₦airaland Forum

RuuDie:
Ha ha ha ha ha. . . . second leg is on saturday & yes the MIGHTY SEVILLA will do it again in the Nou Camp. Bring on all ya UEFA award nominees and get anoda round of backside.whooping!

I hope u come back like a puppet after we are through with u on saturday

Hehehehe, make una come see ruudie the dreamer lol, wait until you get beaten black and blue

keni:
Guy it could be called whatever, just let people know the terms and condition of your FREE trial

You are making sense.

michelin89:
So am I baby!

I give you 9/10

we rock right?

good night jare, can't keep my eyes open no longer

michelin89:
Your vein go burst like that.

So, how we wan arrange for our daily exercise tomorrow?

Babe, trust me, i am 100% in shape.

size 12 with 4.9 ft height.

How about that?

michelin89:
I have said that myself.

But still make the guy rest. He is pissing me off virtually.

Is she a dummy or what? if she's not okay with his conditions, let her call it quit abi the guy put gun for her head?

I even think the wedding self too fast and they are yet to even know eachother.

They have only been together 4 times, yet they want to get married.

Rubbish!!!

michelin89:
She says he is not his type either, but has decided to accept him because of his other qualities.

I think she's the one desperate here, she said the guy's not in anyway her type but she just wants to manage him.

I feel she's the one desperate here.

michelin89:
The bobo nor be correct one, so wetin he dey yarn?

How is he not a correct bobo? he knows what he wants, it's the girl that does not know what she wants.

The guy said she should slim down before Marriage

The girl agrees but afraid it might not be possible so she's afraid.

Bottomline: Does she really like how she looks like? let's ask her.

stillwater:
Very true. I find it hard how people would rather talk  to strangers than their partners, someone one's getting married to? Han han what kind of relationship is that? How can you be in a relationship and you can't tell your man how you feel? Does it mean that she's a good girl for keeping numb or what? If at this stage she's having communication issues, is it when she enters she will start talking? At this stage she should have already mastered the art of saying her mind without drama sha. Abi will he beat her?

Thanks

[quote author=what.lyf link=topic=499354.msg6597533#msg6597533 date=1282174312]David not all guys marries for document/visa purpose! i know many many ppl who after marriage, brought their wives back to Naija to live with them,  If it were for travel purpose, he wouldn't even make mention of her slimming up,  Infact he will say "Baby i love you the way you are, you are just too perfect for me" lol[/quote]My point exactly.

davidylan:
lets call a spade a spade . . . if she were living in Sokoto they wont even be talking about marriage today. You think all those marriages between nigerian men and obese american women has anything to do with love?

Who told you so? there are untold stories like that me and you don't know so let's not conclude. she does not sound like a foreigner to me, i think she's a Nigeria with the way she types. all the same if she feels she does not like the guy's conditions, she should talk to him about it before talking the final decision.

Only she knows what she wants in life.

davidylan:
Its canada, after 1 yr as a foreign student she is entitled to canadian residency. She gets a passport in 3 yrs.

That's that, but we ain't sure if truly the guy is with her because of this fact, if it's because of the ''benefits'', then the guy would have just manage and make sure he marries her anyhow and then after getting the ''benefits'', he can as well do away with her (that's if truly the guy wants her for any personal interest).

davidylan:
yeah this happens BUT we both know the man would also make sure he files as a citizen of whichever country his wife is a citizen of and that his kids also benefit from a foreign passport.

How are you sure the girl in question is a citizen of Canada? what if she's on a student visa?

chika98:
LOL even the rich folks in Nigeria wanna come to abroad talkless of him. Either way No one should ever be with a man/woman
who puts them down and nags about physical looks.

Speak for yourself, i have seen cases where people marry girls from outside Nigeria and then the girl/wife ends up moving back to Nigeria.

Who would leave a nice paying job in Nigeria for a blue collar job abroad?

no1madman:
Dis one nor be our business!there are men out there,who will appreciate her .

Now you know its not our business? if you knew it was not our business, why then did you post your first comment?

chika98:
Every time we pray for signs and all; This is your own sign. Wake up and really shine your eyes.
He isn't attracted to you. You're more like an embarrassment. He is more interested in coming over to Canada . And to think you still want to go ahead and marry this man? Good luck to you!

What makes you think he actually wants to go to Canada after wedding her? we should stop adding and removing from post, the poster never said who was doing the traveling to and fro, and neither did she say they were to settle down in Canada or Nigeria.

