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bendazum: LONDON BRIDGE IS FALLING DOWN!

FEMI OLA: i thought it was only me...i cant put my money there....let me just enjoy there $100 bonus for now...

maryjames9: Not all women are doing corporate job with fat salary.Not all men engage in a profitable biz especialy bz starters.I believe that if a lady is jobless or working her arse for low pay and the husband could get her engaged in better offer in his bz why not. However if the wife doer a highly rewarding job,the money could be used to expand the bz of the hubby. This is marriage and we shld help each other. If the wife wants to keep jobbing,no probs so long it doesnt hurt the children. Both parties should sit down and do what wil help each other

efe22: How I wish I am a pro in forex like una lol I just dey demo with ACFX live account...imagine 10 standard lots in 30 days for a newbie.

Zeddicus: I tell you. I discovered a way of picking 20pips per trade from the Hourly charts on a single trade (Never entering more than two trades at once), and in less than 2 months of sticking to this rule, i've been left wondering why I didnt do this earlier. By God's grace, I am almost nearing my target for the year and we are still in august. There are times when I will be tempted to move my TP from 20pips to 50 or 100 (especially when I see how much a preceding swing moved), but all in all, I have been able to stick to it and its working. The earlier traders know that the market will always be here, the better.

rozayx5: very good target!! 850K
Enough to fuel a clean lifestyle, eat what you want and drive what you want.
Your neighbours will even cut cap for you

Ask them, ohh, we shud make realistic targets when trading forex, thats why its not advicable to trade someones money as you will be under pressure at times, and you will be be too emotional, but honerics example is the best!!

News traders, http://www.beatthenews.com
just came across the site saw it back then when i was not a news trader but let me check it out will keep you guys posted.
Sends news to you fast and tells you how to trade the news

X3n: @honneric, Sir, I understand where u re coming from. but my point of view is from the angle of som1 starting small, with an initial capital of lyk $100, $200 or $300. so the person will not giv himself too much stress.
@rozayx5, am still awaiting the system o!

X3n: I just target to make 7% of my account every day. so that by the end of the month I wuld have doubled my account. that way, I dont aim high, but with time I steadily grow my account. seriously, I think forex should not be ur only or main means of income, its better if its a ready suppliment, with dat approach, u will reduce stress from urself. done for 2day, goten my 7%. where is odiaro?

mpmp: My answer is:

NONE OF THE ABOVE, just make sure you marry someone you really really love.

With Love in the picture, the job he does and the time he closes from work; whether or not he is an entrepreneur and you are a corporate worker....and whatever else wont matter.

True love brings SACRIFICE(ADJUSTMENT). A lot of time, men and women in a relationship do not want to adjust. Husbands prefer their wives to adjust and meet them where they are. Wives also wrongfully think that if her husband truly loves her, he will do all the adjustment alone. Both are wrong, coz both should actually be adjusting to each other.

If a man really loves a woman in a marriage relationship, his priority will be to specialize in doing those things that make make her happy. If its her 9-5 career job that makes her happy, he will be solidly behind her up to the point that both will make sure the home front isn't neglected. If a woman loves a man, she will daily seek out his happiness. And if a 9-5 job or doing a private business is what makes him happy, she will support him with whatever she does. Soon they will become two hands washing each other, looking out for each other and keeping each other clean.

Isn't it awesome to see couples when they grow old, they begin talking alike, thinking alike, even looking alike. The reason is because each one has tried to personally adjust and fit into the dreams and ambitions of the other(spouse) during their union. At the end, the arrive at the same point and flow easily like water.

Never forget that children will come, grow up and go. The two of you that started the race will be the two of you that will finish it. If the foundation of love and sacrifice is not there, the beginning will be burdensome and the latter end a complete bore.

chucky234: Times are fast changing,gone are the days when an African man decide for the wife what to do and what not to.
We are all made to dream dreams and the woman should be allowed to follow her dreams if its beneficial for the family and still gives her the time to attend to her duties as a wife and a mother.
The key to marital bliss is effective and healthy communication culture between the wife and the husband.
The man should ta wife's happiness into consideration in whatever decision he wants to take,if the 9 - 5 job makes her happy then she should be given the freedom to take the job as long as it does not stop her from performing her duties effectively as a wife and mother.

penelope9: . Do you also understand English.You are not a MAN for great and mighty men do not think like this.What a wasted generation.

Kobojunkie: No, this man has chosen,probably because it is his dream, to do just that. Why does he expect the woman to do exactly what he is doing, when it is possible she does not share this dream of his? Or belief it is enough for her to quit her job?

Kobojunkie: Did you post this or not?



There are millions of Nigerian families who have, over the decades, had to deal with mostly fathers who go off as early as 5 am in the morning , only to get home late at night, sometimes past 8pm in the evening. When I was a kid, my dad left before I would wake up and did not get back till about past 9pm each day.
To now create a thread raise dust because a woman also has to deal with the very same, leads me to believe this is more than just about the work hours but about the mindset of the men in this case.
The woman balances it the same way men have balanced it for years. Why is that hard to understand?

Kobojunkie: Did you post this or not?

Kobojunkie: I asked you a question about THE OTHER PARTY and you immediately decided it was not for this thread. Dude, keep up with your own post.

Kobojunkie:

@Poster, when you create rules in your head that apply differently to each gender in the marriage, you create problems. What applies to the man should also be applied to the woman. And thank God the WORLD is waking up to the fact that women were not created zombies for the menfolk.

debrief08: You seem to have made up your mind already, please free the poor lady and find someone whose time, career and choices you can control.
I am a person first before I am a wife or a mother, that keeps me whole sane and have healthy relations with people around me. My Son at 3 can't stand it when am home on leave totally always in his business.
My husband and I are both career people our kids are fine, my parents were both career people, my In Laws were full career people, my Mother In Law Retired as a perm Secretary and has served even after her retirement in various positions. She raised 5 great boys.
Find someone who shares your life veiw but don't erronoeusly insist that kids whose parents don't hover over them 24/7 because they have careers turn out badly

Kobojunkie: How do men who work 8-8pm get a balance on the home front?

Kobojunkie: How do men who work 8-8pm get a balance on the home front?