry sanguines because you complement and complete us. you have what we wished we have.
3. we are not batterers. believe me, a good melancholy would rather be hurt than hurt others. personally, my words are razor sharp, so i let it out carefully or not at all.

I cannot say how much your husband loves you but the core of the matter is the temperament differences. While sanguines are fun to be around, they also tend to put us off with their shallow way of approaching issues. their gift is also their weakness. my wife for instance cannot be bothered by anything so she does things at the spur of the moment. Like asking me to wait for her to go shower exactly when she sees i have picked the car keys. wheareas, I have planned my movement to the minute from the night before. if i ignore her, then am insensitive. If I don't I will be boiling inside. all in all, you need to work out your own formula together. best wishes.

Poster, i hope you learned from this?

Tournament for losers

tatiana009: I truly believe thatin the eyes of God anyone living together and doing all the things married people do is already married. Imagine 2 people living together, they eat together have children move around as a couple , abeg what else is remaining? The ceremony just means you've decided to follow the procedure laid down by society. That's why you find that in some states in the US, a live-in partner has rights in the courts just like a spouse because the law recognises that both have worked together to gather what ever the family has.

How did you know of the bolded? are you God? seems people now tell God what's right and what's wrong and are even twisting his words just to conform with what they want. hmmm

infofirst: yes

Just like i was saying, after heading to 1.329x, plunged back to 1.323x, so funny.

slimyem: I can only speak for myself.
I know I deserve such loyalty and more..!

Bird of a feather flock together you know, loyal people mostly attract their kind.

Ponder on that.

onye ego: Oga if you sleep with any woman, you have become ONE with her even if you sleep with a thousand women.
That's what the bible said not me cos the bible only permits intercourse for "married" people.
This is why the bible went further to say that fornication is the only sin you commit with your body, so my dear flee from fornication until you find your "good thing" (wife)

You become one "spiritually" because of the blood covenant, that does not make both of you married couple, you can state otherwise with backings from the bible. anything different from that is pure fallacy.

Show me where bible said if you sleep with anyone, you're married to the person!

[quote author=A-ZeD]How can you fornicate when according to you any woman you sleep with becomes your wife? Can you please explain what fornication/adultery is to me?[/quote]LOL, sometimes i just can't help it but to laugh at some comments.

[quote author=ekt_bear]I think that things are even more romantic when you live separately.

For me, with my recent situation, she lived 30 minutes away. So I'd pack a bag and spend the night. So it felt special spending the night at her house, or vice versa.

If you live together, then isn't that "special" aspect gone? How do you maintain the romance?[/quote]I am also thinking of having two houses not too far from eachother where i can always have privacy for myself and also to keep a little distance for this same reason you have.

Or just build a house big enough for privacy sake. like having different entrances and all that, by this i may decide not to see her for 1 week so as to "kill" off the "over-familiarity" that sets in when both parties live together/see every godam minute

onye ego: Who collected the bride price of Eve in the bible?
Or is Eve not Adams wife?

I agree that one must pay the dowry but its doesn't prove anything before God.
Whether you pay or not, as long as you sleep with each other, you have become man and wife.

So if i sleep with 3 women in one week, i am married to them?

Go and read the bible, the bride price was paid by Adam (his ribs) God took from his body to get him Eve, why do you think God decided to do that and not just form Eve the same way he formed Adam? you won't really understand this because it's spiritually "symbolic" than physical, this is why i'd advice any man not to borrow money to pay for his wife's bride price, make sure the money comes from your sweat!.

infofirst: am wit the bull really n d pbearish in bar yesterday make me feel like going wit d correctn b4 more up. 1.34xx on my mind from there

I think the movements we are seeing this month is not decisive enough, you're going to see price moving up and here, here and there, remember this week is the closest to Christmas, so expect price volatility, don't be surprised to see EU plunge back to 1.31xx. but then this is forex where your views are not respected~

Old boy: Why is it that it's only Yakowa and Aazazi the government is always shouting and doing everything for, what about the pilots and others in the chopper?
I think they should be remembered and honuored as well.

Because in Nigeria, the rest 4 are "nobody" so the government don't care.

infofirst: Eu reverse at Fibo 23.6% retrace of 1.3306 and 1.2876 and failure to brk yesterday high will still keep 38.2% at 1.314x retrace the point to watch for trend continuation.

Long time bro, how e dey go? you are keen on this bearish "run"?

onye ego: Once a woman and a man lives together and starts a family.
They are "married"
God does not attach any significance to the wedding that is conducted in churches.
This is why you will never find a verse in the bible where Jesus asked Christians to wed in the church neither did he wed anyone.

The phrase HOLY MATRIMONY is an abomination, its blasphemy, cos only God is expected to be HOLY.

This is why on the last day, wife will be separated from her husband.
wedding is only an earthly jamboree but in the sight of God whether you wed or not since you start a family as husband and wife u are "married"

The reason why some ladies remain unmarried for long is that they
Co-habit(already married)
and they are still praying for a husband while God is seeing her husband by her every night

Fallacy, how can you be married just because you live together? what about bride price? didn't the bible talk about bride price?

Yes, whether you marry in church or not does not mean you're not married as long as you've paid the paid price which is the only evidence accepted in Heaven.

Then for official reason, you must have a court wedding too, if not, the government of the land does not see you as married.

if any of these 2 are not done, then you're not married and only sleeping with eachother like "friends with benefits"

Sweetest mum.

Fire everywhere

Plane
Helicopter
Pipeline
Airport
E.t.c

Where next?

The sin in Nigeria is just too much.

LOL, some mothers have them!

Johnpaul88: We meet Milan again in the round of 16.

With all due respect to them ,we 're a lucky to meet them.

I am glad we were given Milan, i foresaw this already and it's good, i want to see how we cope with a youthful side like Milan.

All the same, i pray we have a fit team by then.

R.Madrid vs Man U

surveycash:
AJ? 40 for 120? Can you deliver before xmas?

I like the look of your system.

Can't wait for 2013 to hit the market again.

efe22: Really? But you already doing it. Few days ago, you said I am a GREEDY trader for losing my account to high lot size caused by the unexpected gap in EJ. I have told you before the money was'nt mine and the owner needs it before 25th Dec, 2012 or else....
How do you expect me to grow $100 to $500 in 3 months (0.01 or 0.02 lots) if am not gambling. This account is strictly for testing/demo purpose. Yesterday night, my first test gave 25 pips on EJ sell.
Lastly, where on earth you see my post of $3 ? Jesus

You do not need to respond to every post. i wish i could help you but the time frame is kinda tight, i believe God'll send someone deserving your way soonest.