No one knows if the guy is even more wealthier than the girl so we should quit using the issue of visa and papers when discussing issues like this.

He might be in Abuja living a rich man's life (comfortable life) who knows?

no1madman:
I thought she said,she was size 16. .personally,size 16 is just moderate.
All she needs is self-esteem.

She's now size 12, but we ain't sure how tall she is, so how's a size 12 with 4'9 as height going to look like?

Remember that she's yet to start giving birth.

But then let her just be true to herself, sit the dude down, ask him what he actually wants, if his conditions are too much, then let her tell it to his face that she can't become someone else because of him.

Sefini

@poster

 IF YOU ARE NOT OKAY WITH YOUR WEIGHT (BE TRUTHFUL TO YOURSELF) Kindly follow the path of RUBY, start with yourself, you can't tell me there was no time you had thought of losing those weight of yours (dunno how big u are though).


one more thing, Do u SINCERELY believe you need to lose weight?

no1madman:
yes,i'm next 2 God . .A real chubby lover will not ask her 2 loose weight,except if he's pretending and has hidden agenda.

That's the issue you are missing here, let's be frank and be truthful for once, does any of you know how "BIG" the poster is?

If she's truly okay with her own weight, why then is she on diet?

^^^^

I read it already and i still maintain my stands:

Why did she even agree to start losing weight if truly her weight was no problem to herself in the first place? this is her body so why should she go on diet if she was okay with it?

no1madman:
He doesn't have passion 4 fat chicks.
He won't make u happy. .He's not d right guy for u.

And how did you know all these? how did you know he's not the right guy for her or that he won't make her happy? you must be God oo.

THE AMAKA:
wont people hop off my advice and give their own? you dont have to agree with me.
and i sound bitter? oh well, thats your opinion.
[size=13pt]NEXT!!!!!!!!!!![/size]

Babygirl, this is a marriage issue, it's not that easy telling someone he or she's in a wrong relationship, they didn't get hook 2 days ago, she knew all these before, why complain now that it's close to the wedding time?

If she was comfortable with her weight, she herself wouldn't have gone ahead to go on diet. going on diet alone sounds like she's got issues with her weight truly (guessing that she also feels so).

martog:
@ honeric01, I got your PM. I don`t know how to use the interface to reply, so I had to acknowledge it here; I do hope you don`t mind,
You are welcome!

Cool bro, i followed your tip, though yet to get to the TP, but i strongly believe it will touch it.

I am looking at longing UJ from 85.10/20 to 86.20/30, so just watch the space bro.

Election is still going to go on on Saturday oo

follypimpi:

The more reason i asked if sum1 has called her fat b4 cos she sounds like she's talkin from personal life experience.

Thank you.

God!!! see where our most prolific super eagles player is going to play? God, SE una don fall una hand

philip0906:
the money. . .

I don't think it was because of the money he moved, i heard he even took a pay-cut just to join west brom, that means the Russian club was actually paying him more than what West brom's going to pay him.

THE AMAKA:
she came here asking for advice, and i gave it to her.
why are you now telling me to "let her decided what she wants" 
am i now holding a gun to her head? 
and besides, she said she felt comfortable in her body and she is pretty much losing the weight for him, not for herself.

I ain't saying you shouldn't comment or advise her, what i was about is the way you sounded in your post (very personal and bitter).

@post.

Why are you on diet if you truly do not want to lose weight? why should you lose weight if you don't want to?

If he tells you not to eat for 50 days if you want him to marry you, are you going to do that?

If you like the way you look, then tell him to leave you alone if he does not want you the way you are.


(Maybe he is looking at the future, dunno how big you are, but don't you think your weight might be a problem when you start having kids?)

THE AMAKA:
please cancel that wedding  ASAP.
reading your story made me upset. you have looked pass his ugly looks, but he can't look past your weight? he says its fine (and i think he is, in a way, comfortable with your weight) but he is worried about his image and what everyone else would think.
that is not the type of person you want to marry.
he doesn't appreciate you for who you are, and that should be #1!
you can't say you are contented with someone's looks but then tell that person to lose weight at the same time.
my advice, do not marry him, move on with your life.

U sound like the bereaved, let her decide what she wants, when she fell in love with the guy, you weren't there, she should be able to take a stand herself, she's going to be the only one in the marriage, let her think of the whole issue, let her ask herself if she truly needs to lose weight or not.

If she does not see reasons losing weight, why is she on diet in the first place? all the same, you prayed about it before you said yes to him, now go back and pray about it, you might be surprised to hear something else from God.