what.lyf:

Amaka! Amaka! u are a complete nikompooo! if you call J-Lo, Beyonce fat, then u are too du.mb, Whether european standard, african standard, american standard or arabian standard, no one in his right sense will term beyonce "fat" as she is, not even J-lo. Though they are not thin, they are healthy,  being fat is different from being healthy. i am not talking of think skinny bone,  whether size 12 or size 2 or whatever, fat no dey hide, e dey show 4 face,  haba! na wa 4 u o. Again i neva said ALL guys prefer slim girls, but a whopping MAJORITY prefer slim girls to FAT girls,

There is a difference between a slim girl and a skinny thin girl,  as there is a difference between a fat girl and an obesse girl,  AMAKAa wise up

you're obviously not getting my point. i said all these celebrities and pageants conform to the european standard of beauty, and that being stick thin is "in"
i then went on to say before the Kim K and Beyonce [b]of our generation [/b]those type of bodies were seen as "fat" (notice how i put the word fat in quotations)
so what is your definition of slim and why do all guys prefer slim chicks (since you know all guys, i guess)
i will not repeat myself again. if you don't get it, then sucks for you.
WISE UP

stillwater:

Very true. I find it hard how people would rather talk  to strangers than their partners, someone one's getting married to? Han han what kind of relationship is that? How can you be in a relationship and you can't tell your man how you feel? Does it mean that she's a good girl for keeping numb or what? If at this stage she's having communication issues, is it when she enters she will start talking? At this stage she should have already mastered the art of saying her mind without drama sha. Abi will he beat her?

Thanks

what.lyf:

David not all guys marries for document/visa purpose! i know many many ppl who after marriage, brought their wives back to Naija to live with them,  If it were for travel purpose, he wouldn't even make mention of her slimming up,  Infact he will say "Baby i love you the way you are, you are just too perfect for me" lol

My point exactly.

Run faster than Usani Bolt (the fastest man on earth) from such a man. A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE

megchi:

Run faster than Usani Bolt (the fastest man on earth) from such a man. A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE

was gonna say that too. . .
definitely not a sign of a blissful marriage to come

THE AMAKA:

you're obviously not getting my point. i said all these celebrities and pageants conform to the european standard of beauty, and that being stick thin is "in"
i then went on to say before the Kim K and Beyonce [b]of our generation [/b]those type of bodies were seen as "fat" (notice how i put the word fat in quotations)
so what is your definition of slim and why do all guys prefer slim chicks (since you know all guys, i guess)
i will not repeat myself again. if you don't get it, then sucks for you.
WISE UP

Amaka we are not talking of what they call people like beyonce in your generation. The point here is that, a bobo has told his fatty to be a sisi, so wetin be ur stress? make she go na if she no wan slim, abi na by force to marry? na wa 4 u o

what.lyf:

Amaka we are not talking of what they call people like beyonce in your generation. The point here is that, a bobo has told his fatty to be a sisi,  so wetin be your stress? make she go na if she no wan slim,  abi na by force to marry? na wa 4 u o

were you not the one asking these questions, that i answered?

This is where you are missing,  slim fit girls are just TOO scarce, the fat ones are always available!! Like i asked, how many guys like fat chicks? answer this simple questions:
How many Beauty Queens are fat?
How many celebrities are fat?
How many FIRST LADIES are fat?
How many growing up girls wants to be FAT when they turn adult?
Any answer?

real na wa for YOU

what.lyf:

Amaka we are not talking of what they call people like beyonce in your generation. The point here is that, a bobo has told his fatty to be a sisi, so wetin be your stress? make she go na if she no wan slim, abi na by force to marry? na wa 4 u o

The bobo nor be correct one, so wetin he dey yarn?

michelin89:

The bobo nor be correct one, so wetin he dey yarn?

How is he not a correct bobo? he knows what he wants, it's the girl that does not know what she wants.

The guy said she should slim down before Marriage

The girl agrees but afraid it might not be possible so she's afraid.

Bottomline: Does she really like how she looks like? let's ask her.

honeric01:

How is he not a correct bobo? he knows what he wants, it's the girl that does not know what she wants.

The guy said she should slim down before Marriage

The girl agrees but afraid it might not be possible so she's afraid.

Bottomline: Does she really like how she looks like? let's ask her.

She says he is not his type either, but has decided to accept him because of his other qualities.

THE AMAKA:

were you not the one asking these questions, that i answered?

No u did not answered my question, you were telling me of what people of your generation will term somebody like beyonce in your generation, Na dat one i ask you? my question na simple one, e no need explanation , but instead of u to answer, u start to explain, abeg make i hear word jare!

As 4 d poster, u know what is good for you, either to remain fatty or to become sis, the decision lies on you!!

michelin89:

The bobo nor be correct one, so wetin he dey yarn?

So until he pretend to be contented with fatty na he be correct one? d bobo even try sef to giv u time, if na me, i go discharge u fast fast, no time 4 story

what.lyf:

So until he pretend to be contented with fatty na he be correct one? d bobo even try sef to giv u time, if na me, i go discharge u fast fast, no time 4 story

Correct bobo as in he is not Will Smith.

He is mediocre himself so make he shut him mouth up.

michelin89:

Correct bobo as in he is not Will Smith.

He is mediocre himself so make he shut him mouth up.

will smith ko, will adams ni! Babe, u dey yarn dust, if d girl no fit meet criteria, make she dodge and wait for another hook up (God help her),

what.lyf:

will smith ko, will adams ni! Babe, u dey yarn dust, if d girl no fit meet criteria, make she dodge and wait for another hook up (God help her),

Na you know. I nor get your time.

michelin89:

She says he is not his type either, but has decided to accept him because of his other qualities.

I think she's the one desperate here, she said the guy's not in anyway her type but she just wants to manage him.

I feel she's the one desperate here.

what.lyf:

No u did not answered my question,  you were telling me of what people of your generation will term somebody like beyonce in your generation,  Na dat one i ask you? my question na simple one, e no need explanation ,  but instead of u to answer, u start to explain,  abeg make i hear word jare!

As 4 d poster, u know what is good for you,  either to remain fatty or to become sis, the decision lies on you!!
So until he pretend to be contented with fatty na he be correct one? d bobo even try sef to giv u time,  if na me, i go discharge u fast fast,  no time 4 story

you're not making sense. i belong to this generation, but that doesnt mean i dont know what the idea of beauty was back then.
secondly i did answer your question.
you asked why most beauty pageants and celebrities are slim, and i gave an answer. they all conform to a certain standard of beauty.
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honeric01:

I think she's the one [b]desperate [/b]here, she said the guy's not in anyway his type but she just wants to manage him.

I feel she's the one [b]desperate [/b]here.

I have said that myself.

But still make the guy rest. He is pissing me off virtually.

Wait a secondyou can't call this fat

michelin89:

I have said that myself.

But still make the guy rest. He is pissing me off virtually.

Is she a dummy or what? if she's not okay with his conditions, let her call it quit abi the guy put gun for her head?

I even think the wedding self too fast and they are yet to even know eachother.

They have only been together 4 times, yet they want to get married.

Rubbish!!!

no way is this fat

That girl must be dying. She should leave her breath.

not this

size 12 with 4.9 ft height.

How about that?

THE AMAKA:

you're not making sense. i belong to this generation, but that doesnt mean i dont know what the idea of beauty was back then.
secondly i did answer your question.
you asked why most beauty pageants and celebrities are slim, and i gave an answer. they all conform to a certain standard of beauty.
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Amaka girlie, u are just confused! standard or no standard, fatty no dey hide for face, Anyway d bottom line is she either slim up (which is my candid advice) or discharge without delay,

honeric01:

I think she's the one desperate here, she said the guy's not in anyway her type but she just wants to manage him.

I feel she's the one desperate here.

Fat people are naturally desperate when it comes to relationship and marriage.

kindly post a picture of you

xammy:

kindly post a picture of you

true talk!

honeric01:

Is she a dummy or what? if she's not okay with his conditions, let her call it quit abi the guy put gun for her head?

I even think the wedding self too fast and they are yet to even know eachother.

They have only been together 4 times, yet they want to get married.

Rubbish!!!

Your vein go burst like that.

So, how we wan arrange for our daily exercise tomorrow?

not this

not this either

Every time i have tried to post stuff up it keeps disappearing on me, am just going to make it simple.
Babes i think if you have waited this long then you defo can wait for Mr right. I don't subscribe to people meeting and then he is already proposing. That already has raised an alarm in my head. I know its very easy for us to say leave him asap but its harder when we are wearing the shoes.

Even Pastor Bimbo Odukoya said there are no marriages made in heaven we only choose to make them work o, She also said when you start to dream you are married to a particular brother you should run far from him cos that's often the signs we use in saying God has spoken to us.

In the end the choice is yours but think about yourself first and be selfish in your decision. I recommend you read her book and you tube the singles thing she used to do during her life time.

December is really close so you need to think fast, A cancelled wedding is better than a failed marriage. As its your first am sure you don't want that.

All the best, cos you really need the wishes. xxxx

This reminds of of the TLC song "Unpretty". The poster was probably proud of her body image and confident until this useless man turned her into a low self esteem wreck who has to resort to sites like NL for marriage advice. Sad, just sad

michelin89:

Your vein go burst like that.

So, how we wan arrange for our daily exercise tomorrow?

Babe, trust me, i am 100% in shape.